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| San |
Posted
on 06-Jun-03 09:04 PM
I haven't had the chance to read everything that's going on but I do know that some kind of line needs to be drawn now and here.
Few days ago I posted an acceptable use policy in the About Sajha page which is as follows:
"Another unacceptable use is when someone decides to use sajha.com to fulfill his/her personal propaganda by CONTINUOUSLY posting the SAME or SIMILAR content in almost every other thread. This kind of behaviour has its toll on visitors to sajha.com since it begins to alienate visitors who do not want to see the same thing over and over and over again. Hence in order to retain the freshness and vigor of the site, such personal propaganda will be considered for blocking. This includes incessant voicing of personal discontent toward certain user or users. Such personal matters need to be resolved through personal communications such as e-mail or telephone."
On review of the situation between Sitara and Bhedo, it is high time this is resolved thru personal communication instead of making it a public mud slijnging contest.
With this in mind, I strongly urge both to please NOT use sajha to indulge in personal animosity or continued disagreements.
Please understand that I am not blaming or accusing anyone of doing anything wrong or right. The fact of the matter is that I have not been following this development. But what matters at this point is that this is NOT allowed to continue here on sajha.
As in any personal disagreements, personal egos are at stake and that's a very big deal for anyone. Although I understand this fact very well and empathize with both that there must have been some supposedly VALID REASON(s) behind this episose, all of sajha need NOT be dragged into this.
I will not be monitoring posts every minute or every hour. But if this kind of posting continues they will be deleted at sight.
Best Regards and have a great weekend!
San
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| czar |
Posted
on 06-Jun-03 09:58 PM
Examine what Bhedo has directed towards Sitara:
- "I think Khimu is another virgin. Now our Sajha coquette Sitara, I would say, has been plucked. I pray to Shiva she doesn't act in real life the way she acts here, because it's truly, TRULY, disgusting. She went to St. Mary's after all, and them sisters, after all, musta taught her "missionary" style.
She doesn't believe in "organized" religions, she says, which is an indirect way of saying she isn't proud to be a Hindu. All this Zennist crap is just a way of cloaking her Hindu origin. We don't need Hindus like her. Good riddance."
- "Now you really sound like someone jagged you in your wazoo with a red hot poker"
Just going by the last sentence, I am sure you, as a savvy web master, must be aware of the level of animosity expressed. A man of your knowledge and experience will agree that such language would have a user banned immediately from any self-respecting web site. Clearly, such statements would qualify as expressions of extreme violence towards women. And surely, such would warrant immediate expulsion.
To delcare a female a 'coquette' is slander. His other statements are self explanatory. Given Bhedo's misogynistic attitude, its more than evident that this user is hostile to most women and most other users too, condescending at best. You have been generous to all who come here and I truly laud your efforts. However, as you've done so, I urge that you examine the matter in greater depth than you have done so far.
Bhedo has expressed nothing but hatred and disrespect towards women and other users in general, and towards Sitara in particular. His outbursts are more often than not laced with condescension and nastiness. Does such a user deserve to be tolerated ?
In the interest of justice, I think the time has come to lay down the law: send a message that hatred will not be tolerated. That civil discourse and behaviour are valued. Eject Bhedo from this site.
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| jules |
Posted
on 06-Jun-03 10:14 PM
Czar,
Why did you paste this info here again. Didn't you get it!!!! hello!!!
WTF.
Dude, leave it!!!!
Gezzz.....Read above what sAn has written.
Jules
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| GP |
Posted
on 06-Jun-03 10:42 PM
CZAR knows how to cut cheeze to suit his demands.
Before I get full accounts -proceedings- of what happened in Chat room, I am not in position to accuse who was wrong or right (we need other witnesses, if complete proceedings are not reproducible either because of foull language or because of loss of data). Both the sides have very good skills to punch those who disagree with them. This is not first time peoples ran behind names or faces.
If you are going to accuse Bhedo as wrong just because Sitara is a girl/woman, what happened to motto "today female are as equal as male counter part", probably, it weakens " male and female are each others' equal partner". When you seek an excuse or exploit or ask for special favor just because you are female, then, it will be difficult for you to line up in the same rank as male, later.
Do not seek special favor even in extreme situation, then, only you can compete to
line "hey, females are not less than males". Defend yourself with proof and don't particiapte in the activities that also hurt you when you are positioned at the same chair.
The best method to solve this problem would be either to change your avatar or keep silence from this topic. Neglect talking to the particular male/female who is not digestible to you. Let him/her shout alone, one day s/he will stop. Biggest mistake of Ram in Ramayan was his attempt to please everyone, at the expense of his own wife.
GP
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| cardinal |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 01:44 PM
I think this jules and GP guy are the same character, or are two brainwashed alteregos of bhedo. Otherwise how can it be that they both nod their heads into ye yes on every remarrk for bhedo? OR are u two just another breed of bhedos (as your names suggests).
And please don't bob your heads so much for bhedo, to me it looks like you both are giving a blowjob to that other dude!
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| cardinal |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 01:54 PM
And MR San,
I would like to just thank you for letting this site go down to be like those dark alleys where the viliest of testosterone driven dickheads spew out their misogynist, anti-social, and downright disgusting behavior. IF you have not seen it till now then open the home page of sajha any given day and you will see almost every posting reeking with filth that some juvenile thinks is some sort of rauchy news or an ego boost.
And Sitara, I am sorry to see that you have not been treated the way you deserve to be. I wish some of us had the eyes to see the brilliance of the creativity and poetry you brought to this site along with all the witty and cheerful remarks that made my day so many times.
Adieu.
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| SITARA1 |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 02:29 PM
hey Cardinal, I dunno who u r, but u make sense..Lide=Gp,dhide=jules and bhedo r all the same..
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| cardinal |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 02:46 PM
Hi san,
I am sorry if my remark sounded too personal. I was just saddened by the state of the site after visiting it after many months.
wellwiser,
c.
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| jules |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 02:49 PM
Okay&&.enough of this bull-shit!! No! Were not the same.
Im Jules as you can see with your ugly eyes, if not than go get yourself a glasses.
How dare you talk to me like that? Have you given your mother/sister a blow-job? You
Mother-fawker. Go fawk yourself. Dont fawk with me, cuz I can fawk you up real good.
I aint supporting none of you fawkers.
donno who u r, but you makes sence what the fawk is that? You dont have to know each and every individual who comes to this site, do you? You like to be in control don't you?
Overall you deserve all the things being said here.
You dont own this site. Dont get too bossy la? Take your ugly high expectation a$$ outta herree.
Get real would you?
Shittt!!!
Jules
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| jules |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 02:50 PM
Oh Yeah! take your sorry ass else where.
Think twice before you Open your Freaking mouth next time.
Jules
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 02:56 PM
hehehe jules marr risayo
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 02:56 PM
jules ko nak ko tuppo ma hudo rahecha hau rish ta..
darr lagyo bap re bap..
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| le chef du nuit |
Posted
on 07-Jun-03 09:45 PM
i love my sajha
those who agree, say yea
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| cardinal |
Posted
on 08-Jun-03 05:18 PM
see you are bobbing your head again. Hehhehhe!
or should that second comment by jules have been in GP's name? Login name change garna birsiyo ho? ki mistake bhayo babu ko?
You made even more fun of yourself by that dude!
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