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| P. |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 05:58 AM
Can those of you who are attracted to white women or men share what the attraction is for you...
P.
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| Qallu |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 06:17 AM
The more interesting question might be... what external "preconditions" do you have in selecting your mate/lover/spouse? such as race, nationality, class, caste, wealth, education... etc. And why do you have them?
Obviously we are not talking about sexual orientation or preconditions about character and personality.
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| south |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 06:53 AM
never attacted to whites, alwayas attracted to nepali girls.
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| babaji |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 11:44 AM
Or it also could be because of curiosity/
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| babaji |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 11:44 AM
Well the attraction to the opposite sex can be any one of these
1. Sexual
2. Intellectual
3. Spiritual
etc etc...
so now matter what race, all the above attraction may come in a play.
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| (*)Y(*) |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 11:47 AM
agree with babaji!
Jay sambho(g)!!
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| gharmigirl |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 11:57 AM
maybe it is not matter of skin color so much as personality type, mutual interests, having the same goals, and seeing the world in a similar way. maybe half the time people are attracted to others based on internal qualities rather than external, and skin color has nothing to do with it.
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| gharmigirl |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 12:06 PM
hey babaji-I didn't see your post before I posted. That is what I was trying to say, except you said it better.
gg
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| Himalayas |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 12:31 PM
White woman...
They know how to maintain their figure.... jati nai budi bhae pani
they know how to show their love... natak ko rupma bhae pani.
She loves you and cares a lot about you... paisa bhainjel, bhane jasto puginjel..
tar ... sabai testo pani hudainan.... totally different way of expressing their love......hamro le ta expression garna khojyo bhane kura katne jori pari ta kati ho kati....
ani suru suru ma phasindaina ra? LOL
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| P. |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 01:19 PM
Here's my response to that question. My friend is an intelligent, witty, , sexy and oh soooooo HOT Girl! Woo Hoo!!! (Sorry, got carried away!) People have asked me for years now what the attraction is for me. Initially I would respond with something like "some prefer blondes, some prefer blue eyes - heck some like chinese and others don't - I just happen to be attracted to blond women." Lame I know but it is true.
Anyway, people are always saying that women try to find a man like their father and men a woman like there mother.
things are changing ....i am attracted towards my NEPALESE WOMEN NOW......
- I'm just curious as to whether others out there are attracted because of something similar or not.
P.
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| maaya |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 01:34 PM
A better question would be what qualities attract a woman to a man or vise versa?
In my case, I look for a cheerful face, approachable and friendly look. Smile, of course! Personally the guy has to be as tall as me. These are just the outside appearances. Besides that, the way he presents himself to me and to people, sense of humor. I am not attracted to men who try hard to dress up good and spend a lot of time and money on their clothing, perfume etc. I am attracted to men who show that they care and don't make it too obvious. Honesty. The level of comfortness while I'm around him. The one who has respect for me and for women. His intellectuality and how he can relate it to me. Confidence. Etc Etc.....
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| thugged out |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 02:34 PM
I loove white chics, especially blondes. Nepali girls are, to put it bluntly, oooogly. Yuck! Who would date Nepali gals except for desperate assholes, who have nothing to lose?
Also, let me mention that I love Asian trannies and twinks. Mmmm mmmm, bring me some of em Asian twinks.
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| sankaa |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 02:58 PM
Most Nepali girls in the USA are ugly, thugged got that one kind of right. Not only that , most Nepali girls in the USA are looking for a Kherya boyfriend (possibly hubby) just as Nepali guys are looking for Kheryani Girlfriend. I think, one of the major reasons is Greencard. No matter what a Nepali guy or a girl might say outside ,one reason to date a khernee/ay is for 'hariyopatta'. Secondly, Khernees are easy for sex. Nepali girls take atleast month of two to go beyond kiss. Also, Nepali girls have the same problems as you do , so it's not as fun as dating a khernee. Khereenes are fun. When i do it with a khernee i feel like i'm talking a revenge on all the kheryaas for my exploitations and hard time i'm having over here. ha ha funny thing is they like it that way. whatever works i guess. anyway, you all Nepali bros.. enjoy hai...
bye...
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| thugged out |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 03:01 PM
Ha ha ha ha. Yeah right. I think you're still a virgin, who slaps his monkey everyday. Ha ha ha.
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| gharmigirl |
Posted
on 18-Jul-03 07:10 PM
thugged out and sankaa--
what is amazing is how you are able to insult both Nepali and white women at the same time. :(
also, I see we are back to the other top of dating/marrying white men and women just for greencard.
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| Koko |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 07:14 AM
Thugged out
I loove white chics, especially blondes. Nepali girls are, to put it bluntly, oooogly. Yuck! Who would date Nepali gals except for desperate assholes, who have nothing to lose?
Also, let me mention that I love Asian trannies and twinks. Mmmm mmmm, bring me some of em Asian twinks.
a ha ha ha. Yeah right. I think you're still a virgin, who slaps his monkey everyday. Ha
gghhhhh. Looks like someone beat her up with an ugly schtick. Or would that be a magic schtick, if you know what I mean?
There be mah nappy headed G's? Holla aight.
East coast where da thugz at aight. West coast be da wankstas. Holla
Think you're reaally reaaallly smart don't you ? Listen to yourself..huh ! ha ha ..ha ha ha
Jokes on u JAaaaCK !!!! DUH!!
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| chick pea |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 08:00 AM
Sankaa- Man you have issues. Please tell me you are not being serious with the comments you made. Thugged out - How can you say Nepali women are "YUCK"? Both of you are completely wrong and sick in the head - just my opinion!
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| thaag |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 08:19 AM
I can't imagine myself saying 'Thank you honey" & 'you'r welcome honey' in every sentense throught my life So I don't see myself with any Blondes. I like nepali..Simple..Saral and swachha.........
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| bhenda2 |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 08:38 AM
khoi I dont remember saying 'Thank you honey' and 'your welcome honey'...
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| ramaychowchow |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 08:55 AM
I think grass just looks greener in the other side of the fence... Like someone said before, may be we are bit curious to see what exactly it is to be dating someone other than normal . It is almost a fetish.
Could it be that majority of guys (including me) are just scared of commitment? And GENERALLY Nepalese girls are more committed when it comes to relationships? So we look for "safer" alternative. (Just a thought)
I have seen guys going out with white girls just because she is white. (They just wanted to have an amrikan/european girl friend for whatever reason it may be.) But also I have white/european guy-friends who will die to date south Asian girls. So my conclusion: We like to try something different when it comes to choosing our mate.
Also our mind can change over time. Recently, I have been more attracted to Nepalese girls which was not always the case in the past.
And this is my 2cents on this topic. Thanks
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| babaji |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 09:13 AM
Koko...looks like you have been dumped by a Nepali girl. Or the Nepali girl that you were after didn't give a shit about you.
You got some issues dude. Let it go man........
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| Koko |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 09:30 AM
Babaji,
If you read carefully.. I just pasted Thugged out's past comments to let him know that he is definately smarter and more intelligent than me.
Now about the Nepali girl....I don't know where you got that from ?
Like a tabloid Nepali people are soo quick to jump to conclusions... I(and my Nepali wife) would love to know where u got that story...ha ha ha
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| babaji |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 09:40 AM
ahh sorry Koko...wrong person. ment for Thuged out.
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| gharmigirl |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 01:41 PM
ramaychowchow--
in the area where I live, it looks like nepali men don't understand deep committment to marriage. one nepali man left his nepali wife for no good reason; two nepali men left their white american wives after greencard. total, three guys left serious relationships. one other guy is married to white lady but tells all us nepali that he is only staying for greencard. she is very sensitive woman, too. also very tall and very pretty. it will be a bad scene when he leaves.
the white- and spanish- american women who I know who are married to nepali men are just as committed as the nepali women to their husbands. so to say that white women are not so committeed as nepali women seems short sighted. i would be upset if white men said about nepali women what some folks on this thread have said about white women. and what some folks said about nepali women being ugly. I mean that is grossly unfair since not every nepali guy is movie star quality either. here there are a few nepali women who cheated on husbands and one woman who cheated with married nepali man with children and he left his wife and children for her.
basic line is people are people no matter where they are born.
there appears to be many misconceptions about people in both nepali and american cultures about each other. it seems that honest people in both cultures want the same thing--to find the one person who loves them best regardless of their faults and imperfections and to find the one person they can grow old with. this goal is basic to everyone, no matter where they live or what culture they grow up in.
perhaps it is best not to generalize about any people because there are good and bad people, loyal and disloyal, honest and dishonest, committed and those not able to committ, beautful and ugly people in every group.
one can only hope that one finds a person who will look out for his or her best interests, no matter what they look like in this world.
so much for my 2 cents.
gg
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| chick pea |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 01:52 PM
I understand what you are saying GG. I am married to a white american girl and there are misconceptions in both cultures. In my marriage, we treat each other like equals. We have a good and healthy partnership. I don't believe in disrespecting women the way that some of the people have on this thread and I feel embarrassed for them.
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| thugged out |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 02:29 PM
Koko said,
" you read carefully.. I just pasted Thugged out's past comments to let him know that he is definately smarter and more intelligent than me. "
Of course I am smarter than you. You can't even spell "definitely" correctly. Hohohohoho.
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| thugged out |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 03:07 PM
Chick pea said,
"Thugged out - How can you say Nepali women are "YUCK"? Both of you are completely wrong and sick in the head - just my opinion! "
This coming from someone who hitched with an American chick. LOLOLOLOL. If you so love Nepali women, then why didn't you stick with one? Nepali gals dress like they just came down from some rustic town.
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| anamika1 |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 03:32 PM
to thugged out...................regarding nepali girls dress like they just came from some rustic town re? who have you been hanging out with dude? you seem to have issues up the wazoo.....i am a nepali girl and a normal, intelligent,stylish chic who has passion for life. i think you need to adjust your attitude coz u aint finding any nepali gal with your attitude. by the way ....how do you describe your style? wearing fake versace blt? just curious!!!!!
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| sankaa |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 04:24 PM
No Thugged out, I do not agree with you on Nepali chicks dressing up like (let me scroll up) "like they just came from some rustic town." They do dress pretty good. They waste most of thier hard earned money on clothes. Look up the pics on ANA. They have tried thier best to look good. However, (dhan taaa raannnn) thier effort to look good is a joke. he he.. oh man, i'm not tryin' to be mean or anything but truthfully, they look like a joke infront of a normal American girl. Also, thier effort to fit in to the American culture is not only rediculous but also becomes embrassing to other Nepali guys.
However, there are some Nepali girls who are really beautiful and no matter what they wear will look good on them. I haven't met anyone like that in the usa yet though. I think, it has to do with genetics, diet, and work outs. Nepali chicks need to work out, eat good food , and hmmmm try not to act like a poser in front of Americans with thier phony accents.
man , i'm gonna get jutta ko malas from nepali girls now.. save me lord.. byeee ma bhaggyaaa hai. .hehehehehe
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 04:40 PM
Sankaa ji:
AND You were saying..... about a "good keta"??? :)
Hajur ta hamiharoo kai loss ho ... big loss! :(
"To each his own... to leech his own!" ....Annonymous
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 05:27 PM
afno nidar ko.. bhaisi hideko thaha choina..
aru ko tauko ma.. lice point gardai cha..
ain't tryin to be hero in here.. but sum of em comments up there were really absurd..
haha neprikan haru.. pahile .. ye afno thutono her ta aaina ma.. ani thaha pauchas.. ko katti katti pani ma cha bhanne.. muzi haru.. afu ta muzi.. one n only good lookin jasto.. aru ko look lai.. yuck re..
ani anamika "wearing fake versace blt? just curious!!!!! " was a good one hhahaha
.. wannabe.. mothafookers..
yesto yesto kura haru sunera.. kina kina haso uthcha..
yb
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| thugged out |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 05:42 PM
Anch ni Anamika, are you the same gal from Nepalhorizon? You know, you're so damn popular, everybody knows you! I have a feeling you're one chwank and syausi Nepali thiti. Yeah, you got that right Anamika, I prefer knockoffs, and just to give you heads up, I prefer pink undies!
Sankaa, to tell you the truth, Nepali chics don't know how to moderate it, if you know what I mean. They either dress too "elegantly", or they dress like they live in a garbage dump.
Youngbloodz sure wants to slip his pink thing up the good stuff. LOL.
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| anamika1 |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 05:57 PM
Yes, thugged out. I am the same Anamika from the nepal horizons postings......I didn't realize that my postings created that much fire. Well you know, I just say things like I say it. Ma lai welcome garne hoina ta sajha world ma??? That is the proper etiquette you know.
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| ramaychowchow |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 06:10 PM
gharmigirl,
You wrote:
'in the area where I live, it looks like nepali men don't understand deep committment to marriage. one nepali man left....'
My answer:
May be it is more like 'Naya Musalmanlay dherai pyaj khancha'. Nepalese men don't get to do all those back home. That is true for Nepalese women as well.
You wrote:
'perhaps it is best not to generalize about any people because there are good and bad people, loyal and disloyal, honest and dishonest, committed and those not able to committ, beautful and ugly people in every group.'
My answer:
Agreed 100%. On microscopic level people are people.
You wrote:
'one can only hope that one finds a person who will look out for his or her best interests, no matter what they look like in this world.'
My answer:
One can only hope. As for me, I am going to humla/jumla to find a wife. ha ha ha...
Cheers
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| Damodar |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 07:00 PM
Thugged out slept with his mom and his own sister thats why he cannot deal with Nepali girls. He's got that guilty concious haunting him every time he sees a Nepali girl. Limp it goes everytime that thought crosses his mind.
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| sankaa |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 07:18 PM
Sitaja ji, why am i a loss? I think, you've been used to of reading poem and gushy-mushy stuff a lot lately.Thats why some bitter- reality stuff don't get digested to you anymore , hajur. I didn't mean any offense to anyone in particular.
Very similar things, what i wrote in my early message, apply to Nepali guys also. Nepali guys also spend a whole lot of money and time to look good and stuff. So , it wasn't any sexist comment or anything hajur.
Why am i a loss? what have i done?
I told you I'm honest. I don't care if people like me or not. I will always speak up. however, you're a nice person and reading something like this from you really hurts
:(
bye
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| thugged out |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 07:33 PM
Damodar said,
"Thugged out slept with his mom and his own sister thats why he cannot deal with Nepali girls."
Take a course in ESL, dude. You're not worth my time. Your English sucks 9" cucumber.
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| saday |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 07:45 PM
Why do you guys have to be so mean? I personally think that no one in this world is ugly, even animals and insects. Judging the whole race of people, especially your own race and taking nasty things about them is not a very wise thing to do ni, hoina ra?
Everyone is beautiful in his/her own ways. No one is ugly. Specially, Nepali girls are beautiful. I love the sincerity and honesty of Nepali women. Also, Nepali women are smart and very loveable, please read some postings from Sitara ji.
Peace and love,
Saday....
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| saday |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 07:55 PM
Btw, Welcome Animaka ji
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| jules |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 08:02 PM
;)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 09:42 PM
Sankaa ji:
Read this carefully:
"Hajur ta hamiharoo kai loss ho ... big loss! :( " ....Sitara
I said, OUR loss... meaning and another Nepali man stereotyping Nepali women... is certainly a loss. It would apply to women too. hoina ta?
As for the mushy gushy poetry... that is poetry grounded in reality... my reality. :)
Plz don't mind too much...I am allowed to speak my mind too hoina?
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 22-Jul-03 09:43 PM
Saday ji:
There are many Nepali women who can hold their own, write well and are very decent human beings... you are correct in that.
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| chick pea |
Posted
on 23-Jul-03 05:36 AM
Thugged out: I respect all women in general no matter what country they come from. I married an american white women because she is who I fell in love with, NOT because she is white. I am attracted to women from all races: asian, hispanic, white, black. I think all women are beautiful in their own way. I could never make a statement that "Nepali women are YUCK". Come on man, my mom is a nepali woman. When I was at the ANA conference last month, each nepali woman I saw there was more beautiful than the next. They carry themselves well and I don't remember seeing one that "dressed from a rustic town". Maybe if some of you guys respected our women more, you wouldn't be alone right now.
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| Damodar |
Posted
on 23-Jul-03 06:38 AM
Thugged Out !!
So you are NOT denying that you SLEPT with your MOM and SISTER huh ? Is that why you talk the way you do..to fill that guilty conscious of your incestious behaviour ? On a Nepali IMPS you would be considered histaminic hoarding with Nepali Phobia. Your hypothetical-deductive seems to be negligible maybe you need to have craniectomy procedure done to fix your frontal lobe so you can function normally.
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