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   Hi DK:: >> Thank you for taking trou 01-Dec-00 Biswo


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Biswo Posted on 01-Dec-00 04:33 PM

Hi DK::

>> Thank you for taking trouble to respond.
>1.Do you think gays are derogative stuffs?
> Absolutely not. Do you?


With all respect to your personal freedom,I want to say what
anybody can infer from your posting:the words were intended to
demean the gays.

It is our responsibility to recognize the different elements of
our society,irrespective of their sexual propensity, and try to
extract most from them for the collective welfare of society.

Hopefully,your future responses will not contravene with your
basic conviction: that you don't think gays are inferiors..


>> Oh I know Mabi is nether of them.It was just his nature of
writing.That's all.Just because he,himself is a doctor, a
dentist,doesn't means he has to be so motherly emotional to defend
his profession friend.

It's confusing,DK.You think his nature of writing is gay-like,
right? What does that mean?Good or bad or normal?

To be frank,I feel that Mabi seems to have misunderstood some of
the real good intent Ashu wanted to convey,but your posting
doesn't expand upon the point that you wanted to express.It was
just an explicit vituperative remark,at least as long as I
understand it to be.

>> Try to be civilized,friend.
-I will try.

Thanks so much for your civilized and calm reply.I appreciate it
and actually,don't think that I am trying to put myself inside
the bracket of civilized ones.I am also in the process to make
myself better.



>> It was just my thought.Since you all have been advocating "freedom of expression" in this forum.Why do you care
wheather I write in real name or not.As long as my thought gets
acrossed.Its idea that matters not name.

Sorry ,sir.You have freedom of expression, but your expression
gets more credibility and respect with the stamp of authenticity
in it.Faceless articles are often ,psychologically, product of
lack of confidence and feeling of insecurity and timidity.That
may not be the case of your, but that is a normal assumption.

And freedom of expression is for those who want to use it
publicly.To use it anonymous,you don't even need freedom of
expression.Like the speeches we get in Tudikhel after 2046 are
not the unique or unprecedented,the themes of those speeches were
conveyed in the underground party meeting of NC,ML even in
Panchayat era,and often sounded fairly platitudinous to those who attended such fora in Panchayat era.Freedom of speech allows
people to give name to their thought.

>> No hard feelings,ok.
> Go finish your web-site construction.

Thanks so much for your concern.The web-site will be finished
by Christmas, and you can have at least some useful links there.
This is my final semester, and now I am busy preparing final tests
all of which are scheduled this week.