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| Girl from Boston |
Posted
on 22-Nov-01 03:15 AM
I partly grew up in Nepal. My experience was horrible. Teachers cared more for kids who were already so called 'talented', so there was little chance left for those who were inner talented but couldn't bring it out. And girls oh my lord, they took advantage of me...told me to bring money inorder to be part of their group. I see the exact same attitude in Nepali girls who are here in the united States. They form groups meaning that there is a leader in their group. And all the other followers are ought to be loyal or else they will kick that 'unloyal' person out of their group. And the so called 'leader' will talk about, rat out their ex-group member like a numbnut.
Hey, it was my experience.
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| imran |
Posted
on 22-Nov-01 04:03 AM
no kidding
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| _BP |
Posted
on 22-Nov-01 05:18 AM
Tell us more...and what age group are we talking here?
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| Anu |
Posted
on 22-Nov-01 03:38 PM
Hi Girl from Boston
The same thing in the group happened to me in high school. These nepalese girls have a real weird way of functioning. The lesson I learnt by being in the group was just to avoid them and more peaceful you would be. You would be amazed to see that the guys also have similar thinking. Specially when we are in high school we have a real sensitive and emotional and immature self balance. I was really devastated by the experience and it made me think alot that is there something wrong with me am I crazy or have a bad attitude towards life. But then I went out and made friends and was highly appreciated and accepted there and then realised that it was basically those girls that were creating the trouble for me. I am so glad to know that there is somebody out there who has had the same experience. I have become so much more independent now and can handle things on my own but high school days are the best days of our life and I am sad to know that part of time was wasted on such an worthless note. Please do share some more of the expereinces with me.
cheers
Anu
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| ke.combhaire |
Posted
on 22-Nov-01 11:24 PM
seems nepali kt Vs nepali kt,
just kinda curious , do women more openly exhibit their jealosy than their men counterpart?( Hope its a politically correct question)
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| girl from boston |
Posted
on 23-Nov-01 02:01 AM
I came to the United States when I was ten years old. I remember not missing 'anything' from back home except that I thought about my family a lot. Other than that, I was very happy, I didn't have any mean friends and all my teachers adored me for my humbleness. My confidence grew, and all of sudden I was an A student. I remember failing annualy :) in Nepal and my mom would go to school use her source to promote me to the next grade. It isn't because I was talented ot stupid, it's because I hated school, I feared going to school...TO BE CONTINUED(it's 2 am and need some sleep)
I will talk more about it next time.
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