| HahooGuru |
Posted
on 16-Jan-02 01:59 AM
Wonderer, Before you get anwer from girls, I will ask you one question considering you are a male Nepali. Will you like to have "arranged" marry a girl left behind by someone you know him had sex with her? As long as your mentality and social demand does not change, Girls can have SEX before getting married, or can not disclose her sex with someone, or she has to pretend that she virgin, as long as males like you dominate the society, and seek for virgin girl, while you seek your self to have sex with several girls and visit brothels to fulfill your sexual desire, and still reject a girl who had affiar with someone else. Its you, who should anwer first, become more generous over girls. Otherway around: Will you tolerate your sister having sex with others before her marriage? Will you allow your sister's BF to leave your sister after you come to know that he slept with your own sister? If not, how can a girl make up her mind? Pl. remember that even British royal wanted a virgin girl Dyana and sent her for virginity test , while Prince charles was having relation with another women for long time. As long as it makes big difference, girls can not have that much of freedom as counterpart males have. This is the reason, the average age of bride in Nepal was 21years, and it was the youngest in the world (Gunni..es Book of world record..Yr.??forgot) I guess the real age is much lower, because most of the marriage go unrecorded in villages where as young as 6-8years old get married. Did you know it? Not only in Nepal, but, in many countries around the world, bride has to go for virgin test. In egypt, in the first night of marriage, (not even night: ref. a TV programme) the JANTI wait outside the room of bride-groom, and after first SEX, the boys returns the white bedsheet full of blood as a proof of virgin. How cruel world is this? In algeria, they put thin thread to test whethe bride will bleed or not? In Egypt again, a few years back, CNN had live show how they trimmed girls SEXUAL organ to avoid her sexual desire. In Nepal in villages, why parents want their daughters marry even before first time period(?) ? Why ? Its all because of male chauvanism. unfortunately, I also one male in this world. What can I do? Just wanted to tell you that don't play double role, or double standard. Are you prepared to marry a girl who has lost virginity quite a long time before? One of my colleague at some work place, in a personal talk with him in some bar. He slept with at least 5-6girls, but, he claimed that he is proud of his wife because she was virgin. Bye. HahooGuru
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