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   Hello folks, I have been having cyber 03-Sep-02 Kuraute Darshanic
     hi there. Yes Of course I have been in a 03-Sep-02 lonely gal
       lonely girl it worked really good that 03-Sep-02 haha
         Lonely Gal, Thnx for sharing your tho 03-Sep-02 sh_durga
           My own experience is not good either in 03-Sep-02 Kuraute Darshanic
             Kuraute Darshanic, I pity u mate. U du 03-Sep-02 Gurl_Interrupted
               Cyber relationship looks very complicate 11-Sep-02 Kabindra
                 She is getting an American Black gentlem 11-Sep-02 Kuraute Darshanic


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Kuraute Darshanic Posted on 03-Sep-02 09:24 AM

Hello folks,

I have been having cyber relationship with someone. Do you guys can share your experience about cyber relationship? If you do not have, it will help you to know how it goes.

Thanks
lonely gal Posted on 03-Sep-02 10:21 AM

hi there. Yes Of course I have been in a c yber relationship. In fact I was in love with someone and you don't know how deeply it went. But he lived faaaaaar from me. I asked him to see me. But since he lived with his parents and he did not have guts to see me. He kept saying me he would come see me. You know we loveeee each other. I guessed he just liked me as best best friend. I loveeeeeeee him too as best friend and lova too. But well it did not work. We always used to calll each other on the phone and he used to send me email almost everyday and I did the same. It really works. oh well I dnt' know what else to say. It;s just that you knw..well i cannot say anymore Eventually we broke up oh well I should have waited a lil longer for him..but it was too late i guess it was just infatuation if you wanna put it that way. I really missed him. I hope he have a great life. I can never forget him. In my heart, mind and soul I missssssed him..i wish to talk to him just to say him at least "hI"AND "How are you"..sorry that's all..i can tell no more..
lonely gal!!
haha Posted on 03-Sep-02 06:31 PM

lonely girl
it worked really good that's why u'r still loney right? I have pity on you. may kamadev send you a handsome hunk and you never have to be lonely.
sh_durga Posted on 03-Sep-02 09:15 PM

Lonely Gal,

Thnx for sharing your thoughtful experience in this matter. I also have same kind of very painful relationship via net. Last year, we met nepali yahoo chat room. I told her I am chatting from Boston, USA (now I am living in boston), and she was telling me that he is chatting Battishputali,Baneshwor. Being a resident of Batthishputali, I was asking her full introduction because I might know you. and Finally she told me she was chattingi from USA too I requested with ehr to haveher tru name and send her photo. She did when i saw her photo I was totally schocked and restless. Because she was my true gf in nepal (its has long story why we missed eachother). Because I am her SLC tutor too. I told her all of my story and she too. I requested her for tel #, she gave me and we have been keep calling keep calling talking hrs hrs once her husband out. The thing is that she is married living with her husband but we still want eachother being life partner. but we dont wannt to live in this country. we wann go back Nepal, so do you thing we we can unite for life partner? and can live our nepali samajj ( our parents accept us, I am kanchoo chora of my family) and do nepali society and culture accept us? now she has baby gal of one month. she was telling the newly born baby is my side. the baby girl is too cute she broke my heart Until now her husband does not know any thing abt us. pls Lonely gal and other fellow suggest us.


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Kuraute Darshanic Posted on 03-Sep-02 10:36 PM

My own experience is not good either in regards to the cyber relationship. I have no idea why it happens. It goes well for the few months and start fighting in various topics.

I think, it happens because of I am living in US and the girl lives in Kathmandu. She just want to know how to come into US. She just want to know what type of job she can get, while she come to US. She lives in Kathmandu and she know some Pakis already. It scared me. I asked her to be away from Pakis, but she does not want. It is the main cause of despute between us. How can I believe that she will not go after Pakis, while she comes to US? So, I dumped her. She said that you hurt me a lot. That's all I had a cyber relationship.

Thanks
Gurl_Interrupted Posted on 03-Sep-02 11:32 PM

Kuraute Darshanic,
I pity u mate. U dumped her just coz she was friends with pakis. That's such a sad excuse. It's so easy 4 u guys to be a player. Sometimes I wonder what kind of heart & feelings u got? (no offence to guys). If u had truely loved her, that sad pathetic excuse of urs would have been nothing for u to nurture ur relationship. It's just perhaps ur own insecurities. Poor gurl, I feel sorry 4 her. But am very sure, she'll have somebody much better than u someday. Sorry, she didn't lose u, u lost her!!

p.s. didn't mean to be mean or rude, but I had to write it.
Kabindra Posted on 11-Sep-02 12:47 PM

Cyber relationship looks very complicated right from the nature of it, but I didn't find a difference between meeting someone from the chatrooms or real world.I met my girlfriend from chat, and we have a very good relationship.Even her parents know that we happened to meet from the Nepalchat......
It worked for me, may be works for you too, so try it dude
Kuraute Darshanic Posted on 11-Sep-02 05:20 PM

She is getting an American Black gentleman. That's a great thing for her because she knows that what pleases her indeed. She knows already what a Paki does for her in fact. No wonder for guys here in Bidesh.