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| dangggg |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 12:39 AM
My dear critics, Pls don't make a mess of this thread.
I'm initiating this thread with one genuine question, which has been hunting most of my fellow chatters and some of the critics in kurakani too. So, pls feel free to put your thoughts in it and let everybody know what you think about it. Also pls don't put your lambe chaude kuras, just limit it to your feelings!
okie, here it goes.
Why do people fall in love? Why do we NEED to be loved? Can't we be just happy with ourself and be selfcontained? ( by love I meant romantic love)
I also have a bonus question for fellow chatters. Why do we chat?
good Luck!
Dr. dangggg
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| MMM |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 05:55 AM
why do we chat????? ................. hhmmm.........that I don't know, but why do we need to be loved???...........shortly to love and to be loved are the only two holy things in the world.
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| vivan |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 06:16 AM
seems u r not loved by people!!!hey once u r loved then u'll get ur answer!u'll see beautiful colours in ur life
and chatting??? its a cool time pass thats it!
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| Shefali |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 06:21 PM
so vivian
FOR U LOVE IS JUST A COOL TIME PASS HUH?SO I GUESS UF ALL IN LOVE JUST TO PASS UR TIME OR KILL UR TIME.IN THAT CASE I HAVE JUST ONE THING TO SAY TO U LOVE IS NOT TIME PASS.ITS A SPEICAL AND MOST BEAUTIFUL THING IN THIS ENTIRE WORLD.AND FOR U IT AIN'T UR THING.SO DON'T BOTHER FALLING IN LOVE
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| SOUL |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 06:53 PM
hahahaha... ROTFLOL
We need love to save our soul from going crazy;
We chat so that we can go crazy !!
Vivan, i agree, love is just the time pass -- seeing beautiful colors is time pass -- chatting is time pass -- all the beautiful things are time pass -- entire world is time pass -- Nothing is permanent. Everything is time pass -- when the time really passes and one gets married, and then time finally comes to a "halt". And all it will bring is pain and sorrow, when one will be sitting holding his/her own head, pressing palm and crying hard, praying for time to pass -- And he/she will die everyday until the dying day....
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| oys_chill |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 08:04 PM
WOWOW Dr. Dannggg is finally here! honestly tara, didn't expect this from u dr. dangg ! kinda disappointing..for such an expected thread!
okies here's my *answers*
I chat to increase my typing speed. I remember when I first landed in AMrika, had hardly used the net..haha..!! they called it the information superhighway :O..darn! really stimulated ..my typing speed must have been like 20 wpm :( despite typing tutor lessons in school..now
its a WHOOPING!! sometimes i type faster than i think ;)
Ani dr. dangg, i don't know how to fall in love..i jus rise and rise and rise ;) vaporize ;)
oys
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| Shady_CLowN |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 09:19 PM
Hey Shefali
Vivan bro was not talking about love being time pass.. he was saying chatting was time pass.. mafiani..
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| SCAR |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 10:33 PM
ya got it right shady bhai.... he said .. once ya r in love ya will know.. and... abt chat its time pass bhaneko... padne manche le ramrari napadi .. khali critisize matra garcha ehhehehe..... we can do without so many unpaid critics... ehehe ki kaso ta shaddy bhai ;)...... ...... And i have no opinion abt anything for now... maybe later.for now.. I would say.." to each to their own". I mean reasons..... SCARfACE.
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| u_d |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 10:36 PM
oys,
Don't get a speeding ticket in the information superhighway. Dude, you gotta cool down, its not good to vaporize.
dangggg
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| u_d |
Posted
on 18-Sep-02 11:22 PM
dangggg,
Kasto Question ho tyo. why do we fall in love re? dude we don't fall in love, love falls on us. It covers our eyes with affection and the warmth of having somebody on the side to care about. Love is Love. It is trust, it is caring and sharing, it is lots of other things...... We can't limit the meaning of love in couple of words. Love can be everything as well as nothing. It can be the purpose of life and the reason for suicide. Love can be a timepass like vivan said or it can be the time of your life. But one thing is for sure, Love is real. It cannot exist in virtuality. So vivan, you can't compare chatting with love. Chat is just a part of virtual world.
Dr. dangggg,
You shouldn't have mixed chatting with love. You got ppl confused. Chatting is just a pass time. You go to www.nepalpoll.com/chat, log on with your nick, make some noise in the chatroom, log off;thats it, finish, nada. But Love ain't like that. Love is something you never forget no matter how hard you try. You cherish it or it will hunt you for the rest of your life . You can't compare that with a chat session. I believe most of the chatters know that.
Can love start in a chatroom? Yes it can and you should be prepared for it. I think most of the chatmasters and masternis come to the chatroom looking for love but unfortuntately they can't realize love when it grows up from that friendly chitchat. I have seen people in the chatroom searching for love when already have people begging for their love. Maybe its our nature, we never get satisfied with what we have, we're always looking for more, something better, something thats hard to get. Thats they way it goes.
dr. danggggg, I gotta ask you this: Is it emotionally healty practice to search love in the virtual world ???? Wouldn't it be easier to find a compatible person in real world ??? If love is real, which I believe is, how can we find it in a chatroom ??
peace,
u_d
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| because u and I make |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 12:14 AM
What is "REAL" ? How do u DEFINE REAL? IT'S A matrix as far as it goes for me and if u let your mind flow on it's own then you will find the real answer you're looking for ..actually it's not the answer that ur desperately looking for it's the question that drives you here..to this world of "virtuality".
...umm Do you wan the RED PILL OR THE BLUE PILL?
chill
vic
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| Shefali |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 12:48 AM
LOVE LOVE LOVE.GOSH DON'T U GUYS GET TIRED TALKING BOUT THIS SUBJECT ALL THE TIME?HAVE U GUYS THOUGHT BOUT BEYOUND LOVE?WHY DO WE FALL IN LOVE?MMM WE FALL IN LOVE COZ WE R SO SORRY FOR OURSELF JUST TO MAKE US FEEL SPECIAL WE FALL IN LOVE THAS ALL.AND THERE IS NO SUCH PERSON KNOWN AS "RITE PERSON".U HAVE TO MAKE THAT PERSON RITE ONE FOR U.AND WHY DO PPL EXPECT TO FALL IN LOVE IN CHAT ROOM.SEEMS LIKE THEY COME TO CHAT ROOM JUST TO FALL IN LOVE?IS OUR LIFE BASED ON FALLING IN LOVE ONLY?(ROMANTIC LOVE I MEAN).
AND WHY DO WE CHAT/OH WELL I DUNNO BOUT OTHERS BUT I CHAT TO KILL MY TIME.U KNOW I GET BORED SO I COME TO CHAT .THAS IT NOT TO FALLIN LOVE.AND IF ANYONE THINKS THAT MY COMMENT SUX THEN OH WELL I DON'T GIVE A CRAP.
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| FrenzKiss |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 02:07 AM
Yes! Dr. Dang... why do we fall in love?? Its true very few hv the answer to your questions besides genaralizing the topic as a whole. Every individual has his/her own interpretation of love based on their own experience n understanding...but yet the question is love itself. I think it is the most important part of our lives and everything centers around it..agreed.
Let there be Love!
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| SOULFREE |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 04:47 AM
Gimmmmmme RED, chill!!
I mean Pill...
Good to see your "MATRIX" knowledge -- hope you are also waiting to RELOAD it.
hmmmm
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| SOULFREE |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 04:49 AM
Gimmmmmme RED, chill!!
I mean Pill...
Good to see your "MATRIX" knowledge -- hope you are also waiting to RELOAD it.
hmmmm
PS: why the hell someone is SHOUTING in sajha? doesn't he/she knows netiquette? CAPS Letters are the form of shouting... God bless me!
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| devils_prey |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 04:58 AM
i dont want too that everybody must like me!! this sajha is not ya personal diary to write what u saw n u deed!!! its a place to have fun n im having it my way(if u dont mind))
n u dang!!! khub chiplo pardai chhas ni!! kti ko mamala ma ta khub agadi rahechhas!!
u know shefali y dang always appreciate u?? coz u r a girl!! sala kta vako vaye ta kati ulto ulto lekhthiyo hola!!
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| devils_prey |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 05:02 AM
lau galat thau po parechha!!!
sorry hai sathi haru arkai thau ko lagi lekheko yaha po parchha!!!
sorry dang!!
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| dr. dangggg |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 10:08 AM
Hi ppl,
dr. danggg is here
Devils_pray: Its ok devils dude. Its all good. U wanna know whay I was appreciating shefali? cuz nobody support him/her eventhough (s)he got lots of potentials. s(he) is different than what everyone thinks he/she is. I just wanted to bring out the person hiding inside of him/her. I think I did that so my work there is done. Project shefu was sucessful.
frenz kiss: I know everybody got their own perspective of love. I wanted to know their personal interpretation of love and what they have to tell about it. Its a general issue with personal perspective. I am intersted in knowing that personal perspective. BTW you didn't write what you think abou it ;) Let it out, dude. Its ok to share your feelings esp.when nobody knows who you are. We are just some characters in here, nobody knows us in real.
Shefali: Quite an inprovement. I'm happy for ya. I liked your perspective on love. I'm glad to see that change in you. You used to seek love in wrong places,now you know that its not something we should search for. We should let it find us. We should consider it as a part of life that doesn't affect us. Its good to have it there but ig its not there, fine 'whatever', life goes on. Anyway, thanks for the best comment I ever got and your comment doesn't suxx, I can see your feelings in it. Good good! keep it coming:)
u_d: I hope shefali answered your question.
peace,
dr. dangggg
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| AX |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 12:17 PM
hahahhahahhahhahah
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| zibran |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 05:43 PM
"lop is like a cocktail,i lop to shake it" :0) heee!!!heee~!
well i come to chat coz i just wanna kill mah time coz ya ppl know i work for night shifts...hmmm..love is something which will blow ur head upside down and ur heart inside out....howz dat? :P
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| dr. dangggg |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 07:09 PM
Zibre,
Thats a good analogy of lop, considering that its coming from you. Can you also tell me what cheating means to you?
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| Shefali |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 11:30 PM
devil wanna be
GET THIS AND GET THIS REAL GOOD.I DON'T FEEL HAPPY WHEN SOME GUY APPRECIATES ME.AND WHAT IF IW AS A GUY I WOULD GET ALL UR GALIS.OH WELL UC AN STILL GIVE ME ALL THAT CRAP O.K
AND WHO THE HELL R YA TO COMMENT ANYTHING BOUT ME?
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| Junkie.. |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 11:37 PM
Now NepaliThiti ...... don't you tell me tomorrow doesn't look good either ...... such a cliched phrase, yet still biting!
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| zibby |
Posted
on 19-Sep-02 11:51 PM
khatri bhai...timi pakka dr dangg nai rahechau...cheatin huh...cheatin is a skill...josle pani gaarnu sakdaina bebu raajkumar:0) and lemme tell ya..cheatin bhaneko..hmm....ummm..why should i tell ya kiddo(balak)
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| devils_prey |
Posted
on 20-Sep-02 01:11 AM
ur right shefali!!! im the hell!!coz im devil!!
hhhhmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
devil!!
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| devils_prey |
Posted
on 20-Sep-02 01:14 AM
lau ahilet ta dr. dang lai pani garho parechha chutyauna!! he or she re!!!!!!
oo shefali vandeuta u he ko she ho!!!!!!
devil!!
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| conscience |
Posted
on 20-Sep-02 05:59 AM
hey dangggg..
Love's a kind of emotion....the strongest of all ..i should say...PPl fall in love when they perceive that they need someone...someone who can make his/her life a true life..kinda heaven...in otherwords..when ppl feel that he wants to take care of someone wholly..n wants to be taken care of too ..by the other ..or when he feels like he can't do without her..n this is it..LOVEEEE..
As for chat...i do it coz i like to...esp. in the days when i have nothing to do..chat's kind of a escape from the real world..where we can be what we want to ..though for a short time.......
Hey..since u proclaim urself as a psychiatrist...how come u ask such questions..?? I think these r pretty much related to emotions...human psychology n all....
peaceeee
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| SITARA |
Posted
on 20-Sep-02 06:24 AM
Dr. Dangg, Great question!!
The difference in "falling" in love vs "being" in love.....
Falling in love: Is a chemical reaction....no one is immune to it! It is chemistry! It is a HIGH. Highly addictive, racy and crazy. (Even animals "fall" in love!). Mating call in process.
Being in love: When you "fall out" out of love, (after the initial attraction passes!) you still love the person and yet don't go crazy about him/her. Secure, calm and yet enrichening. Emotional growth in progress!
:)
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| suna |
Posted
on 20-Sep-02 08:35 AM
Help!
I'm falling in love.....
(mating call being processed)
Isn't being in love best described as a state of mind?
Interesting thoughts you awakened in me ole soul.
:)
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| gorato |
Posted
on 20-Sep-02 03:28 PM
Dr. Dang,
To fall in love is something that depends on people ages. But to be honest, there is some kind of selfishness in oneself.This is a natural bond.Once in a life time people falls in a love,it could be infatuation or sacrifice/sharing feeling with each others.This is the interaction of people minds and souls.If you interact well then you'll be loved by your partner and you'll create a new relationship which will mostly ending getting married.But there are people who stay out of this hassels and still enjoying a peace of mind.One does not have to be loved. Over all, love is controlled by natural power.
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| manout |
Posted
on 24-Sep-02 08:35 AM
Sitara,
I do not agree you in the sense of two different topics... Falling in Love and Being in Love.
Well, Falling in love is just physical attraction what the teenagers feel seeing a gal(Standing on two feet) and what the matured person feels by seeing a beautiful lady/guy for him/her and starts thinking about her for one week and asks directly for participation in his/her life together.
And, Being in Love is hummmmmmm I Can't explain in words. This is so precious ki I am never been in LOVE. So, I do not know in fact how to explain this. This very rare people can explain not everyone. And, this does not exist in teh world for so cheap. You really have to use a JAPANESE torchlight to find it.
Well, never mind. Just making comments!!!!!!
Have fun
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