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| LoneStar |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 09:03 AM
.Ashley(fiction name). I met this young woman in yahoo public chat. I was not her enthusiast right at the split second, but as moment in time went by, she turned out to be element of my get-up-and-go. I was passionate about her before I got to have a fleeting look on her snap, but in all honesty, after I saw her picture, I was dumbfounded to think anyone could be this beautiful. We swapped the way of communication, we tired voice conversation, then flinched making phone calls. We used to spend hours and hours, chew the fat about anything. She was humorous, endearing, magnificent, kind and any adjectives you want to give. I just said perfect! to myself. She used to take care of me so much, keep me in her prayers in my bad time, you know little bit of things that mean you lot. I was in ecstasy.
It went for a year, then we finally decided to meet up in real. I was so keyed up to meet the most beautiful thing happening in my lonesome life. Went to Old Navy, bought comfortable wears I was putting on the day. Boy, I had my hair cut, tried good cologne stuff ( I less cared usually). I drove to her urban. I buzzed on her door and there she was smiling amiably and welcoming me. We were ill at ease with each other to talk. But I found myself quite restful within some time. I was even more in high spirits to see her in real. After we fixed our meeting day, she had let me know that she had big exam coming up the next day. We didn’t adjust the arrange. And decided to pay out at least some quality time together. Considering it, I left her home after some hours. We barely neared each other, which is all right, it was first time and I had this in mind driving back that she is now mine forever. I was in delight now, even more better-off. But things changed. She wouldn’t pick up my phone calls, she wouldn’t come online, she wouldn’t mail me. I went panic-stricken. It was just too good for me to go outlandish. I tried to find the reason, but why? I couldn’t contemplate on anything. Its been a month. I have calmed down a bit but still I am at great wretchedness and sorrow. Did I appear so awful that she got over me in no time?….. Women! the last option to rely on…
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| Zombie |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 09:51 AM
Dude. As you have'nt mentioned that you shared your picture with her too. I presume, You should have done that before jumping into decisions. Got to move on dude. Cheer up.
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| Thinlazy |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 10:34 AM
If one Ashley is gone, Mashley will be there, if she is gone, tashley will be there, Rashley, Cashley. C'mon Whats so big deal about it. And if she dumped you for your skin, she is at loose not you.
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| MeErA |
Posted
on 31-Mar-04 10:42 AM
Nice story LoneStar.
Cheer up buddy, don't let one incident bother ya.
Life is too beautiful, go out and take a walk, it will clear your feelings up!!!!!
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| LoneStar |
Posted
on 11-Apr-04 09:17 PM
Thanks for your time to read Meera. Promises are to be broken & Women know it better-it applied to me.
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 12-Apr-04 12:52 AM
Lonestar bro,
if it is all about good looks and pimp juice she was expecting from you then you're lucky that she let you go sooner than later. If she was all nice and kind, andll if she had all those good qualities as you said up there then she wouldn't be judging you on your physical appreance. So she was just faking with you- she was a lier, forget about her bro, and take this as a learning experience.
Also "beauty lies in the eyes of beholders" is not just a saying but it does apply in ture life broda.What she might think good looks can be an unattractive qualities for lots of women ,and what other women would consider good look might be unattractive qualities for her. Now, you can't expect to change yourself or blame yourself for not fitting into her defination of good looks bro.
There is someone special meant for you, and that fake girl just isn't one... so don't feel bad......
hajur ko bhakta,
dyamn bahadur...
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 12-Apr-04 01:04 AM
... also my two cents.. if you really feel lonely and want a girlfriend sooonnnnn....
this works like a magic, works like charm.. so don't even have a slight doubt about it....
here's my suggestion: KeeP asking and asking girls out until you find a good girlfriend....
those guys who are playa and shitnz they don't do anything special different than a nice guyn to show little confidence...
what the heck, i'll tell you my real story... once i got turned down by a girl when i asked her out.. i went to bar and i drank some booze but that didn't make me feel any good, i thought that girl like me,i got depressed. The same evening my ex landlord called me. He's an oldie who likes swing dance, she asked me if i would like to go to swing dance with him and his girlfriend.. i said , oh ok.. i went there and Kevin gave me this advice that i'm giving you up there.. i thought what the heck, so i asked out pretty much every girl in the dance floor for thier number, or little things like email addy or something..i became friends with quiet a few girls and i dated few of them too, some of them were real nice and if i didn't have to leave that town in few days , i could have started a long term relationship too, who knows..
Anyway broda, all i'm trying to say is don't feel bad for that one girl.. myann nthere are so many good girls out there.. ohhhhh only thing that's a bummer is time.. it keeps going and going nad you keep getting older and older.. hahaha.. i wish i could stop time and date more girls hehehe.. so why are you even feeling bad for that one girl.. lots of girls pray for you when they fall in love with you.. so don't waste time thinking about that girl at all - not any more.. and go hit the local laundry mart or even "swing dance floor" andfind that special person buddy.. go tiger ....
;)
hajur ko pujari,
dyamn bahadur..
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