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| Prem Charo |
Posted
on 23-May-03 07:58 PM
Sathiharu,
Yo Sajha maa dheri keti haru ko photo ta dekhiyo. Tara ko ko prem jaal maa fasisakeka ra ko ko prem garna chaahane hun tyo pani taha paaune paaye po !!
Yaha sabai umer kaa lakka jawan haru chan ni. Nepal maa buwa muma keta khojdai chan hola. Sabai keti haru ko baau aama haru lai pani Sajha maa nai gayera keta choose garne advice dedaa pani ta raamrai huncha ni hoina ra ?? Re kya lasta maa.
Aafno bichar pokhaun ta sathiharu !!
Sabai kt kaa baau aama ko valo chaahane charo=Prem charo :)
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| nepalisoul |
Posted
on 23-May-03 09:25 PM
kaha bata graduate gareko? how much do you make? that is number one step in finding love. most nepali girls here i know are tough and support themselves.nepalli girls have high standards and are hard to get. so you want them, you gotta have something to show. romance is dead. only practical sense nowadays.sorry to shatter your dream ke kya ajja last ma....
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| thapap |
Posted
on 23-May-03 10:53 PM
nepalisoul.....
somehow it seems that you have lost the touch of your name.
u mean that "nepali" girl will go for "money". I think u r still in Nepal (where your family will look for a guy with financial status) and have not changed.
in your terms:
"Graduated from where" ======> intelligence or money
"how much you make" ======> definitely money
so in your theory
"being practical" ======> MONEY
so "nepali girl" lOOk for =====> MONEY only
So how come "self supporting independent women" =lOOk===> MONEY
you are contradicting yourself.
NO self supporting independant women will look for money(ONLY).
ROMANCE IS NEVER DEAD and NEVER HAS been... .
I am sure lot of self supporting females in sajha board will support that theory. I am sure they will tell you as well that they just donot fall for "MONEY"
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LOOKS does matter.
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 24-May-03 08:49 PM
i donno bout anything else.. but i do know that.. CASTE comes in the top of the list
in nepal before money n other things u have mention up there..
yb
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 24-May-03 08:51 PM
n hahaha PP ur idea.. we should try that hehe.. i heard aajakal pashupati.comn nepal ma chalcha bhane.. why not sajha.com to find a good match for their kids..
.. i ma tell mah parents to surf sajha atleast once a day.. they might find their buhari here ahahahahahha
yb
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| Prem Charo |
Posted
on 24-May-03 09:58 PM
Guys,
I don't think girls are always after money or education, but how the guy's heart is. What do you think ???
Prem Charo :)
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| OneGirl_123 |
Posted
on 25-May-03 11:37 AM
Nepalisoul....when u say nepali girls have high standards.... u mean all we care about it money....not all nepali girls are like that....yeh there are some....but its not only nepali, women in general are like that!"Romance is dead"...thats NOT true at all!
Prem charo.....some girls are all about money and some aren't.....that depends on who u find and wat u look for!....and agree with u....important thing is how the guy really is, and people may deny that they dont care about looks, and some may not, but looks counts somewhat as well! ;)
Just my opinion!
:)
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 25-May-03 11:45 AM
Onegirl, your opinion is so stupid! Juvenile!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| lonely |
Posted
on 25-May-03 12:16 PM
bhedo, ho ra bhanya?? I thought it was ok...not every girl go for money ni haina ra???
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| BMW |
Posted
on 25-May-03 07:56 PM
It's different for everyone. I guess you sort of do have to be practical when it comes to long-term relationships like marriages, i am sure if you're educated , it's only logical you wouldn't want to end up with some bum. But then again, there are some couples out there very happy and getting by just barely. But of course there are lots of girls that want rich men, but not all.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 25-May-03 08:05 PM
What money?????????
There is nothing material that a man can give me that I can't earn, acquire or get for myself! I would not be with anybody out of need, but out of choice.... free will!
I am sure there are many who think like I do.
In peace.
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| uh_oh |
Posted
on 25-May-03 09:11 PM
ummm......what wud matter the most....his personality & intellectual of course.....and about money, anybody can earn money.....no biggy...caste problems don't exist anymore...looks ya....does matter...aru i dunno....
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| Bhunte |
Posted
on 25-May-03 09:21 PM
Sitara ji,
Your opinion is very high spirited one, but I wonder what those choices might be!
bhunte
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| Bhunte |
Posted
on 25-May-03 09:50 PM
Hi all,
Let's think other way. What if a guy possess all the 'battisai lakchhen' characters, but is broke and he has no earning potential at all. Do you think any modern gal would still go after that guy? It is extremely ideological to view that money is nothing, while sustained loving relationships between a husband and wife evenually gravitates in family wealth. In this context the argument presented by thapap in response to nepalisoul's posting sounds more logical. Moreoverm, one's ideology depreciates once he or she is caught up with ageing--- like option expiration... My point is not to encourage any gal to be a male dependent, but in the western society both should earn well for a reasonable living. The same will be true for Nepal in future.
bhunte
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| le chef du nuit |
Posted
on 26-May-03 12:52 AM
hold it right there
remember those little fairy tales?
if the prince hadnt been a prince, would cindrella have fallen for him? would she have even gone to his ball?
we look at these stories w/approval and not expect some women to (maybe unconciously, maybe deliberately) go for the money?
and besides, at least for the nepali ppl in the US, a good financial status usually indicates maturity and responsibility, and while these things may not be a factor for a one-nighter, they sure are if your considering a relationship. so maybe this helps some girls nip some potentially bad relationships before they begin.
just a thought
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| ruck |
Posted
on 26-May-03 06:20 AM
I agree with Sitara Dijju....
le chef du nuit ,
Remember, you've mention fairy tales here....your'e talking about Nepali people in the US.. I ask you, do you know all of them to speak on their behalf???
Do you think all the girls who're married happily have wealthy husbands?? Maybe you'd consider checking your data again....
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| bhedo |
Posted
on 26-May-03 07:36 AM
Le chef de los newts makes a good point here with his lil fairytale analogy, if I can call it that. These fairytales are like gateways to your unconscious or your id, whatever you call it in psychology. In fairytales, even if a sexy princess falls in love with a frog, the frog will eventually turn into a handsome princess, and they'll live happily ever. However, I'm not saying that there aren't fairytales that are tragic. For that I'd point to what happened to King Midas, due to excessive greed.
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| Logical Sense |
Posted
on 26-May-03 08:33 AM
Pyasa Kya Karna Hai, Tere Liya Jina Hai;
Lekin Jine Ke Liya To Paisa Chahiye!!!!
Balance, my dear friends balance!!!!!!!
You would not marry a lazy guy/gal who will eat up your hard earn money would you, just because he loves you?
Even mother who has most tolerance for you has a 'limit' for a Kukarmi chora/chori.
After the initial lust/love is over, it DOES matter that you earn a 'descent' living and stay in a healthy life.
But, many people have problem understanding this balance and then distort the fact about money and love.
Just as practical examples, stay home 3 years without earning a penny (just stop reading this and imagine and come back to read it). You will find first one to leave you would be your friends, then your distant relatives, then your immediate relatives, then your wife and kids, then your father, lastly your mother will go to Devghat.
It is expected that you will earn money and feed the family. It is natural, and it is duty, so don't tell that money does not matter. It is part of life just like love is part of life. Some people show that it is most important for them others don't. But, deep down it always 'MATTERS'. We can't live our life as Adam and Eve. We need to feed our kids, bring flowers to our wife, feed descent food, stay in good neighborhood. Give good education to our kids. Buy descent clothers to our family. Take care of our Budhi ama ba. All these cost money and good chunk of money.
- iti
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 26-May-03 10:26 AM
Bhunte ji:
Was not a spirited reply hajur.... read what is NOT written. I would look for compatibility, intellectual/mental stimulation, openmindedness, respect, diligence and faith (in oneself and others)! Is that too much to ask? ;)
Logical Sense ji:
Very pragmatic and logical.
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| khimu |
Posted
on 26-May-03 10:35 AM
Q:- prem garne re!
A:- garne ni
aba ajkal ko jamana ma ta jat sat haina ki, jo pani padhe lekheko khojchhan,
kalo hos ya goro chal chha sabai PHD hunu parchha
ma ta Villian (Nikki) sanga prem garne hai ani Ex chahi "Hiden Angle(Neha)
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| bhunte |
Posted
on 26-May-03 12:12 PM
Sitara ji,
Tathastu!..... the listings are pretty fair, and shouldn't be too much for any guy who understands a real gal in real life.
bhunte
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| prem Charo |
Posted
on 08-Jun-03 08:14 PM
Sitara,
You sound like more sprititual than materialistic." I would look for compatibility, intellectual/mental stimulation, openmindedness, respect, diligence and faith" I totally agree with you.
By the way, Do you practice Yoga or meditation ??
Prem Charo :)
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