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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 02:04 AM
This is an interesting piece I found posted on Chautari.
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nepal luxury living guide....dont go abroad
lila
kathmandu is so much fun. They have so many discoes where we can dance, bars we can drink at and resturants we can eat at. Nowadays the girls are allowed out too. Its high class life. I love going to the Galaxy disco at Everest, and then to Dynasty club. I pop a pil of xtasy(the drug), and dance all night. Once I went to Nagarkot and they had a rave there, can you imagine a rave in NEpal??I have lived in America for 10 years then I went back to Nepal it is so much fun there. The guys are so cool, not pakhe anymore. My boyfreind picks me up in a Jeep and then takes me to a resturant in a 5 star hotel, then we meet up with our freinds and go to Soaltee game room to play video games and gamble at the casino. Then we go to thr Rox bar of Hyatt on Fridays, everyone is so well dressed and cool cool cool. The in- crowd basically comprises of ex lincoln students, and other rich kids. We have the best cocktails with cigars. When we are bored we can drive up to Nagarkot and sit in a jacuzzi , or we can go to a resort in Shivapuri,which is near Budanilkantha , and get the best weed(marujuana). I can shop in any of the very hip stores on the third floor of Bishal Bazzar and get a real leather coat from Bally. Shoes from sacchi and sacchi at Don Marcello studio of the Royal Singhi Hotel . My friends are so cool too, we all meet up for happy hour, and then eat out at Italian resturants of Thamel. I dont have to deal with the need to run away to the US or Austrailia, I live life as any American 20 year old would live there. I dont know why everyone runs away b/c there is so much to do here.And no one makes fun of you b/c you are of a different race. You can play Golf in Gokarna at the Meridien hotel.Or chill in a sauna in Chitwan. WHy are you people running away??????
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| Bhenda |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 05:54 AM
Goshhhh these young gals are so fake.
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| JackAss |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 09:03 AM
No frikkin way...they have raves and x in Nepal???? Hell I'm going back home tomorrow :o)
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| Subhachintak |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 01:09 PM
Everyone is running away cuz most of them are not Ghoos khane ko chora/choree unlike you and yr friends. The people who ran away from Nepal are trying to make a life for themselves and the future generation to come you Fool....
Get Real...You r so superficial....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...
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| King Uncle |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 04:22 PM
Very depressing.....
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| Bhenda |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 05:49 PM
Jackass,
Aren't you scared of getting brain damaged?? I watched a show on TV , it said "E" does brain damage. Whatever becareful.
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| badmarsh |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 06:57 PM
In this rate we'll have no culture to call our own in 10 years. American capitalist taking over..................
If that's what we call progress and developement then..... i'm sorry for all of us.
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 07:48 PM
weed and in bracket marijuna.....xtacy...(drug).....
oh yea...people don know what they are......
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| mg |
Posted
on 18-Jul-02 09:56 PM
this is not how average american live. let's not confuse with a decadent life style with an average young person's life. If some misguided nepali think that is how people live in the States then I have nothing but pity for those fools.
Just one question. where do these ppl get money to do all these places?
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| meanie |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 04:10 AM
Hyallo....
Feel really pity for the new generation...
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| Diva_Starz |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 05:17 AM
Huh....so that's the life of a typical pampered (more precisely spoilt brat) of a typical nouveau riche family in ktm now. Gosh, when do these imbecile ones start thinkin' life's more then the puff of smoke...more then shakin' booty gettin' trippy with marijuana or X tacy?
When the whole country's on catastrophe & crashed economy. kudos (negative one:P with thumbs down!) to those who manage to be rich each day so that their off springs can define LIVING LIFE KING SIZE in one of the poorest country in the globe.The self fulfillin' prophecy of a typical nepalese to blame...tsk tsk
And, btw isn't 20 a sensible age to be guided by wits rather then instincts :p? Feel pity for whoever wrote that article comparin' life here n there...didn't turn me on though I'm the same age and love my life as anyone!! I do believe in what my nepali teacher was so corny 'bout .."jasto desh, tyestai bhesh"..hehe..sowwie didn't mean to offend anyone though....
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| Bhenda |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 06:02 AM
I think lots of Nepali kids misunderstand America, boyz and galz dont forget these kids here try to be self sufficient since the age of 18. I have seen little gals like 12 baby sit in their neighborwood. Believe me their parents are rich but that does not stop them from working.
I think there is too much drugs in our society in Nepal, maybe its time we did something about it.
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| KG |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 09:06 AM
What Katgirl has described is the lifestyle of the rich and famous. Perhaps <5% of Nepali can afford to live that life. And believe me those 5 % would be far happier in Nepal than overseas. Who wants to be a Joe Schmoe when you could be livin' like a rockstar in Ktm? But, this is exactly why the Nepal is such a tragic case. The gap between the rich and poor is mind boggling,isn't it?
The more fortunate needs to think about their less fortunate citizens. Even the US tax payers end up paying for the poor via the welfare programs paid by tax payer dollars. Otherwise our situation could be as tragic as the reservations in the US. I was watching CSPAN few days ago and was heartbroken to learn from a US senator that the suicide rate amongst Native Americans in the US is 37.5%! While saying the well off people needs to help the needy,I don't mean people residing overseas need to book the first flight back home. Perhaps you could volunteer one summer as a teacher in Rolpa, perhaps your kids could visit the village you are from and teach younger kids about preservation of ancient culture like ours. In return they would have the opportunity to connect to their roots. The world is a small place now. And Nepal is even smaller. We have already learned that remote regions need all our help. If the government and responsible private citizens don't contribute to raising the living standards of these needy people, our economy would forever be doomed. Perhaps then Katgirl would have to buy a house in India too!
KG
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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 09:18 AM
Hey KG,
To make things clear. I did not write that stuff, I found it on Chautari of info-nepal.com
The reason I posted it was that I found it interesting. The interesting part is that, I am pretty surprised that ppl live like that in Nepal. The posting was criticized by many on Chautari as well. I am am doing a research on the urban life of Kathmandu, and beleive me, when I go to many sites, such as wave mag, youth vox, etc, I come upon alot of things that show that Nepali teens and mid twenties citizens are not concerned about the stagering economy, or the rolpa murders, or anything else that our country is facing. This may not be a typical Nepali view as you said, maybe 5 percent. However other kids are interested in being more "westernized". And yes, thier view is distorted, but that is the way it is. GO to a school or college, you will see what these kids are into, for example, dating, fashion, sex, bard, discos do seem to be thier major concern. Some value education, whereas some value money more. HOwever, many young adults do want to break the conservative more, and enter this new "chic" mentality.
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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 09:28 AM
Re:nepal luxury living guide....dont go abroad
Suman Dhakal 2001/11/20
Yo Lila. How could you be so ignorant? Perhaps its the marijuana and excesty or whatever else that you take thats corrupting your mind. Do you think most nepalis go abroad to live the kind of life that you have described. Do you think all nepalis go abroad in hopes of living the life of a drug addacit? Life of a spoiled rich kid who can't think beyond going to the clubs and doing drugs and wasting their parents' money?
Most people come here to get an education and to make a life of their own. Unlike you, who most probably lives on your parents' money. You maybe having "fun" now but not for long. I'm sure your parents don't have an unlimited suplly of wealth to support your drug habbit and the kind of life style that you have described. One day, you are going to have to stand on your own. And when that day comes, you'll break. Its one thing to earn on your own and live it up and another to live it up at your parents' expense. So snap out of your illusional sense of reality and what life is and step into the real world. Turn yourself around and be someone in life.
And if you have no intention of changing, then could you do us a favor and increase you drug and alchoal intake and try to get rid of yourself quicker. This would really help both of us out you know. Thats the least you could do to help the wrold.
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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 09:32 AM
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Re:nepal luxury living guide....dont go abroad
lila 2001/11/19
My father isn't rich , ok? Actually I opened my own travel agency with a bank loan, sorry all you men are jealous...maybe b/c you dont have anything to do yourselves?I also happen to have a online software assistant job with excite, so idoits....be more jealous b/c I am an independant woman.You Nepali men could point a finger at me, but I own my own bread.OK, business has been bad with my agency due to the economic, and not to mention structural problems, with the Nepali economy, but I still have my ISP diploma backing me out. I opened my business with a bank loan, not $$$ from any man or my father.ps why wouldnt you think its my mother or grandmother's money??Oh yeah, maybe b/c you sexist man feels like women in Nepal can have no Money, well sorry dude you're wrong. SO I hope this answers your curiosity...I just hate when ppl give upon Nepal so much and flee to the West. I beleive where there is a will there is a way, even in Nepal.Even with a gir like me , raised in a middle class family.My parents divorced about 15 years ago , so I went to US with my mother.Who worked there underwaged, b/c my father would not give her any of her benefits...And no one was there to help us out. I came back and I'm doing well, and taking care of my mother.SO freak off all you Nepali men.SO what if I do drugs once in a while, and like to party,most guys do it anywys. Also why judge that I am a whore?I never had sex before, you guys really cant difest a woman doing well, and having fun can you?Hypocrites......
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 09:48 AM
awesome katigirl...
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| ma.kancho |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 11:52 AM
what?
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| Dream Boy |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 12:13 PM
To "Katgirl" and "Brenda",
What the hell are you talking about?
You hide and lie to your parents and go to dance with different men at disco bar in KTM. And you are telling that it is fun and heaven. And you tell proudly this kind of your dirty matter to other people in this forum.
What a bitches in this forum……… Huh?
Give a name of the list how many man did you handle in your past time?
Nepalese from Colorado, USA
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| Bhenda |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 12:40 PM
Dream boy( the new brainwashed uneducated dude)
What the heck, learn to read and write first. I told you its never too late.
How on earth do you read the bible and understand it?? Dude I dont take drugs and party and lie to my parents. I never said that. Infact I was trying to say that drugs are bad for people.
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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 12:53 PM
Dream Boy,
Bhenda is so right. Read carefully, if you know how to. I got that thread from a listing on another site. I posted it due to my research project on the new nepali generation psyche. CAnt you read and figure whats going on? And oh these things that you call dirty do happen in Kathmandu, and quite often do they happen. People like you want to keep this under the blanket, people like me want to know and understand these new social factors. How are you gonna dismiss the fact that teens are having sex and doing drugs? If everyone is like you then, how are these young adults going to address thier issues, and know whats good and bad. And as for the sex, and sleeping with many guys part, you live in Colorado you said? Wake up and smell the coffee , you should know that this is nothing new. I can bet 1 million dollars that you still do not get the point, please let me clarify myself in Nepali if you need , I will be waiting for your reply.
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 01:14 PM
dream boy ...your name kinda sounds like mine..but alik ramro sanga padnho paryo ni....tatikai pachayya bolno bhayani ni....
whoever wrote that article has given us an example of sarcasam in writing...don't waste your time finding you wrote that article....think on whats goin on in ktm....
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| catmandogal |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 01:16 PM
HI ya,
I totally hear you. Some people just dont get it do they. I know about all that stuffs you were talking about in Kathmandu. Even Pokhara, Dharan it is starting to be like that. I am very fashion concious and I dont think there is anything wrong with that. Even going out with frens in Thamel and Kingsway is fine. I dont like the fact that in discoes there is always fighting and stuffs. Before I left Nepal, I stopeed going to disco.By the way, they have day disco, so teenagers with strict parents can go during the day on weekends. There is so many people doing drugs, and alot of girls too are doing that now. I think that is very bad and they should do something to change. In Nepal there is nothing to do other than family stuffs because of conservative society. That is why kids turn to drugs and alcohal. I hope things change before I go back in Wintertime, but then I am only a dreamer....
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| catmandogal |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 01:16 PM
HI ya,
I totally hear you. Some people just dont get it do they. I know about all that stuffs you were talking about in Kathmandu. Even Pokhara, Dharan it is starting to be like that. I am very fashion concious and I dont think there is anything wrong with that. Even going out with frens in Thamel and Kingsway is fine. I dont like the fact that in discoes there is always fighting and stuffs. Before I left Nepal, I stopeed going to disco.By the way, they have day disco, so teenagers with strict parents can go during the day on weekends. There is so many people doing drugs, and alot of girls too are doing that now. I think that is very bad and they should do something to change. In Nepal there is nothing to do other than family stuffs because of conservative society. That is why kids turn to drugs and alcohal. I hope things change before I go back in Wintertime, but then I am only a dreamer....
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| WangoTango |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 01:39 PM
CatGAl, You sound very M’m tender Ahaaa! (goody-goody) my type just too good to be true. My imagination started working over time. If I come in Nepal can we dangle around together?
Tango Man
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 01:56 PM
tango wango..don't fantasize too much....wake up dude...
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| catmandogal |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 04:13 PM
Tango,
What makes you think that I am willing to Dangle with you?
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| ma.kancho |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 06:25 PM
Sex , Drugs and all that will corrupt our society. Those luxuries described are only for saale chor cangressi haru and royal bloodsukas.That girl is prolly daughter of girija, or related to royal family a whore i think
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| Diva_Starz |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 06:46 PM
Yo Kat Girl
....just loved your attitude. Wish only one fourth of the woman's population comprisin' more then half of the total population take independence the way you're proclaimin' livin' it in the male chauvinistic society of Nepal. I know, its just my wishful thought where more then half of the total children population drop out before the fifth grade & the literacy rate for woman is mecely 14% (Unicef report, 2000).
Stickin' on to our good old norms & values doesn't prove that we are conservative or dogmatic (?) and blindly fakin' the so to say "westernised culture" make us CHIC...
Gosh, isn't it prime time (or too late?) for us to have this realisation?
Peace yo!
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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 07:01 PM
Hey Diva Starz,
To make things clear, I aint fakin anything. Read teh message, read all my posts regarding this mater.I am just doing an objective study of the psyche of youngsters. The thoughts expressed above, is indeed the way many young adluts of Kathmandu act and feel, not all, but a decent amount enough to have this new pop culture exploding. That is not my life, but it is an example of the teen life and culture. The girl in the story , Lila , is an ambiguous character, she is independat , educated, self sufficient, runs her own agency and has other skills. That is one side of her. The other is drugs, sex, party etc. In her defense I say, she owns it, she spends it. It is upto people to decide if she is an overall achiever or a failure. Thanks for your response though.
What is chic is a subjective wwalue , in Kathmandu among youngster, it is very in style to move away from conservatism and be more "westernized". Again, westernized is a concept that individuals define on thier own as well. Some feel it is to work hard, others to earn money, yet others feel that teh West is the land of freedom, and anything goes. Many youngsters in Nepal, relate to MTV as an indicator of Western values. Remember this is an objective view of mine, and I am learning parts of both sides.
Please feel free to comment, and I will clarify if needed.
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| Katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 07:04 PM
My bad Lila is a virgin.
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| TangoWango |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 07:12 PM
CatKittyGal, IT was my wild imagination all this exotic fun in Nepal with same boyfriend and roving in a same Jeep, Don't you get sick? Close your eyes and think twice dangling with incredible>Tango Man. I can guarantee you'll feel heaven to yourself :-)
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| katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 07:18 PM
Tango,
It is not my wild imagination. I found this thread posted on Chautari of info-nepal.com
I think the message was posted sometime it 2001. I only came across it a few days ago. I dont tango by the way, I salsa.
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| Diva_Starz |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 08:24 PM
Hey Kat Girl..
I do believe that you're doin' study on the psyche of youngsters. Hope your objectives be fulfilled...However, would like to comment on your AMBIGIOUS character...
- your character is not even the representation of the quarter of nepalese youngsters (be prepared for the high percentage of error in your report ;)
-It sounds more fictious (you know what i mean...the typical character of a movie who loves to make castles near the sea shore & realises he made it of sand only after the water waves wash it away:)
-I dare to call your character a HYPOCRITE in the sense she's proclaiming infact provin' that she's a CHIC (leave your subjective or defendin' (?) verse of what chic is here)..and, at the mean time whisperin' she's a virgin..oh, gimme a break!..I have done my schoolin' abroad & am still here & I know there's nothin' more shockin' then a so to say "CHIC" to stay virgin (here I'm just emphasizin' on the character you are potrayin' orelse there are heaps of youngters like me here too who respect values)
-your character is just the hybrid outcome (or thoughts?) of eastern and western culture...have really appealin' qualities too like being self sufficient..bold..etc etc.
Wouldn't your objective be more fulfilled if you do the comparative analysis too ...
Peace yo!
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| nemesis1 |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 08:34 PM
Dear Lila, obviously you are not doing what 20 year olds are doing (or at least are supposed to be doing). 20 year old in the US are not supposed to hang out in bars and drink (smoking weed and popping pills is another thing). The reason, though, why you might want to be in the US is that in Nepal you have to go to Chitwan to a Sauna to chill. Here, we have air conditioning.
Hot air headed girl, stay with the elephants in Chitwan, will you do us this favor? (and be quiet...)
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| katgirl |
Posted
on 19-Jul-02 09:09 PM
Hey Diva,
Character is def ambiguous. She does not fit the spoiled brat sector, b/c shes self sufficient. She doesnt fit the ave nep mid 20's b/c she's got mad money and circles the elite group.
Before I get back to that, I understand that my representation is small, but this is a very specialized research. And lila's group of frens may be the minority here, but a large number of young Kath residents have a trend of following fashion, lifestyle etcof teh west , or rather thier own perception of those indicators.My research will include a huge poll of young kathmandu residents, it will exclude anyone that has not passed SLC, or its equivalent.
The reason that lila may ambiguous, or multiple personality , is just an example of how complex issues are. Everyone may consider a character like that to be permiscuous , but she's not. Initially, they were sure she lived of Daddy's money, turns out her Dad left her years ago. Mind you, she never used the "chic", I did, and I did so in order to define, what these youngsters beleived to be in style. I do not think she is a hypocrite, she would be a perfect stereotye of a rich , drug addict, who is a slutas well. SHe is not.
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| ma.kancho |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 01:51 AM
chup lagera bas!!
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| KTMGALS |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 10:05 AM
Guys,
Just leave her alone. She is nothing but a fawking whore. I’m pretty sure that she is fawked by her father and brother at the same time.
Why don’t you go suck your father’s dick instead of posting these ugly messages?
She doesn’t even know what she is talking. “Oh, Lila is a virgin” Bitch!!
Didn’t get enough fawked by your father? Go fawk with a dog.
We came from a very rich and good family. We don't do any of those stuff. Don't you ever use the word "all the teenagers in ktm" I'll send someone to fawk you real hard up in you A$$
Bitch!
Don't mess with us.
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| katgirl |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 05:41 PM
hey KTMGals,
Your very rich family did not care about you enoug to spendmoney on your education, you cant read. Read carefully I never claim all teenagers, and dont even claim all rich ppl, it is a specific amount of ppl, from a specific group. And sisnce you never got to go out and experience nightlife in Nepal, you prolly dont know what is really going on. First of all read read rea, or if you cant, then dont bother.
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| Riva |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 06:29 PM
Katgal is right.
KTMgals your language shows what kind of people you really are. I have never heard any gal using father when they swear, it definitely shows what kind of upbringing you had. "Cheap" is what your kind is called.
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 06:37 PM
ktmgals, were you su*king my di*k when you post that fu*kin message.....you piece of broken bones improve your reading skill....i hope you spend freaking time reading that TOEFL....soon it will help you to read an article...
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| Diva_Starz |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 07:00 PM
Psycho dreamer,
You're doin' the same what ktm gals did, so where lies the difference?
'PROFANITY ISN'T DEFINITELY FREEDOM OF SPEECH'...besides, there are always nicer way to express ourselves. Why do we guys always run outta ultimate words in extreme of situations and start makin' fetish of our genital organs & their functions;)?
And, btw...we are responsible for our deeds ourselves. Its sissy to pass the buck on parents because our brain started malfunctionin' :)
Peace yo!
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| KTMGALS |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 07:42 PM
No, but we did see you licking your mother's pussy.
Hahaha..."broken bones" huh....your momma. You should improve how to f@k your mother.
Jack A$$
and to you bitch.
We weren't even talking to you so why don't you suck your dogs dick?
Should we be bringing your mother next time?
Bitch.
>ktmgals, were you su*king my di*k when you
>post that fu*kin message.....you piece of
>broken bones improve your reading skill....i
>hope you spend freaking time reading that
>TOEFL....soon it will help you to read an
>article...
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| KTMGALS |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 07:53 PM
As you can see...we don't know how to write english nor any other language.
hahahahaha....
we sure do need to pass that so call "TOfe"l to come kick your a$$
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 08:11 PM
you aint a girl ktmgals...
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| psychodreamer |
Posted
on 20-Jul-02 08:12 PM
you must be ugly ktmgals...i just can imagine you....
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| katgirl |
Posted
on 21-Jul-02 12:05 AM
hello,
i was trying to have a heakthy conversation of sex and drungs and alcohal,an issuue that touches many of the urban youth. i am gointg to KTM in the summer and wil be talking to yououths from colleges and etc........ i am going to the endroots of th is priblem and i do not care if half teh conversative sotiety hate m y resea rch tipoc or njoooot
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| . |
Posted
on 21-Jul-02 09:38 AM
how tall are ya cat gal??
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| Diva_Starz |
Posted
on 21-Jul-02 10:14 AM
Kat Girl,
....I have a moral support for you..wish you all the best!
Peace yo!
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| katgirl |
Posted
on 21-Jul-02 01:28 PM
DIVA STARZ,
Thanks for you support, I knew there must be some educated ppl who would be interested and think that it is a good thing to do.
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| catmandogal |
Posted
on 24-Jul-02 09:15 PM
Hello,
I still dont get the point of this thread all so much. The original point is about hig class Nepal, so why go low, w/ calling' people whores? You cannot generalize that all rich ppl are whores and bastards!!
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