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Is Homosexuality a taboo in Nepal.

   I am putting the link just to see how to 09-Mar-02 hmmm....
     ....................... EDITED BY ADMIN 09-Mar-02 Homophobic
       It is about time someone brought up this 09-Mar-02 Joel
         What's the true meaning of faggot? fr 10-Mar-02 hmmm....
           dictionary.com seems to be incomplete so 10-Mar-02 id
             If one is completely comfortable being t 10-Mar-02 sunakhari
               It is a mistake to think that all gay me 10-Mar-02 anepalikt
                 ....................... EDITED BY ADMIN 10-Mar-02 Homophobic
                   Everyguy wants to lick pussy. Every girl 10-Mar-02 HomoPhobic Prervert!!
                     Couple of reasons: 1. I put this topi 10-Mar-02 hmmm....
                       ....................... EDITED BY ADMIN 10-Mar-02 Homophobic
                         Have you read this, those people who tal 10-Mar-02 hmmm....
                           Homophobic needs to get a life or electr 10-Mar-02 FOS
                             Why would anyone care what other people 10-Mar-02 sally
                               >NepaliKT Bitch i know you want my dick 11-Mar-02 anepalikt
                                 My dear bitch, Homophobic, Waiting fo 12-Mar-02 Bubba
                                   YOU GO ANEPALIKT!!!! But on the other 12-Mar-02 joie de vivre
                                     HI anepalikt, That was a damn good re 12-Mar-02 ashu
                                       To tell you the truth anepalikt, i am ju 12-Mar-02 NK
h-phobic's gonna look pretty funny tryin 12-Mar-02 knuckle sandwich
   er, just wanted to point out that the 'j 13-Mar-02 joie de vivre
     I wonder how many nepalis have come out 20-Mar-02 neps


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hmmm.... Posted on 09-Mar-02 01:28 AM

I am putting the link just to see how tolerant are our sajha.com visitors?

The site does not link to Nude Pictures if thats what you are expecting!

http://www.con.cool.am/


Hoohi
hmmm....
Hamrika
Homophobic Posted on 09-Mar-02 04:49 PM

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Joel Posted on 09-Mar-02 05:13 PM

It is about time someone brought up this topic. We will see how far it goes.
hmmm.... Posted on 10-Mar-02 12:09 AM

What's the true meaning of faggot?

from dictionary.com

fag·ot also fag·got (fgt)
n.
A bundle of twigs, sticks, or branches bound together.
A bundle of pieces of iron or steel to be welded or hammered into bars.

tr.v. fag·ot·ed, also fag·got·ed fag·ot·ing, fag·got·ing fag·ots, fag·gots
To bind into a fagot; bundle.
To decorate with fagoting.


I also heard that faggot is some kind of sausage in England?

In India, cigarrettes are called Fags.
id Posted on 10-Mar-02 12:54 AM

dictionary.com seems to be incomplete source of meanings :-( Use some other dictionary dude!
sunakhari Posted on 10-Mar-02 06:27 AM

If one is completely comfortable being the sex one is, why would one have anything to say on another person's sexuality?
For those HOMOPHOBICS:
As someone who has had a very close person come out of the closet not very long ago, let me share my experience:
This child was a woman in a man's body from the time he was born. His choice of colors and clothes surpassed any woman's. His sensitiveness surpassed any woman's. He was merely crawling when he found women's shoes more attractive than any toys around. He grew up to be a wonderful son and brother. He is a wonderful person! Why then should we have any problems with the way he is?
His family don't, his parents have come to terms with it - then why should we be the judge of his way of life?
If this child had any choice, do you think he enjoyed being taunted? do you think he enjoys having 2 brothers who have turned out to be hetereosexuals and he is not? He didn't choose to be, he just IS!

To answer the initial question:
Homosexuality is an unspoken thing in Nepal. It has always existed though. How many of us haven't encountered men who walk like women? whose mannerisms have made our jaws drop? I always have! Anyone's older relative cut their hair at Keshav Dai's?? Tell me if he wasn't feminine? So like sex, it seems our Gods and goddesses were more comfortable with homosexuality! HELLO anyone heard of Naradmuni??
We don't feel uncomfortable looking at this god with a huge genital sticking out in Pashupati but we feel embarrassed to see couples walking around holding hands. Its okay that young girls pray to LINGUMS but god help them if they even THIK about the guy next door. UGH! The (ab)norms of our society!!
Okay I'm deviating from the original topic..therefore, let me say how proud I am to see that this website exists - if anyone needs it, it has to be our brothers who have no support from the society or maybe some family members.

And before you think I'm a homosexual, I'm not. But I am pro-choice in the full sense of the word
anepalikt Posted on 10-Mar-02 08:03 AM

It is a mistake to think that all gay men are feminine and all lesbians butch. Gender identification and sexuality are two different things. Regardless, the point is people are what they are and a hatred-illed person's vile words are just that and nothing more.

Ten percent of every poulation is homosexual. It is a phenomenon in every culture, from the gender-bending hermaphodite singers in India to the practice of young men spending years as the "men-wives" of older men till they themselves can take "women-wives". Alexander the great is known to have been a homosexual.

Anyhow........ so what was the point of the original post now? tolerance....... hmmmmmmm...... live and let live! And if you have more to give, be compassionate and tell homophobes like the guy above, to shove it!
Homophobic Posted on 10-Mar-02 09:07 AM

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HomoPhobic Prervert!! Posted on 10-Mar-02 09:16 AM

Everyguy wants to lick pussy. Every girl wants to suck dick. From NepaliKt I came to know that 10% of guys wants to suck dick ( amazing) and 10% girl wants to lick pussy instead.
What is taboo what is not. This is relative question.
hmmm.... Posted on 10-Mar-02 09:44 AM

Couple of reasons:

1. I put this topic plus the link for the Nepali Gay community to find a place of their belonging.
2. See how homophobic or tolerant our Sajha.com visitors are.
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To the homophoic visitors, you guys remind me of the FATHER of the weed seller in The American Beauty.

Here's my deduction:

1. Gay guys are generally better looking than rest of us.
2. More good looking gay guys means, more women for the straight community. (With hopes that only not-so good looking women become gay)

So Go Gays Go!
Homophobic Posted on 10-Mar-02 12:56 PM

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hmmm.... Posted on 10-Mar-02 02:21 PM

Have you read this, those people who talk a lot about "dick" are fascinated by it and thus deep down inside are themselves homosexuals.

Homosexuality exists, there is nothing wrong with the person. The only being you can blame for Homosexaulity is GOD, now do you want to blame GOD?

Wasn't the one who fought against Bhisma Pitamaha in Mahavaarat a Gay? (Forgot the name, just to show the existence of Gay in Pauranik times)

Now about me. If you wanna believe I am gay, that's fine with me, I have no problem.

Hoohi
hmmm....
Hamrika
FOS Posted on 10-Mar-02 03:08 PM

Homophobic needs to get a life or electrocution.
sally Posted on 10-Mar-02 10:22 PM

Why would anyone care what other people do in their love lives--unless there is something personally threatening in the matter?

So, my guess is that Homophobic is either:

(a) a repressed homosexual, for whom even the thought of gay people brings up such conflicting emotions and fears that he or she has to strike out against gays as a type of self defense against desires that he or she can't tolerate; or,

(b) someone who was a victim of homosexual rape or pedophilia. It does happen--though statistically it's a lot less frequent than rape or pedophilia committed by straight people.

So let's put this in context, have pity on poor Homophobia, and hope that he finds the strength to get the help that he so clearly needs before his anger gets the best of him and he hurts somebody besides himself.
anepalikt Posted on 11-Mar-02 09:53 PM

>NepaliKT Bitch i know you want my dick in your mouth.

Wow! What do you say to that? Except maybe, put your little carrot back in your pants, boy, and go get a life!

I have to admit that the dweeb, who so proudly calls himself "homophobic" and wrote that vile sentence above, did manage to do what he probably intended, to shame me and get me to shut up! or at least for a while. "Garne lai bhanda herne lai laaj." On thinking about it though I thought why should I be ashamed of this dweeb's indiscretion and total lack of self-respect?

At first I thought "should I even dignify that with a response." But after obsessing on it for an entire day, I decided against silence. Because that is what is most wrong with Nepal and Nepali people. Don't rock the boat! "Bhayo Bhayo, chod deu, goo choye ganaucha." Unfortunately there is so much goo that even if you don't do anything it still stinks! Might as well call a big pile of shit just that. At least everyone then can agree that this stinks and agree to remove it from the premesis.

Homophobic, people like you are what is wrong in this world and in particular with lot of Nepali men! You proiudly wear your mysogyny, your ignorance and bigotry as it thery are the marks of modernity and progrssiveness. You are totally unaware of or rather take for granted your male heterosexual priviledge. You are so completely repressed and juvenile that responding to you in akin to not be bitten by a rabid kukkur.

What kind of men and women must have reared you that you think using such language is okay? Maybe you think, "oh, well this is an annonymoud webforum, there is not accountability, anything goes!"

Anything DOES NOT GO! It is not okay to call some one a bitch! And it is not okay to make lewd and disgusting suggestions about your disgusting skanky baby carrot size weiner to people you don't know! Learn to respect others and yourself, boy! And learn to argue using the power of reasoning (assuming you have a brain that is). Slurs like the one you posted above is going to get you nowhere in life but maybe will land you in a ditch or better still in jail to be roomed with a big tatooed man name Bubba!
Bubba Posted on 12-Mar-02 07:37 AM

My dear bitch, Homophobic,

Waiting for you at cell # 311.

Bubba.
joie de vivre Posted on 12-Mar-02 07:54 AM

YOU GO ANEPALIKT!!!!

But on the other hand, what can we do if thats what he thinks English language is all about? Learn a few swear words here and there, think that he can just about say anything to shame others not taking into view that there might be SOME nepali girls/women who might just turn around and say - UP YOURS!!!
ashu Posted on 12-Mar-02 01:00 PM

HI anepalikt,

That was a damn good response.
As a sajha.com visitor, I am with you on this one.

That said, don't let these attacks unnerve you.

oohi
ashu
ktm,nepal
NK Posted on 12-Mar-02 01:48 PM

To tell you the truth anepalikt, i am just exasparated with this kind of bunch. For each good posting/posters there are 50 foul-mouthed, empty-brained posters. One needs to only scan the heading and postings.

But anyway, Good job! Jasta lai tastai, didha lai nistai....
knuckle sandwich Posted on 12-Mar-02 04:19 PM

h-phobic's gonna look pretty funny trying to keep his daal-bhaat from spilling down his chinny chin chin once all his fronts get knocked out. but that's how it goes when one's mouth keeps writing checks one's behind can't cash.

hey, everyone ELSE, isn't HYDROphobic (as in "rabid") a better name for that maggot brain?

"Maggot brain is a state of mind." ~G. Clinton
joie de vivre Posted on 13-Mar-02 10:14 AM

er, just wanted to point out that the 'joie de vivre' above isn't me. I guess that's Sunakhari - the cookies for this website were messed up and she was somehow able to post under my name. BUT I do applaud anepalikt's response!
neps Posted on 20-Mar-02 06:45 PM

I wonder how many nepalis have come out to their family?