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| Sakshi |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 09:45 AM
Dajubhai Didibahini,
Internet ma pani kahin love parchha ra? Malai ta sarai achamma lagchha yo sunera. Mero ek jana saathi le bhandai thi ki chatting garda ppl are more honest re. Kina ki teti khera manchhe le internet lai mask jasto prayog garchha re. Interesting perspective, I thought. Tara ke yo sambhav chha ra? Ma ta mandina!!! :)
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| Jame Bonds |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 09:54 AM
Sakshi, before internet came people became "PenPals" and surprisingly, penpals fell in love! It seems to be human nature to fall in love with people of opposite sex in whatever form of communication that is available.
Just make sure you don't fall in love with someone of same sex that's masquedering as the opposite sex (well unless you're gay)
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| txkoketa |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 01:56 PM
r u fallin' in love with the internet or with someone else ?
clarify..........
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| Gurl_Interrupted |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 02:55 PM
TxKoKeta, it's both :D, with the internet as well as someone else.
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| Gurl_Interrupted |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 03:00 PM
Yup Shakshi I think it is possible. What do u need to fall in love? Two human beings, two soul....? It's same like falling in love in person. The only difference is both are absent in person. However same kinda feelings, emotions and thought processes occur.
Bottomline : It is Possible!!
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| kalankisthan |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 04:25 PM
Sakchi,
Internet ma love parcha parcha.
Mero ni chali raa cha, love story, 14th week ma, HOUSEFULL ka saath.
sauni ko chori le Ragat le lekhya Email pathaayera dhun chakra cha.
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| chipledhunga |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 04:42 PM
Sakshi, hey I like your nick by the way. Anyway, mathi Jame Bonds le pani bhane jastai tyo love parne kura cha ni, tesko lagi some kind of communication is required. So if you can communicate using the Internet, then majaa le prem parihalcha yadi graha tara sabai mileko cha bhane. Indeed I do know quite a few Nepali people whose cyber prem has turned into bihe.
Kalankisthan, la la good luck with your cyber prem. Tara prem ma dubay bhandai ma pani tyanki kholna chahi nabirsu hai.
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| Sakshi |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 05:54 PM
Thanks Chipledunga dai for your compliments about my name. It's my real name, btw! :)
Yeah, i understand ki duita human beings ko feelings are involved bhanera. Tara, internet ma ta mask lagaera je pae tehi pani ta bhanira hunchha ni ta ppl re. Some may even create fantasy personality ni. so, kasari thaha paune ra ki kun chahi real ra kun chahi fantasy-creation ho bhanera? dhoka pauna katti sajilo chha ni yo world ma hoina ra? honesty pani hunchha ra internet ma? malai patyar lagena ba!
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| Gurl_Interrupted |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 06:03 PM
Sakshi, it depends if the two ppl. involved want to be honest and truely want to work towards building up their relationship or not. It takes 2 ppl.'s effort. If one of them is playing or both r playing, in the end both get nothing but some meagre fun for a while however if both r honest, than I believe internet relationship will work even better than other kinds. Coz as someone said before, the other person comes to know those places in ur life, that otherwise would have remained secret for eva.
Yeah u got to be careful also. Coz lot of ppl. lie and act according to their fantasy image. Which is bad!! But w/e internet love do exist.
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| chipledhunga |
Posted
on 20-Oct-02 09:20 PM
Sakshi, yo timro real name nai ho bhane ta jhan ramro lagyo hai.
Anyway, honesty ko kura garne ho bhane just like anywhere else, there are both honest and dishonest people in the cyber community. There may be people totally masking their identities including their gender and location. There may be people just doing cyber flirting although they have their own mayalus on their real lives. The bottom line is, if both practice honesty, the relation can be successful.
Nepal kai euta incident samjhay ahile, from the patra mitrata era. Ek jana sathi le sunaeko guff ho yo, not sure kati samma true ho ta particularly given the "relaibility" of our postal system. Tyo sathi ko arko ek jana sathi le kt ko naam ma patra mitrata garthyo ray. He used to live in Pokhara. KTM ko ek jana sanga khub letter exchange huna thalecha. Well, this Pokhara dude was coming to Kathmandu, so they decided to meet, at a particular date and time in Ratnapark. Kasari chinne bhanda the Kathmandu dude said that he would be there with a rose on his hand. Aba herna ta janai paryo kasto rahicha tyo manche bhanera, so my friend, the letter lekhne keta and a few others went there ray. Dublo na dublo ek jana gulaaf ko phool bokera basiraheko thiyo ray.
Felt pretty sorry about the KTM guy. Yaha ek jana honest ra arko dishonest character involve bhaeko thiyo. This could happen in cyberlok as well but does not mean that everyone is like that. Careful chahib uhna parcha, tyahi ho.
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| Parewa |
Posted
on 21-Oct-02 01:31 AM
Oh yeah, it's VERY possible :)............actually according to what I think,the best aspect of Internet love is that it's so NOT physical.It's not only physical attraction that brings two of them close, it's the mental/emotional bonding,and well when the internet lovers meet in real face-to-face and if the physical chemistry is also there, that case would be "sunn ma sugandha" jasto , isn't it ? :)
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| well-wisher |
Posted
on 21-Oct-02 01:55 AM
parewa, deep would be like, " Ghanta ko sugandha...? yo mu** internet le pani natak nai garayo.."
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| rabin |
Posted
on 21-Oct-02 05:41 AM
Why u bothering about the person u can't see, fee,l observe. Its just fun only because most of us just want to cheat people (our nature!!!).
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