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5g\ . hflu/ vfg]x¿ 7"n} cf]xf]bfdf k'u]sf 5g\ .
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/dfPsf 5g\ . uf8L, df]6/;fOsn rnfP/ lxF8\g] eO;s] .
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hfg] ljsNk ;f]Rg' slt c:jfefljs eof] / Û
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lyof] . pgn] cfˆgf >Ldfgsf cg'xf/df k'n'Ss x]b}{ eg]sL
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eg]sf] t nf]Ug] 5f]8\g], kf]On hfg] clwsf/ kf] kfPsf
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s]6f];Fu . d';ndfg;Fu uPsf dWo] klg b'O6L afª\nfb]zL;Fu /
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ca cfˆgL >LdtLsf nflu klg ;f]Rg' kg{] ePsf] 5 . gq >LdtL
kf]On uO{ eg]/ k'k'{/f]df xft nufP/ dfq s]xL x'Fb}g .
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nf]Ug] 5f]8\g] :jf:gLsf] ;ª\Vof a9\g] ;Defjgf 5 . olb
g]kfnL ;dfh pbf/ ePg / cfOdfO{sf] bf];|f] ljjfxsf] ;d:of ;'N‰]g
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nf]Ug]dfG5]sf] efp ‰g\ rsf]{ x'g]5 . of] l:ylt cfpg'
cufl8, g5f]8L gx'g] l:yltdf afx]s, g]kfnL >Ldfg–>LdtLx¿sf
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