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| *****er | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 12:09 PM
It's been 2 and a half years since I got to the US. One thing that has always bugged me these days is how much I get bored sometimes. I am a full time student, doing well in my studies. However, there are alot tof times when I can't think of doing anything productive and I get depressed because I don't have anything at all to do. I am fed up listening to all those 1000 mp3's I have, I am fed up watching movies. Sajha and the college dailyjolt helps me kill some of my time, but the rest of my idleness makes me feel like I am the most useless person around. The worst is when I wake up. Between the time I wake up and am back from shower, the feeling is so shitty that I can't even explain. I always dream the dreams I want to dream, and when I realize that I am finally "up" for another useless day in my "real" life, the feeling is horrible. How about you guys? Do your studies keep you busy almost all the time? Do u feel depressed because you have nothing to do sometimes? What are some other activities that you all engage in to escape this feeling? What exactly have you all done, if you have, that has made you enjoy your each and every day here in the US? I am so desparate. I need you all's ideas. I need a life here in USA. |
| premPUJARI | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 12:33 PM
eeeeeeeeeeeesssss!!! And All this time, I thought I was the only one who feels like that!!!! hehe........ Finally, a thread that I am interested in... nice one *****er (by the way what does ***** stands for?? I thought it was four stars :D)) |
| Deep | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 12:37 PM
"..by the way what does ***** stands for?? I thought it was four stars :D)" the fifth star floats in between the "wake up and back from shower", I guess. Now relax, PP...char wata le ni chalchha kam ramro sanga! "The worst is when I wake up. Between the time I wake up and am back from shower, the feeling is so shitty that I can't even explain. " |
| thaag | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 12:37 PM
To solve your current problem, you should get married or get a girlfriend whichever is possible...Unfortunately they come with new set of problem ;) |
| bhenda2 | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 12:52 PM
try to make some friends......try to enjoy simple things in life and Excercise... I read that people who dont exercise are depressed..... |
| *****er | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 12:57 PM
Pujari, I knew people were going to wonder why I had that extra star ! How perverted can you get? ;) Deep, wot up wid that hangin thingy yo? The star ain't hangin dere for nuthin! Thaag, Been there done that. and I am glad it's over! Trust me it does NOT solve the problem! |
| Prempujari | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 01:04 PM
haha *****er... Looks like you know me well. First you wrote the situation that resembles mine, and now you know how perverted I am. ;) I am watchin' this thread as keenly as *****er. Not a single satisfyin' answer... "Been there done that. and I am glad it's over! Trust me it does NOT solve the problem!" HELL yaa THAG!! ;) DEEEP, Are you as perverted as I am?? re kyaaa... :D))) |
| *****er | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 01:15 PM
Pujari, I just know you as a sajha poster. I was generalizing how people would wonder why I had that "extra". I meant to say how perverted can you all get. It is just a coincidence that my situation resembled yours. Do drop a few words of advice, if you have any. :) |
| thaag | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 01:16 PM
"Been there done that. and I am glad it's over! Trust me it does NOT solve the problem" This just might have created the problem, You r trying to overcome what's just been over.....I guess you shoud start doing exercise, Or get a Alarm clock with CD and play dance music when you wakeup ....Start dancing in "wake up and back from shower" time. hehe .......It might just be what you need ... :) |
| Montou | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 01:21 PM
*****er bro, I feel you there bro. Yes that seems to be the common problem with most. There are many things that are exciting in life that many have not explored yet. Thats why people indulge themselves in drugs, alcohol and sex. Thats a lie of a Satan. Anyways bro I am thinking of some practical suggestion that might help you. Well I cannot speak for anybody but can for myself. There is never a dull moment for me. I have no EXCUSE to feel bored in this life. Life is beautiful and exciting. Everyday is NEW and EXCITING. Bro I dont know if it works for you or not BUT if you start thinking about others and do something for others that should help with ur boredom. When u are so focused on yourself and think only about yourself then you will become so miserable. But when you start doing for other people then there is such excitement. The joy of doing something for somebody is priceless. You can think of a way to contribute in the community you are in. Give it a try bro. Well this is the best I can think of now. This way you will NEVER feel you are USELESS. *****er bro, God did not create anybody to be a JUNK. All of us have potential, it only depends if we use it to the fullest or not. So dont ever thinkk you are useless cause you are NOT. You are special bro. If you want to talk further or want to know what I have experienced then feel free to call me anytime. I will be more than happy to listen to you bro and share with you as well. My number is 308 635 2191. If I am not home then leave a message and I will get right back to you. Take care and keep in touch. By His Grace, Montou |
| *****er | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 01:22 PM
Thaag, It's been a while since it's been over, so that has no effect on the situation at all. :) But I really liked your idea of waking up to dance music. Darude's Sandstorm.. first thing in da morning! Keep those advices up people! |
| Jezebel | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 02:11 PM
the grass is always greener on the other side .......... even if you were in the most exciting place on earth you will eventually get bored and listless........that is the malady of monotony....in short, that is life! my advice?...stop feeling sorry for yourself and do the things that you like and like what you do.... peace |
| Bal Matlab | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 04:56 PM
Saathi ho, Ali ali testo problem ta ayi halcha ni. You guys seem to be here more than me - but just thought i should drop in some words. It's you who can make yourself happy..so try to be happy talk with people around, don't stay alone (usually that is the problem). I too know what it feels like, jhan eta mero ta kohi pani Nepali chainan, jata heryo gore gore.. U hav to learn to survive, keep up with the sports.. Play games that is one way, and do things you like to do. Man I need to get back to work...Hope this wasn' t too much of an advice. |
| isolated freak | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 07:21 PM
ER, First of all, don't feel that way. Just keep on thinking that you are not an useless fellow. Then get off Sajha and other things. GO for some real fun. I am sure your school has some students-run-offices such as the office of students activities, hiking club, movie club, volunteer oppurtunitie etc. Go to them and work with them. That way, you'll make friends and you won't feel depressed. PLus, it will look good on your resume. However, if there's nothing available, just read. If you live on campus, just eat with yoiur friends, get drunk at times. Hit that communl bong often and socialize. |
| Indisguise | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 08:27 PM
Hey montou... are you the who stayed in St. louise Avenue in 1st street in OC last summer with guys from Pv?? Reply to this please.. i might know you( your probable apt. mate) |
| Montou | Posted
on 30-Apr-03 11:16 PM
Hey Indisguise bro, ho bro!!! yeah its me. Bro ko paryo yaar? la tu reply gara yaar ko raicha bro. Email me at montougurung@hotmail.com or call me at 308 635 2191. Bro yes pali ni OC jane ho? If so please contact me ASAP hai ...I most probably wont go but I know few who are still looking for an apt. There are 3 from KY. Out of these 3 two are girls. La ta yaar malai contact gara na ta. Ko raichha ta chineko yaar... La hopefully hear from u soon. Take care bro and keep in touch hai. By His Grace, Montou |
| PremPujari | Posted
on 01-May-03 04:18 AM
Hey Montou, Where were you?? Haven't seen you for a while. Busy with your love life ho, How'z it going?? ;P |
| prempujari | Posted
on 01-May-03 05:38 AM
>>Do drop a few words of advice, if you have any. :) *****erJYU, I think I need an advice as same as you do. ehh... We are on the same boat, hoina ra? But still, if you insist (;P), I'd say, I'd rather not think about how I feel, not think about the things that make me depressed. I'd rather not let these things bug my head. I'd rather try to enjoy every moment I live. I don't know how I do it, but thats what I've been doing these days. If something makes me depressed, I just say "**** it" and try to enjoy it. The word's like **** it really helps for me :D, ajha Nepali ma bhanna parcha, it sounds more stronger. ehh... Khoi ke bhanne thaa chaina yaar... I need some advice... (shoot i am runnin' late, pachi lekhchu) |
| Poonte | Posted
on 01-May-03 06:36 AM
Sabailai chetana bhayaa...bore bho bhandaima tension linae nagaryaa... Hetterika...bore ta kahile kahin bhai halchha ni! Jindagi na ho--sandhai bhari excitements le bharipurna bhayo bhane ta feri radddeeeez hunchha...bored ni hunu parchha hau sometimes, natra ta feri excitement ko value nai ghatchha ni! It's the darkness that makes the light shine bhanya jastai it's boredom that makes excitement shine! Tara, if that boredom becomes the norm, then that's a problem hau--it has to be sporadic...and *****(4 wata ho ki 5 wata?)er jyu ko bordom chai aekdam chyap chhyapti hola jasto laagena...get bored once in a while, yaar...just let it kill you sometimes, so that you may appreciate it more when the exciting times are here... Amamamama...ma ta kata bata aaja aekdam daarshanik mood ma bhayechhu! Bihana uthne bittikai Jasmine tea piyeko...tesaile ho ki ke ho? Aaaanch...janu paryo aja Central Park tira meditate garna...bhaigo, aja paani arya chha...charko gham laagya bela po majja auncha park tira ni...taruni haru check out garna ;) |
| Montou | Posted
on 01-May-03 07:43 AM
Hey PremPujari bro, Dhanyabaad hai samjheko ma bro. ma yatai chhu. You can say I am busy with love-life. Well I have fallen in love with all. So it keeps me real busy trying to keep up with all. Real exciting as everyday I meet people whom I love. And the day is over before I realize. I dont know how else to explain it bro. TIME WILL TELL EVERYTHING. PremPujari bro? Khai yaar aile samma pani real naam thaha vayena yaar? Anyways dherai dherai dhanyabaad. Huna ta malai pani bro ko samjhana ta auchha yaar. Bro nai alik euta thiyo yaso ma sanga kura garne Sajha ma. Anyways if you are in Sajha next time, mero tarfa bata sabailai [those who know me] dherai dherai maya ra samjhana vanidinu hai... I will try to catch u one of these days. La ta bro aile lai ma lage. U take care and keep in touch. Feel free to contact me if you want as you know how to. So I will leave it to you. La Aru Pachhi... By His Grace, Montou |
| Gurl_interrupted | Posted
on 01-May-03 10:42 AM
Hey ******er, If one day u wake up and u cough up blood...u go for a check up, results show u have tumor? How would u feel? What would run thru ur minds? Would u still feel, today is another shitty boring day? Or would ur perceptions on life change? Perhaps, u might bargain for more time? Y waste it, when u have it in ur hands. Life is uncertain...very uncertain. U don't know what it has in store for u next. There are some things beyond our control. My bottomline is: instead of whining about not having to do anything or getting bored...live every moment and use it to fulfil the dreams u have, coz u r fortunate that you have time on ur side unlike some, who have to bargain for time...& 4 Life! |
| oys_chill | Posted
on 01-May-03 04:50 PM
Hey montou bro, long time no see as well :P ......bihe sihe bhayo bhanne sunchu ni?? TRUE? eheh j/k anyways ***************ER, yah those shitty feelings come once in a while, and that feeling of fed up of everything. I had reached a point, that i really hadn't listened to music for a WHOLE SINGLE MONTH. I was really surprised at that..ah well! just to emphasize that we all go through that.......so k garne? sajha ma yesari post garne :P makes you feel a lil better aint it? eheh....ani aroo k bhannu........yah......AFU COOL CHU BHANERA NASAMJHI, GETTING BACK TO YOUR OLD FRIENDS..is a pretty good idea! NATRA PP KO 880 VOLT KO CURRENT DINE GF LAI BHETNA JAANE :P kaso pp jyu :P Oys |
| touch_the_sky | Posted
on 01-May-03 05:12 PM
I don't udnerstand how you guys have time to get bored. I am do damned busy with my school work and work that I barely have time to do anything else. When I do get free time I exercise (need to maintain my slim figure) and play basket-ball. Friday and Saturday night I party heavily and when I am free from all this I open sajha. Doing all this, I barely have time for anythig else and you guys say that u r bored. How I envy you all! |
| thaag | Posted
on 01-May-03 07:45 PM
Hey *******ER This may sound strange, but when you wake up, if u'r in mood..(if not make one) and start Dancing...even if you don't know how.. You might have danced in Bars..Drunk..To get someone else's attention...but this time dance to yourself....and dance NAKED you will find peace......... Don't forget study too....;) |
| Prem Charo | Posted
on 01-May-03 08:26 PM
Thaag bro, Rajanish (Osho) bhakta ho ki kya ho? I like your idea anyays !! :P *****er, You got to listen to thaag. Prem Charo. |
| PremPujari | Posted
on 01-May-03 08:44 PM
Oys!!! ssssssssshhhhhhhhhhhh!!! (grrrrr kittt kittt!!!) $&%@##@ (Next time timro gandha matrai sungum ta wora para, I le Know ni... grrrr!!! Timro karang ganina bhaneta "Usko" chora "usko" Jwaai Hoina, la jaa ta!!! GRRRR) (ali badhi bho jaasto cha!! Tarshyo? ;P) |
| thaag | Posted
on 02-May-03 06:56 AM
Hoina Prem bro, ma tyo Ohso Soso kehi hoina...hamro ******er bro lie naya naya idea matri deyeko |
| watever | Posted
on 02-May-03 08:02 AM
SLEEP ON IT! If the time between waking up and shower bothers you so much... why bother waking up or taking a shower for that matter? you said you are bored and feel useless at times because sometimes you got nothing to do... WHY waste time getting up? Asleep you can "dream" all your dreams time and again! Or maybe try those "been there done it" things all over again... MAYBE you will get them RIGHT this time... possibilities are endless! :) Tyo bhayena bhane talk to OYS... he seems to have some ideas... going to meet PP ko high voltage gf and "AFU COOL CHU BHANERA NASAMJHI, GETTING BACK TO YOUR OLD FRIENDS"! :D |
| shagadelic | Posted
on 03-May-03 07:38 AM
Aafu cool chhu bhanera nasamjhine ta chance nai chhaina. :-) |
| watever | Posted
on 03-May-03 08:13 AM
LOL |
| salakjith | Posted
on 03-May-03 08:35 AM
This bugs me |
| salakjith | Posted
on 03-May-03 08:36 AM
Testing a bug |
| salakjith | Posted
on 03-May-03 08:37 AM
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| salakjith | Posted
on 03-May-03 08:41 AM
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| *****er | Posted
on 13-Jun-03 11:24 AM
Okay, had to revive this thread that I had started coz today is yet another day of boredome for me. Any suggestions on how not to be *bored* after one is done checking out all the posts of each thread of the last few days? :) |
| babaal | Posted
on 13-Jun-03 12:36 PM
Haina, mero aankha le dhoka deko ki mudraa raakshas ko galti ho...euta * badhi bhako haina tyo *****er ma ? hehe..nice nick, if I am right in what you intended your nick to mean..otherwise it sucks re kya! J/K! |