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| prasun |
Posted
on 30-Apr-03 09:31 PM
I guess its has been a long while since I have written on this board and I just wanted to state to everyone that I am a total losser.My Relationships in the past year had died. That last one is my own words "was the best and the worst". The best: All the best times and the best LOVE I have ever in my life ever given to anyone. The worst: To find out that you screwed everything up in the realtionship. That not only do you feel that you screwed up but you keep on having the feelings you did whem you were dating and there is no one to share them with anyone.
In my oppion....I am tired of love. I mean I still love my friends/family and all but it hurt so much over this girl....I don't know anymore. When you turn around and the hardest time of my life there is no one to run to. I guess I am a looser,. But I guess good things did come out of this. "NEVER GIVE YOUR HEART AWAY"! And if you do, never take it back. Like me I gave my heart to that girl and now I NEVER want her to give it back. I would rather die a lonly man then to take it back. It kind of sounds weird but in my oppion again, she was the one. And why should I want my heart back and all the love I gave her back? I don't, she can have it and she can hurt like I hurt every passing day. I don't care about love anymore. I just need friends now I guess. I got a big life a head of me and if she never wants to be with me then I will just live alone.....forever
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
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| lonely |
Posted
on 30-Apr-03 11:24 PM
Prasun,
Life is not what you imagine, and not everything we want we get it...Sayad this is what we are for and we are here to suffer....not everyone gets his love....few lucky ones get that...NOT ALL....
I wish you a speedy recovery from your broken heart and hope you will soon become like me..happy no matter what...aakali janmeko aaklai marne ni, haina ta?? Malai kasai ko sath chahinnna ..re kya
I know how hard it is when ur out of a relationship, people may give thousand suggestions, they may say try to forget her, find a new one or what ever..I know how hard it is....it really hurts..that's why i used to write my name as "love hurts" before....Prasun ji I agree.. it really hurts...no matter what...
But when ever i remember my past I just remeber my favourite song from U2 "I can't live with or without you". Now I know she can't be mine and I cannot be hers for ever, but I can't live without her either ...but dil hai ke man ta he nahin...kya kare??? any suggestions??
You did mention that the heart that you gave it to her you don't want it back... I think a true love should be unconditional, so when you gave it, you did not ask anything in return...so wish her all the best and whatever condition she is in...which will make her happy...think about how she could feel happy , and rise up beyond your selfishness...but I know many people won't agree on this...its your own opinion, whatever you think is good you do that...
aantya ma pashupatinath le hami sabai ko rachhya garun ra ahjur le chitayeko pugos...Prasun ji...
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| mountainmama |
Posted
on 01-May-03 06:30 AM
I heard when you love someone, you don't expect anything in return. Tough but true. You don't have to be with her to love her. You can love her all your life and its your choice.
My friend used to say, you miss somone so much and after year or two, you miss the idea of missing that person. All I can say is, time heals all pain. I hope you feel better.
Don't give up on love. You find love, when its least expected and till love comes again in your life, you just have to hang in there.
Believe me, its not true that you fall in love only once in life. Everything happens for a reason..good one.
Cheer up.
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 01-May-03 06:42 AM
Testai ho prasun jee...lovai love matra haina, haamile tragedy ni bhognu parchha re kya! Bharkharai chhuteko hole tyo maya, ali gahr ta bhai halchha...let yourself be drowned in sorrow for now--probably that's what you need right now...just keep in mind that before you know it, you'll get over the sorrow, and you'll be up and runnning with someone else...baru arko partner khojna lai darkhaasta faaram dartaa gardim? Ni:shulka sewa garna tayaar re kya hajur ko ;)
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| AX |
Posted
on 01-May-03 08:35 AM
kasari paaune hau tyo faaram, molai pani chahiyeko thiyo :P
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| Gurl_interrupted |
Posted
on 01-May-03 11:07 AM
"I hope you never lose your sense of wonder,
You get your fill to eat but always keep that hunger,
May you never take one single breath for granted,
GOD forbid love ever leave you empty handed,
I hope you still feel small when you stand beside the ocean,
Whenever one door closes I hope one more opens,
...And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope you dance
I hope you never fear those mountains in the distance,
Never settle for the path of least resistance
LIVING MIGHT MEAN TAKING CHANCES BUT THEY'RE WORTH TAKIN'
LOVIN' MIGHT BE A MISTAKE BUT IT'S WORTH MAKIN'
Don't let some hell bent heart leave you bitter,
When you come close to sellin' out reconsider,
Give the heavens above more than just a passing glance,
And when you get the choice to sit it out or dance.
I hope u dance..."
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| prasun |
Posted
on 01-May-03 12:27 PM
Dear Darling.....
I am writing this letter to tell you what I should have said when we had time. Or at least when we thought we had all the time in the world. As I look back on the years we had together, I think about all the important things I should have said instead of arguing about childish things.
I think about how I should have told you how much I loved the great times we had together. The times when we used to take long walks in the park until wed get kicked out after dark. Or the times when we used to walk on the beach, hand in hand, never caring anything. I think about the times when we would take long drives together on the spur of the moment. I remember it all. I miss it all.
Youve been gone for almost a year and there is not a day that goes by that I dont think of you. Not a minute has gone by that I dont miss you. You made me promise that I would get on with my life. It took me a long time, but I have found my place in the world again. But I still think of you often, knowing that you will always have a special place in my heart.
Always for you,
...................
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| selfexplorer |
Posted
on 02-May-03 10:28 AM
LOVE IS GOD THEY SAY, THAT'S WHY IT IS HARD TO GET.
WE HUMAN BEINGS DON'T KNOW LOVE... KNOW EXCLUSIVE LOVE ONLY.
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| u_day |
Posted
on 05-May-03 02:38 PM
khoi! khoi!
Mo ni bharam na tyo faaram.
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| rohit acharya |
Posted
on 06-May-03 05:01 PM
So I say, dear prasun....
"The love and romance after marriage is the best"... it never hurts...
Mind it next time....
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| khimu |
Posted
on 06-May-03 05:27 PM
sorry to hear that prasun
but you can,t live forever by yourself, i had same problem my openion also was just like your but now i don,t know why i feel like i am free but still i do love her more than anyone i did everything she asked but she left to nepal year back before she left i gave her $500 for shopping now she don,t care about me i mean you know she didn,t even e-mail me anymore, cuz she got BF in nepal
and i tried to another gurl you know what happen her uncle told me that if i want her you know what i mean Aafno feet ma ubhina saknu parchha re! aba ma Aafnai feet ma ubheko chhu arkako khutta ma ubheko chhaina kyare .
now I, Me, Myself and no-one else accept friends and family.
but i don,t feel like i can live forever single "We people needed someone"
i hope your mind also will change prasun
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| Maichang |
Posted
on 06-May-03 11:36 PM
prasun.....My heart bleeds for you.
But you know what? It is better to have loved and lost than never loved at all!!!
So there......
That was a really beautiful letter.....if your ladylove reads it...surely her heart will melt?
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 07-May-03 08:09 AM
Dear Prasun,
That was a wonderful letter! Like many of the sajhaites have written above, it will probably seem pretentious on our part to advise you to try to forget her. I agree with Poo dai -- it's healthy to let yourself feel sad. But at the same time, and paradoxically, despite your efforts to shun love, love has an uncanny way of somehow finding you. I don't know the details of your relationship with this girl who obviously has a strong hold on your heart, but you never know -- what you think you've lost forever may find its way back to you. And even if it's not the same things/people then in some other guise, but inevitably nevertheless, they return to you. Especially if your feelings have been as sincere as you describe in your letter. Don't lose faith and pls. don't self-deprecate by calling yourself a loser.
I wish you well.
In peace.
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| prasun |
Posted
on 09-May-03 08:26 AM
Thank Ya all for your Sugestions.
I just wanted to share this poem...
For my Mistress.....
I love you in uncountable ways
From the bottom of my heart to the depths of my soul
I cherish you in unthinkable ways
From the rising of the sun to its going down
I admire you with the freedom of my heart
With joy and pride and all that's within me
I care for you with the integrity of my soul
With passion that flows and emotion that runs free
I find you to be the only pleasure of my life
For the tender-loving feelings your love always brings
I dream of you beyond every imagination
From the sky to the moon, from the clouds to the stars
I'll die for you, for the sake of life
For love will continue even after death
I crave for you from my limitless horizon
For all the fantasies met and romances experienced
I love you for the beauty of life
For all the promises fulfilled and vows kept
I love you with all purity and power
For all the dreams realized and visions shared
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| lonely |
Posted
on 19-May-03 12:31 PM
so prasun ji ke bhayo ta aanta ma??
simplegal, I don't have experience hai, i was not implying that above.......aartha ko aanartha nalagua la plz....
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