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Is he just being nice? or ..

   Well see there is this guy that my mom h 27-Mar-04 urbi
     Talk to him! He and only he can answer q 27-Mar-04 Poonte
       Poonte Thank you. 27-Mar-04 urbi
         kasto helpful answer deko poonte le !!! 27-Mar-04 babaal
           or............. URbi jyoo. ask him to lo 28-Mar-04 ProudNepali
             now i'm gonna confuse you more....someti 28-Mar-04 merosajha
               well good idea proud nepali and poonte b 28-Mar-04 urbi
                 \i thinkhe's very nice but he has some p 28-Mar-04 dyamn


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urbi Posted on 27-Mar-04 09:54 AM

Well see there is this guy that my mom has known his family for about five years. I meet him one time and that was when he was walking through his house and he said hey. Well, recently (past month) He has been coming to my work ( I work at a Nursing Home as an Activities Assistant I play games with Elderly people) and playing the guitar for the Residents. He can sing and Play the guitar beautifuly. Anyways, So the first time he came up there he wouldn't sing by himself and made me sing with him. So I did and there was instant Chemistry from my point of view. But there is one thing about this guy. He has been extremely sheltered and is the most well mannered human being I have ever met. He is cordial and nice to anybody. It is his personality. Well after that every Saturday he came to the Nursing Home except on my off day. My birthday was this past month and he came to my work and gave me a card . It was really sweet. And then Last Saturday I was in a Residents room reading her a book and he had me paged to find out where I was and sneeked down to the room and watched me for 10 minutes and then he scared me. Then I was paged again and had to go answer a phone call and he finished reading the book to the resident. I just can't tell if he likes me or if he is just being nice what would your advice be??

Poonte Posted on 27-Mar-04 10:07 AM

Talk to him! He and only he can answer questions pertaining to his feelings! :)
urbi Posted on 27-Mar-04 10:07 PM

Poonte
Thank you.
babaal Posted on 27-Mar-04 11:26 PM

kasto helpful answer deko poonte le !!! ;)
ProudNepali Posted on 28-Mar-04 11:51 AM

or............. URbi jyoo. ask him to log on to this SAJhA.com or GNBC.org site (same thing) and read this particular thread.

.....This can be your MAgic STick...

Just an Observation.
Good luck
Jai Nepal
merosajha Posted on 28-Mar-04 03:10 PM

now i'm gonna confuse you more....sometimes guys do tend to be too nice and no sooner u take an initiative....wham bang thankyou mam....there are people who can pretend to be nice VERY NICE>..so nice that he'd seem the one and only MR RIGHT>



But then...that souldn't discourage you....I'm not saying just go for it...and don't indulge urself ....Don't expect anything...take ur time COZ SOME People are REALLY NICE>...not just being nice....they just can't help it....if they ARE nice. may be he's not just nice with you may be he's nice with everyone.....BUT THEN....DON"T Underestimate people....NOT ALL OF THEM ARE DECEPTIVE.
So I'd say....MORE OBSERVATIONS IS REQUIRED.
urbi Posted on 28-Mar-04 06:27 PM

well good idea proud nepali and poonte but i really don't wanna do anything like that.

Mero sajha i liked your idea i need to take my time and i am not really worried about it. Kale gaya gora aucha bhancahn ni :)
dyamn Posted on 28-Mar-04 07:57 PM

\i thinkhe's very nice but he has some problems coming out.. maybe some kinda sexual problems or something which makes him not confident enough to ask you out or somethin shitnz.. was he brought up in Nepal? it sounds like he's actin' like some crazy indiain actor in an indian movie...
well if he's too shy, why do't you go ask him what kinda feeling he has fo ryou and let us know too...
my best wishes...
:) dyamn bahadur