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| meow | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 11:48 AM
There's hearsay,",marnu bhanda tah bhaulaunu nai besh", i see many young teenagers being in slow poison of drugs like a mad but what's the use...beside whoever see you like that make fun of you...rather die than live life that..or...why do people commit suicide...?? mostly i saw due to love betrayal...what would you feel when u will get to know that the person whom u broke has commited suicide or nearly been to...what will be yr response? rgds, meow` |
| yoUnGbLooDZ | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 12:09 PM
the reason behind to commit suicide for the individual.. mostly its bond.. either it be family. love, frenship.. and for sum it might be financial.. like they get lay off.. n left with no other option.. got them debts to due.. or but only if its a HUGE amount.. i think those who r single and single till their 40s.. who had never been loved or had loved anyone.. perhaps r the one who has high rate.. but again.. we have sum pyscho's out there.. who think only way to prove sumone is to kill themselves.. n bout the response.. i neva had that kinda personnal experience so.. i donno.. it might sadden meh.. or may be i ll say.. coward biatch.. yb |
| MystriousGal | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 06:53 PM
Yo yo young..then till this day there hasnt appeared anyone who can give her life for ya?poor you mg |
| dhananjya | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 07:43 PM
Dear meow, It seems to me you really don't need help. In one thread you are asking for the help where as on another you are giving philosophy of living in present moment, forgetting all the past (which is rather complicated job). In first statement you are mentally ill, seeking for help but in second statement you are mentally strong, helping others. both are contradectory. Be serious if you really want help or somebody else whom you know wants help. suicide is the extream case of mental illness. or if you just want to know the views, go ahead, i have nothin to say. |
| isolated freak | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 08:24 PM
hmm I don't know whether you are just not playing or really serious. Since, suicide is such a big word and action i will treat this VERY seriously. We all go through various unpleasant phases in life. this is life. sometimes, people get sucidal because of mental diseases such as depression and OCD. Believe me, something happens in your brain.. some recxeptor thing gets screwed and you end up getting weird thoiughts. This is nothing to be ashamed of. Actually, neurosis is very common these days, common than the common cold. So, go see a doc and find out what's the root/.origin of these feelings, and most likely you will be prescribed Prozac or any other Fluxetine drug. Prozac or Fluxetine helps many patients with depression and OCD and other related disorders that causes all these senseless thoughts. prozac 20 mg/day helps in many cases. In extreme case, it can be upto 80 mg. Anyway, go see a doc right away. |
| Rastafariya | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 09:29 PM
Birader Dhananjaya! him meow Birader dont need not much him needs only one hour with I and him will be as good as them new peopal. I is can straight him birader meow. Them all his brain I is take out and give he new brains and everything. Him meow birader just needs them some adjustments and them alignment. |
| yOuNgBlOoDz | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 09:45 PM
YO MG .. you can say that.... haven't found the one.. who i could die for or the one who will die for meh.. yb |
| Bond-007 | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 09:57 PM
meow ji, Please don't kill yourself! Consider joining either Maobadi or the Army, let them do the favor they need some hunting experience!! Dude, life is precious! go do some good deed, somone will remember you and praise you for ever. *Bhar Janma ghans tira man diyi dhana kamayo, naam kehi rahos bhani pachi kuwa khanayo, Ghanshi daridra ghara ko tara buddhi kasto, yo BhanuBhakta dhani bhai kana aaja yasto!!!* Om Shanti!! |
| rendra wasito | Posted
on 08-Aug-03 10:04 PM
Suicide is the result of many DSM 4 TR described phenomenas. It can be through maniac depression (or bi-polar disorder), Schizophrenia and related sub types of it. Then it could be the result of chronic Affective Disoder and much more. Then there are the eating disorders that are significantly correlated with youths. What is the basis of your assessment in this complex issue ? Depression is going to be the greatest growth illness of the 21st. century as people live longer. It is based on neuro/chemical/biological and may be genetic dysfunction. |
| meow | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 06:56 AM
yo Dhaniya, m asking for others...here in hk dudes..theres a lot of guys n gals of our teen age who are addicted in drugs...wherever u go..on the road..on the park,on the staircase..on the roof...u see them laying on base...asking for money...to all....dammm!!! |
| meow | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 07:06 AM
Thankx all, YO Isolated freak...that was good Physiologic treat you showed for those...You n Rastafariya need to be together to have some treatments in yr lab..he shall removed n changes brains out then those patients who got it changed shall be treated to you Isolated coz i believe they will get more CRACK by rasta...ooo Bond oh bond i wish i could kill you beside..not with gun but with my eyes...heres comes a charlie's angels called-meow opss!!! rendra...oh yeah these days people lives longer than before so there comes a new desease everyday..recently was there SARS...aba there need to be cut in population,isnt it? Antrex,SARS,HIV..n DEPRESSIOn...dammm... oops!! |
| meow | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 07:07 AM
Thankx all, YO Isolated freak...that was good Physiologic treat you showed for those...You n Rastafariya need to be together to have some treatments in yr lab..he shall removed n changes brains out then those patients who got it changed shall be treated to you Isolated coz i believe they will get more CRACK by rasta...ooo Bond oh bond i wish i could kill you beside..not with gun but with my eyes...heres comes a charlie's angels called-meow opss!!! rendra...oh yeah these days people lives longer than before so there comes a new desease everyday..recently was there SARS...aba there need to be cut in population,isnt it? Antrex,SARS,HIV..n DEPRESSIOn...dammm... oops!! |
| Rastafariya | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 05:08 PM
Meow! You is looks like you is really needs help. I is ready anytime . You is only needs one hour with Rasta and all them you is be fresh and nice. I is fix all them your problam of them unused mind of yours. I is make you think again and think bettar again. |
| sankaa | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 07:06 PM
Meow, I don't know if you're trying to sucide or just want a little fun thing going on in here, however, i am going to spend my 2 cents anyways. Friend, i've tried to sucide several times. Specailly, this year , i've tried to sucide at least 10 times, however, i'm so weak that i can not. I've done a lot of research about taking own life and it just seems unfair. Everytime i try to do the stupid thing i think about the following things , please think about it. I think sucide is very very unfair in your behalf. Unfair , because it is the biggest punishment to your nearest and dearest ones.For rest of thier life, they have to think that they were not there when you needed them and they will feel bad.They will blame themselves for not being there and not providing you with what you needed. No matter, how lonely we feel sometimes there are always few ppl in our lives who would love us unconditionally and would be hurt by your death. For example your mom, dad, sisters, brothers, or even close friends.So , please don't punish to your friends your speicalones. Your life is just not yours , it belongs to the ppl who love you too. If you're planning to die becuase you want to make someone feel sorry for your death then friend, it won't happen. What makes you think that someone who didn't care about you when you were alive would care about you when you are dead. They would probably be sad for a week or whatever until they go to a bar and get drunk and get laid,or whatever and forget about your death.However, you will be the one who will be missing out the life: the opportunity to actually experience and to feel.If you take your life then you won't be making those mean people sorry but you will be punishing your close ones to suffer. see, how unfair it seems. I believe, that things run in a cycle in our lives. I believe, that everything is attached. You reading my message at this time is connected to something that will happen eventually. I hope these thoughts will stop you from doing sucide as they do to me. You might be going through a very difficult time of your life but that will change eventually.Trust me it will becuase to change is the nature of this world. If good time didn't last forever, do you think bad time would? and,at that poing you will realize how silly were you. One example, I tried to kill myself when i failed my maths test on 4th grade. If i had killed myself back then then i wouldn't be able to do lots of fun things in life , i always thank myself that i didn't kicked the stool and killed myself, althogh i was going to..see, what very difficult today might be very silly thing for you when you see from tommorow's prespective. You will be proud one day that you made it even though it was very difficult. So, support yourself. Just have patience and do what you need to do. Start up from cleaning your room, next clean up your apt or whever you leave, find some intersting thing to do in your life, change the things that you can change and accept the things that can not be changed. Howeve, don't regret or feel bad for what happened, if you can't change it then it's ok.. let it go.. look for the time ahead.. try to get there, from where you will see the dark days behind you and you smile at yourself and be proud of yourlself that you didn't stop then. |
| khimu | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 09:02 PM
"Meow" sucide garna maan lageko ho "Call ya" you know i just bought Gorkhali "Khukuri" may be that will help. if you can't do it yourself i'll help you but don't blame me, otherwise mero jindagi barbad hola jail ma chakki pisera basnu parla |
| Rastafariya | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 09:07 PM
Birader khimu! why them you is talks violence? You is needs to help them with love. I is know how to help them with love. You is be nice birader. |
| meow | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 10:06 PM
sanka, Yo better for u that u thought for those who loved ya before u do something wrong to ya, hey dude i know its us to get suffered not them..n i been hearing frm all that is that me who like to commit suicide...i always used to wonder in what terms people might done this...which i shall never done but Yeah i've done once...not a try like u sanka but i did..fortunately or unfortunately i was saved by the gal(sis) next door to me else tai tai fish fish...when i wake up i was in hospital...n this is my second life...which is so much different from the first one...people will hardly believe on what i did by going through the kind of person i'm..but sometime something is too hard that u cant justify yrself..i didnt wanna hurt anyone...i know there is a lot peep who loves me..but i also know that i was feeling hard to breathe....beside i wanna experince the pain..wanna see how much it would be feeling..would it be more or less....n it was worst nightmare i saw n realized u cannot kill yrself until there isnt the time!! |
| sankaa | Posted
on 10-Aug-03 10:56 PM
Meow brother, i am sad to know that yo actually committed once already. Please seek some professional help. may god giv eyou peace and knowledge so you can actually realize and enjoy this life. |
| MystriousGal | Posted
on 11-Aug-03 07:46 AM
Sanka leh lanka jalaucha bahh hehhe....oiii meow he is tellin gu bro yaar hehehhe what a same to u cutie pie oppss!!! |
| sankaa | Posted
on 11-Aug-03 09:30 AM
Mysterious girl, you just have to be little creative all the time , don't you? why don't you go get drunk tonight and release your frustration or whatever afterwards...;) Meow, don't kill yourself... it's not worth it.. bye |
| dhananjya | Posted
on 11-Aug-03 08:15 PM
Dear Meow, I am now convinced that you really need help. I know your problem. I also know the solution of the problem. but you have to solve it on your own. the technique is incardable, you just have to work for your own salvation. nobody can work for you. If you have aspiration to come out of this agony, i am preety sure that happiness will flurish in your life, in no time. Your mind is in distructive phase now. it forces you to distroy. this phase will not last for ever. one day you will come out of it. but some time in future the phase may reappear. so there is a way which will lead you to the complete eradication of negative feelings. once you eradicate such mental negativities they never show up again. this technique will teach you how to change mind from distructive to constructive state. if you follow me, you will learn the root of your problem. then you will learn how to cut the roots. you will recognize the cause of your problem and you will learn how to uproot the cause. you will be doctor of your won. trust me my friend. human life is so precious. out of ignorence don't distroy it. you believe death is the end of the story. that is your mere belief. it is yet to be proven. my freind, i will be more than happy to assist you. i would better like to talk to you personally. email me: dhananjya@hotmail.com |
| MystriousGal | Posted
on 11-Aug-03 08:44 PM
Sanka opss want me to drunk so u can get a chance? hehehhe sorry dear m not so easy to catch !!! opss!! |
| DISCO | Posted
on 12-Aug-03 02:56 PM
Unless you are doing it for a philosophical reasons (which in this case we can opt that out), a lot of people succumb to this because they get trapped into this subjective whim. Especially when there is so much pain, as the options to be happy (which is not the same as option to live) run out, you tend to think the only solution is to get rid of the subject (you), and since that is the only "seen" option, you become suicidal. To tell the truth, there are a lot of situations when the thought and actions do not seem so close. We all think henious thoughts but its just transitory and I think thats because we are able to see it more obljectively. Someone mentioned loved ones, when someone else other than you comes along...that objective part comes into the equation and you are able to see yourself more holistically...I think best thing for someone who gets pulled into this tendency is to open up your world more, writing in here itself is a good way to open up, it opens your options. A lot of it is unconsious (neural/biological) and depends upon a lot of things (hormons, food, weather) so give yourself a lot of time to think things through. Look at yourself and your problems objectively. Do I even make sense?, hope this helps. Cheers. :) |
| kareena | Posted
on 13-Aug-03 12:30 PM
life is tough but ure tougher . dont take 007 's advice and join th earmy , i assure u that u'll commit suicide within a week. take morphain for the pain. |
| dhananjya | Posted
on 13-Aug-03 01:24 PM
Dear Karina, If you really want to commit suicide, that is because of your mental disorder. Please contact me. dhananjya@hotmail.com trust me, i will show you the path to come out of this distructive phase of mind. dhananjya |