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   I am looking for a gentleman who is inte 10-Jun-01 monica
     But why? 14-Jun-01 Madmax
       Good question Madmax. 14-Jun-01 Momocha
         Whats up Monica! I like y 15-Jun-01 Khukurikancha
           Whats up Monica! I like y 15-Jun-01 Khukurikancha
             HI WHATEVER YOUR NAME IS, I WAS CHECK 21-Jul-01 pra matrix
               Sweet thing!!!! Woooo...it's always int 22-Jul-01 GUY
                 Is this a nepali girl talking? Who are y 23-Jul-01 Bobby
                   Bobby, Are you interested too?? U can 24-Jul-01 GUY
                     Hey Guy I am too afraid of aggressive 24-Jul-01 bobby
                       Bobby, Your gender identity is unknown 24-Jul-01 GUY
                         Hi, This is not reponse to Monica's " 27-Jul-01 Shirish
                           good point buddy, i dont even know why i 27-Jul-01 pra matrix
                             what is wrong with this picture? a ne 27-Aug-01 manisha
                               I like you...Rocker need Manisha... 28-Aug-01 Rocker
                                 The reason manisha jee is that internet 30-Aug-01 Info
                                   Hey Info.. She isn't looking for a g 04-Sep-01 GUY
                                     Monica, if you are a nepalese girl...I'l 05-Sep-01 Tony Lantz
                                       hi Info, I understand that there is a l 18-Sep-01 manisha
hi manisha rocker want u bad you seem 19-Sep-01 Rocker
   HI MONICA OOH SEXY SEXY... NAME, MONIC 20-Sep-01 DILU
     Manishajee, you seems to be serious. If 21-Sep-01 info
       hi info, you even have a hard time imag 27-Sep-01 manisha
         It is really very interesting to read al 27-Sep-01 kiran
           pheri tah !! chuplager gothma aaija chha 28-Sep-01 bhoot
             Eh Nakkali Bhoot, saale tero chala mala 28-Sep-01 Sakkali Bhoot
               hai manica! I just arrived in 03-Oct-01 jack
                 Hey monica, how can u leave Bill, i am 05-Oct-01 Bill
                   I think this ad has been on the site for 08-Oct-01 Nepali Keto
                     hey monica,i'm from ktm rite now, wish 10-Oct-01 geordie
                       MONICA.>>> okay .... you are looking fo 21-Oct-01 chiller
                         Well....i guess people need to get some 24-Oct-01 REHAN
                           hi monica, r u still open? if u r plra 22-Nov-01 jay
                             Monica, I wold like to suggest you 24-Nov-01 Abdul
                               I kinda have a feelin that this monica.. 25-Nov-01 kt
                                 buddy abdul! "podoe"ko chei "khoya"ko ho 26-Nov-01 Rocker
                                   Guys are a pack of wolves! 27-Nov-01 Dawg
                                     Hi dear, if u r real, reply to the real 02-Dec-01 real one
                                       From above posting it sounds that guys w 03-Jan-02 Nepali in Nepal
hey mero nepal ma basne nepali mitra, 03-Jan-02 cardinal
   this is really interesting one. i don't 05-Jan-02 sobre
     Hey Monica, you sounds Bitch. Who do you 07-Jan-02 Coolguy
       cool guy, and come to think of it. y 07-Jan-02 nemesis


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monica Posted on 10-Jun-01 06:14 PM

I am looking for a gentleman who is intelligent, humble, has a pleasant personality, and has a good mix of both eastern and western values. He should be a professional who enjoys life, likes the outdoors, and has a good sense of humor.

I would appreciate it if you could please include a photograph with your response.
Madmax Posted on 14-Jun-01 01:35 AM

But why?
Momocha Posted on 14-Jun-01 05:07 PM

Good question Madmax.
Khukurikancha Posted on 15-Jun-01 12:51 PM

Whats up Monica!



I like your name. Whats your life rolling on in Boston? Do you go to college? I am also looking for a good friend which understand my feelings. Sharing each other. So, try me.... and reply me as soon as possible.






take care
jai nepal

Bye
Khukurikancha Posted on 15-Jun-01 12:51 PM

Whats up Monica!



I like your name. Whats your life rolling on in Boston? Do you go to college? I am also looking for a good friend which understand my feelings. Sharing each other. So, try me.... and reply me as soon as possible.






take care
jai nepal

Bye
pra matrix Posted on 21-Jul-01 09:20 PM

HI WHATEVER YOUR NAME IS,

I WAS CHECKING OUT CLASSIFIEDS COZ I NEEDED TO LOOK FOR A ROOM OR ROOMMATES, AND WHEN I SAW YOUR AD LIKE "LOOKING FOR A BOYFRIEND" I WAS LIKE HELLOOOO, IS THIS A NEPALI GIRL.....ANYWAYS.... IM GUESSING YOU ARE A STUDENT AND YOU SEE ALL THESE PPL ON CAMPUS CUDDLING AND HUGGING AND KISSING AND IM THINKING YOU WANT A BOYFRIEND TO DO THAT TO YOU TOO, AM I RIGHT???? BUT YOU SHOULD ALWAYS KNOW THAT THESE PPL WERE BORN AND RAISED IN UNITED STATES AND THATS THERE CUSTOM; BUT US, BEING NEPALESE, THATS NOT OUR CUSTOM...... YOU MIGHT FEEL A LITTLE LONELY SOMETIMES.. YOU MIGHT FEEL HOMESICK SOMETIMES... YOU MIGHT FEEL LIKE YOU'RE NOT SPECIAL AS YOU USED TO BE BACK HOME.. BUT THE KEY IS TO OVERCOME ALL THESE FEELING, AND INSTEAD OF LOOKING FOR A BOYFRIEND, TRY MAKING REALLY GOOD FRIENDS, FRIEND THAT MAKES YOU FEEL SPECIAL AND MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE YOURE LOVED, FRIEND THAT REALLY CARES AND WORRIES ABOUT YOU... TAKE MY ADVISE AND TRY IT.... YOU'LL THANK ME SOMEDAY THAT YOU DID...

TAKE CARE

PRABIN
GUY Posted on 22-Jul-01 01:17 PM

Sweet thing!!!!
Woooo...it's always interesting..when there's a new trend in every phase of existence...Just having your ad up has been something that's been getting guys on the move. Don't know whether u are for real into one or not..but it's a nice thing to be so open to what u seek for.Hope the one u have, be all that u want in him. Monica??? from Boston...mmmmm I guess I haven't heard of this name. Well Monica it's always nice for Nepali guys...when Nepali gurls are able to speak up their mind. Hope u bring in a new trend (Monica's Revolution)...ahahaha :)
Bobby Posted on 23-Jul-01 01:28 PM

Is this a nepali girl talking? Who are you ? You seem very gutsy. Any way good luck in you search. Are you looking for a playmate or just a friend?

Good luck girl!

Bobby
GUY Posted on 24-Jul-01 05:53 PM

Bobby,
Are you interested too?? U can have me..if you want one...ahahaaha :) J/K grl...Take it easy..
bobby Posted on 24-Jul-01 06:39 PM

Hey Guy

I am too afraid of aggressive woman? You are too aggressive for me. Bye bye.

Bobby
GUY Posted on 24-Jul-01 09:05 PM

Bobby,
Your gender identity is unknown...Something's creepy out there...ahahaha..U don't know me..and interpret me as aggressive..sorry whoever u are..got wrong perception for a right guy...U know nothing about me and a statement like that..U bette not indulge in doing so for other real aggressive guys..I try to comfort woman to the best I can...so no more misleadings.
Shirish Posted on 27-Jul-01 12:17 PM

Hi,

This is not reponse to Monica's "looking for boyfriend". But I am surprised to see others comments especially some matrix.. I don't see a point why he needs to speculate why Monica needs a boyfriend? If he wants, he can respond accordingly; meaning being intelligent and respecting her views. And if he feels otherwise, just ignore it. Let's not be judgemental about other feelings and views; rather if we agree or disagree, put our ideas like a sensible human being. Monica, I won't say whether this is revolution, desparation but I admire you putting your request on the web.
pra matrix Posted on 27-Jul-01 04:27 PM

good point buddy, i dont even know why i bothered

P
manisha Posted on 27-Aug-01 04:02 PM

what is wrong with this picture?

a nepali girl puts an ad. on a nepali site and all the boys start howling like a pack of wolves, instead of acting like respectable men. there was only one descent reply suggesting she look for a good friend instead. i realize it is very exciting to see a woman take the first step.

nepali males just need to be more refined in their cultural education both hindu-nepali and american etiquette. i had a hard time finding a good balance in a person myself. unless you learn some of these things while you are here while your mind is open then only can you be refined. otherwise you will just have to call mommy and tell her to find a wife for you and hope that she knows what qualities you want.

thank,
manisha
Rocker Posted on 28-Aug-01 03:04 PM

I like you...Rocker need Manisha...
Info Posted on 30-Aug-01 04:11 PM

The reason manisha jee is that internet ads are unpredictable. No one takes serioulsy because the ads are false when it comes to personal issues. How can these nepali boys believe that monica is a real girl first of all. Even if she is a gril then how can guys believe that she is looking for a groom????
GUY Posted on 04-Sep-01 09:41 PM

Hey Info..
She isn't looking for a groom....she's looking for a guy who could give company her. Groom is something beyond the issue.....did I get that straight??
Hey, recently I heard that there has been a drastic increase in the population of girls in Boston....Haven't seen that many girls in Boston....not looking for one though..
Cheers
Tony Lantz Posted on 05-Sep-01 01:06 AM

Monica, if you are a nepalese girl...I'll say way to go!
Atleast we have one nepalese girl who can decide for herself.
An admirer
manisha Posted on 18-Sep-01 05:41 PM

hi Info,
I understand that there is a lot of deception on the net with regards to these personal ads and I can understand your point of view. What if this add is for real and she turns out to be a beautiful professional who doesn't have the connection or the location. My point is don't be so negative in your judgements, and take off your tainted glasses because the glass might just be half full.
thanks,
manisha
Rocker Posted on 19-Sep-01 01:50 PM

hi manisha
rocker want u bad
you seem like such a nice girl and you must be preety...
DILU Posted on 20-Sep-01 08:17 PM

HI MONICA
OOH SEXY SEXY... NAME, MONICAAAAAA OH MY DARLINGGGGG (HINDI SONG)
SO SMART SEXY MONICA, WOULD U LIKE TO ACCEOT ME AS YOUR LOVIN HUSBAND, I AM READY TO COMMIT.

WHATEEVR IT TAKES....
info Posted on 21-Sep-01 11:11 AM

Manishajee, you seems to be serious. If you are strong in your point and want to stand for it then let's try something. email me at nikel_5@hotmail.com. We'll find out if you are just blabbling around or you really mean it. I don't think that you will chicken out right?
manisha Posted on 27-Sep-01 07:27 PM

hi info,
you even have a hard time imagining that i am for real! may god help you child. you can contact me at manishauprety@msn.com for further affirmations of your skepticism. a certain amount of skepticism is good in this capitalist society where everything is for sale but there is a fine line between healthy and dangerous.

there is confusion as to a nepali named monica, i grant you it is a christian name but it has been shortened to mona....just my past experience.

see ya,
manisha
kiran Posted on 27-Sep-01 08:33 PM

It is really very interesting to read all these stuffs here...hey...thankx monika for putting on such an add ...God knows why everyone gets so much interested about theses stuffs...there isn't anything bad about looking for a boy friend here in US..well u feel alone and friends are hard to find so what else can u expect? but i like the idea of pra matrix too...what he said is truely correct. looking for a boy frined is bad especially when u are from nepal..but it's better if u search for a good friend...good luck..
kiran from boston
bhoot Posted on 28-Sep-01 02:15 PM

pheri tah !! chuplager gothma aaija chhado. aaba tero kando haanchhu.
bhakunde bhoot.
Sakkali Bhoot Posted on 28-Sep-01 02:42 PM

Eh Nakkali Bhoot, saale tero chala mala ramro chhaine. Aafno nakab utar de. Natra mero naam chalaera aru lai jhhukkyaune hoina hai. Bhetlas.....
jack Posted on 03-Oct-01 06:23 PM

hai manica!



I just arrived in Boston from washington D.C.The time when i was in there in D C i am not able to see the internet.So now when i came and looked the internet i found the your desire to make the Boyfriend.you know, i am the guy having pleasent personality and looks western and eastern.i am same as the man which you had mentioned in desirable note.So if you interested in making Boy friend to me, i will be highly appreciated.

jack
Bill Posted on 05-Oct-01 09:34 PM

Hey monica,
how can u leave Bill, i am here still to give u good ride then y do u wanna
have Boyfriend what its itching
give me call my monica
with love
Bill
Nepali Keto Posted on 08-Oct-01 08:10 PM

I think this ad has been on the site for a LONG time now and i think we all should move on with the newer ads, still its getting interesting tho, with characters like bhoot, bhakunde bhoot, and sakkali bhoot or whatever.... and also with manisha, and info... and some stupid replies who are ready to commit to people they dont know and never seen at all, and specially some guy who is asking her to take him for her husband...... People, LETS MOVE ON TO SOME OTHER CLASSIFIEDS, shall we????
geordie Posted on 10-Oct-01 02:57 AM

hey monica,i'm from ktm rite now,
wish i was there for you. :(
really missin a girl like you
chiller Posted on 21-Oct-01 03:44 PM

MONICA.>>>
okay .... you are looking for intelligent, humble, funny, established, ....blah blah... boyfriend. But i was just curious, what qualities do you have? are you beautiful, honest, down to earth, funny, brilliant, tall, slim, sexy, one who has lots of respect to others, understanding, financially supportive etc etc?? i was just curious, although i do not fall into the type of guys you are looking for. one word explains everything.. i am DUMB.
thank you.
REHAN Posted on 24-Oct-01 09:44 PM

Well....i guess people need to get some life anyway....
everybody here needs a serious recosideration upon this matter..as grave and serious it is.....and funny and stupid people should really stay away from any such responses....well..i am being a stupid myself..but couldn't help wondering the calibre of the responses..ranging from an appreciation to mockery to support to harassment...people...really we need to get some life...not that i am a wise anyway..but at least i can say it...right?
Manisha here had some very quiaint views..so had Prabin..and some jolly characters revealing their true selves...making lewd remarks...well..surely makes it a congress of fun and amusement for a simple ad like this..i mean..people....she can do what she wants to do..right....if a white guy does that..he is so cool..and if a nepali gal does it..she is so uncool...well..decide for urselves..it is not about culture...it is about loneliness..it is about feelings..it is about companionship...and MOnica...how did u expect that u wll find a nice person like this..believe me..u might..but this is not the way....try to go out of the propective views..try to broaden ur mind..try to indulge in other things...try to meet people..and u never know when u find ur soulmate..it is just a matter of time..it is just a matter of faith..and one thing to other people here...lets appreciate what others want..and try to respect it....we all come from the same culture..we all come from the same roots...so..lets understand each other..and find a middle grounds for matters as such..once again..thanks for ur time..and Monica..i hope u will find a better person...sooner ar later...thanks evrybody...
jay Posted on 22-Nov-01 07:53 AM

hi monica,
r u still open? if u r plrase drop me an email.
I am a nepali professional /26 working in central massachusetts.
I'd love to hear from you.
Abdul Posted on 24-Nov-01 10:50 PM

Monica,

I wold like to suggest you that you have to stand in Ratnapark to find boyfriend. you will get some podae boy working in Nagarpalika.

Good luck
kt Posted on 25-Nov-01 04:15 PM

I kinda have a feelin that this monica...must be a girl
just trying to mess up with "keta haru ko" mind or something
Rocker Posted on 26-Nov-01 04:22 PM

buddy abdul! "podoe"ko chei "khoya"ko ho ki keh??
BTW, I got a good BJ from a Podoeni there.
rocker
Dawg Posted on 27-Nov-01 12:28 PM

Guys are a pack of wolves!
real one Posted on 02-Dec-01 09:45 PM

Hi dear,
if u r real, reply to the real at rkkunwarathotmaildotcom.
Nepali in Nepal Posted on 03-Jan-02 07:22 PM

From above posting it sounds that guys who are living up there in MA are nothing more that Ganaune Boka.
cardinal Posted on 03-Jan-02 08:09 PM

hey mero nepal ma basne nepali mitra,
MA ko manche haru lai kina 'people living up there' bhanera refer garchau? jaha timi chau tyaha bata MA nikkai tala cha, both geographically and morally.
sobre Posted on 05-Jan-02 03:51 PM

this is really interesting one. i don't see it as unusual or something where people have to make comments. it is natural for some one to seek a friend of different gender. there are certain biological and emotional matters which would make people to desire for something. if people are thinking of the physical relation that may be with the relation she has mentioned, it is natural and we don't have to create a havoc for it. do your own work and try to appreciate others. most of us make love but want to pretend that we are not doing so due to the cultural image. there is no harm making love, but flirting with others emotion could be harmful which can boomerang.
all the best for you.
most of the professional men are with the family, so i don't know whether you will be able to find some one. i am sorry since i have a family, good wife and a beautiful daughter. your ad gave me picture of my daughter's future approach. appreciate it.
Coolguy Posted on 07-Jan-02 09:59 PM

Hey Monica, you sounds Bitch. Who do you think you are? Are you a Princess? Why didn't write about yourself? Bitch.......
nemesis Posted on 07-Jan-02 10:24 PM

cool guy,

and come to think of it. you call yourself a cool guy. what a joke. just look at how and what you write. do you know what a bitch is? why are you calling her names? even the whole posting was fictiteous, your response shows you are a low, petty, human being. good luck. i KNOW you need this with this kind of attitude judging from your posting sample.