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| south |
Posted
on 02-Aug-03 04:21 AM
Could you guys share your view about it. well i have talked about it with most of my friends and what i found is most of my friends who are male does nt care about it or i should say prefer arrange marriage while more female friends preferred love marriage. I was wondering why we both nepali of same generation have different view in marriage. wel i guess one answer may be girls can tell if it is right or not, like what happens is for girls they have to go to unknown house and live with unknown people so they might prefer to go with someone whom she has known earlier so that she feel comfortable. is this the reason. well today arrange marriage are not like our parents days it has also changed a lot i guess i mean we got a lot of time to know the person whom we gonna marry. what you guys prefer?
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| yoUnGbLooDZ |
Posted
on 02-Aug-03 08:26 AM
gurls perfer love marriage coz.. they like bitching.. they wanna choose the guy to bitch their whole freaking life.. n that they can find n marrry him. so that he will listen all her life.. n arrange marrriage.. they dont' know.. who sorta dude they will have ta deal.. he might smack their ass all over.. so they perfer love marriage..
we dude like arrrange marrriage.. coz we dont' like bitches........... ahhaha
yb
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| jules |
Posted
on 02-Aug-03 09:44 AM
YB,
Whatever!!!!!
;)
Jules
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 02-Aug-03 06:29 PM
:=)
yb
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| komal the soft one |
Posted
on 03-Aug-03 11:49 PM
Well I prefer arrange marriage. Well ya these day most of the girls prefer love marriage but when they are in love then doesnt think about any thing else&&. They just used to be blind&&&But marriage is the one of tof job to do. We used to get born once, we love once and we get marriage once.. So we have to think it twice while doing marriage. Its not a game like paying with dollys and all. And I think love marriage couple most of couldnt be success&&&&&..They used to get divorced pretty soon. Dont u guys think so? Ya if we do arrange marriage then they will be bit of strange for us. Strange people, unknown people, new house, new family. But we are not that much fool though&&Our family gives us enough time to know each other&&&&&&we used to go for a date&we have plenty of time to know each other n then we get married. I dont believe in love marriage though&&&..i have seen many people staying apart after love marriage&&. And even if u do love marriage&&May be our parents wont agree with us&&But even we used run with that guy to whom we love a lot. Love makes us blind. But end ma k huncha fighting all the time&&&.Usle gare ko kura man pardaena and bla blabla bla and at the end ma divorcee&&&&&..At that time hami kasko ma jane? Na ta maita le support garcha na tyo kta ko family le garcha ani what to do at that time haena&&..? We are self depended person but u know our society and all..........................................Back biting persons&
Falana ko chori ko ta divorce vayeah cha ni&&&Yeklai basi ra cha re..Hera nakacarhii afai vagera gako thiyo ni testai huncha hamro samaj le kura katcha yesari nai what to do at that time. So prevention is better that care& And even we are not much sure about the person to whom we love a lot. May be he can be wrong pani. Haena&&&&&&?Well tara arrange marriage garda&&&BABA MAMOO le choose garnu huncha hamro lagi&&&. Waha le choose garnu vako KTA pachi gayeara naramro vayeah pani hami le mom dad haru lai vannna ta sakcahu ni at least.Tapai haru le choose garnu vako kta ta ho ni vanera haena ra?So I think arrange marriage is better that love maariage&&&&&&&&&&&.
Komal
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| Tulip |
Posted
on 04-Aug-03 05:23 AM
This is my view:
Arrange marriage garda, if marriage fails, you can blame your parents. right? That means you don't need the guts to face your decisions singlehandedly. I can understand why men want arrange marriage, because they want a woman who is submissive and dependent and does not intimidate him. If you say love marriages are the ones which fails, have you looked at the statistics of arranged marriage failures? bottomline is, whenver you make the decision of marrying someone, 50% responsibility is in your hand to make it work and 50% of your partner's. Rest falls in circumstances, personality etc. But there is no hard and fast rule which works better. It all depends and arrange marriage can be worked if you give yourself enough time to know each other. If thats the case, there won't be doubt about the guy or the family. It all will be familiar by the time you are married. In love marriage, if you choose the right person, there is no reason why your family should not support your choice. They are the ones who knows the best for you. When it comes to getting married, just follow your heart and don't speculate too much. Because, home is where heart is!
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