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| P. THAPA |
Posted
on 24-May-02 05:30 AM
WANTED A GROOM ( NAPALESE ORIGIN) LIVING IN USA, UK OR OTHER OVERSEAS COUNTRIES FOR A 19 YEARS THAPA'S FAMILY GIRL. SHE IS NOW STUDYING I.COM IN NEPAL AND A VERY HONEST, SINCERE AND NICE LOOKING GIRL. SHE IS FROM NUWAKOT DISTRICT OF NEPAL FROM A MIDDLE STANDARD FAMILY.
SHE CAN LOOK AFTER ENTIRE HOUSE WORK AND ALSO CAN WORK AS RECEIPTIONIST, SALES GIRLT/SECRETARY ETC. AFTER BASIC TRAINING. THE REASON WE ARE SEEKING GROOM IN OVERSEAS COUNTRIES IS BECAUSE OF HER STRONG DESIRE TO GO ABROAD FOR FURTHER STUDY AND TO BE AN INDEPENDANT LADY.
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| Hello |
Posted
on 25-May-02 12:40 AM
Actually Mr Thapa
You should make your daughter independent yourself and then hand her over to a man or look for a professional for her that can support if see is not independent. The reality is that life in US is not as good as you may think. People are poor hear also. It would be difficult for the girl if she is given to a man who is just in America and does not have proper future. I must also tell you that getting married to a guy who is just a green card holder can be problematic because if the girl gets married in Nepal and the tries to go to America then her Visa will be rejected to come and stay here and has to wait for her green card to be processed and if the neplai guy is a citizens then there would be no problems the process is just six months. If she is getting married to a green card holder then get the girl into US before marriage and then let them have a ceremony here, she could come here on a student visa. Please think about all the issues then give your daugther away. You should not give a away a 19 year old just like that. Let her grow up a bit more first......................
I am telling you all this facts because I myslef have got effected by this. I hop everything goes well for you and you do find a nice groom for her.
With Best Wishes
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| nepali007 |
Posted
on 27-May-02 01:09 AM
Absolutely right. First of all she is too young to get married. I know in Nepal many people are still old fashion and do not think that way, but you have to realize she is just too young to get married.
You want her to be independent, but then you are trying to find a guy who can support her ....think you are giving her a wrong message. As the individual stated above, life here is very difficult, and not many guys would be able to support her to go to school. Many guys, even those who are working, are struggling to survive trying to pay back loans from school days.
So think this over, ask your daughter what she wants to do. Giver her chance to say what he thinks.
Good-luck. Wish you and your daughter all the best......
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