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| merosajha |
Posted
on 28-Mar-04 03:00 PM
>Out of sight Out of mind? IF YES>.... what's the use of Heart if it's all about SIGHT AND MIND>
just wanna see what u guys have to say about....these kinda stuff.
could be lots of stuff.....
Two people are geagraphically seperated......
what goes wrong when people break up after one amoung a couple moves abroad. ?
what it takes to keep it going ?
why do u think he/She was wrong. ?
Fault kasko ta?
should people go on with thier own lives.
what was ur story....
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| monika |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 03:10 AM
Distance makes the heart grow fonder...!!!if distance creates a distance in any relationship then one can assume that there wasnt any relation at all.I think relations shouldnt be so frugal that a little distance breaks them apart.All relations should be strong enough to weather all kinds of tough times.
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| kalabati |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 04:11 AM
OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND IS CORRECT
LIKE
SAMAYE NAI MALAM HO
WA
GHAUMA TATA BASCHAN
WE FEEL TOO MUCH IN SHORT TIME AND WE TRY TO FORGET IN LONG TIME , THAT'S WHY WE ARE ENJOYING HERE, WITHOUT OUR LOVE ONE
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| sense |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 06:11 AM
For me till now is just another experience,
our relationship is running in the fourth year n for 3years we havent see each other.Now how we manged n r managing right now is a matter of faith n trust. love relationship is something u cant have control over your heart n it comes out involuntarily. thanx God to this advanced internet technology , we r nearer in some way
but still the touch remains.
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| ProudNepali |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 01:55 PM
Distance realtionship is not same as the close one.
It's an irony to say that in most of the cases the geographical distance creates a distance between the hearts as well. I wish that was not true.
BUT people be aware........ if it's the time and situation that brings the hearts together
the same pair can take it apart also.
And to the brighter side,
if time and situation brings in wound to the hearts
the same pair also brings in healings.
THe idea is not to give up and be optimistic.
Not trying to frustrate the people who are far apart but just saying what is commonly seen. Yet, there are plenty of cases where distance had not matter in keeping up with the commitments and hence the relationships.
Mine is just an Observation.
Jai Nepal
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| ProudNepali |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 01:57 PM
Please read "matter" as "Mattered" in the above posting.
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| u_day |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 04:31 PM
Just be yourself and you will be fine.
If you are something when you are OUT OF SIGHT and something else when you are IN SIGHT. Then, your LD relationship is screwed.
u_day
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| hansy420 |
Posted
on 29-Mar-04 09:43 PM
long distance relationship is pretty cheap...as long as you have internet connection
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| merosajha |
Posted
on 30-Mar-04 01:54 PM
Hummm....good to hear different responses but let's hear some more ....majority seems to be optimistic ones out here....may be for those people who don't think that's practial has something to say too.....may be thier perspectives are OPTIMISTIC too....just because two people are no longer together....does not means the total blame goes to pessimism....right?
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| merosajha |
Posted
on 30-Mar-04 02:35 PM
hey eveyone thanks ....but let's make this kinda interactive and fun...not too much a Guys Vs Girls Please.
Monica>>>>A strong relations...so what brings this strength to this relations.
Kalabati> >>>So it's about enjoyment hah? what do you enjoy without ur loved one.....aren't u supposed to be enjoying things together if u'r in love......well unless it's ur freedom.
Sense>>>>Okay so trust love faith...keepin touch...good communications form both side.....all COUNTS>..but how bout being there in person.? IS it the same With or WIthout the presense of ur loved one? HONEY I understand but can't be there. or may be should I say .....Just close ur eyes and feel that i'm there......These lines WORKS when it comes to comforting...but when u are in real trouble real pain????????/
Proud NEpali>>>> urs is kind of Dual answer out here......if u are not good at taking decisions then let's just make it "what would ur actions be if ur observations comes to be real with you"??
U_DAY>>>>.describing and BEING YOURSELF ...is hard. let's forget about deceptive faces and pretendors.......Aren't we bounded to be different when we are around with different people. Relations do help in self growth......we learn a lot about ourselves when we are with someone else. so what I'm trying to say is....some people might say..."i'm not me when "someone" is not around. ......if one completes the other.....then WHO IS JUST ME?
Hancy420....>>>> HUMM that was funny.....how bout if i say it's expensive when it comes to rubbish phone cards that gives so horrible connection that ....the cutest voice ur hearing memory ever remembers now sounds like a robert and u can't even hear a complete sentence....yetaa baata"------- ...YOU"sunyo bahney....andaaj ko bharr ma answer garney ani utaa ko samma ma pugdaa...">-----TOO" maatrai baaki huncha. Not that cheap either ....(hate you bhaneko raheyca bahney ...bahyena ta babaal?)
keep posting..........
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| monika |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 05:08 AM
the strength lies in the love u share.If the love is strong enough then it should withstand all the difficult situations.
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| bhumi_gh |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 07:57 AM
long distance relationship neds lot of commitment..i'vebeen going with my guy for last 2 years..and we haven't seen each other for last one and half year..if there was no commitment then our love would have died long time agao..so if u are committed then there should be no problem..
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| kancho |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 08:35 AM
Reminded of this Narayan Gopal song:
Eh, malai maya garchu bhannay hazur
kahiley maya pani dekhauney gara
Timro tadhaa ko maya lay pugena malai
baru aayee malai sataaunay gara
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