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| Shefali | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 01:55 PM
what exactly is beauty?will i be pretty if i loose 10 lbs?or will i be beautiful if i die my hair wid diff colors or prolly if i wear short dresses? Thanx for all the ppl who liked my pic and thanx to them to who thinks i am ugly ...i wuldn't lie by saying that some of ur comments didn't hurt coz it sure did hurt but u know what i may not be size 0 or not be pretty but atleast i don't judge ppl by their looks Nepali angel i was fascinated by ur comments .Hey i am sure u r hottie but honey don't u think u shuldn't be rude to ppl and say all this stuffs just coz how they look?So i guess looks matter. But guys thanx for all the comments . even if i am ugly and fat i had guts to display mah picture .Anyways it;s wrothless to make u guys understand all this stuffs so sorry for the pic.Can't help the way i look.And oh ya i can loose weight any time i want but for some of u guys will be still ugly from inside..So hey thanx for all the comments . I am beautiful no matter that they say words can't bring me downs!!! Shef p.s= and i am pretty sure some of u guys have some nasty and rude comments on this thread of mine too.Hahhahah i guess i can't please anyone |
| GurL_Interrupted | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 02:30 PM
You go GurL!! |
| nepali_girl | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 03:17 PM
As u've quoted urself from the Christina's number "u're beautiful..no matter what they say"..it will put everything else as plain words!!!! |
| mickthesick | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 03:23 PM
.SHEFALI....we love you! |
| Shefali | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 05:52 PM
thanx guys Really aprreciated ur comments.But i am over this being ugly Coz i think no one is worth this much of a pain just coz they r not preettier hoina ra?I am who i am and proud to be myself!!! Love ya all Shef |
| BMW | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 07:24 PM
shefali, Girlfriend please, don't let these low life haters get to you, until they can post their pictures and show what they got, they can't say $HIT. they hide behind their PCs and make rude ass comments to make themselves feel better. I have so much respect for you. and you have a beautiful face, that's something you'll never have to change. petty stuff like weight, you can loose that in few months so it dont' really matter and who the hell thinks you're fat, geez anyhow.. hats of 2 u girl. |
| SITARA | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 08:24 PM
Miss BMW, hats off to you too! :) |
| dada | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 08:35 PM
Shefali, When u posted those pics, you knew that you were gonna get lotsa comments right--some of them nasty. If you didn't know, now you know. |
| kiddo | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 08:46 PM
If you think these guys are judging you baselessly, then their comments shouldn't make you upset. You are crediting their 'intelligence' by being affected by their comments. |
| Nkt2 | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 09:48 PM
Shefu sis Don't let petty comments upset you gurllll....You are beautiful inside and out. There will always be critics in life and gurlll you're way better than that. sis your beauty does not lie in how much you weigh, or the color of your hair, or the expertly done makeup, or the latest magic potion you used to make your skin baby soft...it lies within you...and no one can take that away from you. Much love sis...YOU GO GURLLLLLLL!!!!!!!!! |
| bhunte | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 10:13 PM
amigo femenino, Tiene sido un rato largo que no le ve. Está usted con nuevo trabajo? Estaré en Boulder en Agosto para una reunión, pero usted puede ser que se haya movido ya desde allí. recuerdos, bhunte |
| kurtsgal | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 10:23 PM
YES SHEFALI...THE AMOUNT OF GUTS U'VE GATHER TO POST UR PICCHURE UP THERE I MEAN ITS REALLY AMAZING ...AND BOUT BEAUTY THE INNER ONE COUNTS MORE THAN ANYTHING ELSE IN THE WORLD...I HAVE GONE THRU THIS THREAD 99% AGREE WITH IT AND YES ABOUT UR WEIGHT ITS NO F*****G BIG DEAL.. JOIN A GYM U'LL SHED UR FEW FATS WITHIN A MATTER OF DAYS..SUN MA SUGANDHA U GOT THAT... RITE SHEFALI AAAB HAMAR KHOPADIAMA YI BAAT SAMAJ MEIN NAI AAOTH LOGUWAKO KISISKI FIGURWUA DEKHE KAR APNI DIMAG KA KYO MA BAHEN BANAIRAHIN....JUST LET HER BE "THE SHEFALI" SHE WANTS TO BE |
| eXpert_opinion | Posted
on 16-Feb-04 10:41 PM
Shefali, I have to agree with dada, when you post your pictures on a public forum such as this you're asking for criticism. Some of them are positive and some negative, that's the whole point of forums, people should be able to express their opinions. There are people who will think Julia Robers or Maryln Monroe may not be perfect but majority of us would think otherwise. I do not think the majority of Sajha asked you to post your picture, ( I maybe wrong about that) but you posted it by your own free will therefore you should be able to take the comments. I hate to say it but I have also taken part in "let's bash Shefali" thread in this forum but had you not posted your picture in the first place you would not have to hear these comments. Everyone in here is able to express their opinion just as you were free to post you picture here for the whole world to comment on. Just my $0.02 |
| ugly duckling | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 08:46 AM
I thought you were beautiful until I saw this thread. If you have the guts to post your picture, show some courage to withstand the comments too. Where is your girl power? Btw, "dye" your hair with blue, green. red, brown... but, don't let it "die". cheers! |
| nepali_angel | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 11:56 AM
BMW, still waiting for your picture..... :O |
| BMW | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:02 PM
nepali bausi, it has to work both ways, i will only post it once you post it ho. |
| nepali_angel | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:07 PM
No, you post it first then I'll post mine. Believe me, I look like a model. I don't think you're even a woman in the first place. Someone called you "Miss BMW" but I seriously doubt it. |
| BMW | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:15 PM
BWahhahahhaha, did the bausi just say she looks like a model, I am sorry but you're hungry ass sukeko self with no T & A, do not make you a MODEL. You know you have no life when you spend half of your time admitting to making a long ass posts on ethnic bashing and belittling others, and how do i know you're not just gonna extract some model's pic and post it. you know you're capable of it. you calista flockwart lookalike. |
| nepali_angel | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:22 PM
Stop yapping and post your picture. If you're a coward, you can always send it to me at a_nepaliangel@yahoo.com I never admitted to anything. Believe me, if you're a woman, I look 2000X better than you. |
| BMW | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:31 PM
Loozer, was it your supposed blue eyed grandfather who told you u look good? are you sure he could see straight? hungry bitch. coward huh? won't you post your picture here then. let's see.. |
| nepali_angel | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:36 PM
Green eyed, you idiot. He was blonde, believe it or not. He hails from one of em places in Mahakali anchal. I got greyish eyes myself, moron. Even my eyes are enough to make me look better than you...! My dad is also very fair-skinned My mother looks Indian though. My brother is 6'2" tall, slender, athletic, with light brown hair. I am tall for a woman(5'8"), slender, black haired, small breasted(but round), have nice firm buttocks that any man would dream to touch, and can sing like Lata Mangeshkar. Now shut up. |
| casey00 | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 12:41 PM
Nepali_Angel: Just for you being so cocky..I would defnitely like your pic to go up first..Please..come on stats mean nothing..unless you prove it..be a sport...if you are that arrogant..THEN...LETS GO...post ur pic..first.. I will give u 50 cent if u post ur pic up first..Oh wait a minute..thats cheap..how abt ya dollar? :) P.S. Angel..I dont think you are a girl..the way u talk..seems like ur a guy disguising as a girl.:) |
| BMW | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 01:58 PM
bwahahhah, well i got a body like halle, booty like beyonce, face like aishwarya and can dance like janet, now top that bitch.. listen, the point is, unless you can post your picture here and proving everything you're claiming to be, STOP wasting the space with nonsense. guffadi nakachari |
| BMW | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 02:04 PM
*prove |
| the other one | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 03:07 PM
Nepali_angle = A hick Boyfriend of a Toothless Nepali Bokshi (Nepali_Bokshi), Imagiene them, on the back of a chipped away Ford Truck, farting and laughing/ Or a small breasted He_She, who comes here when it has the hormon withdrawal. Thats what this person sounds like when you read the postings. |
| nepali_angel | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 03:48 PM
the_other_one, why don't you shove your pindick in a pencil sharpener, you idiot? Bla bla bla bla bla, that's all you're good for... come up with better quips next time, moron, if you're looking for my attention jack ass. Else ignore me, idiot. You suck, really. |
| Shefali | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 05:32 PM
nepali angel; i know u prolly don't wanna take advice from a "ugly" gal like me but anyways Why r ya so happy just coz u r beautiful.Aftre couple of yrs u won't look the same .As time goes by Ur face and ur body structure will change .So why make a big deal outta it.U prolly look like a model from outside but honey from inside i doubt it .and even if u are beautiful don't u think it;s better to hear ur praise from others rather than blowing ur own horn? LA that;s it aba yo bhanda badhi ma kehi bhanna sakdina so if some ppl r like that can't help it !!!! love ya all Shef |
| BMW | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 06:32 PM
the other one, that was a good one. nepali bausi is just mad cuz you hit the nail. nepali bausi, go home, your time has expried. shoot |
| MadMax | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 09:14 PM
SHEFALI THIS IS FOR YOU 1. Limit your carbs intake, while increase in protien, switch to healthy fat (monosaturated - olive oil, nuts, avacado, etc - avoid saturated & trans fat). Avoid processed food - replace white bread with wheat, rice with brown rice, 5 servings of fruits/vegetables per day. Drink 8 glasses of water (8 ounce glass). Forget the juice - go for fresh fruits. 2. Join the gym gurl, you need to melt some of those baby fat. Hire a personal trainer (depending on your financial situation). If not, here are some tips: begin with cardio (treadmill, stairmaster,etc) - 10 mins. Do a 5 min stretch, then go for light weight training - 30 mins. Wrap it up with light cardio and stretch - 5 mins. If the gym is too far or out of your budget - try outdoor jogging from spring to fall. Or join a Yoga Center. 3. Try to work out 5 days a week - or atleast 3 days a week minimum. 4. Get atleast a min of 7/8 hours sleep every night. Disconnect your cable - "Early to bed and early rise, keeps Jill a healthy girl." 5. Stay motivated, and have patience. "Rome wasn't built in a day." Perseverance pays. 6. Forgot about those diet fads - none of them work. You can stay in shape by eating right and exercise. Good Luck. |
| MadMax | Posted
on 17-Feb-04 09:15 PM
Shefali, I forgot to mention, you do have beautiful chanchal eyes. :) |
| spark | Posted
on 18-Feb-04 10:51 AM
Shefali memsaheb, you are beautiful in your mind and heart.i have no comment on how high you are, how fair is your skin, or how much you weigh. somewhere i read you were also featured earlier. to my understanding the purpose of getting featured is to get identified oneself in sajha nepali community one time. doesn't it sound like something on a sale at huge discounted price when you reappear again? it seems you are too much pampared by your fellows who take you to sky and drop from there just to shatter like a pumpkin. so be careful, you can find all kinds of suckers around you. refeaturing should be considered on some exceptional ground, like you are achieved one on something like winning olympic medal, etc. if your purpose is to find a suitable life partner, there are varieties of ways which no one has to tell you. matrimonial site would be the best place to be. best of luck! |