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   ok.. I admit..I didnt, cuz I haven't. 12-Sep-02 confused
     Good! You did just fine. I'm pround of 12-Sep-02 Ashley
       CONFUSED, I being a woman, think that 12-Sep-02 GOOD JOB
         Good Job Dude 13-Sep-02 Congrats
           That's like a gentleman!! 13-Sep-02 sagarika


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confused Posted on 12-Sep-02 07:49 PM

ok.. I admit..I didnt, cuz I haven't.

I have a very close American friend(a gal), and when I say friend, I mean friend. I havent looked at her in any other way at all. One evening, after a party, she wanted to watch a movie at my place. I thought big deal, so we were watching Snatch. I love that movie. Anway, as we were watching the movie, she tried to seduce me , whihc cam as a shock to me. I am a freshman, fresh from nepal..and i dont want that.. I am not ready for it.. and i wanna have such a relationship with someone very close. Not with a friend. I refused. She was pissed. My friends now call me a loser.

I am confused. Wasnt my decision right? How am I supposed to behave in such situations. I am a newbie here, help me out!
Ashley Posted on 12-Sep-02 08:44 PM

Good! You did just fine.
I'm pround of you. Don't worry about what your friends calls you.
Most of the american people wants to get laid every hour.
They are sick.
Take it easy.
GOOD JOB Posted on 12-Sep-02 09:46 PM

CONFUSED,

I being a woman, think that you did a good job. You shouldn't have to do what you don't want to do. And you are so smart at telling what's right and what's not.

Please don't listen to your friends who think that you missed a chance. That first time should be with that special someone. You will respect and thank yourself if you wait until the right time comes. And so will SHE.

keep it up
Congrats Posted on 13-Sep-02 11:29 AM

Good Job Dude
sagarika Posted on 13-Sep-02 12:10 PM

That's like a gentleman!!