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Attending ANA Convention : Is it worth it ?

   Analyze and Consider this: Plane tic 18-Jun-02 NutKhat
     hey guys, whats happening. i think ne 18-Jun-02 don't worry
       Hey Don't worry! Blind date, elimidate! 18-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
         hey nepali girl, you sound a little a 18-Jun-02 don't worry
           Hey Don't worry- Just because I refuse t 18-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
             dear nepali girl, i have no clue to w 18-Jun-02 don't worry
               I didn't say it is a bad thing. I person 18-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
                 I was thinking of letting my teenage dau 18-Jun-02 Distressed
                   Without having a sensibility of what a g 18-Jun-02 yatri1
                     A plane ticket to DC, $300 Renting a C 18-Jun-02 Suman Dhakal
                       hello destressed , firs 18-Jun-02 don't worry
                         the last posting that was up there when 18-Jun-02 Suman Dhakal
                           Taaliyaaaaaaaaa....!!! Way to go Nepali 18-Jun-02 NutKhat
                             Taaliyaaaaaaaaa....!!! Way to go Nepali 18-Jun-02 NutKhat
                               So, is this thread about "blind date" or 18-Jun-02 Voltaire
                                 Once and for all -let me clarify: I a 19-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
                                   Hey Yatri- I think you didn't quite read 19-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
                                     Nepaligirl You have your own analysis 19-Jun-02 Suna
                                       Hi Suna, By introduction- I mean my fri 19-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
Voltaire Bandhu, I know, huh !! Hell 19-Jun-02 NutKhat
   nepali girl, what are you trying to s 19-Jun-02 don't worry
     This Nepali girl is making me very very 19-Jun-02 MG
       I guess I am tired answering your moron 19-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
         NepaliGirl I think you watch too much 19-Jun-02 Suna
           hey suna, atleast there is someone h 19-Jun-02 don't worry
             I'm too tired to convince you guys the p 19-Jun-02 NutKhat
               MG- you are the world's biggest hypocrit 19-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
                 Nepali girl, There are lots of ways t 19-Jun-02 Extrovert
                   Is this convention only for the single p 19-Jun-02 Not Single
                     I have attended ANA conventions the last 19-Jun-02 KTM2WDC
                       Nepali Girl – Bravo for reinforc 19-Jun-02 gaule_kancha
                         Guys!! Guys!! Guys!! Hoina k ho jhaga 19-Jun-02 NepGirl
                           Nepali girl - The issue is not whether 19-Jun-02 gaule_kancha
                             well said gaule kancha ji. you are 100% 19-Jun-02 gorakh dakshin bahu
                               Now that's what I call typical nepali be 19-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
                                 "I am sorry to say I did not meet him th 19-Jun-02 id
                                   "Now that's what I call typical nepali b 20-Jun-02 gaule_kancha
                                     Hey Gaule_kancha- you are one hell of a 20-Jun-02 Nepali Girl
                                       Nicely put gaule. It is rather un 20-Jun-02 Extrovert
I was wondering if there will be any mat 20-Jun-02 bill_pusateri
   Bill, The convention itself is design 21-Jun-02 Extrovert
     Does anybody know the full address of th 22-Jun-02 manny
       Guys, Girls, Ladies & Gentlemen, I be 23-Jun-02 Satya
         Reasons to attend the ANA convention: 23-Jun-02 ANA Prasad
           Man these nepali guys can retaliate..... 20-Jul-02 hmmmm....


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NutKhat Posted on 18-Jun-02 11:26 AM

Analyze and Consider this:

Plane tickets: $ 300.00
Rental Car: $ 100.00
Hotel: $ 200.00
Registration: $ 30.00
Seminar/dinner Party $ 50.00
Miscellaneous $ 100.00
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Total Cost: $ 780.00

- getting together with friends, PRICELESS but for everything else there is Mastercard....blah...blah..blah. Sounds good doestn't it ? or you are kidding me, right ? All I'm asking you guys is to reconsider your DC plan and think carefully. I don't know, what you expectations are from the Convention but ANA Convention certainly doesn't worth that much, trust me. I've attended many ANA Conventions and found it very boring, meaningless and disorganized but you don't have to take my word for it. From my own experience, I didn't find the Conventions not even close to 10% of what I had expected . So, If you guys
are spending too much and sacrifing yourself to go to DC, think about it twice. Trust me ( hopefully, haven't lost my credibility yet ), it isn't really like what you are
picturing in your mind right now . Just Picture yourself on July 7th, tired,
broke, frustrated and pissed and back to work. Hey, it's your CALL :-)
don't worry Posted on 18-Jun-02 11:57 AM

hey guys,
whats happening. i think nepali convention in dc is going to be fun this time. we are expecting around 5000 nepalese from all over the state. we already have 4 thousand people registered to be a part of this years ANA convention.
there will be programs such as blind date, elimi date, choose the perfect one and a lot lot more. we are also doing mr.charming and miss beautiful. along with that we will have a dj night and a dance couple night. so just imagine the excitement. if anyone is having accomodation problems, than i will be glad to help them out. i have a house in washington dc and 50 people would not be a problem. so let me know, join the fun and see it for yourselves.
Nepali Girl Posted on 18-Jun-02 12:07 PM

Hey Don't worry!
Blind date, elimidate! Is that your version or dc convention or is there really an item being planning for the convention(I mean formaly)? Being a true nepali girl, I would not take part in any of these. Blind date(I don't believe in one-becoz I don't want to be stuck with a moron/idiot/retard) and elimidate(I don't think any guy is that hot and handsome for girls to fight for him). It really sounds boring then. Dancing-now that sounds fun IF only a Nepali guy would dance properly(they usually pass out or misbehanve after 3-4 beers-heards tories). I would not be willing to put myself in these kind of situation. Plan something nice.
don't worry Posted on 18-Jun-02 12:44 PM

hey nepali girl,
you sound a little awkward. just because you are a nepali does not mean that you cannot go on a date? why are you pushing your instincts to be so conservative. you study in the united states and sometimes talk like someone from nandi ratri. you know what nandi ratri is right? i think your perception about nepali guys are wrong. go and explore and you will find everything.
Nepali Girl Posted on 18-Jun-02 12:55 PM

Hey Don't worry- Just because I refuse to go on a Blind date & elimidate with retards that does not make me awkward. I have a question for you - If you had a sister, your own blood, would you tell her to go on a blind date or elimidate with guys you don't know even if it is just for fun? C'mon asnwer that question? I am modern to an extent I need to be modern but otherwise I prefer to be a true Nepali girl. It really sounds boring trying to copy typical American shows for a NEPALI Convention!!! How weird is that! I think you are weird-why are you waiting for the convention to go on a blind date or elimidate-why not otherwise huh? Nobody believes in you or what!
don't worry Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:12 PM

dear nepali girl,
i have no clue to what you are trying to say. going on a date is not a bad thing. going on a date is not like going onto a bed. so please see the difference for yourself. a date is just going out and hanging out with the preson so that you can make a judgement on what kind of a person he or she is. i have absolutely no clue what makes you think that going on a date is like doing something bad. well if you are a true nepali girl than good for you. i don't even see how people say they come here to learn for themselves and experience life and still gets nothing out of the times they have spend here. i think you should go back to nepal and get used to the living constraints out there and marry some dumb ass your parents choses. And that will prove you as a true nepali girl. so think for yourself. you never know where you will find the right person.
Nepali Girl Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:22 PM

I didn't say it is a bad thing. I personally said i don't want to go. This is America-freedom of choice dude! I already have someone anyways-you may need all the blind date and elimidates possible to find the right kind. Stay with an American-I personally think that's your kind of choice.
Distressed Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:29 PM

I was thinking of letting my teenage daughters go and attend this convention,, but it seems like it is a place for inviting trouble. All the mix parties. Why do the organizers have to worry so much about getting the opposite sexes to mix so as to organize such things?
yatri1 Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:49 PM

Without having a sensibility of what a guy is, you already have a judgment upon them, which tells lot about you and how you think and if that’s how “true nepali” girls are
Then I’m ashamed and sadden to go out with any” true nepali” girls.

PS: don’t worry
At least your thinking and doing some constructive fun, which I will take part of
Unless if all girls are like “true nepali”girl. YOU GO BOY


And couple of words for distressed
This is a nepali gathering it’s not like there gonna be unsupervised ex-con prisoner
If you have a daughter like neplai girl then I advise you not to let her go, we need openness in out community not an ignorant perception. If your daughter has strong morality values then you got nothing to worry about, and It’s not about mixing sexes together to organize, it’s about communicating with one another to understand so no one will be left out, It’s about fun /come on people, we are in America this kind of function brings us together there’s always gonna be an ignorant and misshape people in any crowd, don’t let that distress you
Suman Dhakal Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:51 PM

A plane ticket to DC, $300
Renting a Car, $100
Registration at ANA, $30
Meeting Nepali Girl at ANA convention, PRICELESS
And there is no everything else

Just kiddin.

don't worry is right when he says it's allrigh to go on a date. One can be a nice nepali gal and still go on a date. But the idea of blind date and elimdate is pretty stupid i must say.

However, I have to respect Nepali Girl's opinion. She can be modern to the extent she desires. She can be modern and not go on a date. Its allright to not go.

Don't worry is way out of line when he says ". i think you should go back to nepal and get used to the living constraints out there and marry some dumb ass your parents choses. And that will prove you as a true nepali girl."

So that's what being a true nepali girl amounts to huh don't worry? C'mon man. You know better than that.

If I understand Nepali Girl correctly, I do not think she is totally against dating. Just the kind u see on tv. Blind date and elimidate. That is just starting out on the wrong foot in my opinion if one is serious about relationships.

However, meeting someone and getting to know them through activities such as talking on the phone or going to a movie is allright. And i don't think Nepali Girl would mind that.

So let's just all get along. Who knows, don't worry and Nepali Girl might run into each other and hit it off without realizing that they were arguingly so bitterly.

Suman Dhakal
don't worry Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:56 PM

hello destressed ,

first of all you want to let your daughters go and then you say mix parties. i don't understand why do you want to let your daughters go than? this is not going to be just a guy or a girl convention. they will be people of different sex, different caste and also different breeds, so it is very obviuos that people meet and who knows anything might happen. mam i don't know how old you are tara during your good old days back in school didn't you used to attend these kind of social functions,so you should know better. i don't understand why people tend to act so ignorant. open your eyes and judge for yourselves, don't try to act innocent. just ask your daughter is she would go to this convention if it was sort of a girl convention. and reply back
Suman Dhakal Posted on 18-Jun-02 01:58 PM

the last posting that was up there when i started to type to respond to this thread was that of don't worry(the 6th one) So when i submitted my post, others had responded too. Just wanted to make that point.

Suman Dhakal
NutKhat Posted on 18-Jun-02 04:08 PM

Taaliyaaaaaaaaa....!!! Way to go Nepali Girl. Sounds like my kind of girl. Are you
TAURUS too ? Don't get me wrong but I thought you are hitting on me ( typical SIDE DIYEKO jasto ) by criticizing * don't worry, be happy* guy, or it is just my stupid observation? I would be really grateful, if you could clear that up ASAP. Anyway Two Thums way way UP :-).
NutKhat Posted on 18-Jun-02 04:11 PM

Taaliyaaaaaaaaa....!!! Way to go Nepali Girl. Sounds like my kind of girl. Are you
TAURUS too ? Don't get me wrong but I think you are hitting on me ( typical SIDE DIYEKO jasto ) by criticizing * don't worry, be happy* guy, or it is just my stupid observation? I would be really grateful, if you could clear that up ASAP. Anyway Two Thums way way UP :-).
Voltaire Posted on 18-Jun-02 08:07 PM

So, is this thread about "blind date" or "ANA-selfexhibition"?
Nepali Girl Posted on 19-Jun-02 07:40 AM

Once and for all -let me clarify:

I am NOT opposed to meeting People at the ANA Convention, be it old friends or make new friends, but it should be through a proper channel, like if someone introduced me to a nice guy - I would talk to him. But the very idea of"Blind date" and "Elimidate" to meet someone nice- I am sorry. It may sound fun to you but it does not sound fun to me. Yes, Nepali girls are modern, smart, educated and even bold but what is boldness, smart and modern huh?? Going and flaunting yourself on a Blinddate and the Elimidate? Well, if some of you guys have that in mind- I say to you guys-WHY ARE YOU WAITING FOR THE ANA CONVENTION TO GO ON A BLINDDATE OR ELIMIDATE?? I think most decent girl with education of my calibre would NOT want to go out on a stupid Blind date with some one you have not seen ot met or introduced. I think you all would agree with me..it's a NEPALI CONVENTION (meeting Nice nepali folks from all over the US) and not promoting cheap American TV shows like Blinddate or Elimidate.

By not going to Blind date or elimidate does not make me paakhe or ignorant. It just shows your mentality(your idea of meeting a nice girl through a stupid bogus medium). You must be "new" to America-probably just arrived from some gau in nepal and want to be "cool".It amazes me how people twist and twik others words to suit their means.
Thanx to Suman Dhakal for understanding what I wrote. I think a sensible wise Nepali would be logical and read right compared to cheap fun seeking Nepali looking for cheap thrill at the ANA Convention.

I would suggest to all Nepali girls at the convention NOT to go on a Blinddate or Elimidate with someone you don't know becoz it will be these very cheap trhill seeking guys spreading all stupid rumors and degrading your Name!! Be ware!! I think I am smart and educated enough to stand up in what I believe!

TRUE NEPALI GIRL :)
Nepali Girl Posted on 19-Jun-02 07:54 AM

Hey Yatri- I think you didn't quite read right. You need to learn reading I think. If it's not your reading then it's your understand dude! We were talking about going on a "Blinddate" and "Elimidate" with nepali guys at the ANA Convention which I said No to. So, what are you ashamed of- Neapli girls flaunting themselves on a Blindate and Elimidate or Nepali girls meeting people through a proper Channel(maybe the social hour/some third person introduction)???

If saying NO to what you belive is not for you makes you ashamed then you need to remain ashamed all your life. I think you would be the first one to say a big NO to your sister's intention of going on a blind date or elimidate(it looks like you ahve not watched the American TV shows-watch them first and then give your immature ,illogical opinion). You are just saying without thinking! Watch the shows first-you'' be very proud of American girls or nepali girls!!
Suna Posted on 19-Jun-02 07:59 AM

Nepaligirl

You have your own analysis but may I point out a few things?
a. someone introduces you to someone and you don't mind talking.

Fine. How is that different from someone setting you up with a guy and then introduces the two of u? it would still be someone you have never met hence another BLIND method. Wouldn't you agree?

b. "I think a sensible wise Nepali would be logical and read right compared to cheap fun seeking Nepali looking for cheap thrill at the ANA Convention."

The number of Nepalese in the US is very low compared to the other ethnic groups like India and China. Therefore, maybe some people (men and women) do view these conventions as a way of meeting people. There is nothing wrong and cheap about that.
Let me ask you: do you go to bars and beaches? I'm sure you do because you called others "You must be "new" to America-probably just arrived from some gau in nepal and want to be "cool"." in other words pakhey! Well this may be news to you but beaches and bars are watering holes for guys and girls who want to meet. Otherwise don't you find it foolish paying $6 for a bottle of beer that you could otherwise get a sixpack for? Wouldn't you also call that cheap??

Lets face it. In a gathering where there are going to be lots of young people, there is bound to be some kind of flirtation and dating going on. Thats normal! Or my dear Americanized TRUE NEPALI GIRL - have you been living under a stone in the Rockies???
Live and Let Live
Nepali Girl Posted on 19-Jun-02 08:07 AM

Hi Suna,
By introduction- I mean my friends/relatives/cousins introducing me to someone they know. I think you need to watch the Blind date and Elimidate on TV first.Have you ever watched these shows?
I am not opposed at meeting people if you read ALL my replies. It's just the idea of setting someone on a blind date(they are not formally introduced-they meet at the restaurant) or even Elimidate( 4 girls and one guy). No way! I like to know whom I am going out with rather than venture into an unknown teritory. And tell me How many blind dates are Nepali girls going to go with to meet someone special? I would do the screeing & filtering on the introduction itself. It's just my opinion.
NutKhat Posted on 19-Jun-02 08:16 AM

Voltaire Bandhu,

I know, huh !! Hello...Dear Nepai Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrl and don't worry dude, TAKE IT OUTSIDE. Guys we need your focus on ANA Convention not on Blind Dates. The
whole idea of this thread is to tell your friends the truth so that they can save a buck or two and get some good sleep by skipping DC Convention. What's with the blind dates ? You can get blind dates any season and anywhere ( ???). You guys are very self-centerd and that is so mean. Anyway, I'm still waiting for Nepali Girl's
response from my previous posting. I think, she totally ignored me...COOL :-)
don't worry Posted on 19-Jun-02 08:27 AM

nepali girl,
what are you trying to say. you wanna know the person before you go out. well that is why people go out on a date to each other. you sound irrational dude. make up your mind and say what you are trying to say.
MG Posted on 19-Jun-02 08:31 AM

This Nepali girl is making me very very irritated with her shrill voice. What a holier than thou attitutde!

What the fudge is wrong with a blind date? As long as y ou meet in a well lit, well frequented some public place? Unless you had some sinister idea when you hear a blind date. If the idea is to meet some "nice, educated, OPTIMISTIC (NOW this word makes me laugh!)" men then why be so narrow minded? Anyway, what really bothering me is your intention to show off, and repeating and repeating and reapeating and repeating (get it?)of the same thing. Pipe down a bit, will you?

Among other things this convention will be a meeting, looking, flirting ground for young, old, very old, deviant, not so deviant and, maybe some pschyos. So, if you want to go and have fun and hopefully learn something then it is for you. My last question is :

WHAT EXACTLY DO PEOPLE WANT OUT OF THIS CONVENTION, FOR GOD'S SAKE?

A GOLDEN EGGS LAYING GOOSE?
MOON?
POT OF GOLD?
PRESIDENCY OF THE USA?
WORLD CUP CHAMPIONSHIP OF NEPAL IN THE YEAR 2006?

People, don't expect anything then you will enjoy the most.
Nepali Girl Posted on 19-Jun-02 08:52 AM

I guess I am tired answering your moron thoughts- Enjoy your Blind dates and Elimidates If you ever get one!! "Aaaasai aaas ma bitla timiharu ko jindagani" hahahahahaha Kasto stupid and immature haru!! grow up!
Suna Posted on 19-Jun-02 09:03 AM

NepaliGirl

I think you watch too much TV and take things too literally. Maybe you also think that all americans are exactly like the soap opera stars sleeping around with the father, brother, son etc etc etc.
Those shows you mention are just that SHOWS! You must be one dumb chick to think that those shows are for real and they are happening to people who want to flaunt their lifestyles on tv or think it cool to be dumped on tv for another girl. OR maybe you think others are not as smart as you!
DUMB AND HAUGHTY!
don't worry Posted on 19-Jun-02 09:16 AM

hey suna,
atleast there is someone here who understands what i am trying to say. you go girl. i say what harm is there in going out and meeting people. no matter what the ethnic background we carry we are still made with flesh and blood and everyone feels like meeting people and seeing people, so why get stuck around be saying we are nepalese. we are nepalese does not mean that we cannot go on a date or what? hey you never know where you will find the right person.
NutKhat Posted on 19-Jun-02 09:25 AM

I'm too tired to convince you guys the purpose this thread over and over again. I give up. Nepali Girl's * no response* is not too encouraging either.
Nepali Girl Posted on 19-Jun-02 11:42 AM

MG- you are the world's biggest hypocrite! You sure don't know who's side to take-then just your goddamn mouth! If you are so irritated then why are you reading all the replies and bothoring yourself?

Hi Natkhat- you started this discussion nicely - but "Don't worry" really turned it around with his stupid blind date etc. Desperate nepali fellows seeking blind dates!! It makes me laugh.
Extrovert Posted on 19-Jun-02 02:05 PM

Nepali girl,

There are lots of ways to meet the oppsoite sex, and everyone has the right to choose the way they see fit for their own personality. If you don't agree with certain values one believes in then simply don't participate in it until you find what you are looking for. Embarking on western culture (i.e. going on a blind date ) does not promote infidelity, which I think is one of your concerns. Furthermore, such social activities allows you to know a person's inner self more than what've probably bragained for. Remember, having a robust relationship with the opposite sex before you are able to 'find' the one you are looking for is not easy for anyone. If I saw a girl that I've never met, who was single, I would not hesitate for a minute to introduce myelf (supposing no one I know knew her). And that takes some gut.

Just my 2 cents worth,
-Extrovert
Not Single Posted on 19-Jun-02 02:11 PM

Is this convention only for the single people? All the discussion seems to be based on mixing up with opposite sex.
What are the not so single people supposed to do there? Are there other not so single people who come there to flirt?
KTM2WDC Posted on 19-Jun-02 02:38 PM

I have attended ANA conventions the last 6 years and find it to be pretty enjoyable and refreshing. If the sole purpose of your attendance is to "pattayo chicks" then u might be disappointed. But if u go in there to have fun, then there are plenty of things u can do to have fun. I feel like every year the convention is getting better and better and so are the girls. Good luck guys and may god be on ur side when u pitch in that pick-up line. I have heard of girls parents coming in these conventions to find the future "jawaisaabs" - i don't know how much of that is true. But be nice and above all - have a great time. See u all in DC.
gaule_kancha Posted on 19-Jun-02 04:48 PM

Nepali Girl –
Bravo for reinforcing the typical image of “western educated, liberal, feminist” Nepali women. That is an exclusive group of Nepali women who assume all Nepali men to be “morons/idiots/retards/losers.” Like the Nepali Girl, they don’t want to know the real Nepali men, by going on a “blind date” for example. I am admonishing Nepali Girl for trying to be a “white bitch” not because I’m bitter but because her attitude is unbecoming of a Nepali or for that matter, any decent, open-minded woman. Moreover, who in his right mind wants to date Nepali Girl.

Fortunately or unfortunately, many of those vainglorious Nepali women realize, perhaps a little too late, the foolhardiness of their vanity, and end up marrying a “moron/idiot/retard” and “utter loser” white trash ‘cause all the good Nepali guys are by then taken by normal Nepali women.

Just by $0.02.
NepGirl Posted on 19-Jun-02 05:36 PM

Guys!! Guys!! Guys!!

Hoina k ho jhagada? if you guys want to go, then go babba.. kosley keta bhetney , kosley keti bhetney, katro peer? I think most of you might be looking for girls or vice versa. What's wrong with that? herdaima chuna parney hoina tesai sanga daudera jaana parney hoina, Binasitti ma . Til lai pahaad banayera yetro kaanda ?
Tatto na chhaaro...aaaaaa
gaule_kancha Posted on 19-Jun-02 05:54 PM

Nepali girl -
The issue is not whether one should or should not go on a blind date - I care less about those petty things.

The issue IS your attitudes toward Nepali men. Just read the adjectives you used to describe Nepali men that started the whole discussion "I don't believe in one (blind date)-becoz I don't want to be stuck with a moron/idiot/retard"... "I don't think any guy is that hot and handsome for girls to fight for him"... "Dancing-now that sounds fun IF only a Nepali guy would dance properly(they usually pass out or misbehanve after 3-4 beers-heards tories)"

I can probably say similar things about some Nepali women, but I will never generallize it for the entire Nepali nagaree population...

And lastly, don't forget to post on gbnc.org when you get a man (or a woman, if that is the case)... would be really interested in knowing that fooool... And good luck on your search :)
gorakh dakshin bahu Posted on 19-Jun-02 06:00 PM

well said gaule kancha ji. you are 100% correct nepali girl is trying to be a white bitch...
nepali girl remember that you arent the only nepali girl out there so dont be acting lke if you dont show up in dc the convention wont go on. nepali girl you from thamel( city place) or gau in nepal????i really wanna know and how long you been in america??
nepali girl dont give other nepali girl bad image to the outsiders because there are nice decent nepali girls who like to have fun out there who are normal unlike you who try to act like white bitch and act all americanized.
i am sorry if my message ofende anyone but i hae theriht to expres my oinion and what ifee is right.
gorakh dakshin bahu
Nepali Girl Posted on 19-Jun-02 07:02 PM

Now that's what I call typical nepali behavior. If the girl does not agree then bad name her or use nasty languages. By the way I have someone nice and special who is 100% nepali. I am sorry to say I did not meet him through the convention as I have never attended one. I was planning to attend this year but the sole purpose of this convention seems to go on blind dates and elimidates! Goodness Gracious! How can I be a white trash if I am true nepali! Guys stop contradicting yourself and stick to the topic of discussion. I am having a nice laugh here reading some of your way off the topic replies..Nepali guys will never change.
id Posted on 19-Jun-02 08:28 PM

"I am sorry to say I did not meet him through the convention as I have never attended one. I was planning to attend this year but the sole purpose of this convention seems to go on blind dates and elimidates! Goodness Gracious!"

Little knowledge is dangerous bhaneko estai ho ke. TV ma blind date ke hereko cha, criticise garnai hatar. Do you think all blind dates are always like the one you saw on TV? Or do you think you are the only moralist Nepali in US?

Go and see for yourself this year, and if you don't like it don't ever go there. Jadai nagaikana preconception ko bhar ma kina sabai sita jhagada gariraheko?
gaule_kancha Posted on 20-Jun-02 08:02 AM

"Now that's what I call typical nepali behavior. If the girl does not agree then bad name her or use nasty languages."
-> What do you call the words you use to describe Nepali men, "moron/idiot/retard" - a Shakesperean language, the erudition worth a Nobel prize???

"By the way I have someone nice and special who is 100% nepali."
-> He may be nice, but he is more a fooooool!!! If he is not a fool, he sure is a "moron/idiot/retard" like everyone of us i.e. Nepali men.

"I am sorry to say I did not meet him through the convention as I have never attended one. I was planning to attend this year but the sole purpose of this convention seems to go on blind dates and elimidates!"
-> Going to the convention, participating on a blind date, or doing "stuff" related to the convention is the NOT THE POINT (got it?). You are just using it as an excuse to spill your verbal vendetta against Nepali men... And I ask why???

"Goodness Gracious! How can I be a white trash if I am true nepali!"
-> You may look like a Nepali, but you don't think like one. The definition of a white trash FYI is one who thinks everyone from the poor countries to be "inferior" or more appropriately "moron/idiot/retard".

"Guys stop contradicting yourself and stick to the topic of discussion."-
-> The topic was Nepali convention and then your brought this issue about Nepali men... Go and figure who the guilty party is... But again, this NOT THE ISSUE...

"I am having a nice laugh here reading some of your way off the topic replies.."
-> Well, me to...

Nepali guys will never change.
-> We don't have to take a word from a "white trash"... Moreover, what is there is change????
Nepali Girl Posted on 20-Jun-02 08:09 AM

Hey Gaule_kancha- you are one hell of a fighter! What's your problem? You seem so stuck up in life.Get a life!
Extrovert Posted on 20-Jun-02 09:34 AM

Nicely put gaule.

It is rather unfortunate that Nepali Girl thinks most nepali men are anti-vindicative. She also thinks that we lack finesse when it comes to schmoozing with women in general. And that all nepali men are short, ugly, idiots, etc.

N girl's burgeoning tactics of her own 100% nepali man contradicts the above statement. So, this just proves that she lacks open-mindedness, congeniality, and the ability to accept other peoples' views that are different than hers.

Just so that you know Nepali Girl, I've met enough single nepali girls (no matter how educated they are), who would like to meet someone who does not have a prescribed dose of constraints (ie. must be handsome, educated) as you have indicated, and rather follow their instincts known as 'chemistry'. Besides, your conditions are so general that they lack room for any further discussion.

First sign of criticizing and being stereotypical of others is hysteria, then insecurity. Be careful.


-Extrovert
bill_pusateri Posted on 20-Jun-02 09:43 PM

I was wondering if there will be any mature adults at the convention. Will there be any professional people who might be suitable for a career job recruiter? I do not want to waste my time with immature types or sex mongers. I am looking for serious career minded people looking for a lucrative opportunity. Can you advise if this is the right place to find such people. I am not interested in immature college types or studs.
Extrovert Posted on 21-Jun-02 02:15 PM

Bill,

The convention itself is designed to emphasise 'nepalese culture' and isn't necessarily very formal. So, you are more than likely to meet all sorts of ppl from different backgrounds including mature Professionals. But, keep in mind that most of us are not attending the convention for the sake of networking or job hunting unless, of course, the opportunity you speak of is extraordinary. Therefore, like any other gatherings, it all depends on what 'lucrative opportunity' you have to offer, and exactly the types of Professionals you are targeting.

If the opportunity is legit, why not say what it is?

-Extrovert
manny Posted on 22-Jun-02 02:14 PM

Does anybody know the full address of the place where ANA will be held? Appreciate your help. Thanks.

manny
Satya Posted on 23-Jun-02 06:24 AM

Guys, Girls, Ladies & Gentlemen,

I believe that discussion in this forum is better than forthcoming ANA Convention.

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ANA Prasad Posted on 23-Jun-02 10:01 PM

Reasons to attend the ANA convention:

1. If you are single then you may find a significant other. Chances are slim. Most chwak single girls come with dhoti chhokra.

2. If you are a professional then you can harp on your achievements.

3. If you want to be a soccer pro wannabe then this could be a dream league.

4. If you haven't seen a flood of black hairs recently then this convention will give you that view.

5. If you are an established citizen then this could be the only place to get some recognition. Otherwise no one gives damn about you in this country.

6. If you enjoy binge drinking then this would be a great place to hang out.

7. If you have nothing better to do, ANA convention is not a bad place to be.
hmmmm.... Posted on 20-Jul-02 10:34 AM

Man these nepali guys can retaliate......gaule kanchha.....executed I mean extrovert and others.....CLAP CLAP CLAP!!!! but I know why you have to use the term "white bitch" not becuase " they think that people from poor countries are inferior to them and moron/retard/idiot" (they cannot help being stupid)...but because THEY DONT GIVE A DAMN ABOUT YOU! tehi gori ko pachhadi bhagne and when they dont look at you they are white bitches and when some sensible nepali girl tried to point that out to you...you lash at her? wah wah wah!!