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| Dominatrix | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 05:58 AM
Hi y'all! Just wanted to know your views on pre-marital sex? Are u for or against? Would u do it before or after marriage? Blah Blah...And your reasons why. Highly appreciated! Domi ;op |
| Dominatrix | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 06:14 AM
By the way boys and girls, Pre marital Cop doesnt mean would u join the polife force before u get married..hee hee.. its means Copulation, the sexual union between a guy and a gyal.. nooky nooky! |
| OU812 | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 06:18 AM
Domi Ji, am budding batchelor!! Does that mean dry spell till I die? What a dreadful prospect. |
| dananah | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 07:00 AM
My view (always wrong..;)....:P) as long as the two(sometimes more..:P) people..involved are mature enuf and know what they are doing and prepared for the consequence(if there is any) then its alright..:D, so before or after doesn?t really matter :D..which means do it whenever u want..its a free world..:D..?as long as ur decision was not ?forced?(rushed into it) by ur partner..or by society ;).. thats my 2 cents worth...cheers..:D |
| EdHunter | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 09:14 AM
if urs is itchy and the other one's itchy as well and if both are willing parties, then there shouldn't be a problem... :P. and anywayz Domi.. how old r yah?? Calling us BOYS and GALS??? should we be callin yah Auntie then?? hehehe... :P |
| the other one | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 11:22 AM
There should definitely be a pre marital cop (s), hey are not the same as post marital ones, but I am tinkering on post marital one more than pre, escraching my head on it kind of thing. You know how there are rights of passages in our culture, I think there should be a neo-passage, tell you what, between the adolescent years, just do whatever the uck you want, bring on the animal nature, cop around as much as you want to among others, call it the anarchy passage of time, I guess this is coming out of me now as I am sick of being human, adn sick(er) of people who consider themself humans and do inhuman things, at least you are more animal like during puberty when the hormons have a grip on you.You know what I mean?? |
| khai | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 04:07 PM
What is wrong with pre-marital sex? I could have thought of some better question than the obvious if I needed some attention here. |
| dangggg | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 04:41 PM
Khai ji, What's wrong with one girl kissing another???? Domi, sex is a bad thing, no matter it's before marriage or after it. |
| honeybuzz | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 06:47 PM
I have no problem with pre-marital sex.Sex is such a HUGE integral part of marriage...and there's only so much adapting and adjusting and compromising you can do sexually. What if you just aren't sexually compatible?? It's possible! And yes, I truly believe that it's enough of a reason to not marry someone.In nepal ppl used to get married 13, 14, 15 years old. A girl was considered an old if she was still single at 17. Nowadays, with people not marrying until their 20's and 30's, why should we expect our sex drives to wait that long as well?? People still mature at the same rate, dare I say a little sooner now. Society can't forsake nature. think that the virgin in a situation has more of a right to want a virgin as well...but if one in a couple has lost his/her virginity, then I don't think they have ANY right whatsoever to either demand a virgin for a companion, or feel that he or she is less than perfect because of it.I don't think that one partner should wish the other is a virgin if he/she is not.Besides, it's great to have experience and know what you like and don't like before you commit to spending your life with one another. Sexual compatibility does not make for a great marriage, but it sure is a big part.So is love. What is wrong with pre-marital sex? If your spouse finds out that you are bad at sex after you are married, won't your spouse leave you for someone else?But we have to make sure to wait for right person and right time.Many neplai guys have mistress when they have wife. why cuz they are not happy about their sex life.I don't mean we need to sleep around.Don't take me wrong it just a feeling. I am still............ |
| Gerox | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 07:15 PM
Domi, You asked the question to others, but u seemed to have forgotten your own version.... Are you against or for it? Me......ummm.... I abstain. |
| babaal | Posted
on 13-Apr-04 11:22 PM
aru sabai lai yaha aa-aafno opinion dina lagaayera...aafu chai pre-marital cop garna busy bha jasto chha. :-)] |
| Dominatrix | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 03:07 AM
Hey y'all, sorry didnt post my side of it, was rushing and busy.. But for me personally im not gona copulate before marriage..abstaining, reason being the only person i wana get hanky panky with is my hubby (husband) ..its kind of maybe old fashioned or narrow in todays world but yeh thats the way i think and have always thought. I dont wana share myself with a number of guys, just the special one. (Corny but true!) Thats just my view about myself and what i want, but i dont mind or judge other people if they believe in pre marital nooky or go ahead and do it. OU812 - Mate, bachelors dont stay bachelors for long in this day and age, there are plenty people seeking people, u will have your day soon for sure! Dananah - Too right on your two cents there, its down to two peoples mutual decision. That they're mature enough to realise and handle consequences if there are or gona be any. It is common sense thinking..but one that does have to be said, some people just dont realise or think about the consequences until its too late to take it back. Thats just tooo bad news... Ed - Oh dont worry im old enough! Early 20's! Hee hee..u are all my kids though! But dont u ever call me auntie...errgghh! sick sick sick! ;op The other one - Yeh animal nature, certainly is! I dont dispute that. Im not sure on what u mean by humans being doin inhumane things though! Nice one for your penny thoughts! Khai - "I could have thought of some better question than the obvious if I needed some attention here" ..Hey i know your GF did a dirty one on u, but dont take your goddamn bitterness out on me understood? Or did u post that just to get yourself some spotlight here? Fool. "Whats wrong with pre-marital sex?" Thanks for your view. Daannng - Why u think sex is bad thing after marriage?? Or u just playing with me.. ;) Honeybuzz - I respect your opinion. People develop their sex drives at young or older age so why repress that just coz people before used to get married so young. Also getting experience, knowing what u like and dislike before marriage so u know who u who u are compatible is fine for u or others, makes sense really, but personally, i myself really cant imagine doing that. Gerox - So u abstaining huh? Same as moi. Good on u, do u reckon u can last tho? Babaal - Haha..very humorous. ;op Domi |
| OU812 | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 04:59 AM
Domi Ji, "Bachelor don't stay bachelor for long in this day and age". With modern Nepalese marriage, esp early marriage (before 30' age) falling apart right, left and center, I think I will sing along with Cliff Richard, Mr Bachelor himself. Of course, bachelor does'nt mean celibate ;o) I read an interesting theory forwarded in Charitrahin Chelis thread; A sexually satisfied youth is stable adult, or something to that extent. With people opting to marry later in life, no no to pre-marital sex would be rather unfeasible and ridiculous idea. e.g Britney Spears was all no no to pre-marital, but changed her tune to "I am slave for you" or was it "Oops I did it again". Domi Ji, does practicing sadomasochism constitue to the act of sex? Apologies if my query sounds a bit Agony Auntisque. |
| mildseven | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 09:05 AM
But for me personally im not gona copulate before marriage. :-) |
| khai | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 09:51 AM
Yeah..I am not going to 'copulate' before marriage.. I am only having loads of sex with my gf. You see, there is a way to work around the problem without calling the cops on your partner. |
| john doe | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 12:15 PM
Khai, stop banging your underage gf, will ya? if she doesnt, I'm sure Dominatrix is gonna call the cops on ya. ;) |
| gerox | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 03:35 PM
Domi, you got me wrong.I just meant to say by"I abstain", I abstain from giving my opinions on this issue.:) |
| redstone | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 03:40 PM
Domi, I don't see no harm in pre-marital sex. OF course i will copulate with my gf before i get married..hehe, funny word, copulate. BTW, DOMI, you're on your early 20's? nice. so am i. les hook up :p |
| hyaterica | Posted
on 14-Apr-04 10:37 PM
For all you who dissent and are not currently getting any, here's a game called Sextris that you will actually enjoy ! It is a game like tetris but with naked bodies and you have to line them up and make two people have sex to get them to disappear (like making a line in regular tetris). There is weird porn music in the background, and when you make the people have sex, they make reeeeally fun noises. It's the greatest game ever. Download and play: - http://www.zanyi.ch/index.html?Comics/games/sextris.htm~mainFrame |
| Dominatrix | Posted
on 15-Apr-04 08:16 AM
Hee heee! OU812 - i dont really know if 'practicing sadomasochism constitue to the act of sex.' Guess so, its sexual play but no actual nooky in the end, just torture the guys..;op JD - yeh il turn up with cops outfit, bang the kuffs on Khai and lock him up in my dungeon. ;o) Gerox - Cheeky monkey..u need to be caned now.. ;op Redstone - Yeah sounds like 'neat' idea, u wana fly over here to uk to meet up with me? Hee heee! Domi |
| the other one | Posted
on 15-Apr-04 08:42 AM
If you are mature enough to have a cop (of tea?) before marriage and its okey, then why not mature enough to question or have a questions about a) ageism b) the sanctity of Marriage c) the seperation of sex and marriage d) owing it to someone special as opposed to yourself I think you should have clear view on where you stand on these matters before you cop in. |