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| Tripti |
Posted
on 31-Oct-01 11:26 AM
Hi I am not here to find a boyfriend or husband, I am doing a project and I would like to know your views about what a decent man tries to find in a woman. Please don't give me aggressive answers like body, virginity or sex...I know they need that but I would like to hear something more than that. Thanks everyone :-)
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| ukyab |
Posted
on 01-Nov-01 12:32 PM
Someone who knows how to make momos and maybe teach me how to make those "mujamuja" on momos.
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| cwte |
Posted
on 01-Nov-01 02:57 PM
honesty, simplicity, love, caring, understanding and who could love me more than i love her. too bad but this is my opinion.
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| kale |
Posted
on 01-Nov-01 03:28 PM
Tripti,
I look for beauty which is comes from her heart not out side physical. I think that beauty from heart inclues everything, character, honesty, understanding, unselfish, clean mind, clean heart, down to earth no matter what, her smile...who can survive any kind of life with great smile.
If i find those kind of gal , i will be lucky. I was one time after very beatifull gal, tall, slim...physically beautifull....finally i found she is very dirty minded...now i can't stand in front of her coz when i see/remember her, i don't see her beautifull pysical outlook but i see her dirty mind, pose...u will not even pay 2 cents...after that i learned big lesson....SO GUYS BEAUTY COMES FROM INSIDE so never make mistake going after physical out look.
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| Tripti |
Posted
on 02-Nov-01 12:03 PM
You are right guys, beauty comes from inside, women should know how to cook momos too hehehe!! You all are right. I love to hear more opinions on this. Thanks everyone.
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| Nepali |
Posted
on 02-Nov-01 03:05 PM
Hi Tripti
How are you? Well me myself being a Nepali Girl..I think most of the Nepali guys go for Looks first, well eventhough they argue that they look for inside beauty..well what do you look for in a guy? Personally i would first of all look at his personality...what if he does not have a good personality? would you look at him? So i think personal appearance is the first thing that everybody looks at...and than after that you get close to him/her and find about about his/her inner beauty...So these days it is really important for someone to appear nicely to be liked by someone..That sucks doesn't it.....
Have a good one:) ......Tell me if you agree with me or not?
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| Nepali |
Posted
on 03-Nov-01 10:23 AM
I prefer a woman who can suck and swallow
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| Kuire |
Posted
on 03-Nov-01 02:24 PM
I prefer one who can give me a good BJ after I come back from work every evening, one who can dress in the sexiest underwear and lingerie and who can satisfy my every night for the rest of my life.
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| SomebodyToLOVE |
Posted
on 04-Nov-01 03:29 PM
What men Wants?
I don't really know about others, but what i want from girl is "NOTHING". yes nothing. There is nothing i want from anyone, but still, i want everything. I am a human being, i have lots of desire. Of course, i want girl who is funny, sexy, who has good figure, who i can trust, who is good in bed, who understands me, listens to me, doesn't make any demands, let me live my life, and yet, who will be in my life forever. But that is what makes me happy for a short time. but that ofcourse wont' make me satisfied in the long term. if you really think deeply, what you really want from the man? i think you want nothing, but everything.
i just needed someone to fill my void, my loneliness. To whom, i can spill all my frustrations, to whom i can tell everything and yet, nothing. whenever i needed, i can take her to the restaurant, or whenever i feel like going to the movies, i can take her with me, so that i don't feel lonely. i can have sex with her anytime, anytime, she should be ready to fulfill me. But despite all , she won't ask me why or won' t tell me "no". you may think i am crazy, or self centered, but don't you think that is what everyone wants? don't you think everyone wants someone who will be there in the time of depression, loneliness, happiness and whatever may comes.??... and who i can bully on, and still, she won't say a word to me and be always nice to me.. i am human ...
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| Tripti |
Posted
on 05-Nov-01 12:01 PM
Please guys don't give me rubbish answers. I am sorry I canot write that in my project.
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| Tripti |
Posted
on 05-Nov-01 12:04 PM
Hello Mr. Somebdy to love, you please keep your ideas to yourself. I don't know how you have seen women treated around your surrounding or around the family but is it sad to hear your opinion. Thanks anyway :-)
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| somebody2love |
Posted
on 05-Nov-01 12:51 PM
TRIPTI,
you asked, " what the decent men look in women" and i answered honestly as i can. if you get offended, thats your problem. coz i took it as your lack of vision to look at things in depth. what do you think any decent or indecent men look in women? i gave you honest answer, answer is, they want nothing but someone who they can bully. Ask any guys who do not want woman who would bring them beers and make snacks, while they are watching tv. which of the guys do not want woman who would take care of all the house work, kids and everything, while the guys are chillin' in front of the tv set?
you cannot come up with the perfect answer. that is your problem. you accused me of my ideas being sad, but you are not lookin' at the thing in depth. i wonder if you have any projects to do. you seem to be one liar to me who appears in the forum board and throws one stupid idea in order to get attention. By the way, i am not talking about which kind of surrounding i was grown up, or how the women are treated in my surroundings or in my families. i am just giving you an answer to your question. If you want an attention in the web, there are different other ways to do that. one way is, why don't you make a simple web site with bunch of your photos, so that you will get all the attention you needed. you seem to me as a psycho case. are you?
(next time reply in a proper manner rather than accusing me of something, or trying to patronize me. i might be just another guy, but i am not yet your husband or lover or whoever close to you who you can patronize)
thanks
(what does it take to some women in the board to be nicer?)
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| Kuire |
Posted
on 07-Nov-01 09:28 AM
Tripti:
Ask your BF what he wants and if he'd not like that piece of ass of yours. Ask him if he doesn't like to see your tits and ass. Ask him if he'd like you to suck his cock. Ask him if he can control himself from eating you in and out. Ask him if can not bang you every night. That's what all decent men want. Men want women for sex. Period.
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| just a thought |
Posted
on 07-Nov-01 07:40 PM
HI,
tripti right?...ok...you know what guys look for in girls...i mean it seems from the answers given by the guys that all they want is abuse and that's it.
what about girls?...do they really want the guys to abuse them?..of course not. they are human too. They want to love and be loved. every girl knows that the husband or whosoever it is will give her a hard time after marriage..but yet they love their husband, boyfriends and keep loving them until all of thier strength collapse, all thier tears finish. why?..why do girls do that?..I'm a girl too. But it is really hard for me to answer this question. I wonder why i fell in love with someone who ..........left me in the midst of sorrow and my dreams.
i don't have a clue to it..yet life is going on..and will go on..
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| le chef du nuit |
Posted
on 13-Nov-01 03:27 AM
i wish, oh i wish
for a girl that'd laugh at my jokes
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| Tripti |
Posted
on 14-Nov-01 12:51 PM
Hi thanks for all your ides guys. I am not offending anyone or trying to get attention here. I am sorry if anyone felt like that. My project is done. So I don't need anymore ideas.
Thanks
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| Gal |
Posted
on 18-Nov-01 09:24 PM
First of all I would like to thank u Tripti for putting this up in the BOARD and I must say I am appalled at what guys are looking for in a gal. One would really hope in this day and age, men would see women as their equal and not someone to bully or abuse.
It's wierd but in some ways I think we should thank these guys for bringing into limelight what they really percieve of us. What a sad day, they just want a SLAVE not a GF or WIFE. A robot who does her duty with her mouth shut.
To all my sisters out there...surprise surprise our fellow MEN are still back in the CAVE AGE. CAUTION IS THE MAGIC WORD HERE!!!!
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| sevendust |
Posted
on 21-Feb-02 04:05 PM
hi tripti,
First of all what is your defination of a " decent man"? If you can help me clarify this, then I'll be able to give you my honest opinion ( no I won't be talking about sex and BJ).
rebelious sevendust
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| NEPALI_KANCHAA |
Posted
on 22-Feb-02 08:56 AM
First of all, I'm really disappointed that you are not looking for a boyfried; My Luck !! The topic of your discussion is too broad, don't you think ? Please don't think that I'm trying to be a smartass but if the topic was instead, what a decent man DOESN'T look for in a woman, then probably you would get more specific answers; I think. Anyway, these are the things I look for in woman today( at this exact moment cause the list might change in next hour) :
- someone who is responsible and has common sense ( very important ).
- easy going and someone who is not pain in the ass.
- who is very predictable, unlike me :-)
- respects each other's privacy. Men need their own space
- somewhat beautiful and femine in nature ( sorry guys, I like girls doing little
makeups. Maybe it's only me. )
- I don't think, I like the girls who call me "DUDE". It is not sooooo girly.
- who doesn't watch "Friends" and "Ally McBeal".
- forgiving and loyal.
- who understands the value of money stays away from Malls.
- somewhat mysterious.
- who finds new ways to surprise their partner ( with momo and beer )
- who stays away from my REMOTE CONTROL. It's Mine......
- who understands picking nose in public is ewwwwwwwwwww, very gross and
gross in private too.
Tripti, do u think it is achievable ? or am I being too picky picky ?
Take Care !!!
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| sevendust |
Posted
on 22-Feb-02 11:45 AM
I agree with you 100% kancha.
rebelious sevendust
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| sevendust |
Posted
on 22-Feb-02 12:12 PM
I'm glad gal that you are not living in stone age. I hope you really mean what you say. But if you are one of those who wants an equal rights as man but when it comes to be independent,you again depend on a man. For example: When there is a psycho in your house trying to kill your children, you either run to your husband or to your father-in-law or some male in the family.if you see some guys fighting on the street, you tell your husband or your boyfriend to go and break up the fight and you stand 10 feet away from the scene. If you are one of those who think dying your hair blond or red makes you look "pretty" because you really don't have a brain and the only thing (in your opinion) that attracts a man towards you is your bone and skin that you like to call a "nice body". Most importantly, if you like to sit at home and do nothing but to chat with your neighbor (female) about how pathetic and miserable your life is because your husband doesn't make enough to buy you jewelery, then you are a hippocrete. And most importantly its always a women who like to put other women down. I hope you agree with me on that. I hope all you women will have an equal right as men but it has to start from you. More than you city women,I'd like to see those poor village women who do everything their men do but never complain. And definitly those village men are more liberate than so called literate fools (men).
Rebelious sevendust
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| salik |
Posted
on 24-Feb-02 01:12 PM
hai tripti
your name give so much satisfaction on everybody so why man will lookn on you more than that isn't it any way i have ans for your q...is that what you are looking in man? when you will got ans then think what a dec man looksin women.
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