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Is sajha.com ADDICTIVE or what???

   "like the drugs i do, or the booze i dri 15-Jun-03 ziggy_l
     it is addictive.. 16-Jun-03 isolated freak
       Very addictive. 16-Jun-03 bhenda2
         Is there any psychological reason why it 16-Jun-03 bhairab
           good to know i'm not alone......n just f 16-Jun-03 ziggy_l
             Have u guys thought it the other way? In 16-Jun-03 GurL_Interrupted
               abbui ni G_I ! Finally, you're heading t 16-Jun-03 babaal
                 Saarho addictive ni. Dekhe ki lekhi haln 16-Jun-03 Bal Matlab
                   hummm... nice suggestion G_I. Maybe I wi 16-Jun-03 :)(:
                     newsflash!! everybody's quitting sajha 16-Jun-03 :)(:
                       :=D! BabaaL! Danggg, do let me know i 16-Jun-03 GurL_Interrupted
                         'bout ur news flash! I am not buying it 16-Jun-03 GurL_Interrupted
                           less addictive than chatting online... o 17-Jun-03 Arnico
                             Not addictive to me. I spend around 3 ho 17-Jun-03 Bond-007
                               Addictive re? Kolle bhanyo addictive? Ka 17-Jun-03 Poonte
                                 hasayo poonte dai lei hasaayo !!! 17-Jun-03 ruck
                                   ...As addictive as you allow it to be! : 17-Jun-03 SITARA
                                     haha.. hasayo dai bro le!! Sajha lai 17-Jun-03 KaLanKiSthaN


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ziggy_l Posted on 15-Jun-03 10:01 PM

"like the drugs i do, or the booze i drink or the cigarettes i smoke, i just cant seem to get enough of sajha.com"
am i addicted?? i guess i am!!! damn...every free time i get (whether in class, in the library or in ma crib[every joint with an internet connection) i'm reading stuff that i care or dont care about out here...n it feels good...it gives me the perfect high...damn i've even set ma homepage as sajha.com...eheh...keep it up ya'll.....so HOW DO U GUYS FEEL ABOUT SAJHA.COM?? holla....
peace.
z_l
p.s i'm supposed to submit ma assignment tomorrow n i havent started yet...i'm reading khimuji's "All I Did is.....?" way to go bro....
isolated freak Posted on 16-Jun-03 07:03 AM

it is addictive..

bhenda2 Posted on 16-Jun-03 08:02 AM

Very addictive.
bhairab Posted on 16-Jun-03 08:21 AM

Is there any psychological reason why it could be addictive? I can't help myself typing sajha.com everytime i see a browser at the mall or anywhere.
ziggy_l Posted on 16-Jun-03 10:21 AM

good to know i'm not alone......n just for the record i dont do drugs....not even prescription ones...i drink socially, but i do smoke...
peace.
z_l
GurL_Interrupted Posted on 16-Jun-03 10:22 AM

Have u guys thought it the other way? Instead of sajha being addictive...ur behaviours might be addictive? Or you have an addictive behaviour and at the same time sajha is providing you with a favourable stimulus and response...hence u are hoooked up to it like drugs or any other addictive thing. Some of us tend to have an addictive behaviour genetically/psychologically...so those of us who have it, we need to keep watch on our behaviours from letting oppertutinities pass us by. I think, I have an addictive behaviour :'-(...my only solution can be either not to start something at all...for. ex. smoking or drinking ...than I don't know how it feels, so I won't go back to it again and again.....Or If I have started than try to stay away from it. Coz what I have realized is, there is no STOP sign in my life, and I assume it's the same for anyone with addictive behaviour! (I might be wrong!)

Second reason is we lack discipline and self-controL. Our habits have control over us. Psychologically, we maybe at disadvantage, but we cannot negelct a fact that practice makes a man perfect. So, practice on mastering our skills in controlling our addictions...before addictions get us and cost us our Lives! I guess, we need to set our priorities STRAIGHT!

Third, are there certain situations, places or certain times of the day when we are more bound to abuse our habits?

The first and for most things is to study and know ourself. The fact that, we are willing to admit we are addicted is the first step in solving the problem becoz we have identified the problem. Now we can go further from there.

Don't get me wrong guys. I am not discouraging you or anything. I am a struggling traveller of the same journey like ya all and I've been there or I am there hence I can relate with you, so just sharing some things! We shouldn't forget, using the computer is different to abusing the computer! Unfortunately, I have abused it many times!

babaal Posted on 16-Jun-03 10:43 AM

abbui ni G_I ! Finally, you're heading towards uninterruption?

:)
Bal Matlab Posted on 16-Jun-03 11:26 AM

Saarho addictive ni. Dekhe ki lekhi halna mun lagcha, hereki padhi halna mun lagcha. Kehi na gare Sajha ma gayi halna mun lagcha..
:)(: Posted on 16-Jun-03 12:32 PM

hummm... nice suggestion G_I. Maybe I will be able to control my addiction by following your advice. But the thing is -- sajha.com is not only addictive, it's contagious too. it's worst than AIDS or SARS. Now they are even planning to promote this website in ANA convention. I wonder how many more people will be addicted to this site.


good luck to ya'll.

:)(:
(sajhaite formally known as 'dangggg')
:)(: Posted on 16-Jun-03 12:35 PM

newsflash!!
everybody's quitting sajha these days.

sitara became silent reader after her 'word-war' with bhedo. aba rusty's quitting too re.

Popular sajhaites arequitting day by day, making sajha.com less attractive and helping us control our addiction.

:)(:
(soon to be ex-sajhaite 'dangggg')

GurL_Interrupted Posted on 16-Jun-03 12:38 PM

:=D! BabaaL!

Danggg, do let me know if you succeed...Coz I haven't :'-(! :=D ;=D! Not discouraging u okie!
GurL_Interrupted Posted on 16-Jun-03 12:43 PM

'bout ur news flash! I am not buying it :=D! coz I still see them oldies hanging here in Sajha now and then! My advice was : use the compuer (You learn so much reading other ppl's views/opinions/voices) but try not to abuse it. Problem arises when you go beyond the limit! As long as you are in controL of the situation...you are safe. But when the situation starts controlling you that's when the problem starts! As far as I have observed...all the old sajhaites have a good control on their life (Good 4 them!)...unlike us :=D! We need to learn something 4rm them (use ur oppertunities but don't abuse them!) *sigh* What a bummer I am! :=l! :=S!
Arnico Posted on 17-Jun-03 12:52 AM

less addictive than chatting online... or rather, a milder more easily controlled form of addiction... ???
Bond-007 Posted on 17-Jun-03 08:21 AM

Not addictive to me. I spend around 3 hours in Sajha that's only 12.5% of the day!!!
Poonte Posted on 17-Jun-03 09:53 AM

Addictive re? Kolle bhanyo addictive? Kasari bhanyo addictive? Kahile dekhun addictive? Kina addictive? Wahiyyat kura!

Bihana uthne bittikai Sajha kholchhu...nuhayesi aek choti feri Sajha...khana pani nistai gwam gwam nilchhu--sajha ma jana hattar bhayera...na music, na TV, na ke na ke...sirf Sajha...sapana ma pani takiya laai keyboard banayera dash watai aunlaa harule thungchhu...

...ani addictve re? Nahune kura! Testo laai ni addictive bhancha? Bebakoof! ;)
ruck Posted on 17-Jun-03 09:55 AM

hasayo poonte dai lei hasaayo !!!
SITARA Posted on 17-Jun-03 02:19 PM

...As addictive as you allow it to be! :)


Danggg, najaoona mayalu malai choddi, dila todi, Sajha choddi, *Kura(kani)* nagariiiiiiii

;)
KaLanKiSthaN Posted on 17-Jun-03 06:37 PM

haha.. hasayo dai bro le!!

Sajha lai ke addictive bhannu, there are so many other websites I am addicted to!! 8 wota jati hola, din ko ek choti dhaaunai parne. (they update only once a day), sajha chai update bhaa bhaai huncha, so ali badhi tyaam yetai jancha!!

Aren't you guys addicted to email account? Din ko kati choti kholincha? ehh.. aafno ta Junk mail safa garna matrai kohlincha, ehh.. kolle e-mail pathaune ho ra feri? Email account chai tannai cha, email chai euta aaune hoina!! Tyahi junk mail aayeni khushi laagcha.. ehh, thats the only reason why I did not get Junkmail-eliminator.

Just a thought!!

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