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| Sofia |
Posted
on 30-Oct-01 06:31 PM
There are so many gals in Nepal I know who are not a "Virgin".But women has to be a "Virgin" before marriage,so does that mean that women who are not virgin will have to live their life being single ?
Sofia
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| cwte |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 12:51 AM
Absolutely not.
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| HIM |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 01:10 AM
ABSOLUTELY YES !! ONE CAN'T DEVELOP RESPECT FOR A GIRL WHO'S NOT VIRGIN...SPECIALLY WHEN HE HIMSELF IS VIRGIN..
HIM
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| yeah babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 01:49 AM
yeah babe. i sure want a virgin as my wife. a virgin to plunge into on my wedding nite n doesnt matter whether i am a virgin or not. i just want to taste a virgin. n my wife better be a virgin. aaaaahhhh!! if not, i am gonna divorce and find another virgin.
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| HIM |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 02:13 AM
I AGREE WITH U 100% YEAH BABE..
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| babe Ko mom |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:06 AM
To all the pevert men out there!!
Male perversions are out of control. These men go out there and bonk up prostitues by throwing out some money and sometimes lure girl friends for sex in the name of love. Nobody points their finger at such beasty beings. Why a girl cannot live and enjoy life and have the choice to have sex before marriage in todays world where they are educated and can earn more then an average man would. I can understand in the history when women were not educated they were not given the right to make there own decision but now most of them are educated and they are as good desicion makers as men. I just want to say that women deserve a right to choose. Like I am an educated girl and I made a choice not to have sex before marriage. I am not exploding cause I can control myself but some women can't because of there diffrent body chemistry and men need to understand a womens feelings and accept them. Just like we deal with their unnfaithfulness and dishonesty. A women needs to have her demands fulfilled as well but after a certain boundary achieved which is mainly after they have a descent job and are responsible and are independent. All this usaully comes by the age of 21 or more and also through maturity.
That's all from me guys
Tarrrrrraaaaaaaa
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| Nepali |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 09:28 AM
Hi all of you out there
Well...i think it was very important for a girl to be virgin...but i dont think it is anymore..how can these Nepali guys expect girls to be virigin while they sleep around with so many Girls?? it is not fair at all...And well guys can always lie about their virginity...If u love someone you should accept him/her as they are but not with what they had in the past...And virginity should not be that big of a deal..
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| Curious me |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 10:01 AM
There is a REASON why women have a hymen and why they go through menopause !! And its not meant for a bit of hanky panky on the side.. Its strickly for health reason for all women. So Keti ho.. save yourself ..otherwise, your own kind will disown you and you will have choose kurays and hapsee and who else not... well itsn't that what you wanted ... :)
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| kale |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 10:35 AM
Absolutly right, It does not matter how long u live in usa, u can't live like Americans. Everbody wants to have marrige life sucessfull and for that u need to have right person who can commit for relationship. Everybody knows that sex before marriage is not good if u want live with nepali culture. Having virgin before marriage also represent character of gal in our society. If u want to take risk of ur marriage life than sure go ahead and marriage NOT virgin gals....but i am sure every nepali boy can't compromise with marrrige life. The nature of gal will not only affect u, it will affect ur son/daughter too...
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| virgin lover |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 10:36 AM
i agree with u curious me . How can a guy love and marry a girl who has allowed her "body" to someone else too..? girls, if u seek true love from someone, u better not use your independence for momentary pleasures which u urself know that is not acceptable to a true heart. u can't change the obvious..can't u girls control ur desires for sometime and that u know that the day is not far when u get to enjoy life to the fullest..? do u have to try several guys to seek the real pleasure of love?
i am a guy and i take pride to say that i have saved my "virginity" for her..the right one!!
yes virginity is that imprtant to guys and gals..!!
a virgin guy
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| virgin lover |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 10:37 AM
exactly..kale !!
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| thito |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 11:14 AM
Is virginity a big issue over a small tissue?
When we talk of this tissue issue, we are compelled to talk on the boundaries and values laid by our society . Our society has nurtured this value so immensely that girls think several times before loosing their virginity, unlike guys who take it as an adventure. So a guy sleeping with prostitute or his girl friend may sound wrong on moral/religious background but is perfectly normal to justify his doing as an act of adventure. In terms of girl if its a joy of ride for the sake of exploration of ecstasy i dont think sex b4 marriage is wrong. But whats about those nepali girls who have sex for love( by the way men love for sex). The life long regret they carry for their wrong doing or the life long fascination they have for their first ( or second or third) love make the life of new nepali keta horrible. so its just a safe way of thito thinking to wish to have a virgin in a new relationship. Another important point is , we are just talking of physical virginity here. I think mental virginity is the most important factor. Unhealthy attitude towards sex , opposite sex and act of sex divert the productive behaviour to unproductive one. GALS seek 4 MENTAL VIRGINITY
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| kaka |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 11:49 AM
Issue depends on individual.
But Kumari KTs do get respect after marriage. Loosing virginity bhaneko euta kalo daag ho ra tyo jiwan bhar rahancha. kunai pani bela tesle baibawik jiwan ma huri batas lyauna sakchha.
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| girl |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 11:58 AM
hi
do u guys think that not having sex(intercourse) but allow girls body to use by guys to do everything else is called as saving verginity?like there r diff ways.u all know what i mean?
just curious..
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| kale |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 01:46 PM
Girl, u know what we are talking abt...i don't think, the gal who allows there body to do what ever boy wants is alot different from having sex. If u compare the character and menatlity of these 2 gals, one body allower and another sex allower ..it will not be different...i see both almost same.
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 01:59 PM
Hey Kale,
Tell me one thing honestly yaar! If virginity is that important to you then please tell me ....what are you good for ?Nothing all all !!
Babe
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| kale |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 03:13 PM
Babe!
let me be honest with u...i might not have some thing very good but i DON'T have anything that bad.
do u get it babe?
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:04 PM
Hi,
I did save my "virginity"for 19 years and finally decided to lose it with a nepali guy (in Nepal),I was madly in love with him and wanted to marry him as well.3 years went by,and this boyfriend of mine was not sure about marriage,then I decided to leave Nepal for good.It was hard for me but I am through with all that now.Now,he calls me from Nepal and wants to marry me,too bad for him I have changed my thoughts about him.I dont regret for losing it,because I lost with the one I loved.Before I met him, I never believed in sex before marriage then,I was attending a Christian High School that reinforced those beliefs.It was my first love,that I pathetic and insecure and madly-in-love teenager couldn't resist.It wasn't very spectacular,although my curiosity was definately satisfied.The physical act was ok;painful but the most precious thing was that we both lost it that fine day,there was no regret in that sence).Its done now ;and I cant change a thing about it.Sex has nothing to do with morality.In certain religoins,a lot of emphasis is placed upon it,but in hindsight,most those restrictions were placed in order to shape behavior to prevent things that we can prevent others way now.And for people who waited for marriage and only have slept with that one person.Well,good for you!!really!!Its what you believe in and feel was the best thing for you.But to say sex out of wedlock is immoral is rediculous.Its a way to share pleasure with someone.And its upto the individual to determine who they want to share it with.For some nepali women whose marriage are arranged,has to spend the rest of their lives with a unknown man whom they dont even love.After they get married ;she finds out that he is an alcoholic or womenizer but they have no choice but to live with them for the rest of their lives,Thats insane.This is 21st century,we women have our own rights.Marriage is a bond that is inseparable,build trust in each-other,if some guys believe in "Non-Virgin" women/gals has no respect in your society then do me a favour ! ask your self "What are you good for" ? You marry a women to cook ,wash and take care of your children for you.That women does all that for you but what do you do ? May be you provide food for them (but you have your own expense for clubs,bears,women..ect)there she is waiting for you at home and you !!
Try converting the responsibilities (You do her job and she does yours) you might commit suicide in 2 days.Is that what you call a respect ?She is no more a virgin for you.I have known so many guys in Nepal who are forced to get married,who sleeps around.I even know a guy in Nepal who told me what he says to his wife"Why dont you just disappear"(He has a son).Thats inhuman.No doubt she was a virgin before she married him.Is that how you respect a "Virgin"wife ? Do you even know what respect is ? First learn to respect yourself then only you are capable of respecting others.Thank god !! my man doesnt think like you,and he is nepali too,thats why I will be marrying him (He is a virgin).
I have learnt so much from my experience,now I know what I want.I will decide myself for what to do.Whatever happens ;happens for good,so I am happy with life now.My relationship was not meant to be in Nepal which I do not regret because I would be regreting if I had live there and married that guy.Ask youself guys .. Who is responsible for a women to get her pregnant ? Who are the ones who are selling those innocent nepali gals to india ? All You Moran!! MENS !! SO dont even say that you want a "Virgin women" because the fact is that you want a virgin women for only first night.
Babe
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:13 PM
I dont want a "Virgin" guy !! NO WAY!!
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:15 PM
Kale,
Could you please be specific ? What are you talking about ?
Babe
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:35 PM
Babe Ko Mum,
Thank you !!
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| Nepali girl |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:49 PM
Hi Everyone
I wanna put a real life situation in front of you and you be the judge. one of my fren (Hindu family) lived together(in USA) for a year with her husband before they got married. That 1 year they just fooled around but never had intercourse. The girl was ready for it since she knew was gona get married with this guy and for her he was the man in her life. But the guy all those times acted as a perfect gentleman avoided sex. Well the girl thought since he was a nice guy he's gonna wait until they married to have sex. This January they celebrated their second anniversary but till now they havent had sex. No, the guy, according to my friend is not gay, he's perfectly normal, fools around but does not have intercourse. She has tried to tell him to go for counselling. but he's too proud to go asking for help. Parents from both the sides are asking the girl if she's gonna have the baby soon.....but she has no answer. Though she wants to divorce him not because of not being able to have sex with her husband but because he's too proud to admit that he has a problem and because of the fights and arguements they have everyday. But she cannot do so too..why? because of our values that we have been brought up to. She had many affairs before she married but she was holding unto her virginity like us for her husband. But did that do her any good?
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| ukyab |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 05:54 PM
Virginity is a state of mind. What happened before me is beyond my control. The important thing is the commitment after the marriage.
My 2 cents.
Ukyab (A nepali guy)
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| cool |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 06:23 PM
nepali girl!
what's wrong with that guy? he seems very unique
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| kale |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 06:28 PM
Babe!
I think ur talking abr extrme bad side of man....i think there is lot's of gentle nepaly man, who care there wife more than them self.
nepali girl!
how could that help her if she lost virginity before married to that man?
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| Nepali girl |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 06:37 PM
I dont know myself if that would have helped or not but it would have definitely helped the girl feel better. Right now she is doubting herself, he's making her feel unsecure saying that she is not beautiful enough. SO if she had sex before i think maybe she would have been more confident. I'm just putting up a real case infront of you..and your suggestions might help my friend....who knows???
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| cute |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 06:39 PM
babe!
u said "u don't want to marry virgin man"
do u know how man lost virginity, here are possible scnerious...
either having sex with postitute or with innocent gals, who might be living kalo dhag.
he might left some hermone some where, it might be boy/gal ....
good luck babe
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| kale |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 06:42 PM
nepali gal!
i never heared man like him....i only heared another side of story abt man "how badly nepali boys wants to have sex.."
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| Experienced |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 07:51 PM
In my opinion it's more fun to have sex with experienced girls. Virgin girls have too much inhibition so that you have to even feel bad about doing it.
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 07:55 PM
Hey cutie pie,
I would love to have non-virgin guy so I wont have a desaster on my first night of marriage.Most of the nepali guys are not experienced in sex so,they have no idea than to stay in one spot....!!In that case they are just good for a virgin gal(who knows the same).Sex can be defined into many categories...oral-sex and etc; which a virgin neapali guys has no idea.You want to make your first night after wedding a memorable one you know ? Not a desaster !
If he is nerves,and had no idea to do whateve then he is definately a "VIRGIN".
There is no way I will have an arranged marriage ;I will love and then marriage(by that time I will find out how virgin is he)
I would regret marrying him if he asks me how to begin.
Babe
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 07:57 PM
UKYAb,
I love your philosophy!! Positive thinking.
Babe
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| Babe |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 08:03 PM
Kale,
I never mentioned all the men.I know there are nice mens out there too,and you might be one as well;I mean nice men.
Babe
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| cute |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 09:03 PM
Babe!
u don't have any other answer coz u already lost. ur crying like sugar is not sweet.
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| Babe |
Posted
on 01-Nov-01 02:10 AM
cute,
Somehow you will know that the guy is a virgin yaar !! First hint is they blush when you talk anything sexual.Secondly,they are very shy even to hold your hand,they dont talk much,never look in your eyes and they will keep distance while walking with you.If you try to kiss them they have no clue what to do...understand now ??/Cutie pie,if you are a virgin yourself;you will never figure that out.
Babe
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| me |
Posted
on 01-Nov-01 02:11 AM
yeah babe..
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| deep |
Posted
on 01-Nov-01 03:46 PM
hey u morons it's because of u all sex is so important..... Just let that virgin thing let go from u narrow brains and see it from a broader point of view... U will not take it really seriouslyyyy. Sofia it is not a big deal about losing virginity or being a virgin..... You have to let ur self loose, there is nothing to gain nothing to loose.....
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| Pinaz |
Posted
on 02-Nov-01 03:22 PM
Babe said:>>Thank god !! my man doesnt think like you,and he is nepali too,thats why I will be marrying him (He is a virgin). <<
Babe said again: >>dont want a "Virgin" guy !! NO WAY!!<<
Babe,
You condradict yourself.
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| Babe, |
Posted
on 02-Nov-01 10:08 PM
pinaz,
I have known this guy for some time now and the first thing he asked me was is that was I a" virgin" ? Then I hung up on him for good. After a while he calls me again saying "Sorry" and bla bla bla !!wanted to be my friend. We were friends for a while then it converted into relationship.I asked him the same question "are u a Virgin " ? He said No !! Later; he said he had a confession to make which was that he lied to me he was not a "Virgin". Do I have a choise now ??
Babe
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| Babe, |
Posted
on 02-Nov-01 10:08 PM
pinaz,
I have known this guy for some time now and the first thing he asked me was is that was I a" virgin" ? Then I hung up on him for good. After a while he calls me again saying "Sorry" and bla bla bla !!wanted to be my friend. We were friends for a while then it converted into relationship.I asked him the same question "are u a Virgin " ? He said No !! Later; he said he had a confession to make which was that he lied to me he was not a "Virgin". Do I have a choise now ??
Babe
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