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| kirsten |
Posted
on 25-Apr-04 10:28 PM
I am not posting this for fun. I am in need of some serious advice. Thanks.
I have a question for the guys out there: I'm a girl who recently lost alot of weight (30+ lbs), and of course, my breasts got smaller along with the rest of me. but they're still at the same level, height-wise, that they were before, just flatter, giving them, i think, a kind of a saggy appearance (they were really full before). Is this a complete turn-off for guys?
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| hYaTeRiCa |
Posted
on 25-Apr-04 11:34 PM
it's hard to tell since no one has a picture of your boobs. The description of "saggy" is going to get bad reactions. Perhaps your more aware of it than other people would be. I didn't think 30 pounds would make skin sag, I thought that happened to people who lost like 100 or more.
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| dananah |
Posted
on 25-Apr-04 11:42 PM
haha....heres one serious advice(hope its serious)..from me..:D
2 breast are better than one...and well 2 saggy breasts are better than none..:D...
as long as they dun look like the old age kinda saggy..it shouldnt be much a turn off..:D
and there are so many ways..to hide it while dressing in clothes..even in bikinis....(technology has improved so much these days..push up bras..etc...:D..) and well think there might be some stuffs(excercise etc) to firm them(better ask the gals about this..they should know..;)..the ones who have done it..:D..maybe posting another thread about it is a good idea ;)..)...
dun fret too much about it...cos in the end..well the guy(your guy) ....*this might sound lame*...should appreciate you...not ur perfect breasts etc...now we dun wanna him to be falling in love with ur breasts instead of you..?? do you?? hehe.:P
so just enjoy the nice life you have...(esp since you lost 30lbs.. must have taken some effort..:D..) no one is perfect.:D
thats my 2 cents worth..:D
cheers..
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| lopsee |
Posted
on 25-Apr-04 11:46 PM
hehe
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| khai |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 12:11 AM
Breast lift?
I'd say find internet photos of natural breasts and see if yours look different. My gf has large breasts that are a little flat - it's also hard to tell if you're the one whose got them. Try posting an anonymous pic online and ask guys to rate them.
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| u_day |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 02:25 PM
Kristen! I feel sorry for you. I can see why you lost weight (+30 lbs) :s
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| lll_lll |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 02:30 PM
Don't have anything to relate to, how saggy, how big breast.....
can give no answer to this
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| rohini_a |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 02:41 PM
Kirsten, you saggy excuse for a girl, you will never find a guy. You'll remain a virgin for eternity. So I advise you to become a nun. That's all the hope you've got.
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| mickthesick |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 03:10 PM
.Show us the picture...then we shall comment on those. You know! A picture speaks thousand words.
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| honeybuzz |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 03:15 PM
Kristen,
turn-off for guys hell... don't worry.I think You are okay and find the one who likes u and loves u as u are.Wish u good luck!
Rohani_a are u a guy or grl?? just asking?? if u don't mind.
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| Rastafariya |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 04:04 PM
Yo Kirsten, I is been workin with FBI for many years now.
I is been examining, documenting,analysing and Investigating cases like yours. You is can email I and I is can prepare a full report for you. We with da FBI have them strict rules and guidelines. My personal expertise is with them ones who is them recently lose weight.
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| Rekha |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 08:41 PM
Kirsten I'm a girl so I don't want to say it's attractive or unattractive. Girl guys look at your breast no matter what and most of the time you'll be wearing something (unless doing someone with someone else), noone will get to see if it's saggy or not. Why don't you go to VICTORIA SECRET and get a push up BRA. It'll make your BOOBIES look still and firm, not saggy.
There is also another suggestion BREAST LIFT. You can go to your doctor and ask for his/her suggestion. It'll probably cost few hundred dollars. Since you're young I don't think your BOOBS are as saggy as old women so I don't think you have anything to worry about.
Just Chill Our Girl........... Peace
ReKhA aka. ReZ
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| lll_lll |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 09:01 PM
Even I ( a guy) feel better after hearing Rekha's soothing lines. JK ;-)
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| Prem Charo |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 09:25 PM
I think you need to go to Zym and join for chest exercise. It can help you.
Prem Charo :)
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 10:44 PM
Didn't the Himalayan Times claim that a group of scientists recently captured a yeti? :p ;)
Just kidding.........
Don't worry. Be them saggy or not, I am sure what lies underneath them -- your heart -- is warm enough to attract plenty of guys! :)
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| hyaterica |
Posted
on 26-Apr-04 10:47 PM
lol poonte..good one..!
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| hyaterica |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 12:25 AM
I ♥ your breasts.
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| hyaterica |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 12:26 AM
oops...I was supposed to be testing ;)
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| bhanja |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 02:26 AM
Is this whole thing for real???
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| KaLaNkIsThAn |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 02:36 AM
>>I think you need to go to Zym and join for chest exercise. It can help you.
hahahah... premcharo, bench press dine? :D:D:D:D
saggy top blues? Have you ever considered plastic surgery? If it is worse, you should consider surgery. But hey, I am not a doctor, said I am not a doctor. :P
or
you can get jiggy wit it!! :P (kiddin')
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| shagadelic |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 04:17 AM
Seriously, can you post a picture of your boobs? [obviously, without your face, if you desire privacy]. This way you will get honest reaction from us guys as to whether your boobs are acceptable to us. Since you are in need of serious advice as you said, I think posting a picture of your boobs will be worth it.
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| gal1 |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 04:19 AM
Dear Kirsten,
I think it depends upon a guy you looking to or a guy that looking to you.
If a guy really luvs u then doesn't matter whether your breast are saggy or not. Thats pointless to make big deal dear.
Don't worry be happy!
Just go on for true luv ! With microscope :P
gal1
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| Ram Vilas |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 05:09 AM
A saggy appearance?
Well, gravity does that. Hang upside down for 2 hours a day to try to counter act the process.
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| bhanja |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 06:26 AM
Not all guys would really find a girl with big to b attractive.
In my case what natters is your heart !
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| chubby_cheeks |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 06:35 AM
i agree with Rekha.....try the new very sexy Jacquard lace one from VS ...it helps!!!
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| chubby_cheeks |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 06:38 AM
rohini...wat r u guy???guy, gurl, or trans???hmmm...trans...
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| chubby_cheeks |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 06:39 AM
oops....wat r u ????guy, gurl..or trans....???hmmmm...trans
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| kalebhut |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 07:49 AM
It is so sad to read people in sajha making suppleness of boobs the subject of topic in this thread. Boobs or breasts of women are such things that no humans can get away with the value it plays on humankind, no matter how supple or busty or firm they are. I believe Boobs are just as important to humankind as Mount Everest is to Nepalese. A newborn infant to a well-grown adult – they all have something to be happy of the boobs’ role it plays on their lives. What satisfaction a newborn infant gets when he suckles a boob is equally satisfying to this same well grown adult when he will suck his woman’s breast, later his life.
About boobs’ size and firmness- Kirsten complained about her boobs. Well.. I think its just like guys complaining and worrying about the size of his phallus like you are worried about the size and sagging of your boobs. What matters is its inner intensity and importance whether its boobs or phalli. An outer look can be maintained. Use a push up bra from Jacquard vare or Marks and spencer or whatever it is. Or get a silicon job but please don’t forget its biological value is what I mean. That’s it.
good day
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| the other one |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 09:06 AM
wait (or hurry) until you become a mother, I am sure then it will look a lot like what it should look like and Im sure all the guys would love to be your baby.
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| sense |
Posted
on 27-Apr-04 12:08 PM
hummmm....as for me I should admit that I left a girl in bed after seeing her boobs like that of an old women...damn no matter what guys advice...in reality they wont like it either....n for a perfect relationship having ur physical structure as per the choice of ur partner is equally important. What if ur boyfren see another girl just becoz he sees the same shaggy boobs again n again....so my suggestion would be dont jump into conclusions ...first go to a physician..ask for the reasons..may be poor nutrition(if u r working too much)resulted that ...try to eat a lot of protien including lotsa white meat n egg. It is not that u will get fat with those stuffs. Try some yoga dealing with upper parts of ur body dont ever try to massage them may be it will make things worser...better ask ur boyfren abt his opinion on boobs..if u dont have any then most of the guys r going to remain the same as I told u earlier so better work for it before u get one n get depressed of loosing him just becoz of that reason.
NOTE: ABOVE SUGGESTIONS ARE NOT BY A PROFESSIONAL PERSON SO ITS UP TO YOUR KNOWLEDGE TO APPLY IT OR NOT
good luck:)
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| ScreamNation |
Posted
on 04-May-04 09:26 PM
ya where is the fawking BOOBIES...damn it grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!
MOOD nai off bhayo... THUIKKA..............
REKHA, I THINK UR BREASTS NEEDS A DOWN PUSH or whatever, its going up and up everyday ;)
Dont suggest others, see what you have first...
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| Rekha |
Posted
on 05-May-04 08:45 PM
ScreamNation what the heck is your problem dude ??? I was just trying to help her out. Please do me a favor and don't talk about my breast.
Peace Out...................
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| Laughing Buddha |
Posted
on 05-May-04 09:34 PM
If someone dumps you 'cause you got no breasts, he ain't worth it!
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