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| yatri | Posted
on 13-Oct-03 01:59 PM
Sometime ago in www.gbnc.org, I had an opportunity to read SimpleGal's thread about where women should go when they are in need of their sexual desires and are not getting any from their boyfriends/spouses/friends with benefits. Though I offered no comments on that topic because I didnot had any, I have something on mind today that could be a semblance to her thread on a different domain despite the fact that this idea may have already been used sufficiently by many men around. If men have already taken a step front with this idea, may be it is not too bad to talk about parallel dating. How do you feel about a man dating more than one girl at the same time when the girls are not aware of his dating policies? I think for most of us, Nepalese, it is a totally No-No, and we could talk about boy cheating on his girls, and shrouding her with his mysteries. We could also talk about playing with one's emotions, and hurting somebody with the aftermath. oh well, we would not want that to happen. Nonetheless, I remember reading a Japanese article a long time ago that a Japanese would-to-be-married woman can date many men at the same time so that things could always pan out with the second/third/n'th if the first choice/.../(n-1)'th choice doesn't accept the proposal. With this in hindsight, do you think it is justified for a man to date many women at the same time? Maybe like somebody had suggested in SimpleGal's thread that women will,one day, go ahead and make love with other men ( other than her lover) when they are in need to satisfy their desires without being promiscuous and without having severeramifications, do you think man can, some day, down the road will be justified without being cheaters when they date around with more than one woman at a time? Let me turn the table now, how do boys feel when their "woman" is dating other men at the same time? Do you feel that you have been used and violated? P.S. I am using the term 'dating' very vaguely. Please think of what you used to do when you used to date when you were in US colleges. For different people, dating could bring different connotations, as the term 'making out' has reached a different level among teenagers these days. |