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Odd---Question.

   This question goes out to both gals and 12-Apr-03 jules
     so you cheated huh! Are you gal or guy? 12-Apr-03 khimu
       Jules, That's one odd question, aight 12-Apr-03 dangggg
         I would say curiosity, not enough love, 14-Apr-03 mountainmama
           Cheating is a western culture. In Nepal, 14-Apr-03 tick
             I dont think cheating is a western cultu 14-Apr-03 bhenda2
               I agree with you bhenda.When I was in Ne 14-Apr-03 Aliciaa
                 Cheating is done lukera. When it is done 14-Apr-03 tick
                   Yeah, I have cheated...cheated on my lov 14-Apr-03 bhedo
                     well i am not married and i dont have gf 14-Apr-03 south
                       well you guys were thinking like if i do 14-Apr-03 south
                         wish you good luck south have you ever 14-Apr-03 khimu
                           thanks khimu ji. 15-Apr-03 south
                             hahahaha!!! Hasaayo khimu le 15-Apr-03 dangggg
                               life ma asto situation aune pani lucky k 15-Apr-03 khimu
                                 <br> Nepalis do cheat but it's not very 16-Apr-03 Rekha
                                   Cheat garna lop pani ta parya hunu paryo 17-Apr-03 PREMpujari


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jules Posted on 12-Apr-03 02:54 PM

This question goes out to both gals and guys:

Have you ever cheated on your girlfriend/boyfriend - - husband/wives?
And what made you do so? Also have you told him or her about your affair?

Nothing personal, just wodering......

:-)

Thanx
Julie

khimu Posted on 12-Apr-03 03:45 PM

so you cheated huh! Are you gal or guy?
if i did! yes many times, if i did not, never! theres no such answer.

i am not a husdand, not even boyfriend
i am a loverboy, who loves his gurl mutuko dhukdhuki ma pasera
this new world ma cheat ko namai rahena
jo pani chupp chupp kiss garirahe ka chhan affnai GF hos ya aruko


dangggg Posted on 12-Apr-03 11:02 PM

Jules,

That's one odd question, aight!

Tara, I don't think people who have cheated on their spouse or significant other will answer your question in here. I guess it's hard to admit when somebody cheats. Well! it wouldn't be called 'cheating' if it's not hidden.

Anyhow, I have never cheated on my gf before but I think people do it because of boredom. ummm... Idon't know, I never did it.


Maybe you will get better answers from people ho have done it before in their life. They will be able to tell you what motivates them to do it and if they feel guilty after doing it.


ttyl,
dangggg
mountainmama Posted on 14-Apr-03 07:59 AM

I would say curiosity, not enough love, attraction, trust, and loyalty in a relationship, plus individual's choice of lifestyle. Not to mention, cirscumstance as well.
tick Posted on 14-Apr-03 10:22 AM

Cheating is a western culture. In Nepal, polygamy and polyandry both are followed. Even tough polygamy is illegal polyandry is not.

Getting back to the original question, if I have ever cheated on my other half the answer is never. There is not enough time or money for one I cannot imagine having two. One is more than hands-full.

My grandfather used to say a man with two wives is like having your foot in two boats at the same time, you are bound to fall. Obliviously, he was speaking from experience.
bhenda2 Posted on 14-Apr-03 12:37 PM

I dont think cheating is a western culture.....I have heard lots of stories about old Nepalese dudes cheating on their wives.....in Nepal most women dont have much choice so they pretend nothing is wrong....
Aliciaa Posted on 14-Apr-03 12:51 PM

I agree with you bhenda.When I was in Nepal last summer, I saw one old man with 12 wives and I also have seen woman with many husbands. hehe what to talk about????//So well I guess it's not only in western culture but in each and e very part of the world.
tick Posted on 14-Apr-03 01:01 PM

Cheating is done lukera. When it is done khullam khulla it is not cheating. Hope it makes my above statement clear..
bhedo Posted on 14-Apr-03 02:45 PM

Yeah, I have cheated...cheated on my love doll, Sylvia Saint. Curiously though, she was pretty stolid about it. Good thing is she never talks back.
south Posted on 14-Apr-03 03:29 PM

well i am not married and i dont have gf either. I do like one girl and i dont think i can cheat her, i really like her a lot. though i am far from her i never tried to go to another girl, i always remember her so can not cheat her. i think if you really love someone you dont feel like cheating your partner.
south Posted on 14-Apr-03 03:30 PM

well you guys were thinking like if i dont have gf and wife how this applies to me? well right, but i hope i will get that girl one day.
khimu Posted on 14-Apr-03 04:29 PM

wish you good luck south
have you ever seen her in your dream, i mean you know sometimes dream comes true and sometimes Aalu!
" yes bro"! you gonna have that gurl someday, let not say one day because theres a million one day, u ata hai uhi chalajata hai.

someday i`m gonna have you
you are the only one how can i forget you
so let me be the one
love you very much more than anyone
no matter how far i am
nothing change still the same

bichhoda ko pan le, satauchha dina ra rati
kasto dasha aiparehola ma-mathi

counting my days to come back
i can,t wait to see you
because i love you
you know that i know that no one gonna stop us
and your GF le banchha re!
come back home to me, take the sajha bus

ani timi (south) chahi sajha bus nasamati GOLF AIR udera janchhau re kya!

ani Tribhuwan international airport ma chupp chupp kiss khayera dhundhan re kya!

godd luck again SOUTH-z





south Posted on 15-Apr-03 02:10 PM

thanks khimu ji.
dangggg Posted on 15-Apr-03 02:32 PM

hahahaha!!!
Hasaayo khimu le
khimu Posted on 15-Apr-03 03:03 PM

life ma asto situation aune pani lucky ko kura ho ni yaar
dangg ji! Aba hera bichara SOUTH lai mutu ma kati asha hola bholi bhetaula parsi bhetaula bhanera , tara you know SOUTH theres two things you really need to know, that kt ko pachhadi lagyo bhene ki kamjor bha-enchha ki dherai kura ma safalta pa-enchha. tara we(boys) relly need control our thinking memory, jasto bhanou you realy do like her but don,t think all the time about her. If you do that forget it man!

bhanya matrai ho lya!

Afun ka to life mein style hona mangta
garib ho ya dhani ye main nahi manta
ye dill dewana hai
magar pyar mein hosiyar hai
Rekha Posted on 16-Apr-03 10:34 PM


Nepalis do cheat but it's not very common.
Have cheated and have been cheated.
He told me and I told him, everytihng.
We don't hide anything from each other.
The good thing is we love each other, trust
each other and we're still together..........
(have been dating) for over 5 years.
That's life, nothing we can do about it.

It may seem hard but it's good to tell each
other everything. If you have a true love then
nothing can come between you two. He/she might
get mat at each other, not talk for a while at the
end when you know he/she got over it then it's true
love and it's totally worth it.

Cheating is not a part of being in love but knowing
someone loves you and is willing to forgive you
is the best thing u can ever ask for.................
PREMpujari Posted on 17-Apr-03 05:07 AM

Cheat garna lop pani ta parya hunu paryo ni!!!
Bihe ta paraai jaawosh, Lop samma ni parya chaina!!! Kyaa bore!! :(
Lop pare po cheat garnu!! Baru chat garchu!!!
(kapal sumsumaayera "bichalo plem pudaali" bhanya khoi ta???)

Lop nai parecha bhanepani feri cheat garna arko taruni chaahiyo ni!!! ;)
Tyo ARKO taruni sita pani ta feri Lop parnu paryo ni!! Tyo pani ta tension nai ho ni, euta sangai napari raa bela ma... arki!! essss.

Anuhar herdai jaisidewal ma ghopya dahi ko kataro jasto cha!! pwatta bhudi, chyaake anuhaar, seto kapaal, sukyaa khutta -- and the only known talent is to make oneself invisible everywhere. Aba yesto maile ke cheat garai bho...

Baru Jules (pahilai bhannu parcha ni taruni bhanera ehh) ... Timi batai suru garum na... How about ASL?? Timro mero lop parcha, ani you study on me... if i'll cheat or not!!! Sounds cool, hoina??? ehhhh... (So are you ready to send me your pic yet?? time bho??? ) hehe!!!

[aaja ko Daily-dose aaune bho jules bata... ehh!!]