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| ss |
Posted
on 31-May-03 01:25 AM
I have a little confusion
I know this guy from my class who spent pretty much the whole of last year flirting with me. He is a nice guy and quite good looking too, not to mention his popularity among all the women.. but due to his reputation of being a lady's man, I decided to back off.. (although it was extremely tempting and difficult). This year I have realised that he's started to back off as well, and I kind of miss him not giving me attention, in fact he purposedly tries to impress other women when I'm around him...and tries to be very friendly and nice to them.
Does this mean that he actually liked me and is now trying to make me jealous?? Is there a possibility that I like him as well, since I miss not getting attention from him. I know this is a very whimpy topic to discuss about in a site like this and by all means please ignore this posting if u dnt like discussing about these things.. I'm just a little confused and want to know what pple's opinions are when it comes to these things.
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| Bhunte |
Posted
on 31-May-03 02:40 AM
SS,
Did you ever try to understand him? If not, then that is the the biggest problem with you. Probably he loves you so much than anything else in this universe. But, you are too possessive which most guys don't like. Try to build a trust with him, and understand his likes and dislikes. If things do not move smoothly, it is better to stop right there rather face all kinds of turmoils in future...Why are u so much worried? There are plenty of deligent and honest people even in this Sajha...
bhunte
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| qallu |
Posted
on 31-May-03 06:11 AM
Love? Who said anything about love! And "a site like this" is perfect to talk about stuff like this. Now, about the guy, if you like the guy enough to miss his attention ask, him out for coffee. If will give you some one on one time with him and you can figure out whether you have anything in common.
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| Longwood Ave |
Posted
on 31-May-03 09:00 AM
Senioretta SS:
A typical saga of the "hunter" and the "hunted."
If I remember straight and it comes right out of a Bruce Springstein song: it is always more advantageous, to say the least, to be the "hunted" rather than the "hunter" in these complex social events.
Thus, try and figure out in what category you fall first then make the next decisive move.
Good luck!!!!
from Longwood Ave.
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| ss |
Posted
on 01-Jun-03 01:45 AM
thanks very much for all ur thoughts... I wish it was a lot more easier to understand guys!!!! I dn't know why they linger so much when it comes to these things and dn't express their feelings/ thoughts fully.. Oh well, never mind... hve any of you guys had similar experiences in the past??
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| Bhunte |
Posted
on 01-Jun-03 02:12 AM
ss,
guys are usually naive. if not, you probably need your bf's heart surgery soon...eheheheh
bhunte
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| le chef du nuit |
Posted
on 01-Jun-03 03:09 AM
guys are simple creatures
like some comedian said.. ask a caveman what he wants, he says "woman". ask him if he wants anything else, "two woman"
basically all guys are testesterone-fuelled walking hard-ons
or maybe its just me :)
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