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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 02-May-04 08:46 AM
I skimmed through the thread on WHY I WANT A WIFE. Inspired by the TITLE and NOT the contents, mind you, I thought of a thread on what sajha women would want in an ideal husband. So, let's hear it! :)
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| Rosie |
Posted
on 02-May-04 09:20 AM
My ideal husband would be my best friend...someone I can romance with, but also be able to talk to all night long. He obviously has to be good-looking :) but also smart and ambitious and driven to achieve more than what is easily available for him in life.
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| Romanticated |
Posted
on 02-May-04 09:27 AM
He will be whatever you want. But you have to work gals, all yours.
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| SimpleGal |
Posted
on 02-May-04 10:09 AM
I had an interesting conversation with a close friend on what men and women want in their ideal spouses. Looks came up quite often. From his perspective and observations, men value looks much more than anything else. Women on the other hand are attracted to the sense of security that a man provides, if he possibly can. Cliched differentiation perhaps, but an interesting one nonetheless. Of course, generalization would be unwise, but this is definitely a trend. A woman, no matter how beautiful she is, will not consider a man's looks as much -- he may be bald, fat, walk like a gorilla and behave like a neanderthal, but as long as he is able to provide security (judged by his academic and financial accomplishments interestingly) the girl will most probably accept the alliance. The man, on the other hand, no matter how gruesome and unappetizing his looks, provided of course that he has that attractive degree and/or a lavish income and flattering property, will have no problem finding a svelte, sexy siren. Examples abound in the celebrity world -- Salman Rushdie and his seductive girlfriend, Boney Kapoor and Sridevi to name a few seemingly "odd" couples. Yes, we may be tempted to say, "But hey, they probably love each other," and accuse each other of being superficial while denying that in the long run we are all superficial. We are all perceptually bound.
What tickled me most was that a woman, materialistic in her longings, will forgo a handsome husband. She will probably sip her expensive drink by the poolside and ogle, secretively of course, at the handsome man emerging from the pool and long for a tryst. After all, she has desires! "Women are less sexual than men," I've heard many men say. "For them it's the emotional and financial security that are appealing. Physical intimacy is a coincidental pleasure." Bullshit!! Are these people suggesting then, that men are just sexual beings vying for bodily sensations and lack brains and feelings (for the most part)? I know, most of us women will want to agree. Most of the men will probably have no qualms about assenting either. But do we truly believe that looks are so unequally appreciated by the sexes? Don't men want a woman who can bring security to the marriage? Especially today when a growing number of places prioritize hiring women; in some instances, the woman is more educated, more articulate, and brings in more money if these be the indicators of security.
"I want a man who is good looking. I want to want to be next to him, to want him to touch me, make love to me. Father says go marry a blackie outside the cinema theater who chews on paan and wears scarves around his neck. He is good looking!" I remember reading this line from a novel sometime ago. It stuck with me. Why can't a woman want a good-looking husband? "Because good-looking men may not be secure enough for a woman" is the popular response. "Good-looking men are not faithful. They want good-looking women and many of them." Do things always have to diametrically opposed? I wonder.
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| oys_chill |
Posted
on 02-May-04 10:24 AM
Simple dijju,
Agree with you. I have been fascinated by gender perspectives for quite a while now. here's my take on your observations.
1) Why men go for beautiful women?
~Evolutionary speaking, the success of an individual depends on his/her fitness (ability to produce offsprings that have more variable characteristics). For men at least, Beauty signifies health. So when you see a man drooling over a sexy siren, rest assured, no matter what bizarre reason he gives, his sub conscience evolutionary adapted, is thinking in terms of reproductive success. :)
2) So why women are not going for the handsome males alone?
~ Security is important to women as u say. However, women seek long term investment while men are satisfied with a 7 day wonder. This can be explained by the reproductive costs for men and women. For men, reproductive costs are low while the women have to go through a much arduous cycle in terms of reproduction. Universe is defined by taking a pathway that uses the least energy.
*Soberly Enlightened* :)
Hope I didn't go too tangent ;) . Goodluck to ya'll finding your ideal hubbies.
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| confused |
Posted
on 02-May-04 10:33 AM
"men value looks much more than anything else. Women on the other hand are attracted to the sense of security that a man provides, if he possibly can."
what the hell are you talking about??? MeN as WeLL as WOMEN Value LOoks thEN anYTHING ElsE.
"The man, on the other hand, no matter how gruesome and unappetizing his looks, provided of course that he has that attractive degree and/or a lavish income and flattering property, will have no problem finding a svelte, sexy siren"
If gals possess such kind of lavish income and flattering property, she will also find a handsome hunk..Example : ozzy osborne's daughter w/ a hunk...
"Do things always have to diametrically opposed?"
yes, First and foremost thing in Love which really matters is Looks, how she looks and how he looks. nothing else. this is the reality, a beautitul lady i bet wouldnt like to fall for a normal looking guy, because she has her own ego of being beautiful. "Looks not important" BULLSHIT!! its just like saying "Love is far more important than money"..these are some realestic fact of the world which we live in...love and looks go together, thats life :)
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 02-May-04 10:59 AM
is there any thing called "love" in all these reasons to find a mate for security and looks(sexual)? should i give up my hope to find a true love in this world.. i'm breaking up with my gf in 2 weeks cuz she's finished being in this town and going home for good, and i don't believe in long distance.. this is going to be my 8 or 9th break up in 4 yrears :( .. just sick of being with someone and breaking...and why the heck i fall for each and every girl that come to my life? i think we Nepali people are highly influenced by all those dramatic hindi movies and T-serials we watched when we were little...
Financial security, good looks, good car, good education.. where the hell is the love?? when i was little i heards stories like a prince marriaying a poor, or seen some hindi movies like a rich perosn's daughter marrying a poor from a slum.. were those all fake??? do all girl want a superman? a slave practically? who's gonna earn for her, buy her houses and cars and jwelleries, and please her in the bed ?? ..rather than depending on the male why don't they get them on thier own, if they want all those things???
I think yes.. most relations are based on sexual needs. girls feel extermly attached if she has multiple sex with her partner.. ..myann this shitnz is too much.. i never thought that marriage is another selfish act taht we human perform in the modern society...i had a friend once., she said marriage is not necessary, and we should date as many people as we can before we settle down for the real one... wha the heck... it just disgusts.. me.. why phuk around like a dog and settle down for one.. and who's the one?? the best sex performer, the rich or what criteria?? why date jerks in the first place anyway? why not just settle down for good one rather than keep looking ??? of course , that girl had herpies and i didn't sleep with her...she said she 's had sex with 20 people and in American Avg americans have sex with 40 before they settle down.. hmm she was just tying to give me some American -foreigner talk, which really pissed me off...
then i have another friend, she's cute but she likes this dirty mechanics so much.. she even tells us that he's small inside pants and he can't get it up soemtimes.. but she quit school for him , and she moved 3 times back to this town to be just with him.. what the heckkk... she says stuff like,, owwwweee these boobs are not my boobs anymor these are joe's boobss and shitnz.. what the heckk....
girls are strange. .. and i have some shitnz to take care off.. so i'm off.. laterzz...
dyamn
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| jivman |
Posted
on 02-May-04 11:25 AM
I like trying that 7 days and thinking about it.
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| confused |
Posted
on 02-May-04 11:52 AM
if he knew love,BInladen Wouldnt be Binladen,
IF he knew Love, Bush Wouldnt be Bush,
IF we knew love, nepal wud be in peaceee ....
stating the above lines, i wouldnt want to say, love doesnt exist, but i wud like to say its hard to find places where it does exists.
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| Rosie |
Posted
on 02-May-04 12:19 PM
Very interesting poings, SimpleGal...
As horrible as it sounds, marriage really is very much like a business deal, where the two parties negotiate over what each of them brings to the table. There are so many gorgeous women who are happy to settle down with fat, bald, hariy men because they provide security, and stability like you guys talked about in the earlier posts.
I have seen so many Nepali guys here in the US, whose appearances border on the word, "ugly," but who go to Nepal and come back married to such "chwank" girls. These guys don't land their gorgeous wives on the basis of their looks, but because they are "settled in America" and thus, are "probably doing very well." But at the same time, the girls are also offering their looks and physical charms to get financial support, stability, and most importantly, to get a chance to come to America - the mostly highly prized opportunity for girls in Nepal these days. So basically, each party is trying to get the most return for whatever they have to offer, and there is nothing wrong with it.
What I described above, might be more typical of arranged marriages, but even when people fall in love before marriage, they obviously look at what the other person brings to the table. After all, except in hindi movies, how many of us have actually seen a beautiful woman fall in love with a homeless ugly man? Or, a rich and successful man fall in love with an old decrepit woman?
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| Rosie |
Posted
on 02-May-04 12:27 PM
poings = points :)
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| rohini_a |
Posted
on 02-May-04 12:55 PM
Business deal? Heck no. Marriage is for f1cking. Anybody who disagrees is an idiot.
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| Chubby_Cheeks |
Posted
on 02-May-04 01:03 PM
my ideal husband doesn't have to a good looking guy.i'm happy with ok looking guys..but he should know how to dress..he should be someone i can talk to...most important..i wanna marry a person whose eyes i can look into and know why i'm in love and married this person
~`CC`~
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| Ashley |
Posted
on 02-May-04 02:36 PM
Vivid draw round SimpleGal. Alright! A bit ahead of the topic..hitting upon so-called Ideal Husband? Stuffed it somewhere while surfing net n thot to myself- really ha!
Mr. Right? and where is he? The handpicked point to unearth him must be “when you quit looking”. He will be keeping u in check n getting up the moral fiber to ask you out to wrap up the rest of your life with. The world is full of up-and-coming. You may meet your Mr. Right at any of these spot.
Cleaners
Carpool
Dentist Office
Dance hall
Internet
Having your car fixed
Stop sign
Chat!!
Now who he might be?
best friend's ex-boyfriend
the guy who u be repulsed by at figment of the imagination!!
The bald guy!!
But Hey! One thing is undeniable. When you “quit looking for him” He will roll up unannounced on ur doorway n togged up in an asinine smirk that tone with urs!!!!
Ashley!
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| Ashley |
Posted
on 02-May-04 02:44 PM
Spicing up a lil humor on "why I want a wife".......;)
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| lizardking |
Posted
on 02-May-04 03:02 PM
Lmao Ashley. Will you marry me? Security guarented and unlike American idiotic husbands, You don't have to offer the cup of shut the f^^k up to me ;-)
As you ladies have brought it up, lets hear what is big turn ons and turn offs for you ladies. Bring it on.
Lizard King.
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 02-May-04 03:06 PM
.. and don't forget about DYAMN tool ladies: quick , convienet, and no string attached.....
best way to go until you find that right person... dyamtool will keep you going .. :)
Dyamn Bahadur,
DyamTool and Co.
Dyamn Blvd, DY, 16969
USA
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| wateva |
Posted
on 02-May-04 03:31 PM
LOL... Ashley... I LOVE that add....AMAZING!!!!!
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| chubby_cheeks |
Posted
on 02-May-04 03:41 PM
ehhehe next time there's guests in my house...and i'm asked to make tea....that's wat they're gonna get!!!:D
~`CC`~
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 02-May-04 03:50 PM
"Ideal"??? I thought one had to trim, prune, water, and GROW one... from "Idleness" to "Idealness"! Definitely, a labour of love, faith and patience! ;)
Ladies, are you up to it?
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 02-May-04 03:56 PM
..these ladies are talking about rich hubbies to get rich life by the pool, not talking about rasing a child sitaraaa....
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 02-May-04 04:01 PM
tsk! tsk! tsk!
Dyamn, you do miss much!
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| Thinlazy |
Posted
on 02-May-04 04:03 PM
chubby cheeks, You mean every guest at your home is your husband or wanna-be husband ;)...he he he..j/k
Ash hilarious
Sitara hhahhaha, Oh yeah? idleness to idealness. liked your sense of humor.
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| david |
Posted
on 02-May-04 04:09 PM
"Father says go marry a blackie outside the cinema theater who chews on paan and wears scarves around his neck. He is good looking!"
Do they sell Paan in NY? I miss it. Also do they sell Chat Part Ti? I loved eating that stuff on the streets of Biratnagar!
-dave
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 02-May-04 05:17 PM
Tsk Tsk Tsk , You do too Sitara, i know dat hehehhehehehe ;)
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| south |
Posted
on 02-May-04 06:49 PM
khoi ke ho, for my girl friend, i am ideal husbad re. though she is very good in all aspect, she finds me ideal. i dont know why. haha. i told her several times that you are so good in every aspect, and i am i am just ok, why dont you go for great guys? she said she loves me very much. she does nt care if i can earn too much or not. she is fine with my look, she is fine with my body, she is fine with my education standard. so for some people its different i guess, not only money, body, education and all. her slc % is higher than mine, her isc better than mine, her be is better than mine, i am doing masters, but she got into masters in better school than mine with full scholorship and stipend. well i should say she is ideal girl, but i never said that to her, she keeps on tellign me i am ideal. for her its love. she tells me like, she does nt care abotu going to graduate school though she has got good offer if i want to work in nepal. she just want to stay with me. and yeah she is slim and tall and good lookign too. after knowing her, i think i should say it is not the trade off between look, money, education....
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| Dominatrix |
Posted
on 02-May-04 07:45 PM
Interesting to reading everyones thread, so many different responses.. well i mite aswell add my own thoughts..
About looks..I do want a person who is nice looking to me..tho my own choice may not be everyone's version of universally attractive..but i wudnt give a dyamn if he is ugly to my friends and to others..i dont need some one who is like wooooow..he has to hold some loving caring considerate respecting qualities that can satisfy me on a deeper level...
'if ur in love with some-one and u think the world of them
(even if they are average looking or evn bit ugly!)
then their inner beauty and good qualities will shine through
and make them gorgeous and good-looking to u..'
I dont care about security or how much some-one earns, long as he is a loving caring guy to me and we are compatible to share life together til the end...but i wana become financially secure myself with a good career so i dont need to depend on my man.. i cant believe that some women put security above everything.. i mean, why cant a girl work hard and be determined to gain her own stability with her own money she earned, why depend on her husband for everything? I think in these modern times, women should move ahead and think about becoming strong and lining their own purses to spend on watevr they desire, rather than sucking on their husbands wallet. t should be that equally husband and wife should be bread-winners and earn together (these are for women who actually have oppurtunity to study, work and earn..) Its not like a business affair as it may seem by the way iv put it, its got to do with love and respect for each other..marriage is so important and serious, that both ends should put equal effort if they want a comfortable lifestyle rather than one side...i.e. the woman..using the excuse of her gender so she can marry for security and spend his damn money to go shopping and relax by the pool or watevr..eerrghhh.. its also giving the man power over the woman, then all the rest of the sh*t that comes along with men wearing the pants in the relationship..u knw wat i mean..
Anywayz, that's my thoughts whether or not anyone is against it, mite've forgotten to add some other points (will do later) but just focusing on the point that a woman should aim higher than men now and secure herself first before diving into marriage for easy life-stability-security.
Cheers!
Domi
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 02-May-04 08:58 PM
A sense of humor, a must! Imagine, having to explain every pun or joke! Yikes!
Jokes aside, I have been fortunate to have met quite a few Nepali men, including our own Sajhaites with charm, charisma, wit,honesty, integrity... and all those qualities that make a man special. As for security, I agree with Dominatrix; a woman's search for a spouse, need not be security or material driven.
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| honeybuzz |
Posted
on 02-May-04 10:17 PM
looks matters?? go for heart or looks?
both..but i wud go for heart first..and then looks. Looks can always change and they're often decieving..and as some ppl said above..that as long as the guy has a good personality..he'll automatically begin to look good. If he's beautiful from the inside..then he'll look beautiful from the outside as well.funny,tall, honest,careing ,loveing & Romantic. yes best friend.
I am planning to marry as my family wish.
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| Zombie |
Posted
on 03-May-04 07:13 AM
Good to hear different views from you ladies. :)
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| Sonika_NY |
Posted
on 03-May-04 07:41 AM
Miss sitara, capable ones don't need to refine from idleness to idealness. sorry that you have to go through all those process. I feel myself fortunate.
Peace out
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 03-May-04 09:30 AM
I recall a soulful, wailing refrain in a sad song...
"The Poor Unfortunate Soul.....~~~~~~"
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| hansy420 |
Posted
on 03-May-04 09:51 AM
" sense of humor, a must! Imagine, having to explain every pun or joke! Yikes! "
So if i don't get jokes, that means i can't be an ideal one? Hare siba yo jiwan maa ta huna napaune bho jasto cha ideal. :(
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 03-May-04 09:58 AM
hehe! Hansy dear, I already love your sense of humor! ;)
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| LadyBug |
Posted
on 03-May-04 10:04 AM
Anything BUT john doe.
phew, obnoxious ones also have an end. however in case of john doe, his mission is to bash anything and everything about me eternally, like sonika would say - GET A FRIGGIN LIFE>> the know all and be all...whose name is john doe. what an irony~!
you are the biggest asshole of all...... hope no good girl ever finds you by mistake.
oops i think this belonged in the other frigging thread!
Back to this thread: as far as i am concerned- its "that someone special in your eyes" whom lot try to be, but can't ever come close to.......good luck ladies. Sonika, I feel lucky that you and i don't have to come to a cyberplace like this full of john doe alike as&&holes to get a hubby. heheeh
no conversation was ever directed to you Johndoe you asked for it. was your cheek itching to be slapped or something? poor pathetic piece of moron. hope someone will pity on you someday, it aint gonna be me at least.
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| scatterbrain |
Posted
on 03-May-04 10:08 AM
Do you mind keeping an eye on my Jaguar while I go to the loo?
Thanks in advance! :)
(Btw, heavy pun intended!)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 03-May-04 10:14 AM
Scatter brain...methinks your jag just walk away!!! I feed it too much carrot, I think! :((
Sorry babe! Will buy you another one!
:P
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| scatterbrain |
Posted
on 03-May-04 10:35 AM
Ooh la la! Wanna take a ride on one of my other cars? You could have Tracy Chapman thumping out loud from the speakers, your hair dance with the wind (you have hair, I assume), and your pheromones drive me mad! :)
Which one would you prefer? :)
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 03-May-04 10:42 AM
IFF your jags have a bathroom as well as a kitchen, and they travel at the speed of sound, if not light, without being arrested! ;)
How about "WALK AWAY with me"... Damn! Nora Jones is stuck in my mind thanks to the other thread!
OK back to class!
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| john doe |
Posted
on 03-May-04 11:46 AM
Whoa......is that it, ladybug? Frankly speaking, I'm disappointed. I know you're capable of much more than that. Why dont you also give it to me in that delightfully ghetto nepali you seem to have such profound mastery of. Come on ladybug, make my day.....I've been a baaaad baaaad boy, I promise!
I've always wondered why you've been so easy on me while you seem to hurl the entire payload on others (and they know who they are ;)). Is it because......could it possibly be......that you actually have a crush on me?
Next time, please dont hold back.....give me everything you got.
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| LadyBug |
Posted
on 03-May-04 04:20 PM
It's ok John Doe, You Also Can Have a Dream. Dream on brother. i might have called you a cute name in the past but your aggressive behavior towards me deserves nothing but a slap, which will leave your cheeks red. ouch. is that what you want? is that a crush? ;)
don't think so
also thanks for noticing the mastery of "delightfully ghetto nepali" that you say i have "profound mastery of".....it was hard hard work you know, i recommend it as your pastime, so you can reconnect to the origins you have, be proud of it!
about hurling on quote unquote The others -- as you know who they ARe, no need to expound on it, it's the same person with the different nicknames.......shame on them.
whereas i, as humble it might be, don't feel the need to register under 2000 names just so i can bash on someone - giving the impression that the whole town is stoning me or something. is that a good picture. probably not.......sorry couldnt think of a better analogy this time. gotta go. time up! oh, if u remain curious about my personal life, yes I am going to cook something good for a delightful dinner again with my hubby. So yes, I am NOT Single. Sorry. Just accept it. I do wish you good luck in finding someone as to your taste though , as you despise me so very much. i hope and pray that your wife doesn't have ANY quality that i possess. then it would be YOUR way. bye dear. that's everything i got for you....appreciate it, as i spent lot of time typing it. :)
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 03-May-04 07:10 PM
kastiii more ootauli nani haru..
lau timi haru ko kam ma sajilo banayee dinchu:
timi haru sabai nani haru ko idel poi= dyam bahadur...
lu ja....'
;)
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| KaLaNkIsThAn |
Posted
on 03-May-04 07:14 PM
idle poi? hehe...
Dhunga hallela, manche halline hoina... na-halliyekai ramro... alchi chalyo, bekkam ma 7 ghar halliyo hola ni!!
(Stayin' away from this thread :))
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| Romanticated |
Posted
on 03-May-04 07:32 PM
Idealist Vs. Realist
Pick one..............
I am not an Idealist, I am a Realist. And I like Realist. Idealist talks too much!
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| Sonika_NY |
Posted
on 03-May-04 08:40 PM
Sitara, you and yours must be unfortuante souls, me and mine are always high in our own world. Keep dreaming and good luck for your search with ideal hubby here.
******************
Waz up ladybug? Everyone is not lucky to have great hubby like yours. These people here envy you. I like when you say , I am making dinner for my hubby. You go girl.
*************************
Someone here couldnt have something in real life and so consoling him with pictures taken from internet. My brain is scattered to see weird things here. Duh
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| dyamn |
Posted
on 03-May-04 08:45 PM
Sonyka_ny sister, now it's time to move on .. forget sitara and enjoy the life.. :) ...
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| Threesome |
Posted
on 03-May-04 08:47 PM
I want to have ladybug and sonika ny side by side. Lol..Daddy likes it rough ;)
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| Sonika_NY |
Posted
on 03-May-04 08:54 PM
Kukur threesome, do you want to go for foursome, my doggies are waiting for you. Low life moron
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| scatterbrain |
Posted
on 03-May-04 09:07 PM
I guess the pun just flew above your head, picking up the last remaining cell of what they call brain in humans. Now, get off my case. Thank you.
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| Threesome |
Posted
on 03-May-04 09:11 PM
I want doggie on Sonika Ny while suck a tit on ladybug and her dog biting balls of her hubby Lol..
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| Laughing Buddha |
Posted
on 03-May-04 09:32 PM
Ladybooger harps about a biatchy married life! Get laid, woman
Sonika- Ny wishes she had a HUNK!
Watchu don' hav you flaunt!
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| netaa_ji |
Posted
on 04-May-04 12:11 PM
Well, it was really great for having this thread started. I'm sure that SimpleGal did put some effort to get some understanding regarding the ways men and women put thier priorities when making choices of their potential spouses.
I like to give my view on this regard based on my experience of my life. Well, I'm single and 23 yrs old and during the past 5-6 yrs I did come to know different things a girl would want from her potential husband. To my understanding, it is not hard to have any girl madly fall in love with a guy, however according to my experience I do feel that girls do take greater precautions when making considerations having a guy as her husband.
I do agree with SimpleGal over the issue of sense of security a girl would look for from her potential husband and according to my understanding this issue becomes the core problem for guys. It is well known fact that all guys cannot or are not able to meet the expections therefore the guys look for ways to meet the expections. To my understanding the girls do not make considerations when their expections are not fully met. Many guys do know this fact and the easiest option available for guys is DECEIT, and frankly I know that the guys are expert on this play.(I have great discontent and deeply disappointed at the fact why do girls are so impatient when it comes to thier expections about materialistic longings.)
Many of such deceits do come to a disasterous end with broken lives on the both sides however very few would care to take a deeper look into the problem simply because we as human are interested in getting the best out of everything therefore I do not disagree with the notion that finding an ideal spouse is of course a business deal or lets say a double-coincidence of meeting of a seller and a buyer in a barter system of trade.
I have very little sympathy for the girls who would want a nice, smart, intelligent, young,
ambitious, handsome and rich guy in one package and end up with a rich alcoholic or a
deceitful playboy. At the same time I feel the same ways towards the guys who cannot provide the expectations of a girl and still long for a "chawak maiyaa" and end up with a whore. I guess all the thoughts that I put above is more realistic to the social and cultural setting of Nepali society.
I dont know about Europe, but according to my few years of experience in North America
the tone of expectations from girls in North America were slightly different and I guess it is very realistic in accordance to the social and cultural setting. Therefore I found that in North America it is much easier to find an ideal mate for an average Joe(s)
and an average Jane(s).
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| dangggg |
Posted
on 04-May-04 12:54 PM
Security is the MUST for women..... Simpy ji, Have I told you about the reason why women go to night clubs???? well! If I haven't remind me to tell you the story. well! gotta go right now.
ttyl,
dangggg
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| netaa_ji |
Posted
on 04-May-04 01:36 PM
getting married to a guy who works in Social Security Adminstration (USA) or Ministry of Public Works (Canada) ?
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| netaa_ji |
Posted
on 04-May-04 03:50 PM
Can any girl answer ?
Do girls care if a guy is sincerely committed to a relationship or is "sincererity" a compromisable aspect against financial security ?
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| u_day |
Posted
on 04-May-04 05:13 PM
wah Wah Simple Ji!!!
Loved your obsevation about love, life, and marriage. As always your ideas are very simulating and my mind says, "me want more..." I would love to hear more about the issue from you and other ladies in sajha. Let's hear what they have to say about their potential groom. As for me, I think that nobody's perfect but ideal marriage or perfect love exists when the two people are perfect for each other or maybe not. Maybe we all are living in la la land, claiming to be in love and all. Quoting dangggg from another thread, "Ideal is the person, whom you can share your ideas with." (gotta stay clear with sajhacop... don't wanna get in any trouble.)
Anyhow, I would love to hear more of your ideas about life and reality. As you mentioned once philosophy is mental masturbation and I am a sucker for mental stimulation. So, I was wondering if I can setup an appointment/date/phone conversation, whichever you prefer for this weekend, prolly saturday morning or afternoon. Same time, same number.......
ttyl,
u_day
ps sajhacop! please email me if I misquoted above. I don't think I would need a public citation In Jest :)
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| netaa_ji |
Posted
on 05-May-04 09:57 AM
Any new thoughts ?
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| cool_keta |
Posted
on 05-May-04 10:25 AM
has to be just as cool as me........
Security---Formor Boxing Heavyweight champion (j/k.. i work out, if thats enuf)
Wealth- Have a momo pasal in maru, basantapur
Looks- Tall, attractive eyes, wheat white, white hair and black teeth.
Its me
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| Poonte |
Posted
on 06-May-04 12:10 PM
Narayana!!!!!! Ke bhaaka hun achel kaa pataki taruni haru...ali ali padhera ke janne-bujhne bhaaka thiye, aafno poi aa-aafai khojera dhoon chakra chhan...
Aidiyal-saidiyal husbyand-susbyand thaha chhaina...khurukka bau aama le rojeko sanga bihe garne, chup basne...dhet!
yesta uttauli nakharmauli haru lai ta...
din bhar gas station ma kaam garne, saanjha ghar aayesi pyatlyakke bhundu sumsumyaundai TV herne...khana pakesi raacchhas le jhain gari bhaat husurne...ani 6 pyaak Budweiser dhyaaaaaaaaaaauuuuuu gardai rittyaune...ani kumbha karna jhain gari ghwar ghwar ghurdai sutne...
POI PAROS!
Lau, Dakshinkali, Bhadrakali, Mahakali, Dantakali...tyo Harlem ko habsini kali...maiiiiiiii... kripa garera yee nakkali haruko ko bhrashtha magaj laai sojhyaideu...108 wota boka bali chadaunthe [hmmm...Sajha ma 108 wota kharrya boka haru holaan ta? Shankai chha]...bhaigo...Devi mataa!!!!! hey, Bhawaniiiiii...108 ta hoina, 12-15 wota boka chaai pakkai chadaunthe!!!!!!!!!
Hariiiiiiii sharanam! narayana!!!!! Dhanya ho Kali maai ki...JAI!!!!!!!
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| netaa_ji |
Posted
on 06-May-04 01:55 PM
Well it is completely fine and the most important of all it is very natural for girls to have their own opinion on what a girl would look for in an ideal husband. It is completely disgusting to have men prescribe choices for girls on this regard. It is a typical Nepali attitude from back home. I think the type and place of work a girl does has anything to to do in this regard.
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| netaa_ji |
Posted
on 06-May-04 01:58 PM
Do you think the type and place of work girls do has anything to do in this regard ?
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