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nepali vs. other spouse

   What do you feel when you see a good loo 11-Oct-01 manisha
     You stupid fool Manisha. Come on get mor 11-Oct-01 Anu
       u re absolutely , positively right anu. 12-Oct-01 ann
         eh manisha keti: timi keti hau ki ke 12-Oct-01 Ganesh Man
           Seems like Manisha is jealous about thos 12-Oct-01 musa
             To the contrary, I am only trying to get 13-Oct-01 manisha
               Hey Manisha You still don't get the p 14-Oct-01 Anu
                 Anu: Why don't you go **** yourself. 15-Oct-01 redwalla
                   Anu: forgot to mention --- notice that 15-Oct-01 redwalla
                     A word has more than one meaning and a s 15-Oct-01 musa
                       Dear Redwalla Well your pathetic name 15-Oct-01 Anu
                         Hi Manisha and Redwalla Actually I ha 18-Oct-01 Anu
                           Hey anu, its natural for all of us. To t 18-Oct-01 deep
                             hi Manisha I am ashamed of you to thin 21-Feb-02 sevendust
                               hi manisha anyone except dhotis. Just 21-Feb-02 sevendust
                                 sorry manisha the first one was meant 21-Feb-02 sevendust
                                   Anu, I was just wondering what your d 25-Feb-02 bug
                                     HEY MANISHA ......IF YOU'VE BEEN JEALOUS 25-Feb-02 DADAJEEMAAJEE
                                       manche haru lai web forum ma post nai ga 03-Mar-02 thees
what do ya think about maoists??? better 06-Mar-02 bb
   that one was for DADAJEEMAAJEE and t 06-Mar-02 bb
     Dear Board Contributors: I am an Americ 09-Mar-02 sbsed


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manisha Posted on 11-Oct-01 06:36 PM

What do you feel when you see a good looking nepali guy or girl with a non-nepali like american, indian, jewish or african american? Does it boil your blood or are you happy that they are happy together? Do you get jealous and would like to show them what they are missing?
Anu Posted on 11-Oct-01 08:01 PM

You stupid fool Manisha. Come on get more matured and get a life then these silly question won't come into your mind. The statement you made shows how dum you are and how ugly your thinking is. If you don't have a pretty face beside having an under average intelligence then you would face major crisis in survival around the people you live. Girls like you show how dum actually nepalese girls can be.
ann Posted on 12-Oct-01 04:50 PM

u re absolutely , positively right anu. i agree with u 100%. i think this manisha has nothing else to do. beside all these nonsense.
she seems like one of those kura katne khaal ko keti.that's all.
Ganesh Man Posted on 12-Oct-01 05:00 PM

eh manisha keti:

timi keti hau ki ke hau? don't you have a good sense of mind? or are you a paagal? looks like you do nothing but go yap yap yap .......... all the time. maybe you should worry about your ownself rather than worrying about what others are doing?
musa Posted on 12-Oct-01 05:03 PM

Seems like Manisha is jealous about those couples.
manisha Posted on 13-Oct-01 09:49 PM

To the contrary, I am only trying to get an intelligent discussion going about inter-racial issues and its effects on Nepali society. You may not be aware but these issues penetrate all societies be it French, African, Japanese, Chinese, South-American, Indian, Arab etc. It would give me a rough estimate of the changes occuring in my society with the younger generation especially. I just got a taste of that by merely reading the poor grammar errors and the pathetic language used to insult rather than convey opposing viewpoints.

You attack people personally rather than convey your thoughts and philosophies which is the exact reason why I abhore Nepali gatherings. There is way too much gossip of the negative aspects of any person/issue and very little substance.
Anu Posted on 14-Oct-01 03:40 PM

Hey Manisha

You still don't get the point do you. Gee you are a real nut case. Please do not post such sensitive issue on the borad as it is not civilised to discuss such pointless issues. Also first of all think of all people living in this world as human beings then probably such question won't come to your disturbed mind. And also Manisha you sound like attention deficit disorder case and people like you need to get therapy otherwise they end up becoming extremist causing problem around the world today.

You are just creating a mockery about yourself by discusiing these issues. Women like you if they have a sane mentality then they would diffuse their energy in constructive things and not by bringing in destructive issues.

Cheers
Anu
redwalla Posted on 15-Oct-01 12:51 AM

Anu:

Why don't you go **** yourself. You seem to be real anal retenative. Let people express themselves. What is your problem?? If you have a point express it, otherwise don't suck. I mean you sound like such a bitch and probably are one. Now do us a favour and go **** yourself. Please.

Redwalla
redwalla Posted on 15-Oct-01 12:59 AM

Anu: forgot to mention --- notice that all your points are nothing but attacks on Manisha. Why is this? Do you have a legitimate point? Not really other than attacking others. Now do us a favor and go busy yourself.

red
musa Posted on 15-Oct-01 02:37 PM

A word has more than one meaning and a sentence has more than thousands. So when you express your thoughts in the public forum you need to be aware that all participants will not have same perspectives. Any types of responses are possible and that should be accepted otherwise this type of public forum is not suitable for you. The author should try to clarify the audience about the subject. And about the grammer issues, no one gives rat's _ _ _. This forum is to convey the information and if one gets the message then the objective is completed. Who cares about the grammer.
Anu Posted on 15-Oct-01 03:40 PM

Dear Redwalla

Well your pathetic name says it all. I think Manisha has changed her name and written this message to defend herself as there are not many crazy people like her who would support such a thing. Well nice try Manisha. I think I am really wasting my time presenting messages to you and making you understand. Basically you are not going to understand as you must be one of those stubborn extremists.

Well Duh!! Just keep up the flare you have got on.

Anu
Anu Posted on 18-Oct-01 05:30 AM

Hi Manisha and Redwalla

Actually I had read your posting in a totally wrong way. I concentrated more on the first few lines and missed out on completely understanding the last few lines. I got the impression that you guys were attacking interracial relationships. Also I did not realise you guys were married couples which clearly suggests that you are my elders and am ashamed of using such ruff words against you both. I think the stuff your are discussing about is totally debatable. My fault I take responsibilty for being worng!! Well I also think that people are missing out if they think inter racial relationships are bogus and bad. All of us are human beings and we should have the right to choose a proper match. I think that if people demand equal opportunity in employment, education etc then why not in marriage(spritual relationship). I admire those people that can compremise and lead a successful life besides so many differneces in life but some people with everything in common tend to fall apart. I am sorry if I had hurt your feelings.

Take Care both of you

Anu
deep Posted on 18-Oct-01 12:52 PM

Hey anu, its natural for all of us. To tell u the fact there is a jealously in all of us. Cause no matter how long we stay in America we can't be americans. We grew in a uptight society so we also think in an uptight way. By the way things, thought can change in a matter of time. This is what Anu has experienced. She is trying to change herself and doing that I don't mean that's bad. Bringing a change in urself in a positive sign. We all love to change somehow... One thing I wanna tell everyone is there is no harm by bringing yourself infront of the mirror rather than trying to be someone whom you are not.......
sevendust Posted on 21-Feb-02 04:17 PM

hi Manisha
I am ashamed of you to think that talking about a sensetive issue is the sign of being uncivilized. What happened to "YOUR" civilization? are u still living in a stone age? Do you really think that by hiding your feeling is the best way to prove that you are civilized? Or is that dying your hair and wear what is in trend is what you think is civilized?
rebelious sevendust
sevendust Posted on 21-Feb-02 04:20 PM

hi manisha
anyone except dhotis. Just an honest answer from me.
rebelious sevendust
sevendust Posted on 21-Feb-02 04:23 PM

sorry manisha
the first one was meant for ANNU
bug Posted on 25-Feb-02 01:55 PM

Anu,

I was just wondering what your defination of ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder) is? And what does that have to do with Manisha's thread?

bug
DADAJEEMAAJEE Posted on 25-Feb-02 08:38 PM

HEY MANISHA ......IF YOU'VE BEEN JEALOUS WITH EVERY COUPLES YOU;VE MET THEN I THINK YOU NEED SOME GOOD ADVICE AND SEARIOUS HELP. GO GET MARRIED WITH MUSLIM, YOU DON;T GET TIME TO THINK ABOUT ALL THSESE GARBAGE YOU KNOW. JUST THINK ABOUT IT AND GOOD LUCK.
BY THE WAY...............HOW DO U LIKE MR, BINLADEN.
thees Posted on 03-Mar-02 04:03 AM

manche haru lai web forum ma post nai garna audaina ki kya ho??? aafno opinion ke ho tyo bhannu ni, post garne manche lai nana thari ta yo holas, taile esto sochya holas bhandai kura katya cha aani khub thulo debate garya bhanera makkha parya cha. IDIOTS!!!
bb Posted on 06-Mar-02 06:37 AM

what do ya think about maoists??? better put that question to urself before talkin about bin laden.... i think he got a point as well and as others has right to express his views... of course not with a force but as the holy books say, u need to use force sometimes to get peace.....
bb Posted on 06-Mar-02 06:43 AM

that one was for DADAJEEMAAJEE

and to get back to topic... manishas question is understandable.... no matter where we r n how we behave were brought up in nepal in a different society (excluding those born overseas) than the west... n if i get the point she wants to know the views of nepalese now a days regarding inter racial marrige and couples... i don't see anything bad with that.. when in nepal even if u r from same ethnic group u can't marry until u r from the same class so common this question about interracial marrige is a big question... anu and ann, if u r nepalese gals then i'm sorry for u ppl.... civilization is not that what u think of, u should go back to nepal to some remote village and spend a yr or 2 there n maybe u'll realise its meaning
sbsed Posted on 09-Mar-02 08:58 PM

Dear Board Contributors:
I am an American married to a Nepali. I saw the first message about Nepalis being married to Americans and did assume that the author was against multiethnic marriages.

I love Nepal very much and plan to live with my family there. Many of my Nepali friends are married to people from different Nepali ethnic groups. Most of my friends (American and other) are multiethnic families, also.

My parents are from two opposing ethnic groups who traditionally did not intermarry. But in the US, many of these groups (far away from home) marry people who are from similar ethnic groups even if they traditionally did not back in the homeland.

I applaud those who are willing to look at the person beneath the cloak of their ethnic identity. Even though my spouse and I are from vastly different worlds, we actually are so similar in our backgrounds to make our multiethnic relationship seem to be just a bright thread added in --not the whole dress.

I also have learned that those who are supposed to be the same as me (from America, or from my home town, or even my own ethnic group) are sometimes so different from me that I feel like we're aliens from different planets.

We do really carry so much of our ethnicity with us but there is so much more. Never is it ever appropriate to judge anyone by just one aspect. Not in politics, culture, or religion. If we spend the time respecting people and trying to learn each others' strengths and weaknesses, we could avoid unreasonable expectations and misunderstandings.

Namaste