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Virginity

   Do you agree? Discuss. 11-Apr-04 khai
     <br> I concur ! :-) 12-Apr-04 hyaterica
       .... for non christain amrican girls , t 12-Apr-04 dyamn
         sounds like written by some loser who wa 12-Apr-04 wateva
           haha hyaterika..i also concur :P 12-Apr-04 confused
             Virginity is neither dignity nor lack of 12-Apr-04 HarvestMoon
               Amen to that HarvestMoon... I agree... B 12-Apr-04 wateva
                 Wateva, You meant the 'name'... Harvest 13-May-04 HarvestMoon
                   To certain degree it is indeed true !!! 13-May-04 Bhanja
                     I have agree with that in most cases... 13-May-04 MillionDollars
                       Well, I strongly agree with Harvest Moon 13-May-04 netaa_ji
                         The most interesting thing I found at Am 13-May-04 netaa_ji
                           Dignity implies personal choice. Havi 13-May-04 Poonte
                             I agree!! 13-May-04 Chanke
                               I did see some minor difference between 13-May-04 netaa_ji
                                 What's the big deal whether a girl choos 13-May-04 meera
                                   ........Oops posted it before I could fi 13-May-04 meera
                                     "And why is it ONLY girls who are target 13-May-04 confused
                                       pucchey knows the definition of virginit 13-May-04 yOuNgBlOoDz
Youngbloodz, go eat a hotdog, moron, and 13-May-04 rohini_a
   I totally agree with Poon Da. Here is th 14-May-04 Rekha
     Virginity is like a balloon. One prick a 14-May-04 saroj
       .... virginity is something that Rohini 14-May-04 dyamn
         Or is it something that Dyamn does have 14-May-04 MillionDollars
           Saroj, don't you know these days women u 14-May-04 tauke
             dyamn is not a ' O' , dyamn is a ' 010' 14-May-04 dyamn
               OK... Hope it does not take viagra for y 14-May-04 MillionDollars
                 While in the US I heard guys and girls s 14-May-04 netaa_ji
                   <font color=blue> AWWWWW mr netaji,..... 14-May-04 ordinaryboy
                     OrdinairyBoy..ji Well it if perfectly o 14-May-04 netaa_ji
                       what are u guys talking about there is 14-May-04 as101
                         as101, it's nice to see how much respect 15-May-04 Blues
                           STFU 15-May-04 hangu lama
                             I just got a question from these of post 15-May-04 dangggg
                               <br> I think virginity symbolize who y 15-May-04 wanted_k
                                 dyammmm...this t-shirt print was suppose 15-May-04 anonymous


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khai Posted on 11-Apr-04 11:17 PM

Do you agree?

Discuss.

hyaterica Posted on 12-Apr-04 02:53 AM


I concur !

:-)
dyamn Posted on 12-Apr-04 03:03 AM

.... for non christain amrican girls , that might be true :)
wateva Posted on 12-Apr-04 06:42 AM

sounds like written by some loser who was dissed by his girl... ;) concur with that??
confused Posted on 12-Apr-04 08:04 AM

haha hyaterika..i also concur :P
HarvestMoon Posted on 12-Apr-04 10:38 AM

Virginity is neither dignity nor lack of opportunity... it's personal choice.
wateva Posted on 12-Apr-04 07:07 PM

Amen to that HarvestMoon... I agree... By the way that game... harvestmoon... sucks... doesn't it?
HarvestMoon Posted on 13-May-04 01:29 AM

Wateva,
You meant the 'name'... HarvestMoon sucks? Does it really? Ah well... thats' alright... if it does... :-) !

HM
Bhanja Posted on 13-May-04 02:26 AM

To certain degree it is indeed true !!!
MillionDollars Posted on 13-May-04 06:34 AM

I have agree with that in most cases...

I guess some people wish to term "Lack of opportunity" as "Personal Choice".

And some people are just plain honest.
netaa_ji Posted on 13-May-04 11:00 AM

Well, I strongly agree with Harvest Moon. Infact virginity is neither dignity nor lack of opportunity, it's simply a personal choice.
netaa_ji Posted on 13-May-04 02:37 PM

The most interesting thing I found at American colleges is the fact that much of both the guys and girls tended NOT TO KEEP their virginty (among many factors) as a result of peer pressure. Being a virgin (specially for late teens) was a strong embrassment among thier peers equally for both boys and girls. Both guys and girls tended to aviod being bullied or made fun of by having an experience of sex.

Therefore it is not so reasonable to assume that virginity is a lack of opportunity as the plenty of opportunity existed raised by the circumstances of peer pressure.

On the other hand, both guys and girls who came from orthodox Christain familis did not have problem loosing virginity even if their faith forbade so.
Poonte Posted on 13-May-04 03:11 PM

Dignity implies personal choice.

Having said that, the above statement perhaps largely applies to gentlemen than to the ladies.
Chanke Posted on 13-May-04 04:09 PM

I agree!!
netaa_ji Posted on 13-May-04 05:01 PM

I did see some minor difference between the guys and girls who came from orthodox faiths . Girls did have some reservations about how and where sex is preformed however according to my understanding fundamentally they did not had objection on losing virginity.

Therefore the difference between guys and girls were only on how and were not on "to or not to."
meera Posted on 13-May-04 05:15 PM

What's the big deal whether a girl chooses to remain a virgin or not?????????
And why is it ONLY girls who are targeted about their virginity!!!!!!!!!

meera Posted on 13-May-04 05:16 PM

........Oops posted it before I could finish my sentence.

Virginity is a "Personal Choice" PERIOD !!!
confused Posted on 13-May-04 05:59 PM

"And why is it ONLY girls who are targeted about their virginity!!!!!!!!"

hahaha meera, i dont think i sud answer that question out here :P jk jk

but on serious note, like every body above stated, VIRGINITY IS MATTER OF CHOICE...perIOD .
yOuNgBlOoDz Posted on 13-May-04 06:39 PM

pucchey knows the definition of virginity more then anyone :D:D


ki kaso.. ugly

:D:DD:D:D

yb
rohini_a Posted on 13-May-04 07:04 PM

Youngbloodz, go eat a hotdog, moron, and try shoving the leftover it in your "orifice". Jackass. Virgin.
Meera, looks like we're in the same boat. No, no, not the John O' Neill type nonsense. You know, him claiming that Kerry and he were on the same boat.
Rekha Posted on 14-May-04 06:57 AM

I totally agree with Poon Da. Here is the meaning of Virginity.
1. The quality or condition of being a virgin.
2. The state of being pure, unsullied, or untouched.

Not just in Christian family girls try to save them self (remain virgin) for their husband but it occurs in other cultures as well such as Hindu, Muslim, Buddhist.........

Well girls/ladies/women do tend to be more reserved about their sexual life. Even on 21st century guys can go out and do what they want, have sex with as many women as they want and if any girls/women try to do the same thing then they will be called HOES/BITCHES/ etc...............Nothing against guys........Confusing World

Peace Out...............


saroj Posted on 14-May-04 07:04 AM

Virginity is like a balloon. One prick and it's gone.
dyamn Posted on 14-May-04 08:31 AM

.... virginity is something that Rohini don't have.. lol
MillionDollars Posted on 14-May-04 08:41 AM

Or is it something that Dyamn does have ?
tauke Posted on 14-May-04 08:42 AM

Saroj, don't you know these days women undergo surgery to RESTORE Virginity, and they take it as a fashion.

weried world we live in
dyamn Posted on 14-May-04 08:54 AM

dyamn is not a ' O' , dyamn is a ' 010' laaaa....million dollors

but i wish i as as innocent as i was when i was 15.i used to get red talking to girls and the length of my pants would decrease if i see a bonita chica( something would lift it up), .... hmmmm good ol' days...

MillionDollars Posted on 14-May-04 10:06 AM

OK... Hope it does not take viagra for you to get same effects these days...
netaa_ji Posted on 14-May-04 12:55 PM

While in the US I heard guys and girls say "If you are a virgin no one is going to F**K you."

It means both guys and girls would feel uncomfortable having sex with a partner who does not have any previous experience of sex.
ordinaryboy Posted on 14-May-04 04:04 PM

AWWWWW mr netaji,....... tapai ko kamii hamro nepal ma cha... Nepal ma gayera bhasan dinus baru.. yahan sajha ma tapai ko yo jpt postings herna mann lagena hajur....... Jai Nepal..


"while in the US I heard guys and girls say "If you are a virgin no one is going to F**K you." "" ----

Where the f*** did u hear that man..?? If you are a virgin, ppl are after you trying to f**k you.
netaa_ji Posted on 14-May-04 06:17 PM

OrdinairyBoy..ji
Well it if perfectly ok to disagree on what I wrote cause this is a free country. I wrote what I heard and experienced.

If you dont like to read my postings well, it's up to you and I cant force you to read my postings.
as101 Posted on 14-May-04 09:27 PM

what are u guys talking about
there is no Nepali virgin in US they all whoreee
Blues Posted on 15-May-04 06:10 AM

as101, it's nice to see how much respect nepali women get from guys like you. Thank you so much.
Having said that, why don't you go back to getting your anal sphincter sodomized by your very nice kuirey friend.
hangu lama Posted on 15-May-04 06:33 AM

STFU

dangggg Posted on 15-May-04 08:08 AM

I just got a question from these of posting:

dyamn Posted on 05-14-04 8:31 AM Reply | Notify Admin
.... virginity is something that Rohini don't have.. lol
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MillionDollars Posted on 05-14-04 8:41 AM Reply | Notify Admin
Or is it something that Dyamn does have ?

Is virginuty seen as state of putiry for women and lack of masculinity for men? If so, why? How can the same thing be good for females but bad for males???
wanted_k Posted on 15-May-04 09:48 AM


I think virginity symbolize who you are? but in some case it matter with the ages.
anonymous Posted on 15-May-04 04:51 PM

dyammmm...this t-shirt print was supposed to be a tongue in cheek hmour..and what a debate it has started..:\
anyways heres a fowarded joke...quite related to the
topic....enjoy..if u havent read it...and take it as a joke ;)...(like it or hate it..jokes are here to stay..:D)
cheers..:D

How to check if man is still a virgin

A very 'straight and honest' girl is going to city. Before she left, her mother gave her some advice:

"Daughter, when you're in the city and if you're looking for a match there, you must take note of the following the requirements Mother set for you."

"You must find a man that is 'faithful', not 'spendthrift' and must be a 'virgin'. "

With this advise from her mother, the girl went to city. After some months later, she came home to her village to get her mother's blessings to marry.

"Mother, I've met my match following your instructions. My future husband is faithful because when we went out for a holiday one day, he took care of me specifically even though there were so many prettier girls around. Isn't that being faithful?".

Her mother nodded in agreement.

"Then, since the day was getting late in the night and rain was pouring, my boyfriend decided that we stay the night at a hotel. He also suggested that in order not to spend too much, we shared one room only".

"Isn't he not spendthrift guy?"

For the second time her mother nodded her head in agreement but with a little concern.

"And finally mum..., I know he is a virgin".

"How did you know he is still a virgin?" The mother asked with repidition.

"Mmm....his 'that one' is new......still wrapped up in plastic, mum!"
hehe