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   my answer to seventeen years old gurls q 29-May-03 khimu
     The above is not your own work.. Wha 29-May-03 Yadav
       Khimu, Honest question: didn't you fi 29-May-03 Biswo
         Comeon Guys! give him some credit! Even 29-May-03 Gurl_Interrupted
           Khimuji, timi 'guru of sex' ho ki kya 29-May-03 Bhunte
             yo Biswo & yadap theres nothing, that we 29-May-03 khimu
               >And i didn,t say those are mine but i d 29-May-03 Biswo
                 Khimu postings are most offensive. Among 02-Jun-03 rook


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khimu Posted on 29-May-03 05:36 PM

my answer to seventeen years old gurls question?
theres not much to having sex.
Being responsible about your sexuality is important part of having sex.
First,i caution girls to not have sex too early. There are several resons.

1:-Sex causes pragnancy. If you have sex, you're taking a huge risk of alterning the
course of your life forever and limiting most of your choices.They must find jobso they can be economically stable enough to marry and have children. Quality of life insists we wait.

2:- There are over two hundred sexually transmitted diseasses (STDs) some of which can kill you, otheres can cause you to become sterile and never be abble to have children.
3:- The more partners a women has the higher her risk of cervical cancer,especially if she started early.

4:- When a female has sexual intercourse, there is actually a bonding hormone that is reased. Sometimes a girl gets attached to someone who isn't that good for her, but because she had sex with him, she wants to stay with him.She's bonded, stuck, unable to walk away from him, even when she knows he's a bad for her. The reason for this hormone is that you might become pregnant and if that happens, you him to help care for you and protect you.

5:- It takes wisdom and self-determination to choose a sex partner wisely.
You want someone who cares, who respects you, and who will be there for you, don't you?

6:- Guys gossip about who they have sex with and if you start too young and/or haing mant partner, you get labeled easy, cheap and a whore, even though you might be the sweetest girl on the planet. A girl may think she's papular but the reality is guys want to have sex and aren't usually that fussy about who it's with.

7:-More of a caution than a reason: I hear from many girls who think thet they need to give a guy sex to win him or keep him as a BF. Why would you want a guy who dosen't really care about the real you? And if he care's about you and respects you, he'll not push it. A lot of guys just want to "score" so they can tell their friends they've had sex and are no longer a virgine. Thats a pritty stupid reason to risk pregnancy and disease.



just asking hai
would you have sex with your partner if you are not in the mood, just to please them?

peace of mind

khimu
Yadav Posted on 29-May-03 05:44 PM

The above is not your own work..

What makes me say that?
- All of the above lines end with a period or a question mark, which generally don't appear in the sentences that are yours!

;)
Biswo Posted on 29-May-03 05:47 PM

Khimu,

Honest question: didn't you find any better topic to post? How long should we be obsessed with this 'sex' thing? It is even more pathetic if you went around , searched the net, and posted this thing here as your own. I mean , come on, you gotta find some better thing in web.
Gurl_Interrupted Posted on 29-May-03 06:04 PM

Comeon Guys! give him some credit! Even though we are aware of all the facts he has posted regardless of who wrote it, it's always good to get reminded!
I would say the same thing to my youngsters (if any of you younger sistas r reading this)...think least 50 times before you lose ur virginity!...is it worth anything? Weigh ur values & life on a long term basis before making a decision (think 'bout it ahead of time so that when u r in a tempting situation you will be able to say "NO" and be prepared ahead of time)! Or else you might have to live ur whole life in guilt?

*sorry to anyone who might get offended reading this post!
Bhunte Posted on 29-May-03 06:11 PM

Khimuji,

timi 'guru of sex' ho ki kya ho.....nice try..eheheheh

peace
khimu Posted on 29-May-03 07:22 PM

yo Biswo & yadap theres nothing, that we can say our own.
what we learn thats not our own we learn from others.
Ya! i do search many thing in internet too.
And i didn,t say those are mine but i do talk with many girls and i like talking with new people, i don,t hesitate to ask any kind of question if go to night cafe theres so many hot sexy ugly girl so take a cup of coffee and and start talking .
And sometimes you gotta be very be caarefull talking with strange guurl damn they melt like candle.
They will ask you if you do have a car.


Thanks G-I
Yes we need to remind our mind time to time

peace of mind

khimu
Biswo Posted on 29-May-03 10:39 PM

>And i didn,t say those are mine but i do talk with many girls and

Khimu,

Let's be honest here, ok. When you write it in your name, and you don't say it is not your explicitly, it means you are implying it is yours.

And if you talk with so many girls as you are claiming, why not try writing something decent on your own?
rook Posted on 02-Jun-03 02:41 PM

Khimu postings are most offensive. Among his ugly postings are the latest:

Hi, I'm Michelle.
Aral Sex with Banana Learn to spell man.
Now I'm Ok. Here he states, "if a girl says no, that means 'yes' "
When are going to learn that "no" means "no".
When are you going to learn that keeping your mouth shut and your zipper zipped is the best policy.

I am not the only one opposed to Khimu's postings which are often plagiarized. Bishwo wrote to Khimu on May29 "...didn't you find any better topic to post? How long should we be obsessed with this 'sex' thing? It is even more pathetic if you went around, searched the net, and posted this thing here as your own. I mean , come on, you gotta find some better thing in web." Khimu had no response.

Today he has the nerve to tell me that his postings are not offensive. Begs San not to ban him so he can continue with his smut.
Ok, you can call me a prude, you can say I am too critical, and yes, I have the option of not coming to the site. San's stated objective is to unite the community as "we take a little break from the monotony once in a while to indulge in gupp-supp to tickle our 'intellect', 'to talk about Nepal and the Nepalese', 'and to remind (us of) the fact that we are Nepalese no matter where we are and what we do."

Can someone please tell me how these postings, or any other that does not foster the stated objectives, can be allowed to tear down the "community" and the morale of the people who want to participate in this forum.

If San won't act then you are going to lose the people who come here for a little "gupp-supp," "intellect", and to remind us that "we are all Nepalese". You will be left with a dumbed down page.