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on 10-Jul-02 05:12 PM
Pratap SJB Rana
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A perfect doctor as a Londoner!
>In 1989 I got scholarships for MBBS in Bangladesh and I was on cloud nine
>and always found myself overjoyed and my situation was overwhelming most of
>the times, this is not what I am saying rather what my friends used to
>trace in me. Don?t envisage my state when I was awarded the Gold Medal for
>topping DU and ABMS exams, after the successful completion of the 6 months
>internship, I went to my homeland and whilst I was on my flight to
>Kathmandu I was feeling very arrogant as if I was the only doctor going
>back to Nepal. Immediately after a first week of visit and rest, I started
>to work in the emergency department of Bir Hospital in Kathmandu and I
>never behaved properly with the relatives or friends of the patients
>desperately seeking help. After a one-year service at Bir hospital I moved
>to London for my further studies and this time it was not my talent or
>anything like scholarships but the London based General Practitioner
>Surgeons who sponsored me to get the visa as a student were none other than
>the good friends of my father who was former Nepalese ambassador to the UK
>(some 10 years before the date I arrived here), and most of them were
>Pakistanis and Indians. Straight forward I came to the King?s College of
>the University of London to pursue a specialisation in Paediatrics with a
>hope that I would be able to settle as a professional in the busy life of
>London and perhaps hitting the roads of the Central London on a Ferrari or
>Jaguar or Mercedes. It took me two odd years to complete my specialisation
>and I never wanted to go back to Nepal because I did not like the dirty
>patients with dirty clothes and their stinking breath who were very poor
>and innocent but used to respect me a lot. I wanted to stay in London no
>matter what as a third grade citizen but I always thought that the day
>would come when I would be demanding the same respect as is demanded by the
>doctors with UK citizenships here in London. But meagre me, I could never
>realised the importance of serving my homeland. I urged upon the same
>sponsors of mine i.e., the doctor uncles of mine to help me get a work
>permit in the UK, as I could not stay anymore in the UK as a student.
>Though they tried their best they could not so I had to marry a British
>Passport holding girl from the Indian origin (Gujarati) so that I could
>stay here with some command as to the resident rights. I tried my best to
>find a small job near Waterloo as a General Practitioner and a Child
>Specialist after clearing all the academic and professional tests and
>criteria and after a long term slog with the National Health Service,
>London. Finally I started to work as a Paediatrician but the amount of
>money that I used to derive from the practice was very severe and so
>insufficient that I was not even able to comply the living costs at the
>flat owned by my Gujarati wife located at Earl?s Court. In the due course
>she too had to work and our plan to start a family kind of failed through.
>Even after the successful completion of the two years of marriage our life
>was in the same sluggish dimension and it was very hard for us to maintain
>the costs. Finally I also became a British Passport holder, a British
>Citizen and I thought the days of glory had started for me. But to add on
>to the side of sorrow, we got divorced and I was kicked out of her Earl?s
>Court based apartment. But my job was the same one as a GP cum Child
>Specialist at the Waterloo based NHS Centre;
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on 10-Jul-02 05:17 PM
tried to change the job for
>a good one, but never succeeded as such. I never knew such an industrially
>advance country is still socially backward and the racism is still
>prevailing in the devastating way. Merely being a British Passport holder
>is nothing great, merely complying with all the professional examinations
>and tests & trainings is not of more importance, what actually is important
>is you should be WHITE and should have whitish background and should come
>from either UK & commonwealth or US or EU to settle in as a first class
>citizen in this part of the world. Well believe it or not 2002 is my 8th
>year in London and 5th year as a British Citizen but still I am not getting
>better opportunities as the real white people are. I have now realised that
>a friend of mine who had come to the UK to do the same course as I did was
>very fortunate though he did not get the license to practice here as he had
>committed some small errors and had to go back home. But I never made any
>mistake in my profession and I was so damn perfect in judging the patients
>but that?s not the way it is so I am very depressed and frustrated. I am
>married now with a woman, who is some 15 years older to me, and she is a
>British white and I did so to change my life and the attitude of people
>towards me. But every time I see the mirror I see a HE-BITCH, a greedy dog
>who is just ready to pounce on the bones thrown by the Londoners. I cannot
>even go back to Nepal because I have lost my self-respect. I am sure that
>you would not believe that I am working as a waiter cum barman in an
>Italian restaurant owned by my wife on part time wage rate basis. This is
>not my life style as a third grade citizen here, this is the life style of
>some 6,000 people who had come to UK as students in the last 15 years. I am
>damn sure not even 10 individuals are in the reputed positions no matter
>what qualification they possess and no matter how talented they are. I have
>a friend of mine from Nepal who is a Chartered Accountant from the
>Institute of Chartered Accountants of England and Wales, who also holds a
>free work permit to work here in the UK but trust me he is an utility
>worker in my wife?s restaurant. Likewise is the case with few friends who
>came here to do their further education, but are still working as a waiters
>or barman or utility workers or drivers or cleaners. One of my friends did
>his Masters in Chemical Engineering and who is here in the UK to complete
>the 10th year as a student and apply for the British Citizen rights is
>working as a cleaner in Wimbledon Lawn tennis courts. Likewise is the case
>with other doctors, chartered accountants, engineers, ex-army men etc., so
>don?t get excited to come here, this place is not meant for us, don?t
>commit the same mistake as I did. And if any Nepali says it to the people
>back home in Nepal that he is demanding a high respect as a good
>professional or holding a reputed position in an organisation here in
>London, that is a clear lie, I swear that is impossible in the case with
>Nepalese in every nooks and corners of the UK. Dear friends I am suffering
>from HIV positive that I acquired from my British wife who has a good
>background of working in a London based BAR and I think I would not survive
>for more than 3 years so please forward this mail to all the Nepalese
>students who want to come to UK, the country full of racism and the
>Nepalese students who are already here in the UK to go back because Nepal
>is heaven for us as that is our mother land, the golden land. Please help
>our mother develop, don?t waste your time and career by trying to come or
>reside in this kind of place. Please help Nepal develop. Don?t be a
>HE-Bitch like me.
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Posted
on 10-Jul-02 05:31 PM
check before you screw
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Posted
on 10-Jul-02 05:36 PM
too long to read
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Posted
on 11-Jul-02 11:35 AM
How Funny. This guy had masti in England
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Posted
on 11-Jul-02 01:40 PM
good artical
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