Love this girl

 
   This Video Does not make Sense at All...

If I would be her father/ brother... I would Slap her so tight on both right & left cheek & ask her why would you make fun of our own in You Tube that delivers the message all across the World? Even so why would you have to Speak in English & let know that Nepalese does not Support at all instead pull our legs all the time?

The fact is it happens on each & every race  & you kid, " Grow Up".....think twice before you make Videos...have seen lot of people regret about what they did in past...specially these kind of Silly mistakes. 

Well Said, " GT Bro" .. as always!!!

@sujhab - seriously? you would slap her if you were her father/brother? Don't you have [Disallowed String for - Bad word 'fuk']ing balls or what? Did she say anything wrong? Why the [Disallowed String for - Bad word 'fuk'] would she speak in Nepali when she was brought up here in States? You guys need to "Grow Up". Every race maa testo huncha re? Don't even bring race to this conversation. Every race maa murder, rape, and dherai dherai kura haru huncha. So what are you gonna do? Blame it on race/religion every freaking time? Fake accent re. Where the hell did you find her accent fake? Or is it because YOU CANNOT SPEAK LIKE SHE DOES? Talking about pulling each other legs, some of you are doing it right here in sajha.
Bunch of chair warriors giving their worthless criticism.

तेही त : के भनेको तेस्तो डरलाग्दो कुरो sujab ले |

I have supported what GT said and also my point was that do not panic even if there are couple of ultra-negative comments, good work will utilmately do good to all.

TARA, a big TARA:
"If I would be her father/ brother... I would Slap her so tight on both right & left cheek & ask her why would you make fun of our own in You Tube that delivers the message all across the World? Even so why would you have to Speak in English & let know that Nepalese does not Support at all instead pull our legs all the time?" RE, Sachhai ho??

let her use the freedom of speech. And, I also would have also suggested her to speak in Nepali because that was addressed to Nepali people, not because " why would you have to Speak in English & let know that Nepalese does not Support at all instead pull our legs all the time?". नेपाली भएपछि जे गरे पनि सपोर्ट गर्न पर्छ अनि भित्र भित्र जति गुम्सिएर पक्कियेरा बसे पनि बाहिर नेपाली हरु एकदम एक-अर्कोलाई सपोर्ट गर्छन भनेर देखाउनु पर्छ भन्ने येस्तै mentality त होला नि | यी नानी भर्खरकि छन् परिपक्क्वा हुन समय लाग्ला तर यिनले एकदम जातीय, धार्मिक, छेत्रीय सद्भाव बिगारेर गालानै चद्काउन पर्ने गरि केहि गरेकी छैनन् |

एउटा दुइटा youtube video , अनि online मा राखिएका एक दुइ कमेन्ट ले नेपाली कत्तिको civilized छन् ,कत्तिको एक अर्काको खुट्टा तान्छन  जस्तो कुरोको मापक हुने र संसारले तेही रुपमा नेपाली प्रति perception   बनाउने भए त मेरो भन्दा माथिको कमेन्टको आधारमा नेपाली सप्पै जंगली रैचन भन्ने हुन्थ्यो होला नि. तर तेस्तो हुदैन|

हुनत मलाई पनि अंग्रेजीमा गाली दिन आएको भए त मैले पनि दिन्थे होला, के गर्नु आफुलाई औदैना | तेही अवसर नपाएर भास्त्रचारी नभएको इमान्दार जस्तै हुं क्या हो मा पनि :)

हा हा हा TR मित्रले हाकिम संग रिस उठेर येति साझामा आएर एकदम कडा कमेन्ट गरे जस्तो छ | तेस्कै उत्तरमा मैले पनि लेखिहाले , अहिले आएर कमेन्ट झिक्नु भएछ | होस् मा चै झिक्दिना , अरु कसैलाई पनि काम लाग्ला नि |

 who deleted my post? damnit.....that post was a slap to texasranger but got deleted.....don't know if its sandai or thread originator.....khub hero bani rathyo...tero hero pana ma dekhaunchu talai sala keyboard warrior......

Hoina yi ketaharu k zagada garira holan baru tehi time college ma lagaunu, waiyat ko debate garera basirachan, ma ta sudhre geet gauna thaleko sajjan vachu. Ani yi Nikita nani chai drama queen jasti lagche malai. Most of the girls from Dallas r like dat u know

 @nevermind bro.....u can write negative comments but u cant use foul language just cause she is a girl and cant defend herself....if u dont like her its fine but dont u use foul language coz u'll be getting it back too.....thats the only reason i was pissed with texasranger coz he was calling her with diff bad names.....and regarding keyboard warrior anyone got any problem with me i will always be there to confront them personally if they want me too......take a chill pill now....

I usually do not like to participate in threads but the comments made here were too cringeworthy to ignore.

  What is wrong in the message "try to be positive and being supportive?" Her message was on the mark. We don't have to hyper ciritical on each and every thing.

@sujhab, You must be a pathetic low life who thinks about laying hand on someone like small sister or your child. I am guessing you don't know what family is all about. Why do think she is making fun of herself? I felt she was just expressing her feelings. She has all the rights to express her feelings.

I think it is not the girl who has to grow up but you @sujhab who has to grow up. People are free to express their feelings. She doesnot have to regret for mistakes that were never made

If you have got guts, make a youtube video and reply.

@geology_tiger

Just to make things clear. She was asking fellow nepalese to be supportive and in essence provide positive ciriticism. She was not asking to offer applauds and praise for even less quality of work. She was requesting not to use fowl language towards fellow Nepalese in public forums and youtube.

She was illustrating her point using the program she participated "Nepal Nach" She was talking about hypocrisy how some people have about playing Hindi songs in such functions. How people have problem with Language as medium of communication.

I feel you missed her point. She never made request for extol for even low quality of work. 

Your point number 2 regarding Cnn hero is totally irrelevant. You are comparing apples and oranges here.

Her request was to refrain from using fowl language when talking about Nepalese pride and identity and to be positive.

Some people definitely need to learn how to provide positive criticism without over analyzing every bit and piece.


@Masane

  You deserve to flushed down the toilet at your birth.

 @nevermind.....u got any prob dude? or are u the same texasranger? i aint here to impress her....she is a teenage girl and i take her as a sister dude thou i dont know her.....now if u got any prob with that lemme know.....there are so many ashholes in this sajha that needs to be treated the same way.....

The people using foul language to this lil gal had neva had a nepali gf or they got dumped by them coz of their uglyassss face.....

Try beaing nepali Christain you will really find out the true colour of our nepali dajju bhai. I mean your own family will try to murder you. That is the truth .  I take a lot of humiliation from nepali men from sajha because i have choosen to follow Christ.and have different opinion on different matters. No wonder nepal is the way it is because everyone thinks that they are better then the other one and is smarter and of nobel birth and what not.There is one thing that nepali  people are really lacking which is called humility  and acceptience of different opinions and respect for others specially women.

 @nevermind....u better read my above comments....i said u can make negative comments if u don't like the vid but don't use foul language just coz she is a girl.... 

and reading comments on your previous thread u must be a kirati who hates bahun, chettrris and newaris haina? lol.....wat a world.....

sale gadha chor malai gay ji re i am a girl may be you are gay. lajsaram napacheko pugyo bhani gayebhaihalyo ni. Mr never mind 69 oh i mean Mr with no mind66.

 @ nevermind........i have seen you saying kami to someone and u call this gal a chor bahuni....wats wrong in being a kami? have they troubled you?  and why is she a chor? did she steal sth from u?........why so much hatred towards other caste or ethnic groups bro? u seriously need to get a life dude....

 @nevermind.....she is not ur wife that u can call her wateva u want......

@ Ajax: Since you are not the girl who made that video, I don't think any of us can clarify each other what she has said on that video. I might be wrong on uderstanding some of her points but there is no guarantee that you understood everything in right way. 

And yes I do like to go over every bit of information before I make any comment and I did the same here before I wrote my comments on her video yet you found that I have missed some of the points.

I don't think she was talking about that 'Nepal Nachha' video to illustrate her points rather she made this entire video because of some the comments she got on that 'Nepal Nachha' video. Again this is just my thought, I am not trying to clarify anything.

I was not saying that she has committed serious crime but pointing out some of her simple mistakes and telling her not to get frustated with some of the BS comments she got.

Some people need to learn not to be super protective and welcome constructive comments. There is no harm on accepting mistakes and learn not to repeat them before stepping forward.

And who told you not to compare apples and oranges? 


 

I am banned now because the admin found out I am texasranger using a new nickname, after my nickname got banned.

 @nevermind.....SOB ashoooles.....u start cursing now bitttch.....taile j sukai van maile j sukai vannu paunchu..

 LOL....i knew it....good job sandai.....all these low mentality people should be banned....

This thread shows that whatever she is saying in her video is so true. It's people like texasranger and nevermind69 who only know how to focus on negative things. Not only do they have a constricted mind, they don't want to see anyone else doing anything good.

I just posted the video because it seemed like a good plausible request coming from the young generation. My only suggestion to her if she ever reads this is to ignore the haters they are not worth your time.

@ geology_tiger

It is true that while none of us might have wholly understood her message and it is entirely possible we both might have two different interpretation. But, wouldn't it be such a shame, that you or I watched entrire 5:45 minutes video, spend a lengthy amount of time commenting on this thread and totally missing the point. I feel very strongly on this, and I take it as a moral obligation that I must put forward what i have understood upon you. My theory is there are many reason why you might have missed the point such as due to lack of comprehension of language as a medium of communication, preconcieved notion and baisedness (towards particular sex,age and not limited to these), etc but I will not delve into this as I want to focus on the message itself.

At any point of time, if you feel that I am forcing my words into your mouth or if I come accross as a fanatic with a particular dogma, you are free to ignore my comments. If you are willing to engage in meaningful discussion, only please then scroll further down.

My interpretation of her video was "try to be positive and being supportive?" which i reiterate and of which I stand by solemly.

No where did this young girl mentioned "to support inferior quality of work solely based on national identity". This is the point which you blatantly missed.

Regarding your comment and it's structure, if you think you were providing positive criticism, I would love to differ. It was an example of "How not to structure Positive Criticism?"

Let me go pointwise.

At point no. 1 you begin with an agreement , "नेपाली भाषा बोलेर बढी राष्ट्रप्रेमी हुने र अङ्रेजी, हिन्दी भाषा बोल्दा चाँही राष्ट्रप्रेमी नहुने भन्ने कुरामा म कति पनि सहमत छैन ।" And you end your point with comparision with "Rabi Lamichane" and express your doubts and disagreement.

Here, you are missing the whole point about positive criticism and as a matter of you are providing analogy which is totally irrelevant.

I feel, the primary objective of Rabi Lamichane's program was to project Nepal as a country where Buddha was born and the primary objective of her "Nepal Nach" was to have fun with fellow Nepalese accross the border. Providing glimpse into Nepalese lifestyle or people can be considered as one of the tertiary objectives of such program. So such comparision in no way provides positive reinforcement. Rather you are expressing doubts regarding efficacy about Rabi Lamichane's work.


At point no. 2 You are once again coming up with absurd analogies such as people taking day off to support CNN hero solely based on her identity, Sms voting for Indian Idol, Nepalese cheering for Nepalese cricket team. Most of these analogies are bad example of supporting Nepalese people soley based on their origin. When did the girl in the video provide such example or why are you providing such analogies.

Besides that, you have also put in "Nepalese people are happy when their national Cricket team is victorious". Is that a bad thing? I used to be Happy when my national football team used to win also. Is there any issue with this?

And here you end the point with talk of politics which is once again irrelevant. I am certain most discussion relating to politics carry negative connotation and darker image, why are you bringing this up here? I don't see any positive reinforcement here.

At point no. 3 You talk about speaking the truth, if something is bad, we should say it is bad irrespective of things such a national identity or origin. You end the point with "यो कुरा चाँही पक्का हो कि 'नेपाल नाच्छ' कार्यक्रमको youtube भिडियोमा गरिएका थुप्रै कमेन्टहरु अत्यन्तै अशिष्ट छन् र भद्दा छन्" but I feel you are still not providing positive reinforcement. If some one is doing something wrong, have guts to stand out and say it is wrong loud and clear. Way to miss the point huh?

At point no. 4 I feel I don't feel the girl in the video in anyway frustrated rather she is expressing herself and requesting fellow Nepalese to refrain from using abusing language in public forum, youtube and internet. Yes, we all learn from mistake and we should take ciriticism positively but can you once again explain me what her mistake was. I felt you didnot do a good job in providing positive criticism.


I am not sure if i did a good job at explaining myself to you. But I did what i think was required.

You refered to me  with a question "And who told you not to compare apples and oranges?"

I would answer ,"No one." You and I are both free to make comparision but it makes no sense when you make such analogies when you are talking about positive ciritcism.

And Lastly I am not super protective, I just want you to get the message.

And please for God's shake do not come up with such ludacris ideas such as positing image from 1st search query for "apples vs oranges" in google. In my mind those things take away your credibilty when engaging in discussion.

Don't get me wrong here, I am not here to personally attack you, well I personally don't know you and it is vice versa. But I do want you to continue to make attempt at positive criticism. Nepalese youth do require a lot of that. It was just that this was not a good example and the whole video was about it.

"Positive criticism doesnot mean that we blindly support everything based on relational identity." AJAX