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| saroj | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 07:27 AM
I have heard from unconfirmed sources that recently there was a huge rift between members of different ethnic groups in the ANA. Can someone with inside information care to share with the general public what is going on?????????????? |
| Nattu | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 07:42 AM
Saroj Ji, It wasn't actually related to any ethinic groups but the there were some disagreements and internal dispute ( HAANAA HAAN ) between the executive members. Some of the executive members weren't too happy about the whole situation and resigned. |
| acharya | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 08:06 AM
Nahaan bhanda bhandai ...Haani halechha! |
| Join Saab | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 08:22 AM
Kahan Hanecha? Thaunmai hanecha, ki aali tala mathi hanecha? |
| acharya | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 08:56 AM
Tala maathi kina hanthyo ni....thaumai bajai.diyechha! |
| joie de vivre | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 08:58 AM
1. as sad as it sounds, why am I not surprised? 2. am glad we decided to skip the convention after all! |
| Poonte | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 09:01 AM
I thought the haana haan was about something other than the ethnic rift...in either case, it's truly sad :( Ho, ho...jasle hanna shuru garya ho...teslai chai udho-munto paarera rabaaer band le pyat pyat gardai thau mai hanna parni! |
| acharya | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 09:10 AM
Yesto sano tino kura ma ekai choti haani halnu hudaina bhanera maile katti samjhaye...tara aajkal ka daju bhai haru..bhaneko ke manthe ra....dherai pachhi hanna paako thiyo hola...haandechha!! |
| sks | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 09:25 AM
Joie, I think they're talking about a different convention. |
| Horizon | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 09:55 AM
Anything that may / may not have happened among ANA Executives has no impact on 2003 Denver Convention. Rocky Mountain Friends of Nepal ( RMFN ) is the organizer and everything is as planned. So, JDV Get you ass out here as planned, will ya ? :))))))))))) |
| ashu | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 10:19 AM
This is NOT directly related, but: I have often thought why Nepali partnership businesses in Kathmandu (or more appropriately, the ones my colleagues and I have seen so far ) -- with rare exceptions -- fail . . . often leading to bitter jhagada, emotional tensions, destruction of investments and friendships and, well, festering bad blood. I mean, one day, beaming with Binaca smiles, these people approach you like they are the best of business partners, and that everything is great. Then on another fine day, you run into one of them in some restaurant, and all you hear is his rantings against his now-former business partners, telling you how khattam they were and are, and on and on. Just how does this happen? How do formerly "good partnerships" end up being "worse" and full of jhagada? My own hypothesis is this: In most partnerships or team-work-based business or community or whatever, there is often ONLY one person who -- because of his personality or bad genetics or habits or whatever -- causes more damage to the whole team than any other person. I call this person "the tipping point person", and I say that this person needs to be watched very, very carefully in any group-setting. Sure, in a partnership or in a community, tensions can always be there -- but often under control and can be diffused. But when this "tipping point person" has his way, often because of some imagined/perceived slights or grievances for which he wants justice, he ends up dramatically ESCALATING the tensions within the group, and before you know it, the whole partnerships, the whole friendships, the whole businesses, the whole communities are on fire. Soon, logic goes out of the window. Reasoning won't work, and good manners are hard to come by. In other words, this "tipping point person's" QUIET ability to destroy, to create jhagada and to make enemies out of friends is simply amazing. I don't know the genesis of this ANA jhagada, if indeed there is a jhagada. But I wouldn't be surprised if -- assumig there is a jahgada -- someone there can actually be identified as this kind of a "tipping point person", the one who has escalated tensions among colleagues, within the group and basically put the whole organization on fire, so to speak. On a personal note, in 2001, after reading a book called "The Tipping Point" by Malcolm Gladwell, I to came to understand MORE clearly how a certain "tipping point person" -- instead of bringing friends together to solve problems and to work through their differences -- destroyed friendships, turned friends against friends and created bad blood in 1998. Wiser now, these days, in any group I am a part of, I make sure that we have an organizational structures in place -- often informal, humorous structures -- that can immediately DIFFUSE the tensions (that can be) escalated by just such a tipping-point person. oohi "fascinatated by the whole concept of tipping point" ashu ktm,nepal |
| joie de vivre | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 11:04 AM
sks: thanks for pointing that out. btw, loved your response on another thread :) horizon: truth be told, I've got cold feet and this thread sure doesn't help. don't be surprised if I don't show up. |
| Suna | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 11:30 AM
Wear some socks joie! :) |
| joie de vivre | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 11:32 AM
you stalking sks and myself, suna? forget about socks, do I need a protection order? :) |
| Suna | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 11:33 AM
dunno about you...but I sure am stalking sks! |
| NK | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 11:37 AM
Horizon, just to be on the safe side, you'd better go out and buy that Tipping Pointy thing. You wanna identify a problem, zoom in and grab and discard it. right Ashu? |
| SITARA | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 12:09 PM
Nk, *protection* from tippy pointy thingies?... oooooooh!!!!!!! |
| acharya | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 12:13 PM
back from your class, sitara..? can't live with or without it..eh? :) |
| SITARA | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 12:20 PM
hehe! Acharya ji.... tell me about it...but the day is over! Takes all my will power not to access chat! ;) |
| Nattu | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 12:41 PM
Guys and Gals, Please FOCUS. The topic of the thread is " Ethnic Rift In ANA?". Jun thread ma pani FLIRT gari haalnu parney ?? Please don't try to destroy the essance of the topic. EK DUI SABDA topic ko Baarey Kehi Lekhdai maa kehi ta Bigradainai nai !! Ati ta Na Garnu ni hou !! Kastaa PAATTEKKAA maanchey haru ;-) |
| paramendra | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 12:44 PM
I don't see no more ethnic strife, at least along this thread............. :-) What with NK and Sitara parsing words........... |
| acharya | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 01:12 PM
Ye sachhi, tyo hanne manchhe lai kaarwaahi bhayechha ki nai? |
| Join Saab | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 04:07 PM
Ke hunthyo ......... bhayenacha, Raja le ultai tyasailai Mantri banayecha!!! Hehehehe |
| bhenda2 | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 06:10 PM
khoi mailey ta kehi kuro bujhya hoina....kasley kaslaiey ke hanya ho kunni? |
| Join Saab | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 07:36 PM
Kasto kura nabujheko Bheda2 dai!! Surya Bahadur Thapa (Chettri ko chhoro) le Madhav Kumar Nepal (Bahun ko Chhoro) lai chirki hanyo re ke!! (Acharya Dai, lau maile ta bhandiyen!!) |
| acharya | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 07:39 PM
Chirki matra hanya bhaye ta ke thiyo ra... |
| GP | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 09:09 PM
Requires Unicode Character Set based Fonts to read the following texts. ठोकेछ, कसले कसलाई? गोर्खाली का छोराहरु बुद्दि लाई भन्दा बललाई जोड दिन्छन्। आशुले भने जस्तै Tipping point person खोजेर त्यसलाई दनक दिए हुन्छ । अरु कती लेखौं । तपाईको ज्ञा. पो. Use GyaNeX Uniqware® to write Nepali in Unicode Character Set based Nepali fonts. |
| Yatree | Posted
on 05-Jun-03 11:57 PM
GP alias ex-HahooGuru, `R &#$%^&* &*()^%$#<> `R &#$%^&* &*()^%$#<> `R &#$%^&* &*()^%$#<> :) :} :]] |
| le chef du nuit | Posted
on 06-Jun-03 02:44 AM
budapaka ko ganthan yeso sunu bhanera chireko, maile ta yaha ko tipping point person patta lagayen jasto lagyo. maaf garibaksyos, hooguruji, tara yo group ko tipper hajur hunu hudo rahecha. tapai ko post ko agadi official warning, pachadi advertisement. tapai jaba aafno roop prakat garnu huncha, kati manche ta padhnai nasakera 'hetteri" bhanchan. ani hernus, tapaile kehi lekhnasaath tapai ko weakness point out garne kata bata ho kata baata tuplukka aiipugchan. aaja mero paali parecha. lau, kati majja ko thread thiyo, maile ta aafai lai moodoff hune kura lekhechu. sabai tapaile garda. hetteri guruji, k garya yesto? oohi "yet another tipping point person" le chef |
| bhenda2 | Posted
on 06-Jun-03 08:24 AM
Join Sab, mialey ta ajjai kehi bujhya bhey ta key.....sattey... |
| vivashme | Posted
on 11-Jun-03 11:45 AM
Just received a message on my mailbox about ANA which also seems to be posted at this location: - http://groups.yahoo.com/group/neccdiscussion/ Since it was publicly available and came to my mailbox, i decided to share it with you. This particular message does not provide any indication of "Ethnic Rift" in ANA. May be there is something else going on. - ViVashMe |