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| Nakkali |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 11:19 AM
Hey frequest Sajha.commers what do you think about this?
Nakkali
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| Suna |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 11:24 AM
Sexual Harrassment in the name of FUN!!!
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| DivaShah2 |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 01:35 PM
Yes, thats true Suna.
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| ujeli |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 02:05 PM
For as long as I can remember I have never enjoyed HOLI seasons. Guys start to hit you with water balloons months before it even starts. It is practically impossible for girls to walk out in the streets without a fear of getting wet. And I have heard horror stories about kind of water they used to fill those balloons with. I still remembers when my sister was hit in her ear with a water balloon and she came home crying. My friend at one time got hit by balloon with glass peices on them and she has cut on her face.Those guys have no respect for the girls and holi time is a major problems for girls in nepal.
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| 13-thum |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 02:19 PM
Other way round is also true. These days girls are also throwing baloons on guys. What you say on this?
13-thum
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| Suna |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 02:28 PM
13-THUM
I would say "And about time too!!!"
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| hmmm.... |
Posted
on 15-Mar-02 02:32 PM
Its not limited to sexual harassment of women. The madhesi's selling Alu/Tarkari or Chatpat do also get hit.
Who gets hit-- those who can't properly defend themselves.
Girls-- its bad that the girls get hit, but there is also some sort of enjoyment for them as well, specially if the balloons miss and they can scape.
hmmm....
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| Homophobic |
Posted
on 16-Mar-02 01:53 PM
I once threw a ballon at a young PK girl, and after it hit her, the water splashed in her chest. I could see her inside. Boy it was fun.
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| Nepe |
Posted
on 16-Mar-02 09:52 PM
Mr. Homophobic may look like one of those rare miserable minds (that are vomiting bitterness of their unworthiness quite relenlessly in this forum these days), however, dreadful as it may sound, he represents very common sick mind of male youth in Nepal. The season of Holi in Kathmandu and other cities, towns and bazars is just a window through which you can get a glimpse of rotton mind of our youth. These sick youth did not rain from the sky. They are the product of our society, of our system, of some aspects of our culture (you might well have been calling it a cultural heritage until now !!! ). Its time to show guts to identify and eliminate those flaws from our culture. Let’s talk about it.
Nepe
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| suna |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 05:32 AM
Nepe,
Count me in. Not to eradicate any beings on this site being the democratic (sic) forum this is evolving into, but this "trait" we call normal.
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| Hey |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 07:01 AM
I want to quote here:
Radha Posted on 03-16-02 4:06 PM Reply | Notify Me
"Homophobic is unstable. He is unpredictable. Tries to put a good fron but his inner demons take ove again and again. He tries to be nice, very hard, then unravels himself and goes to deep in the pit where filth and garbage is abound. He plays with it and then realizes that is not what he is supposed to do. And he aplogizes.
He is a sociopath. So is Naresh Karki and so is that Fully Retarded one-eyed, lecher kancha.
Be aware of these three. They have a potential to be a serial killer or a mass murderer "
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| SIWALIK |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 08:11 AM
Socially aware vigilante groups should be formed in each tole to track down the perpetrators. Since these "sick" people show no respect for others, they should not get any respect--they should be locked up in jail for at least a week for each offense. Education takes time, so severe punishment should do the trick for the time being.
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| suna |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 08:21 AM
SIWALIK
If I perceive correctly, we are not just referring to this holi and lola phenomena right? In which case, I think I would also present the idea of tracking down people who abuse others by using forums and such mediums.
Gone is the time when we would say, hos bhaigo, logney manchey haru yestai huncha! Seriously, aren't we excusing this type of behavior?
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| Homophobic |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 08:34 AM
I think every man/woman has the right to express his/her views in accordance with his/her experience/thoughts/belief/etc etc etc. My views may offend some of the naive folks like you - but it ain't right to exclude me from the message board. The Holi posting for example: you may not like my posting, but get real, that is what it happens in the REAL WORLD. Ladies, wake up, America is no safe haven for you either. As much as the Nepali youths are "corrupt/spoilt/fithy", the american youths are no better.
Some of you are just too opiniated. Amerika ma ke ayo, they have opinions about everything. Na paune le kera payo, bokra sitha khayo.
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| Radha |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 08:48 AM
Every place has a norm, a decorum what is expected, what is s considered plain rude, and what is considered outright illiegal.
You cannot go in a court session - a supreme court session mind you, and start to tell the presiding judge he is a moron and his balls and too small for you to suck, Homophobic. You will be ordered out of the court and if you continue you will get a fine and even a jail sentence and later maybe a libel suit. I gave you the example of you being in a supreme court. Do you know why? Can you imagine with your degenerate brain, indeed why? Have you heard of justice Brandeis? Go search in the Google. com and see what he has to say about the mantra you have "freedom of speech." This decree was not issued for the likes of you. It was to protect a minority's voice, a just voice not a filth. Go again check B-R-A-N-D-E-I-S. You might slip in that spelling, I wa afraid from what I have seen so far.
You give us lecture about how the society is. A society has a rule. If a sociopath is running around they are put in jail. Yes, in prison. They are not allowed to run amok, like you do here in the name of "freedom of speech." This is more apt to you than to anybody else, "napaune le gu payo, sabai khaio." You see? You are sexually deviant at least here in the board (and I am talking looking at y our and the likes of y our behavior) and you should be punished. You see women as sex object - boob s are there for you to oggle and smash, legs are there for you to rub in the crowded bus and expose your peanut size genitalia in a dark alley. If you are found doing these and found guilty, I dont' have to spell it for you, what the ramifications will be.
So until then go ahead spread the filth, play in it, lather yourself with it. Even nobody finds you who you are, ultimately you, yes, you yourself have to live with it. Not us.
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| PKS |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 09:48 AM
>My views may offend some of the naive folks like you - but it ain't right to exclude me from the message board.
OH, YES HOMOPHOBIC. IT IS RIGHT TO BAN PERVERTS LIKE YOU. Jut as every society has standards, so does this forum. If your logic "if you don't like it, you don't have to read it" were valid, then we should just ignore every evil in society and let people do what ever they want.
Come on people, the only way to clean up this forum is to gang up on these filth mongers and chase them out. Time to take back this forum.
NO MORE WOMEN BASHING. NO MORE HATE POSTS. NO MORE PORN.
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| Homophobic |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 11:05 AM
Ladies take it easy on me will ya. Why you so hard on me? I did not represent my self as a chauvanistic pig did I? Suna, I must say you have come hard on me - really. You can't compare apples with oranges (sajha forum vs. supreme court). I do admire your vocal abilities against the injustices done by MAN - but its no justice if you are purposely cornering me for all the injustices the were perpetrated by other men. Chill out will ya. Sometimes I think you are just trying to police the forum.
Cool down sista - have a pint of nice chilled beer.
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| Homophobic |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 11:07 AM
Radha you are a plain ole feminist. I supposed you are abused in your childhood by male members of your family/relatives, no wonder you are so against men. Sister chill out. Feminism will lead you nowhere - even an ordinary women don't support feminism. You may stick to your illusionary feminine power... hehehhehe
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| makuro |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 02:30 PM
Talking of Holi and waterballoons, I plea guilty of tormenting my neigborhood girls and girls from my school. Certainly I am not proud of what I did then. Then I didn't even have sense of how girls feel about it. Eventhough I went to coed school, we-boys and girls hardly talked then. Even if one had to talk, he had to face the barrage of 'lala cha cha...ma ma' from friends and he would be humilated to the point that he would never talk to the girls again. This is not the story when dinasaurs used to roam. This was in 1993/94 when I was in tenth grade. And this was not in remote village. This was in the heart of Kathmandu. We anticipated holi with very much excitment. And our excitment lied(sp?) on being able to hit girls with water balloons. Those who hit girl's breast or sensitive parts as such earned the bragging rights. I didn't even feel any kind of sorry or guilty then. We hit girls with balloons in our own school bus , from school bus to walking girls in street. We spared no one. And I didn't even try to understand how it felt to that girl. I wish I could go back and teach that immature me not to act so callously. I wish I had better training then how to treat girl. We were fools and barbaric and I am sorry for that.
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| Radha1 |
Posted
on 17-Mar-02 03:13 PM
Makuro, Teach your son if you ever have one, the value of being a good citizen, good son, good friend and a good neighbor. Throwing waterballo0ns are symptoms not the ills of our socieity.
I have to say on this throwing waterballoon. I used to be a tomboy. But that did not spare me from getting hit walking to my college. My revenge was I would sit behind the wall of my house and watch for men heading towards me. I would hit only men. That was the payback time for all those ignorant or callous men who tormented girls. You see? What kind of cycle this kind of behavior generates?
There are more and more young women who are making prison theri homes in the States. The degree and the frequency of crimes are on the rise among women population. It just shows, without a proper education and guidance/nurturing, women can just bad as men.
I did n ot feel an iota of morose for Lorena Babbit's rapist husband. That was the only way she thought she could fight. I know how it is to feel helpless. It is easy to say "women of the world, empower yourself and fight!" Look what happened in former Yugoslavia? Men got killed or not killed but women got raped. Infront of their brothersl, sisters, mother, father. Why do you think the enemy targeted on women's body? Because they knew the backlash it will certainly generate in their own society against women especially the muslim women whose bodies were violated. The pertperators knew how their culture empasize on "purity" of women. And, THAT was the easiest thing to target.
The education should come from all fronts. In homes, in schools, in universities... And the justice system should be swift. Then only we will see the difference. Otherwise men just have to remeber to watch their back.
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| SAWALIK |
Posted
on 24-Mar-02 01:51 PM
No one will disagree that education is the main solution to curbing disrespect that is pervasive in Nepalese society. But education system in Nepal is as deficient as everything else. It is imperative, I think, that our education system has a required course in "civic duty." What we are taught as children shapes our lives. That means we have to teach them young to respect others, especially the opposite sex so that inhumane behavior such as water balloons flying as missiles on girls never occur.
Meanshile, could someone enlighten whether this is a phenomenon rstricted to Ktm. valley or is it wideestread in other areas of the kingdom?
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