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   Thank you to Tamu Community for organizi 21-May-03 Jhilkey
     Kura thik Garyo Bhai ley.... Tyo Asti K 21-May-03 Paani
       Hoina tyo GBNC tyatro thuuuloa organizat 21-May-03 Hasilomuhar
         Tamu Community organized and celebrated 21-May-03 Sadabichar
           Welcome to America! Also, it was not cel 21-May-03 saroj
             Sadbichaar, For one this was no religi 21-May-03 Damodar
               One thing to remember is that the Tamu S 21-May-03 orion
                 Thanks to Damodar for his hypocritcal re 21-May-03 Sadabichar
                   Remember this... Buddhism itself is n 21-May-03 Sadabichar
                     If Buddhism is not a religion then what 21-May-03 Damodar
                       So are you following the path of Buddha? 21-May-03 Sadabichar
                         I am not gonna follow the path of buddha 21-May-03 oys_chill
                           Running out of arguments ?? Hehe... You 21-May-03 Damodar
                             Its a well know fact that Nepalese and T 21-May-03 bhenda2
                               Damodar jee, pls locate where the name-c 21-May-03 Sadabichar
                                 Sadabichar, Dharma ko naam maa Jaad, 21-May-03 Prem Charo
                                   Listen Kiddo, This ain't no Buddhism 1 22-May-03 Damodar
                                     Problem with you is, you still don't kno 22-May-03 sadabichar
                                       This might be of interest to you guys. 22-May-03 sadabichar
Ok, Aside from name calling and improv 22-May-03 Damodar
   I think your animosity is multiplying no 22-May-03 sadabichar
     You are a waste of time and space... Yo 22-May-03 Damodar
       Why are you so negative? 22-May-03 Sadabichar
         Ayyyy yo manchey haru lai ke Bhako Ho ? 22-May-03 chaakman
           Tyo Hanuman Katttu Pani Lagaunu Launu pa 22-May-03 chaakman
             After claiming that he is a buddhist.. d 22-May-03 Sadabichar
               My congratulation to Tamu samaj. Why do 22-May-03 kukur85
                 Sadhabichar: what do you know about Budd 22-May-03 kukur85
                   Sadhabichar: what do you know about Budd 22-May-03 kukur85
                     Kukur85 jee: I am sure you don't know 22-May-03 Sadabichar
                       Sadabichar: Stop the nonsense! Obviousl 22-May-03 ptdynsty
                         To all, Tato na chaaro ke discuss gar 22-May-03 Prem Charo
                           ptdynsty jee: What makes you think th 22-May-03 Sadabichar
                             Sadabichar. Muslim ho ki kya ho?? 22-May-03 Prem Charo
                               kukru85, I care less about the discussio 22-May-03 supare_thula
                                 Hey Sadwhatever, Like static on a shor 23-May-03 Damodar
                                   Hey guys... this thread is not meant to 23-May-03 Sadabichar
                                     Supare Thula, that was very good! I have 23-May-03 sixx
                                       Dude you must have shite for brains, D 23-May-03 Damodar
Dear Damodar jee: Once again you miss 23-May-03 Sadabichar
   Duuuh !! And who's who's provoking this 23-May-03 Damodar
     All i wanted to tell you is, read carefu 23-May-03 Sadabichar
       Don't have time to read other people's g 23-May-03 Damodar
         Man!! Dont gimme wrong. I love readin 23-May-03 jules
           But Damodar is Perfect !!!! Talking a 23-May-03 Sadabichar
             Ke ko halla khalla gari raa ?? Buddha ko 24-May-03 Prem Charo
               Buddham Saranam Gachhaami Dhammam Saran 24-May-03 Sadabichar
                 Sadabichar, I think people are gettin 24-May-03 Prem Charo
                   Dhamma does not mean Buddhist Dhamma, or 25-May-03 Sadabichar
                     <font face="Kantipur" size="+1"> <b> 03-Jun-03 Sadabichar


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Jhilkey Posted on 21-May-03 06:32 AM

Thank you to Tamu Community for organizing and carrying out an excellent programme last night. Hope that they will hold functions like this more often....Once again thank you very much.
Paani Posted on 21-May-03 06:47 AM

Kura thik Garyo Bhai ley....
Tyo Asti Ko GBNC Baisakh party Bhanda Kattta Katta Ramro...
Khana Pani Meeetho...Sabai Ley Khana Pani Payo
Ra Cherpati Pani Lagena.

Yo GBNC ley ta Khaali Paisa Matrai Lincha
Diney Bela ma Chahi Jahiley Pani LWAPPA Kwaucha
Yo GBNC ma auuney Manchey Haru Khaaali AFNO Resume Barna Matrai Auucha
Hasilomuhar Posted on 21-May-03 09:29 AM

Hoina tyo GBNC tyatro thuuuloa organization Bhaye pani kina tyastooo Jhooor. Khaaali Paisa liney belama chahii Pyar pyar pyar Karaucha aaaroo belama chahi Chuiikka pani awaz chaina. Tyo aasti ko party ma ta Khana pani kana payena paisa matrai liyo(No Shame) raa 1 slice Mushroom Pizza ko $15 tirnuuu Paryo(thuiiikka).

Yo GBNC President Lai Nikalera Tamu SAmaj Lai GBNC Chalaunu dinu Paryo justo Cha. PUUUGYO tyo naaam matra ko President harooo Kaaam chahi jahiley pani AAAAlooo
Sadabichar Posted on 21-May-03 09:40 AM

Tamu Community organized and celebrated the Budhha Jayanti.. Good works.

By going through the photos posted, I saw beer- bottles !! Although Budhha never forbade anyone to drink alcohol, however he suggested not to drink alcohol.

And if you go by the precepts recommended by Buddha, one of them is Not to Sing and Dance.

I have never seen anywhere Budhha Jayanti being celebrated by singing, dancing and drinking booze.
saroj Posted on 21-May-03 09:49 AM

Welcome to America! Also, it was not celebrated on the day of Buddha Jayanti so drinking booze dancing is no problem.
Damodar Posted on 21-May-03 09:54 AM

Sadbichaar,
For one this was no religious ceromony and second Budhajayati was last Thursday. This gathiering was just an excuse for our community to get togather. And the Bar was not operated by the Tamu Community. It was run by people who own the hall. The community is not to blame if PEOPLE as individuals went to the Bar and got their own drinks.
If you consider yourself a Buddhist and have ever made it to Swayambhu on Buddha Jayati...there is singing and dancing involved(for your kind information). And another point is that Buddha never forbade us to Drink(do not confuse us with Muslims). I am Budhist and Newar(born and raised) and let me tell you Alcohol plays a major role in our religious ceremonies....all the time.
orion Posted on 21-May-03 10:14 AM

One thing to remember is that the Tamu Samaj, as far as I know, is not a fundamentalist religious organization that seeks to promote religious ideals. Most people came to the party to have fun and mingle with the community - which is what most gatherings of this sort are about anyways. Good job everyone . Hope to see more such events from Tamu Samaj,the Sherpa community and GBNC in the future.

Good day.
Sadabichar Posted on 21-May-03 10:14 AM

Thanks to Damodar for his hypocritcal remarks.
Sadabichar Posted on 21-May-03 10:18 AM

Remember this...

Buddhism itself is not a religion, actually it's not even an "ism"... so by following the path of Budhha doesn't make you buddhist either.
Damodar Posted on 21-May-03 11:11 AM

If Buddhism is not a religion then what is it DUh(don't tell me its a cult). Western interpretation and our beliefs are like apples and oranges. This has been our way of life for thousands of years. And you are telling me and our ancestors got it all wrong because some western interpretation of what should be ? Give me a break. Who is the hypocrite now..

Oh yeah if following the path of Buddha does not make you a Buddhist then what does it make you...Oh let me guess a Muslim..nah nah A christian..or maybe a Hindu DUUUUHHH!!!!!!!
Sadabichar Posted on 21-May-03 11:37 AM

So are you following the path of Buddha?
oys_chill Posted on 21-May-03 11:42 AM

I am not gonna follow the path of buddha :)

why? if u follow the path of buddha, you will perhaps never go back to nepal :P get education, earn dollars, get enlightened, participate in discussions, be the protagonist of history, but do not return to your birthplace :) SO I SHALL NOT FOLLOW PATH OF LORD BUDDHA :)

OM MAGNE PADNE OM!

In jest ;)
Oys
Damodar Posted on 21-May-03 11:43 AM

Running out of arguments ?? Hehe...
You are a waste of my time...
Next time make sure you know what you are talkin' 'bout before you start opening your smartass chatterbox....
bhenda2 Posted on 21-May-03 01:21 PM

Its a well know fact that Nepalese and Tibettan budhists eat meat and drink alcohol....thats how it is....I dont understand why some people have problem with that?
Sadabichar Posted on 21-May-03 07:37 PM

Damodar jee, pls locate where the name-calling stands in the following.

ESSENCE OF BUDDHISM

THE THREE JEWELS

1.I go to the Buddha for refuge - Buddhm saranam gacchami
2.I go to the Dhamma for refuge - Dhammam saranam gacchami
3.I go to the Samgha for refuge - Samgham saranam gacchami

THE FOUR NOBLE TRUTHS
1.The Noble Truth of Suffering - Dukka-ariya-sacca
2.The Noble Truth of the Cause of the Suffering - Dukkha-samudaya-ariya-sacca
3.The Noble Truth of the Cessation of Suffering - Dukkha-nirodha-ariya-sacca
4.The Noble Truth of the Path leading to the Cessation of Suffering - Dukkha-nirodha-gamini-patipada-ariya-sacca

THE NOBLE EIGHTFOLD PATHS
1.Right Understanding (Samma ditthi)
2.Right Thought/Attitude (Samma sankappa)
3.Right Speech (Samma vaca)
4.Right Conduct/Action (Samma kammanta)
5.Right Livelihood/Occupation (Samma ajiva)
6.Right Effort( Samma vayama)
7.Right Mindfulness (Samma sati)
8.Right Concentration ( Composure )

THE TEN PRECEPTS

1.I observe the precept not to kill any sentient being - Panatipata veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

2.I observe the precept not to steel the ungiven things - Adinnadana veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

3.I observe the precept not to indulge in unnoble sexual pleasures - Abrahmacariya veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

4.I observe the precept not to tell falsehood - Musavada veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

5.I observe the precept not to be intoxicated withnarcotics, drugs and alcoholic drinks - Surameraya-majja-pamadatthana veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

6.I observe the precept not to take any food after noon - Vikalabhojana veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

7.I observe the precept not to enjoy any dancing, singing or playing of musical instruments - Nacca-gita-vadita-visukadassana veramani-sikkhapadam sasmadiyami

8.I observe the precept not to indulge in the use of flowers, perfumes, or any other cosmetics - Malagandha vilepana dharana mandana vibhusanatthana veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

9.I observe the precept not to use high and grand seats and beds - Uccasayana-mahasayana veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami

10.I observe the precept not to engage in monetary matters and handling of silver and gold - Jatarupa-rajata-pattiggahana veramani-sikkhapadam samadiyami
Prem Charo Posted on 21-May-03 10:14 PM

Sadabichar,

Dharma ko naam maa Jaad, Rakshi khane. Keta keti haru melera nritya garne, Fashion ko show garne jasta aadambari haru lai Bhagawaan Buddha le pani forgive gorna gaaro parcha.

Sangam saranam gachaami : vaneko yastai get together ho? Arko website baata copy pest garera dharma ko paalan hunna. Dharma ko paalan garna Tyag, Anusaasan chaahincha. Dainik nirantartaa chaahinch.
Kati lekhnu khi ????? Bujhnelai yo kuro gahiro cha..nabujhnelai khalto maa pairo cha !!!


Damodar,I agree with you. "If you consider yourself a Buddhist and have ever made it to Swayambhu on Buddha Jayati...there is singing and dancing involved(for your kind information). And another point is that Buddha never forbade us to Drink(do not confuse us with Muslims). I am Budhist and Newar(born and raised) and let me tell you Alcohol plays a major role in our religious ceremonies....all the time."

Bhagawaan Bishnu ko 9th avataar "Buddha" Vakta Charo = Prem Charo

Damodar Posted on 22-May-03 07:11 AM

Listen Kiddo,
This ain't no Buddhism 101 for you to present your point and explanations. Neither is this a Copy and Paste competetion. I see that ye did your homework this time. But its too late already. Are you trying to mimick a monk or something ? You are singing like a parrot... whereas you should be asking yourself what YOUR interpretation of these things are rather than what OTHERS say it should be. If you follow those word for word you will be turning back the human civilization by about a good 2500 yrs. We as humans have come a long ways since Buddha's time to take his word for word literally.. You are still wasting my time....kiddo !!!!

sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 07:21 AM

Problem with you is, you still don't know the Buddhism 101. And without knowing you are showing off as if you knew. You say you are buddhist... and yet you are displaying animosity, hatred, aversion.

Good thing is, you stopped name calling... I can see some progress there in you.
sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 07:28 AM

This might be of interest to you guys.
************************************************************

Meditation Shown to Light Up Brains of Buddhists

LONDON (Reuters) - Buddhists really are happy, calm and serene people --
at least according to their brain scans.

Using new scanning techniques, neuroscientists have discovered that certain areas of the brain light up constantly in Buddhists, and not just when they are meditating,
which indicates positive emotions and good mood.

"We can now hypothesize with some confidence that those apparently happy, calm Buddhist souls one regularly comes across in places such as Dharamsala, India, really are happy," Professor Owen Flanagan, of Duke University in North Carolina, said Wednesday.

Dharamsala is the home base of exiled Tibetan leader the Dalai Lama.

The scanning studies by scientists at the University of Wisconsin at Madison showed activity in the left prefrontal lobes of experienced Buddhist practitioners. The
area is linked to positive emotions, self-control and temperament.

Other research by Paul Ekman, of the University of California San Francisco Medical Center, suggests that meditation and mindfulness can tame the amygdala, an area
of the brain which is the hub of fear memory.

Ekman discovered that experienced Buddhists were less likely to be shocked, flustered,
surprised or as angry as other people.

Flanagan believes that if the findings of the studies can be confirmed they could be of major importance.

"The most reasonable hypothesis is that there is something about conscientious Buddhist
practice that results in the kind of happiness we all seek," Flanagan said in a report in New Scientist magazine.
Damodar Posted on 22-May-03 07:44 AM

Ok,
Aside from name calling and improvement in me...You still haven't answered my accusations. This is 21st century not Buddha's time and and age. Look at yourself first, you are already passing a judgement on me even before you knew me(as a person). Does that make you an ignorant schlemiel. But you have already made up your mind as to what type of person I am just reading some scribbles I have written. But you don't even know under what circumstances and conditions I am making these statements. There is cause and effect to everything in life. There is animosity, hatred, and aversion everywhere, everyday. Depends upon what your perspective on what these things are that makes the difference. Any IDOIT can sing those verses like a parrot but do you understand and imply it to this modern day world ? that is the question that you should be asking .... Man you are such a boring debater...Address the arguments or give it up. Don't be dodging the bullets with Jibberish !!
sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 07:50 AM

I think your animosity is multiplying now.
Damodar Posted on 22-May-03 09:12 AM

You are a waste of time and space...
You have a brain use it...
Or shut up .... Yeah my animosity is multiplying but who is provoking it ?
Neeed I say more...
Do you have anything else to say ?? Besides my animosity and how bad of a buddhist I am ... and oh yeah you Know a lot about Buddhism 101. That is why you know all them verses like a Parrot...but thats all you will be cause you seem to lack the depth to understand and implement those principle you are blabering about.
If you had your way you would probably turn Buddhism into some sort of a Taliban like organization(turn back the clock). But this is 2003 AD not 200 BC.. So git with the program ....
Sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 09:24 AM

Why are you so negative?
chaakman Posted on 22-May-03 12:48 PM

Ayyyy yo manchey haru lai ke Bhako Ho ?
Dubhai lai Haat ma Ayyk Ayyyk Gadda Diyera Hanuman Justo Ladaunu Parla Justo Cha
Kaasso Saathi Haru !
chaakman Posted on 22-May-03 12:49 PM

Tyo Hanuman Katttu Pani Lagaunu Launu parla Hagiii ?
Sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 01:32 PM

After claiming that he is a buddhist.. do you think Damodar is willing to fight with guddas?
kukur85 Posted on 22-May-03 04:20 PM

My congratulation to Tamu samaj. Why do people need to bash them if they are doing someting unique? DO GBNC (controlled by Bahuns and chetris) get offended if they are not represented?
kukur85 Posted on 22-May-03 04:21 PM

Sadhabichar: what do you know about Buddhism. May be you are taught to suppress Buddhism> May be it is a major threat to your cultural survival?
kukur85 Posted on 22-May-03 04:25 PM

Sadhabichar: what do you know about Buddhism? May be you are taught your whole life that Buddha is reincarnation of someone else or Buddhism is a off shoot of your religion? Same old cheap tactics used by all the officials. Is this what you are trying to tell
Sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 06:00 PM

Kukur85 jee:

I am sure you don't know me... but yet you are pouring your all the anger that you might have with GBNC here. Not only that you presumed that I might be one of those bahuns or Chetris who controlled the GBNC.

Therefore, without knowing me, you have scribbled unnecessary words!!

Don't get so much angry, please. As you might know.. you are the first victim of your own anger. Only after that you will do damage to people around you.
ptdynsty Posted on 22-May-03 08:54 PM

Sadabichar:
Stop the nonsense! Obviously you dont know what you are talking about and I am not going to give you reasons because there have been great explanations from others. All I have to say is that nobody was excluded and everyone was welcomed. For varieties of reason many didnt show up. As for philosophical debate, we can go on for long time so this is my response to you, if you consider yourself to be a true Hindu stop hatin. Its against all religions.
Peace,
Prem Charo Posted on 22-May-03 09:00 PM

To all,

Tato na chaaro ke discuss gari raa ko ?? Aru kehi kaam paayenau ki kya ho ??? DAMNNNNNNNN !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Sadabichar Posted on 22-May-03 10:48 PM

ptdynsty jee:

What makes you think that I am a hindu?
Prem Charo Posted on 22-May-03 10:56 PM

Sadabichar.

Muslim ho ki kya ho??
supare_thula Posted on 22-May-03 11:16 PM

kukru85, I care less about the discussion going on about Buddhism but stop making racist comments and bashing out against communities like GBNC that are run by volunteers. GBNC is not run just by bahuns and chhetris. In fact, it has Bohra, Shrestha, Gurung and Sherpa as executive members as well besides bahuns and chhetris. Even if it did not, it does not mean that it is restricted to them. In fact, if I understand it right, if you are willing to volunteer your time in taking lead roles in organizing activities or taking GBNC to the next level, you can as well be a executive member, if you are approved by rest of the Council members.Just read the names of the exec members if you recently received a GBNC directory from them.

There is no doubt that Buddha Jayanti and Lhosar programs were very well organized by Tamu Samaj. Kudos to them. But I hate it when they use success of these events to lash out against GBNC with just negative comments but no constructive suggestions. Perhaps it is true that people generally tend to write only when they have some negative comments and they just don't bother to write when they are content with GBNC activities. Did we see any thread thanking the GBNC team for organizing an excellent Nepali concert with Yam Baral, Nyhoo and the team? Did we thank them when they organized an excellent Baisakhi Saanjh party, although they ran out of the food for some people? Come on people, if you had only bought enough tickets in advance, I do not think there wold be any problem in estimating how many would people attend a particular party. But does even a majority of us do that? When their past parties had the attendance of around 200 people, I am sure they were not prepared to have 350 people. Did you see the varieties in the Entertainment of Baiskahi Saanjh? They had folk songs, modern songs, ethnic dances, dohiri , bingo, and more. I know we had the unpleasant food poisoning incident, but it wasn't anybody's honest fault, it was purely an unfortunate and isolated incident where the restaurant dind't know how to handle chicken choila. Rest of their menu were all hygenic and good, weren't they? And I honestly think the President handled the public relations very well at that moment of crisis. And also, how about thanking them for the several Nepali movies they are bringing to Boston?

I do not even know the President that well, nor I have any strings attached to GBNC but I think we should give proper credit when it is due. From what I know, most of the Council members of GBNC are working full time, many of them including the President are in
a non-immigrant visa and we should appreciate how much they are doing for the community in large in their spare time without getting paid. It would make more sense to
lash out really bad if they were all paid like in some rich non-profit organizations and doing a D grade job.

And last but not the least, Tamu Samaj is a part of the Nepalese community in Greater Boston, I do not think Tamu Samaj and GBNC exclude each other. I believe, Tamu Samaj, like Sherpa Samaj is ( literally,but not officially) one of the several sub-community organizations under the umbrella of GBNC. Shouldn't we have some sense of harmony here, folks?

Supare Thula
Damodar Posted on 23-May-03 06:51 AM

Hey Sadwhatever,
Like static on a short wave radio signal you keep making that crackling sound. But Besides mimicking those verses..do you know what it means ? You can even train animals to do what you want them to do. But the question is do you even have a mind of your own to think and make of what you comprehend the information being received by your brain. Or is it like birds and animals ....you can only mimick and take orders. If your brain could comprehend maybe you will see all the points and arguments I have put forth for you to counter. But the chip on your Brain seems to be from the Apple II era whereas the rest of the world is currently in Pentium 5 era.....
Sadabichar Posted on 23-May-03 07:35 AM

Hey guys... this thread is not meant to clash between Tamu, GBNC and whatever. Surpirsingly people started presuming that I am one of those GBNC, a hindu, a bahun or Chhetri. Subsequently, poured their thoughts here blindly. This is an classic example how people could not stand the criticisms directed towards them.

Dear Damodar jee:

Were you not surprised at yourself for you stole my line from my first posting in this thread and repeated that in your own first posting? Read Carefully. And as for the Buddhism 101, you really need badly the posting I made about THE THREE JEWELS, THE FOUR NOBLE TRUTHS, THE NOBLE EIGHTFOLD PATHS, and THE TEN PRECEPTS, which could revitalize your memory (I know you claimed yourself a Buddhist). I believe whatever you have learnt in your life is not by without reading any books or without teachers. Otherwise you would not have bought any book in your life.

(FYI: Regarding the the materials that I have posted, none of them have any copyrights, and that's a salient feature of Buddhism)
sixx Posted on 23-May-03 08:01 AM

Supare Thula, that was very good! I haven't had a chance to attend any of the events organized by the Tamu Samaajh, but I hear they're pretty good. I have attended a couple of GBNC events, like the Baisakhi saanjh, the Yam Bar/Raju Tul/Nhyu Baj concert, Dashain party and the movies....I am very impressed with what they do. Well, the incident at the last Baishaki Saanjh was, of course, unexpected. But the music was just amazing!! I didn't think it'd be that good (totally blew my mind!!!)- some cute guys up on the stage playing some good music.
I think we should post a list of songs that we, the public, would like them to perform at the next party.
To Damodar & Sadabichar: please stop arguing in the of Buddhism.
Damodar Posted on 23-May-03 08:32 AM

Dude you must have shite for brains,
Dunno which planet you're from. Dunno what line you're talkin 'bout. Then again you keep repeating those tittles like a Scratched Vinyl Record Duhh !!! And yeah thats probaly why you could not argues the first time. You had to go do some research and paste your post.
POsting you made ??? Ha!! ha!! ha!! You talk as if these are your own words(don't forget those are Sidhartha Gautam's words). If you can teach Chimps sign language..any Joshmo can read those YOUR lines as well. BUt can your brain process that info that is the question ?
Are you implying that I have never bought books in my life too ? Ha! ha!! ha!! Or is your info processing chip malfunctioning due to overload of info and is causing you to make baseless acusations ? Maybe you need to re-intall all your programs in your brains so they are up to par for this day and age.
Sadabichar Posted on 23-May-03 09:26 AM

Dear Damodar jee:

Once again you missed what I have written. Go back and read my last posting, the last two sentence (not the one within parentheses). If you cannot understand properly, fresh your english grammer. Specifically note the two negatives used in the second last sentence, and wonder what it really means!!!!

See, again your anger is overpowering you, and you failed to understand even the good things the sentences are trying to tell about you (that you educated yourself by reading so many books and under the guidance of the teachers, and you did buy so many books!!!). Subsequently, more hatred emanated from your mind. This is called "Cause and Effect" phenomenon.
Damodar Posted on 23-May-03 10:05 AM

Duuuh !!
And who's who's provoking this hatred ? You're talkin like Christians," I want you to become a Christian cause i want you to goto Heaven with me." Blindsiding the fact that the person is not interested(and your persistance is going to fuel that hatred). I neither need a teach nor a book dictating my life. I know who I am, and where I stand on all these issues you're talkin' about. I am in the drivers seat of my life and can take myself to whatever direction I want instead of limiting my abilities to some rule or book. Yeah go ahead correct my gramatical mistakes.. cause thats all you're good for. Like an obedient servant live and die by those rules & books.
Sadabichar Posted on 23-May-03 12:19 PM

All i wanted to tell you is, read carefully, take time to fully understand, and then only make the comments.

But you could not do so, because you are angry inside. Now you are already so confused that even the Buddha's teachings appears to you as Christianity's teaching.
Damodar Posted on 23-May-03 01:03 PM

Don't have time to read other people's garbage.
I feel sorry for you if you cannot differentiate between Sarcasm and hatred. The same way you need to be taught(by a teacher or a book) in everything you do in your life. Which in turn limits you in every direction of your life. Whereas I do not limit myself to any particular religion, book or rule. I agree with the Darwinian theory. Changes in Life happens all the time but can you adapt to those changes.. that is the question ? You my fren want to dwell in books and laws written 1000's of yrs ago. Whereas I believe in going with the flow(adapt and adopt) and intake only what I see fit for my lifestyle.
jules Posted on 23-May-03 03:33 PM

Man!!
Dont gimme wrong.
I love reading postings here in Sajha. But wattz with u people?
Every fReaking topic here is out of line.
Why can we love one another?
gEt the FAwwk over it!! Who gives a shit about you bahauns, gurung, magar, Newar or whatever shit you might be. dAmn!!!
NO one is perfect nor will ever be.
Enough of this bull-shit!









Sadabichar Posted on 23-May-03 07:53 PM

But Damodar is Perfect !!!!

Talking about Darwinian Theory and Human Histroy, which came into picture in mid-1800, you are totally oblivious about the fact that Budhha throughly analyzed the law of Impermanence more than 2 centuries.
Prem Charo Posted on 24-May-03 09:52 PM

Ke ko halla khalla gari raa ?? Buddha ko Jayanti lai liyara ghagadaa garne ?? Buddha le sikaayeko path yahi ho?

Buddham Saranam Gachhaami
Sadabichar Posted on 24-May-03 11:34 PM

Buddham Saranam Gachhaami
Dhammam Saranam Gachhaami
Sanggam Saranam Gachhaami
Prem Charo Posted on 24-May-03 11:49 PM

Sadabichar,

I think people are getting tired of your preaching. Stop it man !!! Don't screw your image anymore !!

Preching sunda sunda dikka charo = Prem Charo :(
Sadabichar Posted on 25-May-03 10:32 AM

Dhamma does not mean Buddhist Dhamma, or Hindu Dhamma, Chritian or Muslim or Jain or Parsi Dhamma. Dhamma is Dhamma. And also Buddha is Buddha. Not just one person has become a Buddha. Anyone who gets fully enlightened is a Buddha.

Enlightenment is the realization of truth at the ultimate level by direct experience. When someone becomes fully enlightened, that person does not establish a particular sect or a particular religion. He just explains the truth that he has realized himslef, the truth that can be realized by one and all, the truth which liberates one ffrom all the misery.

  • There can be no cut and dried formula for everybody. People are unique. So there
    should be flexibility.
  • Mindfulness is part of our nature. It can be developed naturally with ease.
  • Please don't condemn greed, pride, anger, and so on. You can learn quite a lot from
    them. You cannot grow up unless you know about them very well.
  • You know that if you are not living for something meaningful you life is meaningless.
  • Nobody and no place is perfect.
  • Be kind to people but don't try to please them. Don't be an angel. It is hard
    enough to be a decent human being. Being too good might mean ending up being
    too bitter.
  • Sadabichar Posted on 03-Jun-03 06:52 PM




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