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| Oreos Dipped in Milk |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 08:11 PM
Suna,
You have got to be one of the most ludicrous people I have ever come across. Your own incongruity is the reason why NepaliThiti or anyone else calls you names!!
I mean, come on, you say things like "YOU STUPID IGNORANT FOOL! Its a shame your parents gave birth to such an imbecile!" to other people and you expect them to sit quietly? They will jump in your ass the next time they are online, that's for sure. To be expressing such indecent and childish materials at your age-- you should be ashamed of yourself!! If you are trying to entertain yourself with such nonsense, I feel sorry for you. By talking trash with these hum-ho teenagers you are not going to get any younger either, you know. You are an old cow, as in over the hill, got it??, and that's that.
Another thing, you are as RACIST as NepaliThiti. Don't you know how to talk back to people without restarting the abusive cycle? By reading your post, it seems like you don't have a clue. What you should do is take a class called 'how to get along with people 101'. If you do not do this, someone is going to beat the crap out of you one day with their semantics, or better yet, they will penetrate with an unknown object against your ominous and wrinkled mouth; so better to keep it shut!!
(I humbly apologize to rest of the posters here for my outrage, but Suna just does not know when to quit)
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 08:29 PM
Oreo Dipped in Milk! (thats origina! Admitting your wanna-be-ness, well whatever, to each his/her own!),
Please retract your extremely abusive post. Shame on you! Is it a personal vendetta against Suna that you have? because I don't think you would otherwise be so mean and vicious. There are a gazillion posters who call each other names on this site. I have not seen you start a post to ridicule and try and humiliate them!
Shame on you!!!
Suna is a wonderful, smart, spirited person. She does not need some character with some cheezie name to taking potshots at her.
And how do you you know Nepalithitti is a teenager by the way? Even if she were, does it matter that Suna called her a stupid ignorant fool and does it in turn justify your horrendously abusive post? Maybe calling a spade a spade is not a good thing in your book... especially with a name like "Oreo dipped in Milk" that HAS to be the case. Lying and speaking in euphamisms don't suit people who care about the truth. Obviously you are not one of those folks. Basically what you are doing is trying to get Suna to shut up!
Well, please follow your own advice.
And your post must have been your attempt to "beat the crap out of [Suna today]
with [you] semantics. Talk about verbal abuse and verbal violence!
Shame on you!
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 08:38 PM
And please don't apologize to the rest of us when you post such nonsense in a public site for all to consume. I think that is part of your strategy. You want to maintain your "civility" while you are being totally uncivil. Your is actually a common enough phenomenon.... "oh, she does not how to stop, so I had to stop her."
Cycle of violence?! I think you started one afresh!
And please don't be making mean crude comments about me. I am not only over the hill, but admittedly a cranky crotchety old woman with a wrinkled mouth and shrivelled hands, with poor eye sight and really really bad halatosis breath.
Shame shame shame! laaz? sharam? respect? I cannot belive this crap!
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| sally |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 09:03 PM
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Oh excuse me, but thank you anepalikt for making something enjoyable of this weird rant by Prepackaged Junk With Sour Milk. Hey, at least halitosis breath is curable, whereas junk food is always junk food.
Interesting, isn't it, the way people so often look at others and mistake them for mirrors? A con man looks at people with distrust. The corrupt see a world where "everyone's doing it." And hostile people? Well, the name of the thread says volumes. About the poster.
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 09:23 PM
Ores dipped in milk,
Even though your nick name seems kiddish :) you are so sensible and talk wisely. Thanx for being so supportive. I tell you some of these people here re compltete idiots so I stopped replying back..what a waste of time phew!
Anepalikt: Why do you poke your nose each time Suna replies? He does NOt have a mouth to speak for himself or what. I think you are the one who creates trouble in each thread with your verbal abuse. You need to SHUT UP!
Sure people are so aggresive and abusive here. Just relax and chill a little. Get a life guys.............24/7 on sajha.com is not a way to live!! gro up
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 09:29 PM
Now now..don't attack me for my typo error.
Man this sajha.com is becoming a place to vent frustrations, anger and desperations.Atleast that's the way it looks with Suna, anepalikt,Grammer etc. GROW UP GUYS!
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| Ma Ke Bhanaun? |
Posted
on 12-Sep-02 09:40 PM
Jo sanga je chha usle sohi kura dekhaunchha... kasai sanga verbal abuse ko bhandar hunchha.. kasai sanga aama chakari gali garne brihad nepangreji dictionary nai hunchha... kasai ko tato ris.. kohi cold blooded..... Suna yahan na-aaye hunthyo...
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| Euta Thita |
Posted
on 13-Sep-02 05:06 AM
Nepalithitti, you desperately need a vibrator. Go buy one from your local adult shop. And oh yeah, you sound like a pakhe. Now who else would start a bahun-"bhote" ko jhagada besides a khepa? Go back to the gaun you came from.
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 13-Sep-02 05:27 AM
In a theread, not too long ago, Nepalithitti wrote:
NepaliThitti Posted on 08-28-02 5:54 PM Reply
ou guys are having a nice laugh at someone else's expense haina? Nepali girls are very beautiful especially bhaunis coz I am one ;)
Suna, Anepalikt, Now you know where she comes from when she talks about otheres as Bhote, Magar, gurung, Etc. The response she got was this, by Dumbass
Dhumbasse (Dumbass) Posted on 08-28-02 9:00 PM Reply
"You guys are having a nice laugh at someone else's expense haina? Nepali girls are very beautiful especially bhaunis coz I am one ;) "
NEPALITHITTI,
As you said Bahunis are good looking, I totally agree with you. I know they have nice ass ( KANDO). So you must have one too.
Can you please show us your beautiful ass ( Chak), sukya chaina bhane , 'Cause I know you dare not show your face.
Anuhar ta aba chaina hola dekhaunu laykko, Chakai bhaye pani yekchoti herauna ta. Kaso? Baru Tyai Chak ko poster , calender, post card banayera business gare pani bhayo ni tyesto aanfule aafailai sarvasundari bhanthane pachi. If so then Please contact me at DUMBASSNo1@hotmail.com.
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| Diva_Starz |
Posted
on 13-Sep-02 06:52 AM
What an unjustified, unremitted harsh criticism!!!!
After reading Oreos dipped in milk's blatant statements, I conclude there is a bait…blaming, demeaning bait hidin’ a nasty barbed hook :((((
I don’t know why people deliberately use words as weapons with the intent of inflicting as much *mental* injury. But, it depends on whoever intended to take it as a knife twisting in the gut, a slap in the face or plain nothing…an ignorant act of someone who’s just a ‘flash in the pan’.
Not ducking the attack doesn’t mean one won’t have the pleasure of calling spade a spade. But, retorting back stooping to all these stereotyping/ pigeonholing racists and lewd remarks makes no sense either…
Let our conscience guide us !!!
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 13-Sep-02 10:33 AM
Thank you , Diva. Responding to an attack does not mean you are taking the bait.
Silence has a time and place and so does raising your voice to disagree.
The silence so far, of the "educated, mature and intellectual" cadre of this site, not only angers me, but truly truly disheartens me. But sadly enough, I am not surprised. This culture of silence is not about not adding fuel to a fire, rather it is more akin to acquiescing and enabling abusers and perpetrators of hate and violence!
Seems like Sajha is gathering enough "flashes in the pan" to make for a continuous display of rather lurid and fireworks. Unless people object, verbal violence and abuse, such as the kartut of this thread's perpetrator and yes, even the ill treatment Nepalithitti got, will become the norm. THAT does NOT sit right with me.
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| czar |
Posted
on 13-Sep-02 12:24 PM
NepaliThiti / Cookie : Please bear in mind that the other users have as much right to their opinions as you have to yours. Their right to express themselves is guaranteed under provisions of law as well as constution. So is yours.
What is also further guaranteed is this: they are under no obligation or compulsion to listen to your opinions, or you theirs. If you find it objectionable, you can argue your case as eloquently as you can.
This thread may be your attempt to do just that. It isn't working too well I am afraid. Neither of you have presented persuasive arguments to either of your intended victims to 'mend their ways' to be more palatable to you. Au contraire, both of you have come across as juvenile and foul mouthed.
Is this the intended results you sought ? I doubt it. So, its either back to the drawing board.
Or, plan B, keep quiet. Especially if you havent got what it takes to hack it.
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| joie de vivre |
Posted
on 13-Sep-02 12:49 PM
A case of the pot calling the kettle black, OreoDippedInMilk (or as I prefer, Dipstick)? So Suna's opinionated, big fking deal. The problem with some people in this website (and in general) is that they can't stomach a woman who speaks her mind. Being outspoken (which mind you, I admire very much in a person), doesn't mean she's hostile or a racist. At least with Suna its the real deal, she's not afraid to hide behind a façade or mask her likes / dislikes or true feelings.
Suna's definitely my kind of girl!
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 15-Sep-02 02:03 PM
Hi. A few words.
I have no context for how this thread started. But I read all the posts. Anepalikt and joie de vivre are familiar names at the site to me.
The hostility against Suna is a common phenomenon at the site. I am not sure which particular comment by Suna infuriarated the poster, but I probably don't even need to know.
There are pigs (as in MCPs) at the site who will come out with some stupid username in acts of verbal violence to try to shut up some of the intelligent women participants at the site. The end result is unpleasant. It is more fun going through some issue-based debate. But there is the backdrop of social reality. Rants like the one that started this thread are the tip of the iceberg of, say, domestic violence. Acts of shallow men trying to show women "their place." I applaud the efforts of usernames like anepalikt and joie de vivre who have taken the time to come into the mud and take a stand. This is unpleasant, but necessary.
I grew up a Madhesi in Nepal. And I am too familiar with efforts by people here at the site, some fairly smart individuals, who will want someone like me to shut up, and, better, disapper. And that is all they want. They are not disagreeing, or wanting to continue dialogue. All they want to say is they don't like you.
Those tendencies have to be countered. People individually attacked deserve to feel the majority at the site stand by them and their intelligent views/opinions, agreements/disagreements aside.
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| Nepe |
Posted
on 15-Sep-02 04:19 PM
Suna is the history of Sajha and its history too. Throughout this history to date, she has been in forefront to speak against all kinds of social injustice and sleaze. She also never missed to join in fun, flirt and thatta we occasionally have in Sajha. You can not think of Sajha minus Suna. Suna is a legend of Sajha. Suna is a voice of Sajha. Suna is one of the best things Sajha has.
Suna might have lost temper sometimes. But never for no reason. There are always reasons worth to lose temper for. And some people just don’t get it unless you lose temper. Therefore distinction should be made whether some verbal outburst is primarily issue-based or it is pure personal. Issue based verbal outburst is fine, because it is a part of the communication to convey ideas and because it can be amended as per need. On the contrary, verbal abuse purely intended to inflict pain or offend a person is not fine. It should be chased away. I find OreosDippedInMilk’s posting belonging to this category.
If Nepalithitti is offended undeservingly by Suna, she can complain right then, ask for explanation or apology. But now, after complimenting OreosDippedInMilk’s abusive posting, she has lost a moral ground to seek ‘justice’ for her even if she deserved it before.
And my friendly and patronizing childish advice to all is- don’t judge a person by mere few sentences he/she writes. It is very elementary thing.
I am not for going after every abusive poster especially those one-liner disposable one-time-only nicknames giving them unnecessary prominence. However, if something like that happens to me, I will feel much better if responsible citizens of Sajha spare one or two words.
Suna, you have endured attacks from all kind of intolerant and ignorant sexist, racist, casteist, chauvinist, elitist, establishmentist, conservatives and what not in this very board. So I am sure you don’t give a damn even as much as an ant’s end to such a mundane attack as this.
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| Paschim |
Posted
on 15-Sep-02 09:09 PM
Nepe, PKB and other friends -- just 2 brief thoughts on this:
1. I have seen Suna here for the past 8 months, and I admire and respect her very much. Deeply offending personal, sexist, ethno-racial, and other forms of slurs ought not be tolerated in a civil society -- real or virtual; we must condemn them where seen and when found. I do so now, here, in this specific instance when Suna has been a target.
2. But let us accept that Sajha is also a fantasyland of sorts with no or little accountability of the written word. Impossible to watch and police this place rigorously. Sometimes, one just doesn't "see" these postings. Sometimes, it may be so low that it's not even worth responding and giving the perpetrator some perverse joy. Yes, regular contributors here can be expected to speak out when the tacit thresholds are crossed; but it'd be quite a task to follow and "logically conclude" these episodes. I, for example, am just away from Sajha at times -- and only return for short, quick viewing -- and even when I have the time to indulge, I hardly look at more than a few "pet" threads. So, my silence could just be mis-interpreted dangerously. I think most of us regulars, including myself, have been attacked here with deeply abusive and personal remarks in the past. I for one would thus recognize the limitations of this anonymity-allowed-low-accountability-permitted virtual home of ours; and would just take comfort in the *default* position of those friends here who I respect that, of course, they would never tolerate uncivil acts. And to over-judge the significance of either their ad-hoc, episodic "silence" or "awaaz" can actually under-value many of their solid, consistent, proven, uncompromized, non-negotiable stands on these issues that has long withstood the test of Sajha time.
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 15-Sep-02 09:28 PM
"silence could just be mis-interpreted dangerously................to over-judge the significance of either their ad-hoc, episodic "silence" or "awaaz" can actually under-value many of their solid, consistent, proven, uncompromized, non-negotiable stands on these issues that has long withstood the test of Sajha time." Point well taken! :)
Think I was a bit harsh. Glad people did take the time though:)
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| ~*cherrycola*~ |
Posted
on 15-Sep-02 10:51 PM
..moving right along
Oreos dipped in milk is soOo yummy, and have u seen the Oreo ad.? with the little kid and he sits on the curb talking to his dog.. so adorably cute..*awwwwww...
"first you twist it.. then u dunk it.. then u lick it" blaaaah..
peace..!
erika
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 09:08 AM
Dear All and esp. Oreos Dipped in Milk:
I do not know the purpose of this thread but I do know that it rankles me and has been doing so for sometime.
I am one of those despicable creatures who peer mediates and counsels and so will beg to Differ Slightly.
I don't know Suna, she seems like a spirited, outspoken lady...which she is. But was she right to have said what she did in the first place? Swearing and "cussing" is just a minor form of verbal abuse, but to bring in parentage and birth is hitting below the belt! You want respect, you got to give it too.
Suna is very fortunate in having such loyal friends, but at the same time how many of you would have taken what she has said lying down????? Ask Yourself.
Nepeji, Suna may have been right to lose her temper but was she justified in saying what she did? Being an old and/or respected member of Sajha does not give anyone the right to disrespect a newer or younger member. PERIOD!
Apparently, Oreos was disgruntled by the comment; hence, the origination of the thread.
I hope we can all learn something from this:
Respect Begets Respect! It is a Universal Law and Noone is exempt from it!!!
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| czar |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 09:09 AM
Cherry, and your point being ?
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 09:30 AM
And before somebody hastily, in his/ her zeal pre-concludes:
Do I condone this thread??? NO!!! But I do reflect upon the reasons behind it!
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| suna |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 11:18 AM
Mr. Cookie's posting had had no effect on me. If it had bothered me, I am sure most of you know that I would, most definitely, have responded.
I had decided not to indulge mr. cookie but I had to rethink my decision because I realized that I have "met" some wonderful people here on Sajha from whom I have learnt an awful lot and whose postings and feats in life have inspired me and most of whom happen to be Nepalese males. I would be doing them great injustice if I did not commend them on their "support" of condescending threads towards women. I would also be doing a greater injustice to the womenfolk if I take this thread and just wait for the tide to go down. Because thats not who I am!!
Here goes:
This weekend I had the pleasure of the company of an elderly Nepalese lady whom I had known some years back in Nepal. Boy, was she different?? She was wearing a pair of jeans and sneakers. For a short time, I did not know how to react as I'd always seen her as this motherly woman who did nothing but stay at home and tend to household chores. She out-walked all of us and at times, even embarrassed me by her constant engagement in conversation that I thought would not have suited her age (her constant remark about some Hritik Roshan and how cute he was). But Mr. Cookie's comments on this thread made me refrain from any allusions to her age. WHO WAS I TO TELL HER TO ACT HER AGE! She was comfortable being who she was and we didn't respect her any less. She probably has figured out how to act where and her position in different circles. Anyway, what does acting one's age mean?? TSK TSK!
I'm sure my comments to NepaliThitti did not fly very well with some folks but neither do all of yours to me. But thats okay. Its fine to agree to disagree and I'm quite fine with that. I respect your standings on it. But being the intelligent folks that you all are and how you would like the rest of us to see as being one, you didn't expect me to take what SHE said about the rest of the non-bahuns and non-chettris and keep quiet and just shake my head in disbelief? BUT if anyone had been following that thread, a mere teenager that she is and whom she claims to be - needs to learn that there are groups who will get offended by her sudden outbursts regarding castes and generalization. And talking about age, I guess she is at a ripe and absorbing age where she'll catch on much faster than an old woman like me.
I hate to make this thread into a sexist issue but surely I can have a shot at it??
To those men folk who think verbal abuse and verbal violence goes a long way, there is only one thing it proves: cowardice
Now, lastly, about beating the crap out of me and everything else that would come with it. Well dear, talk about being ludicrous is all I have to say.
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| suna |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 12:56 PM
Sitara:
I don't think its respect I'm striving for from anyone here. Civility is the key.
I simply read and post. I am passionate about certain topics and on some I'm not.
But my pet peeve is Casteism (and our eagerness to promote it). Maybe for your palate my lashing out at Nepalithitti was a bit too much but for me her lashing out on my caste is as unpalatable. It stems to where I come from and who I am. I come from my parents who happen to be magars and therefore, in my own view, I was RIGHT in lashing out on her existence.
One has a right to feel what they feel.
Lets not dwell too much on dictating feelings shall we?
We may turn around this bush a million times and we'll still come to the same point. Hoina?
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 01:51 PM
ok...Suna, let me rephrase that statement;
Civility Demands Civility; the same begets the same!
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 02:24 PM
Rai,Limbu,magarharuko " LATO RISH " Huncha Bhanchan. IS that Right ,SUNA?
Huna pani Suna le Bhanya Kura thikkai Ho ni, Tyo Nepalithitti lai Janne kina hunu parya ta arkako jaat-paat ma haat halera.
Yekdinko kura ho, Ma pokhara ma kam garthe tyetikhera. Yekjana dai hunuhunthyo Syangjako, Chandra Bahadur Gurung,(CB gurung), dai sarai bhaladmi ,padhya lekhya manche, pokhara campus ma M.SC.gardai thiye hamra Chandra dai.Herda kheri pani, Algo,chaunda kandh, Thul-thula haat ra pakhura, Thulai thiye daika tighraharu pani. Yekdin hami sabai sangai basera heater tapdai gaf garirathyau. Yekakichoti, Chanra dai ta jaryak juruk uthera Tirtha ( One of our friends), ko Ghanti samatna pugnubhayo, Chille le Challa hanya jasto. Balla balla chutayiyo. Kura kyai bujheko hoina. "Yo chandra dai kina yestari risayo", Bhanera sochdai thiyau, pheri chandara dai ta khukuri bokera aaipugnubhayo, " Katchu Aaja yo Bahunlai" bhandai. Mero ta sato putlo Udyo. 6 jana Bhustighre haru lagera balla balla Chandra dailai samatera, khukuri unko hatbata chinera liye ra unlai unko quarterma lagera bahirako chukul lagaidiye. raat bhari Dhang-dhang ra Dhung-dhung garera sutna diyenan Chandra daile.
Bholi Bihana uthera 8 bajetira uthera yeso herchu ta, Tirtha ra Chandra dai sangai heater tapdai chiya khairaheko. Ma pani darai darai gayera base cheuma. Chandra dai sanga aankha judhauna pani dar lagyo. tauko antai pharkayera " Namaskar " bhane. Chandra dai ta pheri uhi pahilakai jasto ramailo ra thatta garne bhaisaknu bha rahicha.
Tyas dina beluka tira kambata Ghar Aaunda Gurung dai sangai ghar aaune mauka milyo. Ani maile pani darai darai sodhe dailai "ke bhayeko thiyo ta hizo rati ra dailai tyesto ris uthe cha ta?" Daile bhane " Tyo tirtha naramro manche hoina. maile Aanja bihana uska gayera mafi magisake. Hizo ali ali JAND parya thyo. Ani heater tapera basira belama tirthale 'Gurung haru ta sabai Bhrama ko khuttabata niskeka hun, bahunharu chahi mukh bata niskeka hun" bhanna thalyo.Ani malai ta ris uthyo. Aru ke hunthyo? Yo Jaand nakhau bhane pani aafno matwali jaatle diyeko, khau bhane pani yestai yestai naramro kuraharu huncha. Maile ta aba dehi jaand nakhane nidho gareko chu, bujhyau bhai"
Ke ke na hola bhanya ta hamro Chandra daiko LATO Ris ko phela parecha bichara Tirtha bhantahe manmanai.
Tyes dina pichadi hamro Chandra daile kahile jaad khayenan, maile thaha paunjel.
Bottomline, Arkako jaat- paatma haat nahala. Bolnu bhanda pahile sochera bola chahe piyeko bela hos , athawa napiyeko bela hos.
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| suna |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 02:31 PM
Sitara:
You are entitled to your POVs. I think you will agree that our statement about civility is similar. Therefore, I'm not whining about what this "person" wrote to me. The issue here is how much is too much.
And again, I will have no qualms about being uncivil to someone who is uncivil about my gender and caste but I will not resort personal attacks. Thats as far as my uncivility will take me.
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 03:29 PM
Baloney! Phooey! Civility begets civility.............. maybe if we are talking about people who are capable of being civil. We are talking about a miserable self-involved little brat (some might say teenager, but whatever) who thinks Nepali people of tibeto-burman descent as criminal and stupid! And those who are NOT are "EXCEPTIONs"! And then we have an ignoramus who wants to act like this is about justice, while the whole time s/he is making a personal attack using gendered and violent language to basically try and humiliate and intimidate someone!
I was even seriously starting to think I was being harsh on the "good folks" of Sajha! Whatever! This might not have pissed Suna off, but it sure pissed me off. And NOT because I am Suna's "friend or am being loyal."
Look at the language people!!!
"If you do not do this, someone is going to beat the crap out of you one day with their semantics, or better yet, they will penetrate with an unknown object against your ominous and wrinkled mouth; so better to keep it shut!!"
Hello! What? What? Puleeeeeeeeeseeeeeeee! That is totally, totally, totally frightening people! This sort of language is beyond the "civility begets civility" business.... or the "incivility" got "incivility". What is another term for worse than "below the belt"? That’s what it seems to me this post was about.
Nobody should be allowed to talk to someone else like that! Nothing justifies such verbal violence! Especially not when an insolent, racist child is called "an ignorant fool and an imbecile who brings shame to her parents"!
Whatever. Get real!
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 03:46 PM
oooooooowch! ANEPALIKT,
I hope that was not targeted to me and, is notinstigated because of my posting above.
Pashupatinath le sabailai (malai pani ) BUDHI diun.
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 03:47 PM
Yo Grammar:
Please keep your little patronizing stories about the lato rish bhayeko matwalis to yourself. That is yet another racist stereotype. In case someone has never told you, it really pisses people off when you tell them they have "lato ris"!
Are people really that ignant! And god dang it, I am sick of being nice to ignant fools!
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 03:47 PM
Grammar the last one was for you! you beat me to it with the other post:)
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 04:03 PM
Dear Nepalikt,
You are respectable to me. Yes you are right that now I realize by my story above it can polarize people by just what is described in it , even though that was not my intention. Just an example of how people can percieve it. But , on the other hand , the very same story could have been told in a different way, yet better, not hurting anyone's feelings. I have to thank you for that.
Also "you beat me to it with the other post:) ".
I did not get it.
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 04:13 PM
figure it out!
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 04:32 PM
Thank you, I knew you would say that. duh!!!!!!!!!!
Being nice does not mean you have to agree and partake everything the other person says or does, " Are people really that ignant! And god dang it, I am sick of being nice to ignant fools! "
My respect to you was tremendous, but gradually diminishing as I read your posting above and figured out , as you implied above. I do see somehow we are not communicating well ,I guess. As I have mentioned and acknowledged, i could have told the story in a nicer way, so I think, at the same time, your response after reading my posting, could have been, which is not the case. " o Grammar:
Please keep your little patronizing stories about the lato rish bhayeko matwalis to yourself. That is yet another racist stereotype. In case someone has never told you, it really pisses people off when you tell them they have "lato ris"! "
What that tells me is if I keep replying here on this thread it is going to piss you and I , both,off , and soon will turn into a thread something like " COOl, Smart, and Beautiful ............" . Before than that I better hit the road, but I have to say to you"
" Pashu lai aghi launu pachadi bata,
Manche lai aghi launu agadi bata" Meaning, be an EXAMPLE.
I am proud I did not waste my time 'cause I did learn something new at this very moment.
thanks if you read my post.
PEACE ........................................................
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 05:17 PM
Anepalikt:
With all due respect to your breathless tirade, you have missed the fine print again. Pause for breath if need be and read AGAIN...(vocalize if you have to)
Note: "Do I Condone this thread? NO!! But I do reflect upon the reasons behind it!"
It is bad enough that people bring in caste and race issues without having Someone else misinterpret the main point. Yes, NK is right in saying that Suna is capable of defending herself, which she has done so in a matter of fact way and without resorting to raving and ranting.
Suna: You are right, the POVs are applicable to all and sundry.
Grammar: You have admirably acknowledged the (mis)interpretations of certain terms. I am glad you have chosen not to take up the bait!
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| test1 |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 06:18 PM
test
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 07:02 PM
Please spare me your condescending tone, Sitara. This is the second time you have used a term equivalent to the phrase "breathless tirade" when addressing me. I think the first time was "hysteria". Please keep your dismissive and belittling terms for others who so feel inclined to be a door mat. I don't!
YOU are entitled to YOUR views and so and I. If you did not like what I said - Tough! Maybe you did not like my "baloneys and phooeis"! Too bad... plus, believe me, those were the mildest epithets I could come up with and that too only because it was YOU. :)
Also, I don't care if you condone this thread! I did not say that you did either. What I did MEAN to say above, (since I was obviously unclear, "breathlessly ranting" that I was instead of maybe "choosing" my words with care according to you) is that in MY HUMBLE opinion, even if we agree that "civility begets civility" (which is not always the case as we all know) and thus by extension "incivility begets incivility," certain "incivilities" are beyond being just "uncivil"! There is a limit to the game of tit for tat. For me, the original post of this thread stepped beyond that boundary!
Oreo's whole argument was that it was Suna's "incivility" which prompted the attack in the first place! That is called "blaming the victim," not that Suna is a victim or sees herself as such. (Didn't I say that before somewhere? LOL! I feel like I just had one of those deja vu episodes)! I don't want to go into one of those "anti oppression/Diversity 101" training sessions here, but if you are even remotely aware of the dynamics of how gender based violence works, you will know what I am talking about.
As for my being "thickheaded" and not getting the "finer points of your reflections," I am through with the "finer points" in life that seem to consist of merely making excuses for people who want to make inexcusable attacks on people. Maybe you don't see what you said as such, but THAT how I read it and will continue to do so. There are certain absolutes that I believe in. And not tolerating attacks of this nature just happens to be one of them. One could argue and say "trying to understand" and "tolerating" are two different things... maybe for some. For me condemning and speaking out against these sorts of attacks takes primacy. And even then, even after pondering and reflecting (believe me, I do that between my rants and tirades), I have come to the conclusion after many such incidents, that there is usually no "logic," no "reason" behind such acts other than hatred and malice.
And thank you so much for giving me "permission" to "pause for breath" and "vocalize". You are too kind! I guess I need to go meditate now and contemplate my navel or go find a Zen Guru! :)
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 07:03 PM
Grammar: notice I did not engaged with you before in the "cool, beautifu and whatever" thread. After observing your exchanges with Nepalithitti I stayed out of it. Because, as stupid as I was to follow Nepalithitti into that thread and take a pot shot at her, I really thought what was going in there was deplorable. I really do not have anything to say to you. Please know that what I said to you above was meant to be taken at face value. And for what it is worth - and unlike what seemed to have been inferred, it was not a "bait" to try and engage you in some sort of a battle of words. It is just a stupid pissed off response to something which I thought was rather dumb. If your respect diminished for me, oh well. I am sorry to disappoint you. I am not here to be a role model.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 07:42 PM
Anepalikt:
I would definitely suggest doing just that! Contemplate on your navel for a change....Wise thought! Might save you some breath of life... :)
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 08:13 PM
Anepalikt! You have shown who you are. One more new thing learnt today:
Don't take Anepalikt for real, she changes color quicker than a lizard; to make her point, to support her eccentric ego and to conceal insecure herself.
My great Uncle thus righteously taught me : "You are a man , thou must always be ready for two things".
I inquired what two things. He spelled out loud and clear , "TO LEARN AND TO FU*K"
I am yelling at you my long deceased dear uncle " I am doing both constantly, submissively and deliberately, Can you hear me?"
So concluded long gone sages and Rishi -munis:
" Striya charitram, purushasya Bhagyam
Daibo najanati kuto bhabishaya"
We do not need to go very far for the truth. i do not blame your,that who comes across these postings, perception,
Aanfu sanga je cha tyehi na dine ho. Sarpa sanga Bish (poison) huncha, Amrit ko aansha kina garnu.
Abamastu.
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| WHOROCKS? |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 08:17 PM
Boo hoooooo
All these old ladies- Sitara, Nepalikt, grammar, cherrycola et. al. are busy indulged into proving one ahead of another in so called virtual intellectuality. Little do they know rat race in cyber world is nothing but damn funny. For a bystander like me, what just matters is WHO ROCKS THE SHOW?
Till now, the score
NepKT= 0
Sitara= 0
Grammar=0
cherrycola=0
nepthitti= 0-100
The rest don't deserve my ranking. They have just tried to hit the iron seeing it was red hot.
I rest my damn case!
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| _Apsara |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 08:25 PM
All you have to do is sit back and peer through the clouds. They all will show their color eventually. Go on. Don't stop. It ain't over untill it's over. Defending and Refuting. You are right whorocks. What a farce!
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| anepalikt |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 08:32 PM
Thank you, whorocks! You are funny:) I am glad we entertain you. Even I am starting to entertain myself with all my self-righeteous indignation!
Old ladies, huh! Never claimed to be anything else:) There is a certain comfort in being old and crotchety! You don't have to play nice and stupid. :)
Voyuerism rules!!!!!!!!!!! woo hoooooooooo
It is fun to watch a bloody tamasha, isn't it? Gotta love love those comments from the peanut gallery!
Enjoyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
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| Junkie... |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 09:19 PM
I hear you Suna ....... kasto kasto manchhe hunchha bah!
I tell you Suna ..... Timee rah mah ban-bash jau. How does Barbados sound to you?
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| my list |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 09:21 PM
anepalikt and Sally are aight. But Suna and Joie de vivre just plain suck! They only t know how to bitch, moan, whine and groan. Sitara is too bombastic. Tell us things we don't know. "Philosophical", my beehind! Now, my rank:
1. anepalikt
2. Sally
3. NK
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third last on my list Sitara
2nd last : Joie de vivre
last on my list : Suna
What have Suna and Joie de vivre contributed besides their usual bitching? NADA. We do need some trolls on this site though...I guss they make perfect trolls, ya know, people who we can love to hate.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 16-Sep-02 10:10 PM
My list:
Love your list... BUT you forgot to add yourself and your cronies to it. :)
Actually, you bombasted me; I had to look the word up on my dictionary!!! ;)
As for Your "philosophical beehind", you have a sting on it... be careful how you SIT ON it!!! Might get a hemorrage!! :P
Did you know that trolls are endowed with magical powers; they take on the face of whoever brings them into shape!!!
Good night!!!! Rest in Peace, not in pieces!!! :)
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| Oreos Dipped in Milk |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 09:07 AM
Friends,
Thank you for 'showing the light' to these other posters SITARA. It was not my intention to have a personal innuendo with Suna. I do not stoop that low. I am a new poster here and I have the uttermost respect for all of you, who has done a great job in
sharing quality ideas/thoughts/critiques. The message that Sitara has conveyed is the synopsis of what I have been trying to get across to you guys.
I feel like a lone New Yorker trying to indict an ever-guilty Billy Bob in a close-tight-knit Texas Town community. Just because Suna is your friend does not mean she can never be guilty. Whatever suits you to describe her good character in the 'past' is
notoriously irrelevant to what her online actions at Sajha.com has been in the 'present'. The evidence is there; click on her name and see the numerous postings full of 'rants' that goes on and on.
An analogy to consider: two bank robbers get caught robbing a bank. One actually does the robbing, and the other drives the getaway car. During the trial, the latter robber swears the actual robbing was done by the other partner, and declares to be innocent. The prosecutor tells the robber, you are as guilty in robbing the bank as your partner because you participated in it; therefore, you are an 'accomplice'. The judge agrees. I say Suna has similarity in her actions as that of the 'driver of the getaway car'. As soon as 'filth' comes out of Suna's mouth she is part of it, a participant participating in a similar manner. So, don't give me all that other good qualities of her when I've seen it for myself how crude she is to other posters.
The vast percentage of the reason I started this thread was to make Sajha a better online community, a community free of trash-talking and filth-dumping site. I know that it is not going to happen, but some of us, who are adults, can adhere to such responsibility. So, we try to keep this site clean-- with full of lively, thought-provoking, and constructively-created discussions. The ones that do not follow this are the teeny boppers and lifeless people. Simply put, Suna, being an adult (30+), does not obviously realize the potential, so she keeps on ranting with nonsense. This is not a personal attack on Suna, oh no, not at all; I don't even know who she is. Yet, I have taken the time to read threads of all sorts, where I've seen her 'trash-talking' over and over again. She needs to grow up from these sorts of childish behavior. You can also see that she is a known racist. Just because her parents were mistreated by those 'evil people' back in Nepal does not give her the right to take 'revenge' now on whoever she wants here in the States, especially with her annoying 'rants' and 'threats'. Talk about civility! If she is to continue putting down ethnic groups- newars, sherpas, bahuns or whoever she should be barred from this site. It is ridiculously mind-boggling. I used
her as an example to show how adults should not try to trash this site with their 'filth' notwithstanding the comments made by those teens. Otherwise, this site would be no better than listening to hardcore rap. Hence, my sudden outburst!! My sincere apologies to you all if I offended anyone in the process.
I have second thoughts about posting again and don't know if I ever want to, especially when other 'posters' don't see the fairness in my message. They claim to be 'self-righteous' all the time without giving any thoughts to the 'contents' posted by their peers/colleagues. I applause those who have seen the 'light' and are just plain tired of Suna's 'derogatory' comments. Again, thank you Sitara for your impartial comments; your observation of the situation is analytically profound with unbiased conviction; I appreciate that.
Namaste.
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 09:31 AM
Oreos ji:
Don't leave yet... so disgruntled!!!! It is ok...really to give your opinion here but don't expect to change anybody. It is not your responsibility.... :) We are all a bunch of usernames with a lot of cyber ego!!!... ;) Do hang around (I am a newcomer too, still hanging on ;) and just go to the threads that interest you. I have learned a lot here...esp. about Nepal Politics!!!
Hey it is NOT that bad. You point is taken... :)
PEACE!
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| _Apsara |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 10:35 AM
another self-righteous twerp. yes you Od.
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| ebony_firefly |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 10:46 AM
hello suna!
was u not gazing darbar square's kamasutra carvings last time we said hie in sajha..lols
ummmm! anyways you sure can keep people fighting here in sajha...lols..
keep rocking;)
blac_
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| Nattu THE SAJHA IDOL |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 12:30 PM
Oreos Dipped in Milk ,
Don't listen to these old cows. They're only trying get in your head ( like Simon Cowell from The American Idol ) and discourage you. If you stat listening to these Suna backers, they'll drive you crazy. It is not a new thing here. It's been happening here. They have this little group of old farts always backing crybaby Suna and scaring new People. So, please do continue to post your articles because we find your posting very interesting and truthful. If you stop posting then these old timer hardliners will win and that is very unfortunate. Do you really think, these so called Suna backers are faithful to Suna ? Oh, come on!! Of course not. They're just noisey. Therefore, don't take anything seriously what they're saying. A word of advice " EAUTA KAAN LE SUNNEY, ARKO KAAN LEY UDAUNEY". Chitta Sitta dukhanuney Kaam chaahi Nagarnus hai....Bhanidiyeko
chu :-)
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| paramendra |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 01:07 PM
Grammar quotes the scriptures after quoting his deceased uncle: " Striya charitram, purushasya Bhagyam / Daibo najanati kuto bhabishaya."
Methinks both the uncle and the scriputures sexist.
From going to suggest Grammar has much to learn from Anepalikt, he resorts to blatantly sexist comments. Why, because Anepalikt will not stop talking!
Several ideas one can collect from this thread. If you want some women to shut up:
(1) Use massive verbal violence. Go on a tangent.
(2) Raise her to the status of a goddess, praise her - "I have the uttermost respect for all of you" - , ask her to shut up followingly.
(3) Quote older/deceased men and scriptures to show women why they are inferior. Attribute mysterious, evil, massive powers to their kind.
(4) Or try divide and rule: "Anepalikt and Sally are aight. But Suna and Joie de vivre just plain suck!" Spread confusion in the "ranks."
(5) Suggest your vitriolic attacks were for the good of those same women, or best, for the good of Sajha! "The vast percentage of the reason I started this thread was to make Sajha a better online community..."
(6) And when possible, also take swipes at those of the Janajati background. Better if the person also is a woman. Talk of "lato ris."
(7) That you are doing it for their own good. The way some parents spank their children for "their own good."
(8) Claim yours as an act of fairness.
(9) Call them "old cows." Because men have the right to age, but god forbid if women decide to do the same.
(10) If you are not capable of the vitriolism, at least come out in support of those who are: "please do continue to post your articles because we find your posting very interesting and truthful...."
If this thread has accomplished something, it is to reveal the anatomy of sexism at the site.
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| Junkie |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 01:15 PM
Computer ko sir lay tah bhandai thiyo ......
Junkie student ..... divide and conquer is a powerful tool in solving complex problems.
Tara what do I know, when all I know is to know that to roll is all that counts.
Keep on fighting people ...... while I whisk away Suna to a not so secluded "ban-bash".
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| Grammar |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 01:42 PM
Paramendra,
That is your way of looking at it, so be it . I take it as your perception.
At the end of my above posting I have also mentioned " Aanfu sanga je cha tyehi na dine ho. Sarpa sanga Bish (poison) huncha, Amrit ko aansha kina garnu."
That applies to you as well. What can a cry baby like you give or share to others, who keep whining and bitching, but headaches. You do not have enough time to think about how to fix these pahadiyas, and get the public support on the injustices they have done to you and your supposedly fellows from terai, like Terai means a different country to us, I think what you can give to Sajha and others who read your postings is Cries and Cries and baby- Cries. That is what you have and , thence your sharing. So listen man! one more thing learnt again, just now:
Parmendra is a Cry baby.
Remember what my Deceased uncle said. Well here it is again :
"My great Uncle thus righteously taught me : "You are a man , thou must always be ready for two things".
I inquired what two things. He spelled out loud and clear , "TO LEARN AND TO FU*K"
Your perception of my views above is yours, not mine, because what you said above
"Methinks both the uncle and the scriputures sexist. ", was not my intention. But if you say so ,then so be it.
Also somewhere above I have posted " Saaunma aankha phuteko gorule sandhai Hariyo dekhcha" i hope you knbow what I mean.
But above all , one thing is for sure Paramendra! " Hatti Hinde Bazaar, Kutta Bhuke Hazzar".
you can not confirm to be a police to keep an eye on everyone's postings, and interpret as to whose posting means what. Pardon me if I am wrong , because, then, I would have learnt one more new thing today,
Parmendra is the Sajha- Police!
(DHINDE Police), ummmmm! I do not know about that, for I do not think if Paramndra ever got to taste the real Dhindo which is not common in Terai; comparable dish is more like Daal- Roti.
Abamstu
May peace prevail in Nepal as well as here in Sajha.........................
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 02:14 PM
Paramendra ji;
Congratulations on Critical analysis, Sociology 101!!!!!!!! I see you've used Dubois' race theory, Marxist power theory, Maslow's hierarchical theory (which applies only to basic needs of Human beings!), Chadke's Slant theory, And George Bush's "AI da Man" Theory......... But this thread is about "Ai Da WoMan"!!!
Nice job though... I liked your review of Naipaul better!
:)
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 03:38 PM
Hi all,
Maaan..you guys are still fighting! I feel great that I did NOT waste any more time with these retarded people trying to prove my point- it was like banging my head against this brick wall.
It seems people will never see other people's view point. Without reading and understanding one's message they just seem to be on the acctacking trend even if it was based on the facts from the past.
Gosh! those fighter minds are still fighting..Suna, Grammer and anepalikt. I tell everyone who's trying to bring peace to this thread...as long as we have people so obsessed like these 3 mention above there's going to be no peace here. There are in all the threads creating controversy, attacking people and being sexist and abusive.
Suna: you are fit to me my mother (30+ re)..stop bullying us..the new generations. We are free to post whatever we want. Read it or ignore it.
anepalikt: You are a true gawaar. Get an education. You points seem to be so irrelevant and a blame game thing. He said she said thing.. You poke your fit fat ponty nose in everyone's matter it seems.
Grammer: I have nothing to say to this freak whose brain has shifted from his head to his legs. He's the CULPRITE and caused this entire senseless mess.....(proof..read his sexual abuses in the thread.. cool, smart and beautiful). Can't even spell GRAMMAR correctly..and was acting like an English GURU correcting everyone.Idiot!
To the wise guys here: DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME. RELAX. These morons will never be enlighted no matter how much of a bright light you show them.
Don't even bothor replying to me: I hardly come to read these stupid comments posted by some of these senseless creatures. I know grammer,suna and anepalikt will be quick to reply something with some sexual verbal abuses. You can all come and kiss my ass...eheheh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 03:46 PM
Sorry..it got posted twice.
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| my list |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 04:36 PM
Sitara, my cronies and I fall in the middle; the ". . . ." stands for people not included. Unlike you, we don't try too hard to impress people. If you so desperately want to fit in, just relax, take a deep breath, and try a different strategy.
You probably meant hemorrhoids, btw. I thought women were more prone to it!
I never said I'm not a troll; in fact I am one, and I also got that magical power that you so eloquently described.
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| czar |
Posted
on 17-Sep-02 07:57 PM
Grammar ? This time you have outdone even yourself. Every time I think I have seen this web site hit rock bottom, I am constantly surprised we have a ways to go.
Your swearing skills are spectacular. As of this moment you are the undisputed champ for having the foulest mouth on sajha so far. Regardless of the provocation, you couldnt stake the moral high ground ? Aafnai nepali cheli beti sanga yesto dur byavahaar ? Thuikka gadha.
Anepalikt and all other females here : my apologies on behalf of decent nepali males. The rest of us are not NOT like this animal.
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| joie de vivre |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 08:15 AM
OHMIGOD!!! Someone actually thinks I'm a bitch!! You've no idea how broken hearted I am! boohoohoo!!!
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| grammper |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 08:37 AM
this thread's as dumb as dirt--something nepal's got in spades. try 'n' dig your way out...
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| Observer12 |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 02:13 PM
Hey Grammar
You have no class. You are a pathetic looser. You are a disgrace to mankind and be ashamed of yourself. You have serious issuesdudue and get help as soon as you can. I think you have gone insane and need mental help.
Get the phuck out of sajha.com!!! Your hostility sucks here as you insult everyone here. You have no right to come to these forums and insult people who want to talk nice.
you are the MOST low class person ever to visit sajha.com. Get some mental help as soon as you can OR maybe you cannot afford it- sajha.com will send you an abulance as soon as we can so that you can do some mental ilaaz!
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| Observer12 |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 02:23 PM
One more thing Grammar
Ke laachi jasto keti haru sanga jhagada gareera muji? Life ma keti chaina tero? You are in deep shit man. Mend your hostile ways. Saale mother phucker keta bhayera nepali cheli beti lai ke ke bhaneera saala mam paaka?
Tero bhaalu aama le kehi pani seekaiena talai? I can make out by the lang you use- you are from the getto saale sadak chaap..bhikari! You look like your mother was from thamel. You cheap ass-hole.Phuck you! You need to be taken to a mental hospital for your treatment. You have serious issues pal.
I think your whole khandan is in the bhalu dhanda.No wonders you seem to know so much of the low dirty class language.
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| aama |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 02:47 PM
Aama lai kina gali?
What is wrong with you all?
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| texas rancher |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 03:00 PM
Ever seen "primal fear"?
Make it as a "things to do list" grammer...
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| Site Admin |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 11:32 PM
To Grammar,
I have deleted your postings containing personal derogatory comments to many of the other respectable posters. In an online discussion such as this, people are simply posting thier opinions and if they differ from yours, it does not mean that they are personally attacking you.
In any case, the kind of language you have used will not be supported here at sajha.com.
Regards.
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| Nepe |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 09:26 AM
Site Administration ji,
I support your action. Now I am understanding why Socialism does not work and the Privatization works.
I think this should be the model. When some postings cross the last line of decency, delete them. If the poster tries the same thing again, ban him/her. We have already some precedents on this.
Responsible job !
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| Koko |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 12:40 PM
Yo Grammer,
You think that we don't know who you are ? Do not forget we can trace your ass to each and every site you visit. Just because you assumed a fake name does not mean we do not know who you are. We still have your IP address. We can have all our contacts in your area gather up at yo place and make a TAMASAA out of your peanut size brain. So watch out diarrhea mouth you might actually be eating feces for dinner one of these days.
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| be consistent, please |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 12:45 PM
site admin,
i support your move and hope you apply it consistently to others as well. it appears that others are also using foul language--though with your tacit blessings, it seems? is this selective punishment, or are you going to get around to deleting the others' foul-mouthed comments?
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| Site Admin |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 01:17 PM
Please note that it is not possible for me to monitor all postings. Someone forwarded me the offending postings so I was able to take action. In future too if you see any unpalatable postings such as the one made by Grammar, please do notify me at once so that I can consistently apply such filter on foul language.
You as a sajha community member have to help me out in this matter.
Regards
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| Koko |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 01:28 PM
Be consistant Please,
What consistancy are you talking about.. if you can point out the specifics that would be great. You have a problem with any of the posting ? The site administrator has been very accommodating for the most part. If you can point out the postings that you have problem with then point it out. We will look into how the general consencus feel then execute the decision. If you are scared that you would be made a sacrificial goat then you can personally email the site admin. about your problem. He will bring it up to the community, and if the community feels that it should be omitted then we will go ahead and do it. Its great that we have a site administrator who actually listens to what people have to say. Unlike a lot of other communities. So Mr BE CONSISTANT PLEASE if you have a problem point it out please....
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| Junkie.. |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 01:43 PM
Yeah Suna ...... your hostility sucks ..... .but your silence sucks even more
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 02:43 PM
Hello Site Adminji,
THANK YOU SO MUCH! You did a wonderful job as to keep one hooligan out. That idiot grammer sure didn't have class. He tried to make his point by dominating women in the most degratory foul language. But we are Nepali women and we won't chicken out just because some stupid moron tried to threaten us our freedom to speak and post our opinions here. I think he had problems with women too in his real life otherwise why would someone restort to mean nasty language?
Anyway...I am so so happy to see him gone! what a looser!!
To everyone: If your opinion differs from mine..pls take the time to write and make us understand. Don't just attack our culture, family and personality. Everyone is different and we all have different opinions too.
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| Junkie.. |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 02:55 PM
Yes yes aru khoi chha ...... aaija maidan mah .... ( I still have your back support and frontal protection right NepaliThiti) .......
aaija bhaneko ko ...... ko chha huh
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| Junkie.. |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 02:58 PM
On second thot hope I wasn't blocked out with the rest.
To recall one nepali comment "When bulls fight, small small flies gets mixed and killed " ..... or something like it ......
Why can't I log in using "Junkie" hello site admin ...... your sight is needed.
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 03:02 PM
Junkie
You make no sense! What are you saying?
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 03:08 PM
Listen to this Nepalithitti,
Why are you so much against that guy, Graamar, anyways?? Looks like all the Sajha is after Grammar. I did also read his apolozy to you on the other thread , but here you are still calling him names what's up with that, Nepalithitti?
SIte admin, I think the consistency is requested , I am forced to think, is becasue the posting above by Czar saying " Thuikka Gadha" ,the Posting by Observer12, posting by nbepalithitti herself, . they do definitly defame not just the thread but themselves and the whole Sajha. No doubt who ever read Grammar's responses must feel sick, But why are these people above let do what they are saying. I cannot imagine you not being able to monitor all the threads , but these are very visible ones, right in the front of your wide open eyes.
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| Junkie.. |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 03:33 PM
NepaliThiti take it in stride ...... if you don't get it, forget about eat (is it eat or it???) ...... professor lay pani aaja tehi bhanyo "You make no sense here" ..... chat ma aayo "you make no sense" ....... hang out with the brather who are high "dude, you make sense yo!" guess that defines my territory ....... but consider me a renegade.
again i go off on a tangent ..... :-0
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| NepaliThitti |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 03:46 PM
Dumbass,
I am NOt going to waste any more time trying to explain things here. Grammer got what he deserved. That's why think before you speak bhanchan..it's so true. Yes, you can differ, have opinions, make comments but don't use that filth of a language like Grammer did.
Get it straight..he did not apolozise. His nature was such ..I don't think any girl would want to forgive him. Not me.
I hope you are not grammer cause when majority of the people support the solution you seem to support the problem. Just my guess!
Junkie...lol..:) not your day I guess!
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| okok |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 04:10 PM
thanks for the advice, san. i'll start with koko's posts.
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| DHUMBASSE (DUMBASS) |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 04:12 PM
Nepalithitti, First of all, No I am not grammer as my name suggests.I think we have exchanged our views before here in Sajha as well.
Second , when I said above him apologizing to you, this is what I was referring to:
Grammar
ID: 8925605 Posted on 09-12-02 4:08 PM Reply
hat is good to know.
I do use my mind and , best of all, do know how to use my genital, whether in a language, or in a physical stimulation in proper coordination with my mind. I am proud to have my brain in my genitals ,as you say, cause if that makes me shut you up than I take it ,as it seems you do not have anything between your legs.
Anyway, look at what we have done to each other. I Do not blame solely myself for this mess. You are as responsible as I am.
Now since we have come to the conclusion part of this whole mess, I suppose, I do like to take this oppurtunity to apologize to you in being so vulgar. I know you deserve better and you knew what to say and what not, as I presume you are wise enough to decide, but the level of maturity you have shown definitely awakened the beast that resides inside me, and hence the Mess.
I apologize not to you but a nepalese girl who lives in America, be it american born or not, and dreams of a very big and bright future. Similarly to all those who came across my crude postings.
the END
Peace.............................
My posting above was also a reflection on how the other grammer's posting were removed but the postings those are posted by' Observer12' and 'czar' are still there, questioning the consistency in the implementation of the site rules as stated by the Site Admin.
But one thing I did have suspicion about was that no sooner you were done with having a little Bajhabajh with Suna on another thread, this thread had started. I do not know how many felt that way but it did make me think may be you turned around and became 'Orio...' and started this thread. Just a Guess here as well.
As for the question of me and Grammer being the same , no! not yet, but will not tolerate and, can become worse than Grammar if you even tried to go to my family and my parents, period.
Take care.
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