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| NepaliThito |
Posted
on 15-Mar-04 11:44 PM
Well Sajhaites...
I was so bored tonight and came up with this stupid Question.. I did ask myself, Is is a Start or The END? But i could not get the proper answer.. although i came up with this...
For men, Its The End but for women Its the Start.. Just my Perception..
What do you guys think about it?
Keep me posted.
Thanks.
Cheers
NepaliThito
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| M.P. |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 12:19 AM
I think it is a means to an end. :)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 05:57 AM
It could also be an end to your means!!!! Esp, after the kids come!!
:P
Good one M.P.!
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| GaL_eastcoast |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 06:31 AM
Hmmm...end of some freedom and start of reality!
I can't say for men, but maybe its an end of it all for ya'll!
:)
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| hansy420 |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 06:54 AM
it is definitely doomsday!
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| EdHunter |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 08:08 AM
it;s the start of a new beginning of ur life and an end of ur old one... less freedom, less night outs.. getting up in the midle of the night to change baby's diapers..., more tension.. etc..etc.. yeah that's the NEW life for yah man... Enjoy it...!!
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| ladyBug |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 09:14 AM
IT is a creative beginning full of wonderful challenges that make you a better person every new day, I did not know marriage would be such a beautiful thing until i got married myself. So you singles out there would not be blamed for not knowing what a positive, creative experience it is, provided that you are fertile and imaginative/creative.
Also you should have some wits about you and the other person you're living with, to make it work.
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| M.P. |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 04:49 PM
Hehehe..Sitara. End of your means! :) I heard a joke somewhere--pardon me for posting a slightly sexist joke here--that women are like hurricanes: they come wild and wet and when they leave, they take away your everything--your house, car, etc.! :)
I am sure there is a similar joke for boys, but all my junk-mail-forwarding friends are guys and I am out of touch from the latter kind of jokes. :)
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For those who firmly believe in democracy and freedom, marriage does not look like the right thing to do. You have freedom until you have a boy/girl friend. That's the time when your rights start to get questioned. Decisions have to be unanimous. If you oppose too much, you are likely to get "fired" from your job.
But there is always a chance of having a weak opposition party, in which case you can swing the boat in the direction of your choice.
When you get married, you become a bonded laborer. No more choices. But the "bond", bear with me here, is not just of financial constraits and choice restrictions, but also of affection. Once you have kids, you are a bonded laborer inside a prison. You have two walls to break before you can be free.
Now, let me put it in the political context of Nepal. Assume you are a person called "Political Parties". For 12 years--that's when you start your teenage--you are free. You are only answerable to the parents--the people. But, the parents are kind of liberal, so you can go to the stripe club (i.e. do corruption), etc.
Then your lover comes in--the Maoists! Do I need to state what happens to your freedom at this stage? I guess not.
Then come your children--the king takes away your power. The children are kind of immature and are swayed by their immediate gains. They fail to see the world outside. They even curse you for whatever destruction you have done to the house, without realizing that some portion of the house was destroyed when the children were in the womb! The problem is that you have a lot of love and affection for the children. Therefore, you need somebody to tell you that the children--the king--do not always do good. Then, finally you start going against your children.
Remember that your lover--the Maoists--were one of the major factors shaping the upbringing of your children--the king. But you forget that for a while. You keep cursing the children.
The bonds between you, your lover (now a wife) and your children is very strong. You do not want to break your lover's heart--the Berlin wall being constructed in the west. You also can not break your children's heart--the Narayanhity wall still remains strong.
The frustration leads you to get drunk. And when you are drunk, you talk about Grand Design.
And so the story continues.
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I was thinking of continuing the story further, but thought that the story might be boring for the readers. I rest my case.
Misunderstood Poet,
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| GurL_Interrupted |
Posted
on 16-Mar-04 08:21 PM
LoL M.P. that was one analogy :=D!
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| u_day |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 07:34 AM
nice story M.P. please continue.....
U-day
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| the other one |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 09:17 AM
T_M_A,
A Story I heard, Uncle E went to India and posed the same question to an acetic baba, Dada B lets call him, how everything is relative, the apple falling from the tree and space time paradigm, and asks Dada B how his philosophy relates to this apple. Dada B smiles and asks one of his deciples to hand him an apple, he looks at the apple, the contours and the colour, sniffs it, still smiling he brings the apple upto his mouth and takes a huge bite out of it and says, "Uncle E, this is what I think of your apple."
The End.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 09:22 AM
M.P. What is a "Stripe" Club??? Somewhere you get your stars and stripes, or is it a tattoo parlour?????
:P
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| u_day |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 10:49 AM
sitara ji!
stripe club is where you wave the flag with red and white stripes and use your firearm to kill innocent animals/people...... This club is also known as NRA.
u-day
Bowling for columbine
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| sense |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 11:10 AM
Why dont men die after they attend the age of mariage??huh...no more outings...sex to get babies..no more gals...change daipers..ufff..lovely life would be a disaster after marriage...what abt my rinkys, pinkys , chinkys, mona , ..he he :) I wish I could marry all of them for one night..n leave the rest to all of them ...he he SHAGGY ...
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| cool_keta |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 12:04 PM
3======D hehe u know what i mean, definately a start lol
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| ssNY |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 06:36 PM
SHADI BARBADI! Haven't you heard that?
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| mysterious gurl |
Posted
on 17-Mar-04 06:59 PM
Nepali Thito, hmmm.....lemme think....it depends on how you take it .....here are some beautiful proverbs......
If couple loves to understand the marriage, then she should understand him more than she loves him, and he should love her more than he understands her; there both understand to love in marriage
The cure for love is marriage, and the cure for marriage is love again
Wedding adds the two together, but egoism subtracts one from the other; marriage multiplies, whereas the divorce divides the two.
The greatest secret of successful marriage is to treat all disasters as incidents and none of the incidents as disasters.
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| the other one |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 08:02 AM
T_M_A,
the most telling of all the equal and opposit reaction's you mentioned seems to go to Baba B as he squats on the side of Ganga early the next day reminicing, contemplating, "oh, how red you were and of sweet smell, what has become of you!, but so is life." Likewise I also see a bhusya dog further away reminicing...so, Uncle E, N, Baba B, Doggie B, they all fall into the same equation dont they??
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| u_day |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 11:13 AM
what is an apple has to do with marriage???
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| confused |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 12:05 PM
hahah apple???
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| u_day |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 12:52 PM
The message below was posed in different thread by sajhaite named Vishnu. I thought it would be more appropriate in this thread. Hence I pasted it in here.
Enjoy.....
My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met.
I bought my wife a new car. She called and said, "There was Water in the
carburetor." I asked her, "Where's the car?" She replied, "In the lake."
The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret.
When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him
keep her.
I haven't spoken to my wife in 18 months - I don't like to interrupt her.
Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant with friends. You
order what you want, then when you see what the other fellow has, You wish
you had ordered that.
Man is incomplete until he is married. Then he is finished.
Then there was a man who said, "I never knew what real happiness was until
got married; then it was too late.
A man placed an ad in the classifieds: "Wife wanted." The next day he
received a hundred letters. They all said the same: "You can have mine."
A woman was telling her friend, "I made my husband a millionaire." "And
what was he before you married him?" asked the friend. "A billionaire.", she
replied.
A man, upon his engagement, went to his father and said," Dad! I've found
a woman just like mother. His father replied, So what do you want?
"Sympathy?"
Eighty percent of married men cheat in America. The rest cheat in Europe.
Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage
is the triumph of hope over experience.
If you want your spouse to listen and pay strict attention to every word
you say, talk in your sleep.
I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.
It's not true that married men live longer than single men. It only seems
longer.
A man was complaining to a friend: "I had it all -money, a beautiful house,
a big car, the love of a beautiful woman - and then, BAM!, it was all gone!"
"What happened?" asked his friend. "My wife found out..."
Just think, if it weren't for marriage, men would go through life thinking
they had no faults at all.
The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it
once.
Words to live by: Do not argue with a spouse who is packing your parachute.
First guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!" Second guy: "You're lucky,
mine's still alive.
Now you know the alue of marriage?????
I wonder why gay people want to get married:s
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| Lonely_Star |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 05:27 PM
Marriage is nothing but a union between dumb man and dumb woman
Smart man + smart woman = romance
Smart man + dumb woman = pregnancy
Dumb man + smart woman = affair
Dumb man + dumb woman = marriage
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| Soleil |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 09:32 PM
Just a message to Lady Bug though it is not pertaining to the thread. Wondering if you're the same sweet little bug from the hills of California, where the amber Sun shines and sets like ember. :)
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| M.P. |
Posted
on 18-Mar-04 11:02 PM
This thread is gradually turning into a gentlemen's club. :)
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| smiling_hurt |
Posted
on 19-Mar-04 01:19 AM
Marriage .....
wish I could find someone for an experiment...hehehehehehe
marriage is a start.ahmm.. beginin of a beautifull world ..I am still single but I have seen lotta guy's really happy like they were never B4.
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| babaal |
Posted
on 21-Mar-04 11:53 PM
A start to an end may be?
doesn't make sense, does it?...don't blame me..it's 2:49 am..
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| ou812 |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 02:41 AM
"While women want the single life epitomised by hit TV series Sex And The City, men are more likely to want to settle down and marry, a study shows. The Singletons report a shift in the relations of the sexes, with women becoming ever more adventurous and socially confident while men have become more anxious and insecure.
Single women consider learning new skills and having a good holidy to be more important then getting hitched according to a study of 366 single people carried out by consumer research company Mintel" - Merto Monday, March 22, 2004. (London, UK)
So lads our digital clocks ticking with insecurity? The manifesto by CC don't help does it? I propose ride with the changing tides and stop worrying about marriage. Get fit, have 6 pack, grow hair, change your name to St Jaques or Tarquinn develop a phoney french/spanish english accent. Hank Azaria in along came Polly to sum up.
Cracker anyone?
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| Hellbound |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 08:09 AM
Every married men say, "your life is over after you get wed-knot." Then, why do they get married even though they already know about marriage life? Bihe pani garnu parne..doss pani lagaune..
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| LadyBug |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 08:29 AM
Soleil,
Wonder if you are the same sweetness that was blooming in the nectar of the cute little chinarose, only to be blown away in the winds of time and turn into ashes in the 'embre'.
just a thought. california = golden dream ... eternal sunshine and amber sun :) lol
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| ou812 |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 09:16 AM
Hi Ladybug, your reply to Soliel's inquiry made me grin from ear to ear on this just another manic monday. :o)
Soliel = "sweetness that was blooming in the nectar of the cute little chinarose, only to be blown away in the winds of time and turn into ashes in the 'embre'. " Wey Hey!! Way to go Agent Moulder, the dark side of the moon is glowing with PurpleGalore hue with a tinge of Amber.
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| LadyBug |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 12:07 PM
ou812,
Say what? AgentMoulder?
enlighten me please...
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| kathman01 |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 12:11 PM
some of the aftermath of marriage
from his death bed, the husband called his wife and said ' one month after I die I want u to marry Samy'
the wife said "but he is ur enemy!'
'Yes, i know that! I've suffered all these yrs ago so let him suffer now"
At the cocktail party, one woman said to another"arent u wearing ur wedding ring on the wrong finger?"
the other replied, " yes I am, I married the wrong man."
"Dad I was away for a week. Yesterday I sent a fax to my wife I'd be home that night, and when I got into my room I found my wife in another man's arms. why dad tell me why! she did this to me."
Dad kept silent for a few minutes, then cooly said, may be son, she didnt get the Fax."
in a divorce court a woman requested the judge:Your Honor, I want to divorce my husband."
"But why ?"asked the judge.
she replied"he is not faithful to me."
the judge asked "how do u know?"
she replied"my lord, not a single child resembles him"
A wife, one evening, drew her husband's attention to the couple next door and said, "do u see that couple? How devoted they r? he kisses her everytime they meet. whu dont u do that?. "I would love to"
Replied the husband"but I dont know her well enough"
A woman was complaining to the neighbour that her husband always came home late, no matter how she tried to stop him. "take my advice,"said the neighbour,"and do what I did.Once my husband came home at three o'clock in the morning, and from my bed I called out:"is that you, Jim?"and that cured him.
"Cured him!" asked the woman, "but how?" the neighbour said, "you see, his name is Bill."
"You looked troubled, "I told my friend, "what's ur problem?"
He replied, "I'm going to a father."
"But that is wonderful,"I said
"What is wonderful? My wife doesnt know about it yet."
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 01:52 PM
there was an ad in the paper with mailing address .. that read
WIFE WANTED
couples of days later................. the man got many respond to his ad... and all of them had
TAKE MINE
yb
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| ladybug |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 02:17 PM
dyammmm what a life story
i pity those foo-s YB
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 02:22 PM
lady.. wake up n get ready to deal with it..................... thats how the life is...
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| LadyBug |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 02:29 PM
hey hey hey now....i am just hoping you are not one of them YB :)
try not to be at least. glad to know that u got 'lucky' already ... lol
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 02:33 PM
well........................................... thanx
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 22-Mar-04 02:36 PM
marriage.................. i would say.. its the begining.. rather than an end.. begining of two souls living as one.... but then if we have mismatches.. you know the rest...
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| monika |
Posted
on 23-Mar-04 09:23 AM
marriage is the beginning of thinking in terms of WE rather than ME !!!
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| mickthesick |
Posted
on 23-Mar-04 03:25 PM
.Beginning of endless sex.
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| monika |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 04:27 AM
Mick u really r sick......to be saying such a thing.Marriage to you is only having endlesss sex. ?????
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| honeybuzz |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 09:41 AM
I think it depends on who you marry.
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| ProudNepali |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 11:07 AM
very interesting thread.... Guys carry on. Miss Bug (Ladybug) I will like to hear more from you. For once, I thought you were lost. Alass here you are.
YB...... you are the man bro.
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| ProudNepali |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 11:09 AM
OOps I meant mickthesick bro.....
that was funny
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| Loveline |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 11:20 AM
Marriage is keyta putting em' sindoor on keyti and tomorrow morning she find herself vomiting and after nine month she find herself kids to play with bcz em husband will have forgotten her by then *-*. My just married aunt told meh.
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| yOuNgBlOoDz |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 01:34 PM
loveline......sindur haldai mah marriage huncha ra???
hamro culture mah ta... ketako bau goes to kt house
ketiko bau.. welcomes keta ko bau
chino patro..herchan dubai bau
garaha santi milauncha pani bau
keti le luki luki herchin ketalai hau
maanai man mah....maan parauchan hau
keta le pani....dhaka topi milaudai chau
ani....afno aankha marera...bihe ko permission magcha
bhoj,,,bhater........madap ko fera
suindo mah sindur...ghati mah barmala
ani euta baccha pachi keko... forget ni...
whole football team...w/ few reserves
najanmaye samma...!!!!!!!!!ani then...
they live happily ever after
yb
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| honeybuzz |
Posted
on 24-Mar-04 08:31 PM
Marriages are made in heaven.
Nobody has seen heaven but the idea is that all is well in heaven and all is chaotic in hell.
Well...this is a very complex issue. Almost all married couples come across a time in their life, when they have conflicts, difficulties of understanding caused by zillion little reasons. well i don't know what i was going to write hehhe i don't know i guess
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| ladybug |
Posted
on 27-Mar-04 10:28 AM
ok ok i am back for your sake PN........how is it going? how is new weather treating you? not catching cold and stuff i hope.
Also Soleil....where did you get lost? thought we would resolve our enigma here.
monika - you got a point however one thing i have learnt is that never lose your individuality - that does have a strong contribution in your marriage. at least i think its important to be yourself while thinking collectively in certain things necessary, right?
mickthesick - that might be the reason dear you might get married one day? is that it?
YB - heheeh. dont forget to invite me in your wedding, it sounds like lot of fun already :) i'd love to witness the whole hindu ceremony. so sweeeeeeeeeeeeeeet lol.
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| Zombie |
Posted
on 27-Mar-04 12:33 PM
To the married ones: Don’t you get bored stiff watching over same face always, I mean same skin tone, same guise. Prohibited from joining bachelor party – you know what I mean, restricted to be around fair looking ladies? And a lot of other restrictions. Marriage word really gives me a jolt, fearing to loose my freedom at large. Just curious. I might be wrong. who knows.
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| kathman01 |
Posted
on 27-Mar-04 12:50 PM
Isnt marriage a compromise contract between two which will sort out the best way to get the individual life into the togetherness and tries out to work the best for the future but which will never get what it expects.
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| babaal |
Posted
on 27-Mar-04 12:53 PM
If the hell would you make that compromise..when everything is possible without it ?
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