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| ringoketi |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 11:07 AM
Hi all,
I just feel something different when i saw all the discussion in "Kurakani"...I saw all the comments about only gals but not guys...So I am putting this thread about "how nepali guys are in the USA". Some nepali guys i met ..actually in the chat room & phone, not personally ...he is totally crazy about the gal....i mean he just want to make a fool i guess...well i have a sutation here...that guy wants to meet me, seems like he knew everything about me...but i have no clue about him...when he calls me he always wanna know about me and when i asked him... he doesn't wanna tell me anything....he always told me he is going to tell me when he is going to met me...so should i meet him or not? I just need a suggestion from u all if u r in like this sutation what would u do?
Thanks
ringo
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| sankaa |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 11:10 AM
certainly meet him, but don't forget your pepper spray , if you have one, stun gun's the best...
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| ringoketi |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 11:17 AM
Hi all,
just curious, if i meet him what would happen? Nowadays so many crimes in the USA so should i trust him and let him to come to my place and see me? I have no clue about this guy...not even his phone number...when i asked his phone number he doesn't wanna give me...that makes me little scary and something wrong on that point....coz in the USA phone number is not a big deal...anyway,I just need all of your advice.....what should i do? If he came to my place should i go with police....and meet him...or what to do? just tell me your honest answer...
thanks,
Ringo
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| ProudNepali |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 11:37 AM
Mitra!!! Do what your heart tells you. You appear excited about it. Yet you are sceptic too. Give yourself a chance gal.
I asked you to do what your heart tells you. As an advice try meeting him in a public place, like coffee shop, Mall, etc. I personally believe most of us Nepali brothers here are no different from the ones back in Nepal.
good luck and Jai Nepal.
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| east coast boy |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 11:42 AM
well ringkoti, if i were u i would not even talking to person who does not even want to give his identificantion.
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| MEera |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 11:58 AM
Man, this sounds creepy. The guy does not want to even tell you anything about him. Is he normal?????
Well look at the bright side, maybe he is your long lost friend and wants to give you a surprise. But then again maybe he is some psychopath, thought I would like to think of all Nepali as good people. But then again I am biased.
Do what your heart tells you but be careful. Meet him in some public place.
All the best!!!!!!!!!
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| Rusty |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 12:15 PM
RingoKeti, ask yourself: do you really want to meet him? Can you take that risk? why isn't he giving you his identification? However, I suggest you to meet him only after you know who he is.
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| swabhiman |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 12:32 PM
Hey Ringoketi,
I am surprising with your problem. You have quiet funny problem. In my opinion Sajha.com's" Kurakani" Column is to discuss about any important topics which is effective for everyone. But you are talking quiet shameful thing. That is your personal matter to meet that guy or do whatever you want to with him. Don't ask like this funny and crazy things to others.
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| kILLERbUZz |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 12:34 PM
yeah yeah, intersting ... just make sure u throw in some TROJANS inside ur purse .... sankaa's idea isn't bad at all ... have fun ...
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| u_day |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 12:58 PM
Ringo!
Do not met him. I repeat DO NOT MEET HIM......
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| Arnico |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 12:59 PM
I would warn you against meeting anyone whose identity you cannot trust or verify. Especially if he collects a lot of information about you, but does not give any about himself, that makes him sound quite suspicious. A potential stalker...
Sure you could meet him at a public place, such as a crowded cafe... but make sure that:
1) you have a way of leaving without him being able to follow.
2) that he does not have a camera (including on his cell) that he could later use to give you trouble.
Also, if you are going to meet him... have a friend or two come along... either to meet him directly, or to sit nearby and watch.
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Just a note of clarification: no I don't have anything against meeting people from chat... but the situation as you describe sounds very suspicious.
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Swabhiman, I completely disagree with you. She is asking for advice on an issue that MANY people here can relate to (may be you can't)... and that many people here can give advice about.
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| ringoketi |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 12:59 PM
Hi,
ProudNepali,east coast boy,MEera and Rusty
Thank you for your answer for me...i am really appriciated your help. and again thanks for the suggestion.
For swabhiman and kILLERbUZz..if u guys think it's funny and crazy please u don't have to read my post. "In your opinion Sajha.com's" Kurakani" Column is to discuss about any important topics which is effective for everyone". I was thinking this is a important topic and get some suggestion for all who visit Sajha.com. But not like you "swabhiman" who thinks my posting is funny. and i don't know what's important topic and not important topic in your mind that we can only post that u talking about? for me it's really really important topic. Anyway if it's really borther u please just ignore it. Don't try to mess up my post. For others who gave me really good suggestion i really appriciate.
Thanks again,
Ringo
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| ringoketi |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 01:04 PM
Thanks again u-day and Arnico dai....I really appriciate your suggestion.
Thanks again,
Ringo
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| dallipokchi |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 01:38 PM
depends on wat kinda guy he is..u know how some guys are like ..if u go on a date....they say u slept with them...
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| ssNY |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 01:42 PM
Ringoketi - If you don't have a caller ID, get one FAST. Or dial *69 after and hour or so after he calls, assuming you didn't get another call before that. You may find his wife or girlfriend or a roommate answering. And make a way to divulge some info about him.
After all the suggestions you got here, what makes you feel ok, if that guy is also a sajhaite?
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| ringoketi |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 01:50 PM
hi ssNY,
I have a caller ID...when he calls me it just appears "private" or some time "out of area". and i went to Security Office and they gave me "Phone Harresment form" to fill it out and trace him...so i am in safe condition right now.and even I told him that guy "please don't call me anymore if u can't give me your information".. and he still bothering me and wanna meet me...so lets see...and again thank you for your suggestion.
Ringo
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| sankaa |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 04:22 PM
okie okie, since ringokt really really wants to know what should she do, i'll throw a story here..
We were drinking and playin' play station on one warm summer night. Suddenly one of our lady friends talked about finding some guy that she knew from her class to be in yahoo personall page. She said , she thought it was funny and she feels sorry for the guy. While she though so some of the guy friends thought that it's a wonderful idea to pick up chicks. So just for a prank , we decided to Put my friend KIlo's profile with a pic on yahoo personall.
Few days later , Kilo told us that he has received an email from this chick who wold like to meet him , but she would not tell him who she is - and all he has is her random email address with a funny user name. After few more days when we buddies went out on drinking he mentoned that he's been getting calls from that chick but she would not give her phone number or disclose any private information. he also mentoned that she must be from this area because she knows the local land marks , bars and schools. at that point he asked basically what ringokt is asking here rightnow, that is what should he do.
Yup you guessed it right, first we made fun of him that that chic must be some fatty burger or a physco loper who needs some kinky lopin' (please don't mind my little zesty expression here). In response to that kilo said that it was the pants size he asked as a first question to that girl and she has told him that she's slim and sexy. That was all at that time..
few more days after when we were at a buddy house to party up, Kilo was there too. So i asked him if he actually did meet that girl. All of a sudden his expression changed. he has this real strange expression on his face as if he's seeing a ghost or something. he turned red, and pale, and green and yellow and all those wierd colors that you can put on your face when you remember some shitty incident in your life. Sorry , i'm not a very good story teller.. can't make it sound more thrilling than this.. anyway, my point is to say that he was very scared, and you could tell that at that point his mind was going on 10 different ways..
he told me , very scared , in a soft voice.. mannn that chick was bad mann.. . hmmm what kinda bad kilo? bad in bed? bad like baaaad like fat as phat;).. he said, no mayan..and he went away.
Yup ! if you haven' t guessed it then you are going to guess it right if i ask you to guess what did i do at that situation, YUP... i followed him everywhere and ask him to tell me what happened . After chasing him for half hour he finally borke down and gave me some information.
Kilo: myann after talking to her for weeks i finally told her that i'm getting sick of her and if she doesn't want to meet than she should quit calling me because it's going nowhere. I hung up on her one on twice and i yelled at her too thinking that it must be actually some fat chick who's playin' games with me. But one cay she agreed to meet me . She said she would meet me at the XX mall infront of that new shoe store. So i went there and waited, and guess what? she's didn't come, but later when i checked my voice mail she had left a message saying that something had come up and she will give me a special thing to make it up.
I was taking a turn to come back home when i heard my celly ringing. I picked up and it was her. She said she wants to meet me right now and she told me to come over to her house. She gave me her address. So i went there, to her house. I knocked on the door and you can imagine how i was feeling at that point. So she opened the door and guess what ? she was a great looking girl.. she was voloutpous( my spelling is horrible , sorry) , she had blonde hari, brown eyes, big round buttom, you know.. lips - great lips like god was on horny goat weed when he was making her and that kinda stuff.. i said ya ya i got it so she was hot.. and what next..
kilo continues.. and then.. we started talking in her living room. she was all over me dude.. she was shy in the begenning but all of a sudden she started getting rounch. Then while it was going on i heard someone coming out of her room which was right through the living room. It was another blonde girl. She was wearing this every sexy -tight outfit that was giving me idea about all the curves she's got in that toast with lil' jelly, you know.. yeayea.. i know.. so what happend after that kilo...
kilo: then.. her friend suggested to play a drinking game..and put some whiksey on the table.. i got pretty drunk pretty soon.. and since i was losing on the game.. i had only my boxer remaining ...
After few mins, when i kept insisting them to show lil' more skin, they finally told me that they are going to give me a lap dance.. and guess what dude.. they took off thier clothes and they were only on thier panties.. and it freaked me out..
freaked you out?? what the heck kilo, what happened? why are you freaked out by seeing girls in thier panties?? noooooo myannn thats the thing.. they were not the girls.. they were the dudes.. they were the "SHE MALES" and it was getting exposed by thier see through panties dudeeeee......
dyamn kilo, so you must have picked up your clothes and ran out tehre as soon as possible right bro? he got really mad and was sad at the same time.. he said, you weren't there man so quit making assumptions on what happened ok. i said, ok ok.. so tell me what happend next.. he said, well they didn't let me go like that.. they said i have to pay a price since i was going to break thier heart... and kilo started crying all of a sudden.. after seeing that 25 yr-old worked out , bhimshen guy crying like a little boy i didn't have any guts and curiosity left in me.. so i left him alone..
hheheheheh so becareful hai.. ringokt..
and yup guys,, you guessed it right..i am bullshitting all this time... but who knows some kilo is really gettin' some chicks with dick over the internet.. so becareful..word for the day is "becareful"
adios...
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| Prem Charo |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 06:25 PM
Ringoketi,
Sankaa le diyo hai !! Did you get the message now??
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| kingkong |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 06:34 PM
sankaa
bad man
u-day ko life story internet ma public garna hunna ni yaar yesari
bad friend yaar
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| Ms_Independent |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 07:20 PM
Ringoketi, the way I see it, it's totally NONSENSE! why is it so hard for you to understand that this guy is nothing but playing with you? I mean if he really wanted to be your fren or whatever then he wouldn't have been so hesitant to give you his info. I mean come on... but if you really don't mind meeting new people then ANA convention wouldn't be a bad place to meet, coz you would meet new people there anyway ;)... so that way, u won't feel insecure or uncomfortable u know...but do take time to think before u make any decision like that!
(i wouldn't be surprised if it is just another made up story, but it's an interesting topic tho :D)
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| hyaterica |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 09:37 PM
So much so for having sajha as an undetachable part of life, eh ?
Not everything in life should be taken seriously, and one of them is your online personality !
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| patali |
Posted
on 10-Mar-04 09:53 PM
...yeah I agreee.....know everything beforehand, dont make any judgements based on your assumptions..Meeting a random person takes courage. You gotta make yourself secured enough before proceeding further.....It's definitely not a bad idea to meet people through chat, chat is just a medium, but make sure about your security. Not all person turn out the way we anticipate, be careful......
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| jacko |
Posted
on 11-Mar-04 09:18 PM
Have you thought about other socially acceptable way to meet people? Why the desperation? Why not let the guy open up first!! Don’t jump in the pool when you know the water is freezing.
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| _sade |
Posted
on 11-Mar-04 09:36 PM
girl you seemed confused yourself. In the first place you are highly skeptic about the guy and then you are asking here if it is right to meet him? Chill out and enjoy life.
In jest
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