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A serious question about sex and marriage

   I am 25 year and I am going to marry thi 09-Feb-02 Virgin
     1) u will do in first night but try unde 09-Feb-02 college boy
       A week ago or so, in one of the threads, 09-Feb-02 Durcheruwa
         Good questions, which I don't have answe 09-Feb-02 Cache Master
           Oh Shit! Now I know who Virgin is, and h 09-Feb-02 Cache Master


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Virgin Posted on 09-Feb-02 12:38 PM

I am 25 year and I am going to marry this summer-- an arranged marriage that is. Bragging to friends is different but I still a virgin regarding sexual experience. I have following questions I hope some of you married people can make good answer to me:

1) Do you really "do it" in the first night (suhag raat)t? For me, this looks like difficulty. How to have sex in first night?

2) I hear for women the tissue breaks, what happen to man? I hear blood comes. Do you prepare for extra sheets? Will this not be emarassing?

My question is not for joke, please reply with good advise please.
college boy Posted on 09-Feb-02 01:03 PM

1) u will do in first night but try understnad her interest too..don't force if she does not feel comfortable...Try to put everything under control
2) Use extra sheet under her ...90% possibility that blood will come out
3) If ur virgin than u might not able to do as u wish cozur body feels totally different u never had..sometimes u feel like ur body locked, if u can't do much than blood might not come..ia m sure u will do after a while than blood will out
4) after first sex u will feel really tired..each joint of ur body

..u will enjoy..best of luck
Durcheruwa Posted on 09-Feb-02 01:10 PM

A week ago or so, in one of the threads, I tried to bring people's attention to necessity to do blood screening before marriage. But that think, to my surprise went to deaf ear.( May be I need to scold somebody or say something really unpopular or controversial to get people's response here. Or may be I will get copious response after I become celebrity poster :-) )


Well, to Virginji, being experieced no more than you, sorry I couldn't offer any advice on this matter. But don't forget to undergo, blood screening before marriage. I know you will have hard time convincing your folks and keti ko folks to undergo this screening thing. Asking such thing undeniably will creat some havoc and suspicion but I think it's worth it and right thing to do. ki kaso????
Cache Master Posted on 09-Feb-02 05:08 PM

Good questions, which I don't have answers either. Mabye Ashu will post some links that might be of help? Or some married couples could enlighten us (if u are too shy please use another name).

Don't you think this posting should be in the SEX section?
Cache Master Posted on 09-Feb-02 05:10 PM

Oh Shit! Now I know who Virgin is, and he knows me as well. I will have fun teasing him.