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Psychology of a Silly Dilemma!

   "Look at me!", he said, trying to cajole 21-Oct-03 SITARA
     Pooor man!!! Why do men always have t 21-Oct-03 KaLaNkIsThAn
       :D Been there! 21-Oct-03 Laughing Buddha
         ehehhhe!! Inner demons coming out ki ka 22-Oct-03 Suna
           He he Suna and Kalanki! This was part 22-Oct-03 SITARA
             or even better... spend the date talking 22-Oct-03 Arnico
               LOL arnico! 22-Oct-03 Suna
                 "or even better... spend the date talkin 22-Oct-03 SITARA


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SITARA Posted on 21-Oct-03 05:27 PM

"Look at me!", he said, trying to cajole her out of her short temper. "Not looking!" she retorted as she shut her eyes tightly and turned her chin away in a huff. "Not looking, even if you were the last man on earth!". "Oh come on, I was only looking at her tattoo!, didn't know if it was a dragon or a spider crawling across her chest!". "Yeah, right, and I'm Hillary Clinton!" she refused to be coaxed into a nicer mood. He had sincerely been intrigued by the voluptous woman's tattoo; nothing sexual there, he supposed. He could not imagine what was so offensive about "just looking".

She, on the other hand, could not figure out what was so important about the tattoo (assuming that the feelings were asexual) that he saw it necessary to distinguish the creatures literally "crawling" on her rippling pectorals as she danced with pure abandon.

He looked at the girl in front of him; the girl he he loved. He could not find words to explain that although, he was crazy about her, he was not immune to "seeing/looking". So, he helplessly tried to explain his way out of the situation..all in vain!

She looked at him and saw that he was not doing very well with explaining himself. Words were NOT his forte and neither was communication. She was definitely getting the upper hand in the accusation. Although, she had no doubts about his love for her, she could not resist making him squirm a teensy bit. How dare he make her feel jealous. Mora, drooling over some chinnu na jannu. She scanned his face and the more she thought about it the more riled up she got! How dare he!

"Well, I'm not getting into this silly argument any further! You can think whatever you want!" he exploded in exasperation. That, was her cue to show her displeasure. She had worked herself up to a fine righteous rage (subconsciously, she knew it was unjustified) of having been humiliated and slighted.

"Fine then! you stay here and eyeball dragons and spiders...and while you're at it, don't forget to give it a tactile test, to see if they are real!" And off she went in a rage.

And thus, was a wonderful, much awaited, Friday night Date ruined!!!


KaLaNkIsThAn Posted on 21-Oct-03 05:34 PM

Pooor man!!!

Why do men always have to go thru this???
That poor fella was "just lookin" for god sake!
Taruni haru ko tyahi baani naramro ... LOL!! Samajhta naiiii!! :S

Nice Nice ;)
Laughing Buddha Posted on 21-Oct-03 09:39 PM

:D Been there!
Suna Posted on 22-Oct-03 04:07 AM

ehehhhe!!
Inner demons coming out ki kaso sitarajiu! :) Can't say I haven't been there!

Just saw "The caveman show"! Was wonderful!! I would recommend it to anyone who hasn't seen it. Sitara's piece would fit right along with that show. Its at the Warner theatre in DC.

SITARA Posted on 22-Oct-03 05:28 AM

He he Suna and Kalanki!

This was part of an observation I had done on "dating and dating etiquettes".
Have I been there????... Well, I look too ( ;) to be candid, I am sure everyone does), so I would be as guilty!!! The question remains: How honest can I be without threatening my date?! I think, if the communication allows for "talk" it is better for the relationship. I'd hate to have my date make furtive glances at the woman and then act "innocent" when I catch him red-handed. But, on the other hand, I would find it very rude to have my date oggle away at someone's private parts!

And no OYS, my Friday night date was not ruined this way! :D


Suna, I heard about "the caveman show", sounds hilarious! Perhaps, will go this weekend. Thanks!
Arnico Posted on 22-Oct-03 06:20 AM

or even better... spend the date talking together about the people you each see!
Suna Posted on 22-Oct-03 06:52 AM

LOL
arnico!
SITARA Posted on 22-Oct-03 08:23 AM

"or even better... spend the date talking..".[Arnico]

Hi Arnico, long time no see. How is BKK?

Don't you wish your statement was true? I do. I don't believe in parallel dating but, if there are those who do parallel date, they could perhaps be honest about it. It would give the other dates a fair chance at "choosing" to be in the relationship or not.