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| Victim |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 10:47 AM
I think we need a support group for Nepali Men being victimized by Nepali women after they come to US. eg. they get married come to US, see all the oppertunities then go crazy. Most of them go their own after they receive their green card. Some of thse guys even end up paying child support(working at Dunkin Donuts). Whether right or wrong, they go to these women's rights groups and come back all rebellious. These women are simply using these men as their ticket to freedom. For all those who are going to Nepal to get Married, take this for an option you never considered.
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| hmmm |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 12:13 PM
Poor, poor poor you. What a bad bad these nepali women are! I am all for a Nepali Men's Association of Victimhood, Made Victim by Green Card Seeker. A long name but should attract attention.
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| Reetu |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 12:26 PM
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| Reetu |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 12:28 PM
Sorry,
I was testing some thing else.... by mistekenly it happened...
Reetu..
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| Yak&Yeti |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 01:51 PM
Know what you mean... know few of them here in Boston. The sight of them makes me sick. On top they have the audacity of calling themselves liberated.
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| green card holder |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 01:57 PM
How did you get your Green card yak and Yeti? by any chance marrying a moti kuirey?
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| yak&yeti |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 02:22 PM
Think its funny Green card ??? Wait till it happens to you. When the shit hits the fan, I will sit there and laugh with the rest. None of your NOSY business about my green card Twerp.
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| green card holder |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 02:51 PM
HA!
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| bill_pusateri |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 06:25 PM
Yes, these women are certainly male abusers. They are playing a deadly game with their men. May I suggest the acronym NAME - Nepali Association of Men Exploited.
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| DV-2003 |
Posted
on 16-Jul-01 10:28 PM
Thank God, I don't have Greencard yet.
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| nun_ yo _beezwax |
Posted
on 17-Jul-01 12:28 PM
What the hell are yo'll talking about neplese men being
victimized? Did you men forget how you got your green
cards in the first place? let me freshen up your memories:
by exploiting those FAT UGLY KUERI GIRLS! Neplese men
sleep around with different girls like bunch of horny
dogs and then when its time to get married, they
want VIRGINS and in order to find KUMARIS they go to nepal.
Do you ever consider whether these Virgin girls from nepal
might want VIRGIN boys as well. Boys, stop playing the
victim roles and clean up your acts!
BY the way two thumbs up to those girls from Nepal
who repeat the same games played by the men on
the KUIRI GIRLS to get green cards.
WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND!
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| hmmmm |
Posted
on 17-Jul-01 12:58 PM
wow! you go girlfriend!
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| woman |
Posted
on 17-Jul-01 01:23 PM
In that last comment, I suppose there's a point about a certain unfortunate species of male (native habitat: Thamel). But it's hidden among all the venom directed at other women.
Mostly, all I'm seeing here are nasty and prejudiced comments about Nepali women who divorce their husbands in the US, followed by nasty and prejudiced comments about the physical appearance of Anglo women and nasty and prejudiced comments about the intentions (and also the previous sex lives) of Nepali men married to Anglo women.
Wow. And also, Yuck.
ALL of you--please look around without bitterness and generalization, and you may see a different world.
Signed,
"Kuirey" Happily Married for Many Years to Nepali Husband (who also knows lots of other "kuireys" happily married for many years to non-scummy, non-mercenary Nepali men)
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| another woman |
Posted
on 17-Jul-01 02:09 PM
My say:
I volunteered for a Jewish American Family Service. My job would be spend a few hours per week, talk to them (in English) - just help them ease into this society. Later on I found out that they got divorced. They had one daughter - very very bright. I also found out it is a very common phenomenon. So, what I am trying to say is after coming to this country - land of free, home of brave, roads paved with gold - women find out: hey I don't have to live with this scum bag if I don't want to. I don't have to wait on him like a slave if that disgusts me. Why don't men leave their women? Why should they? Nepali Culture always gives preferential treatment to men many other cultures do. They have a lot to lose than women if the environment changes, i.e. from Nepal (or Russia or India) to USA. After few years if the men don't grow and grow up and change with the times, wives say hastala vista baby, i am going to search for better life.
So, in this equation sometimes men loses and sometimes women. But, men being men their masculinity gets terribly hurt and post stuff like what victim posted and egomaniacs like yak&yeti support.
yours truly,
-woman who is happily married to another Gorey.
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| MaxVanPecker |
Posted
on 17-Jul-01 03:58 PM
Did you guys consider going to DR Love for your problems? You should look more into what happened??? Or better yet where did I go wrong ??
Nun_yo_Beeswax!!! One word ....Therapy. Lotta Angst..no good fo u.
Talk it over, u sound tense. I don't see any Nepali guys saying anything to any Nepali girl what to do(unless you are going out)??
Guess you're just a bit jelous cause you cannot find it in your heart to do what these guys are doing. No one is stoping you..go ahead make my day(go find a virgin boy). We are talking about married people with responsibility.
Ludicrous of you other females to be cursing the Man. Marriage is a 2 way st. If one doesn't compromise, it's not going to work.
Apologies to the Kuirey married to Nepali, no need to disrespect just the whites. There are plenty of Nepali women who do the same.
Shame on all you jerks writing crap about Kuirey people. You actually thank them for letting you stay here in the first place. Don't try and bite the hand that feeds you.
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| Keta |
Posted
on 17-Jul-01 10:33 PM
nun_ yo _beezwax, there still some virgin guys out there. Just because there are some bad guys doesn't mean that there aren't any
good and innocent men. For example, I'm 25 years old and still a virgin. I know it is hard sometimes because my friends and brothers always make joke about my virginity but I think it is the right thing to do.I don't have any plan to lose my virginity before marrige. I wish my wife to be virgin also but I know it is very hard to find that type of girls nowdays. Even if she is not a virgin, I'm OK with that because I don't like blame anyone for their past life.We are all human beings and we all make mistakes.
That is life. Rather than blaming each other for the past mistakes
men and women both should try to live upto their partner's expectations. Sex lasts for only 15 minutes but the true love last forever.
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| nun-yo-beezwax |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 11:43 AM
This message is directed to "WOMAN" and "ANOTHER WOMAN",
WOMAN, honey,enjoy your white boy for the time being because
you know it and so does he that the bond between you two
is not going to last till "death do you two apart".
sorry, but it's the fact! i know reality bites!
ANOTHER WOMAN, save your lecture for your grand kids.
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| man |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 12:30 PM
I'm a guy but I'm with "woman" and "another woman" in this case. Why are these men with Green Cards going to Nepal to marry Nepali women anyway? If they are dangling the lure of green cards, then they are exploiting these women to begin with.
Besides, if you can't handle a woman finally waking up and asking for equal rights, then I suggest you have some issues. A relationship with equal partnership is far more rewarding anyway. Learn to grow with time and surroundings, learn to grow with your partner. That way, you'll have a very rewarding relationship. If not, be left behind and be bitter like some of you guys seem to be here.
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| man |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 12:33 PM
Keta,
sorry, but how do you know sex only last for 15mins? I thought you said you are virgin? Hmmmmm...
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| MaxvonpeckeR |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 12:58 PM
Keta!!!!
Get over it man!!! Sex and love, two different things. You don't have to be in love to have sex. What if you die tomorrow ?? Die a virgin, not knowing what its like?? Sex is greeat, sex is fun, try it sometime. Don't deprive yourself of one of the most pleasurable acts in the world. Or are you following the Regans & the Bushes..... JUST SAY NO.
Nonyobeeswax!!!
Who are you to be telling other people what to do ??? I think you have some serious issues here. You were all sour grapes over Nepali guys having sex with quireys. Now you're telling married people what to do ?? Pretty pathetic I should say. On what basis are you saying that its not going to work. I know tons of nepali people married both ways that have been here. I don't see any problem there. Their kids actually have the better of both worlds(education American & culture Nepali).
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| rolpali@msn.com |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 04:35 PM
Victime and all the men:
Get over it and move on man. Find the better one which works for you. There are lots of fishes in the pond if you have right tool :-). You know what I mean. And good thing being in USA is you can choose one form any nation and any culture. You just don't have to waite for Nepali woman. If that Nepali BITCH doesn't appreciate you and your love then let her move. She doesn't desever you and you don't want that bitch in your life. Do you????
Same advise to WOMEN as well...
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| nun-yo-beewax |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 07:17 PM
Maxvan, dude get a fking life okay. I can say
whatever the hell i want to to whomever the hell i want.
if you can't digest what i've to say then fk off.
who the hell are you to tell me that i'm tense,
honey, i get all the lovin' in the world. i bet as for you
you don't even have that fat kuiri girl. You're the
one who seems to be sexually frustrated, because no woman
or man for that matter wants you.
you pathetic piece of stool.
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| yo mama |
Posted
on 18-Jul-01 08:42 PM
Turn down that rap music and get thee to a therapist.
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| Maxvonpecker |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 12:06 AM
Showin' yo true colours Miss NonYo !!!
Profanity is all u got.
You ain't worth ma trouble.
Thanks!!!
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| Yak&Yeti |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 09:41 AM
This NonYoBeesWax character is exactly what I am talking about.
Typical Nepali girl gone bad. With yomama attitude, yu ain't gettin' nowhere. I"d say Grapes are definately sour for you. Yo mama needs to wash yo mouth with soapwater. Have no respect for others, typical I am the Bomb attitude. Yo koochi may be the bomb but you ain't worth crap. And turn that volume down.
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| Nepali Guy |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 11:12 AM
We Nepali men not only need men but also women to support us.
We live in a conjugal society, so please, support each other. dudes and gals. Life can be much much better and fun and promising that way. I don't think there is anything wrong with marrying a virgin or a non-virgin...and don;t be proud that you have not had sex (till 25)...boy you are missing one of the most blissful gift of nature...chao
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| Bostonian |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 11:15 AM
Written by Nunyo...
This message is directed to "WOMAN" and "ANOTHER WOMAN",
WOMAN, honey,enjoy your white boy for the time being because
you know it and so does he that the bond between you two
is not going to last till "death do you two apart".
sorry, but it's the fact! i know reality bites!
I have been a quiet spectator on this site for some time. But I feel the need to respond on the subject of victimized men and interracial marriages.
First to the victimized men, if you ex-wives only married you for a green card then I am truly sorry. It is terrible for any person, male or female, Nepali or non-Nepali, to use love selfishly for personal gain without considering your partner's emotions. What concerns me is that you only give support for this issue to Nepali men. Is it inconceivable that a Nepali woman could have gotten her green card first, got her husband over her, and he left her once he had his green card? And should we not pity the Americans who marry Nepali or any other immigrants and are in turned hurt by the same situation?
As for interracial marriages or relationships, if Nonyo was a white American, it could and would probably be considered racism. I considered the comment unsupported by any evidence and possibly racist. White people are not the only racists in the world. And Nepali men are hardly the only victims. I can only wish that all victims, men, women, Nepali or not, can know that you do not need to tolerate any mistreatment from husbands, wives, Americans, or Nepalis.
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| BHARIA |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 11:22 AM
Wow Nonyobeeswax!!!!
You sound like a good egg gone rotten. If you truly gettin' all the loving.... you would wouldn't be talking bout it. As they say in Nepal,"empty vessels make a lot of noise"
You are nothing but a hypocrite, for someone who does not like to be told what to do. You certainly have a lot of things to say to other people. You better check yoself before u wreckyoself mama.
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| Nepaliketi |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 01:45 PM
This is the type of behaviour that gives the rest of nepli girls a bad name. Beeswax no need to use the f words. You can still convey your message without the f word. your attitude is beyond belief. Seems like u have no selfrespect that is probably why u have no respect for others as well. To be getting all that so called Love you claim is just skin deep. Go look at yourself in the mirror, you are not black to be speaking Ebonics. Getting some Black meat probably changed your tongue maybe ????
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| language police |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 04:19 PM
Hey there Nepali Guy, "chao" is written as 'Ciao.' Small matter but big difference.
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| Wickedwitch |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 04:29 PM
Getting some black meat? Ouch !! Viscious viscious.
Why do you all assume beeswax is a woman? I think beeswax is a man. Only insecure Nepali men speak like beeswax does - while thinking that they are so so cool to speak like dem black bros or like dem confused white teenagers who like to say D-U-D-E to everyone. DUDE? Puh-leeez. Speak English. Get a life. Can you imagine what an Asian boy sounds and looks like when he tries to imitate someone he is not? Don't make a fool of yourself, DUDE !!!
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| MaxVonPrick |
Posted
on 19-Jul-01 04:49 PM
Whatchamacallit???
Miss NonYobeeswax !!!
Its pretty evident with the responses the responses determining the nature of yo character... Need I say mo !!!!!!
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