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   Hi all! Just wondering if you can hel 14-Aug-02 dilemma
     Sorry, the word in the last line should 14-Aug-02 dilemma
       Well Dilemna ji, Can't actually tell yo 14-Aug-02 Riva
         Hey Dilemma, this is what i'd do, if 14-Aug-02 PutaliKanchi


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dilemma Posted on 14-Aug-02 02:45 PM

Hi all!

Just wondering if you can help me. I used to like this guy a year ago, and went around confessing to him eventually.. turns out that he doesn't have the same kinds of feelings for me, so I ended up just leaving it like that, and now I don't actually have anything for him anymore... It's quite nice not to have anything bothering us!! However, for the last couple of weeks his best friend (who I must say is much better looking, intelligent and outgoing) has been showing interest in me. Sometimes he's hitting on me right in front of his friend. I am almost tempted to fall for him, but have managed to hold it back, esp coz he's best friends with the guy I liked and also coz I dn't know if he knows anything about us at all.. I don't even know if his interest in me is genuine, or is it just to check my own integrity... I would be really great with your opinions on how I should deal with it.

greatly appreciated,

dilemma
dilemma Posted on 14-Aug-02 02:47 PM

Sorry, the word in the last line should have been greatful, not great
Riva Posted on 14-Aug-02 03:11 PM

Well Dilemna ji,
Can't actually tell you what to do... but wait a little longer and be friends with them for a while to know what is really going on....
PutaliKanchi Posted on 14-Aug-02 03:15 PM

Hey Dilemma,

this is what i'd do, if he flirts with you, flirt back, and if he's doing it in front of the other guy who you used to like, do it even more to make him jealous. And from there, wait to see if he asks you out or wants to get to know you.