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Right time to get married

   What is the right time to get married. S 23-Feb-04 govin
     Prime taymmmeee is da righttt tyammmm.. 23-Feb-04 sankaa
       What about 25 o'clock? 23-Feb-04 govin
         Never? 23-Feb-04 acharya
           NEVER. 23-Feb-04 confused
             annnnnncchiuuuuu..... nepal ma bhancha.. 23-Feb-04 yOuNgBlOoDz
               when you loose all your hopes and dreams 23-Feb-04 hansy420
                 RIGHT time to do anything is RIGHT now. 23-Feb-04 u_day
                   <br> Here's a very cold calculation, su 23-Feb-04 Biswo
                     YOU MEAN RIGHT AGE TO MARRY ? Yevry thi 23-Feb-04 garibjanata
                       when you'll finally get what your heart 23-Feb-04 honeybuzz


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govin Posted on 23-Feb-04 12:57 AM

What is the right time to get married. Seeking your advice...
sankaa Posted on 23-Feb-04 01:42 AM

Prime taymmmeee is da righttt tyammmm.. hehe anytime is the right time to get married, excpet the following hours.. 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12 am/and PM. Good luck..
govin Posted on 23-Feb-04 02:53 AM

What about 25 o'clock?
acharya Posted on 23-Feb-04 06:15 AM

Never?
confused Posted on 23-Feb-04 01:45 PM

NEVER.
yOuNgBlOoDz Posted on 23-Feb-04 01:56 PM

annnnnncchiuuuuu..... nepal ma bhancha.. aancchiuuuu aaye pachi sayit bigarncha re..

so try sum other time :)


well it depends , if ur desperately horny fo marriage.. netime is good fo ya..
u have other options tooo.. after ur standin in ur two feet... knowmsayin!


yb
hansy420 Posted on 23-Feb-04 02:01 PM

when you loose all your hopes and dreams...
u_day Posted on 23-Feb-04 03:06 PM

RIGHT time to do anything is RIGHT now.
Biswo Posted on 23-Feb-04 05:26 PM


Here's a very cold calculation, suggested by a statistician named Dykin long ago.I am giving my words to his solution. While reading this please forget subjective things like i)first love ii)fidelity iii)crush and consider that they exist only in Mars and that we eartheans here are all material girls/boys.

Marriage is all about finding the best partner you can get. But you really don't know who is the best. However, when you see two possible prospect, you can compare who is the better, and that's all you can do. It may be that today you see a girl(boy), you like her(him), and you marry her(him). Tomorrow,you figure out that you actually settled for something less. Then, you may want to give up on the first partner leading to the instability in marriage. So, all bachelors face with this problem of how to find the best partner.

Dynkin said that the highest probability of landing 'the best' marriage partner is about one third way from your search. Actually it is after 1/e where e is the famous exponential number. The procedure is like this: you notice but reject all first 1/3rd of the prospects.(Notice that you can't go back and ask them again. Once you reject, you reject.) Then accept the first prospect who is better than all the first 1/3rd .

For a man, assuming his 'marriageable age' is from 20-50 years. So, he got 30 years. According to Dynkin's solution, he should marry after 10 years of his search, i.e. around when he is 30, and gets the best prospect that he has ever gotten. For women, this 'marriageable age' is 18-35, so she would be better off when she marries the best boy after she is 24. [Note: the years given here are mine and chosen arbitrarily.]

[First posted about a month ago in the thread 'when to get in serious relationship']
garibjanata Posted on 23-Feb-04 06:20 PM

YOU MEAN RIGHT AGE TO MARRY ?
Yevry thing is fair in love and marriage age. No age bar, absolutely not. KETA can be 82, KETI can be 98, they still can marry. KETA can be 86, KETI can be 26, they still can marry. Of course, the guy has to be a billionare (like that Anne Nicole Smith ko buda).



I read yesterday in some paper about a British LOVE GURU who has formulated a BIHE equation:

KETI 27 years = KETA 32 YEARS = PERFECTO MARRIAGE TIME. BULL KO ACHI.
honeybuzz Posted on 23-Feb-04 11:23 PM

when you'll finally get what your heart desires. most women are preparing to get married from day one, when they first fell in love with their daddy. Didn't you and your friends pretend wedding? For women, getting married is a dream-come-true; the culmination of the fantasy that began the first time they heard a fairy tale with a prince in it. Isn't that what princes are for, to whisk the beautiful maiden off to his castle to live happily-ever-after? some of us are into our careers and postponing marriage.Many of us will at some time or another be questioned by either a friend or relative (especially during weddings and festivals) on when we will get married. Especially if you are about the 'right' age to get married (although we really don't know what is the right age to get married! Is there any one out there that can give us the answer?). There must be good reason why the elders want us to get married early. The most common reason being the fact that you don't want your kids to be still very young when you are about to retire. But by far, the most irritating sort of pressure to get married is not only the elders. We heard that it is actually from friends whom by the fact that they have just recently got married promoted themselves into 'elder' status. we need to ask ourself am i ready to get married or not?For that first find the right person and be ready to give up your freedom.
Well, for those of you out there who are enjoying single hood and please go ahead and enjoy yourselves. It's your life and you shouldn't feel pressured in any way.For me never right time to get married.:) Cuz i love being singel.hehhe