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| Username | Post |
| Rekha | Posted
on 21-Oct-02 10:44 PM
How would you know if you are in luv and it's a true luv? |
| Gurl_Interrupted | Posted
on 21-Oct-02 11:31 PM
U tell me sis :P |
| isolated freak | Posted
on 21-Oct-02 11:46 PM
kya interesting question yaar..answer k ho? |
| voltaire | Posted
on 21-Oct-02 11:53 PM
Test Italics GBNC |
| Deep | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 10:57 AM
So, you got to start first with TEST , TEST if the love is true. Then see if love is in ITALICS (dhalkinu paryo ni ta tru love ho bhane ta). If yes then you are good to go, if not then come to GBNC and continue TESTING TESTING until you establish your love is true. Ki kaso Voltaire? |
| jame bonds | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 11:16 AM
Firstly you need to define true love. What is true love? If you know the definition then it will be easier for you to know whether you are in True love or not. Definition of True love can be different for each individual depending on their individual experiences. For me, true love is the love that lasts as long as you're alive. And it's hard to know if something is True love, because you still have a long time to live and anything can happen during that time. Ingredients of true love for me is being able to be myself. Someone who loves me no matter what I do. I should be able to feel at utmost ease - like i can fart/burb/puke/get naked/get sick/do whatever without thinking twice about it in this person's presence. I don't want to spend my life forever trying to ACT or TRY to be a certain way that doesn't offend this person. If it's true love, this person will accept me the way I am. Of course this doesn't mean that there are certain things that I might need to change - such as being considerate not to leave my room dirty, etc... |
| dailtone | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 11:54 AM
when you enjoy the simplest conversation |
| himalaya | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 07:50 PM
Rekha, if you are having a doubt wheather your love is true or not and wheather you love this person or not than, trust me, it is Not true love. |
| DWI | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 08:08 PM
True love is... when you don't have to decide if it is a true love or not. |
| Logical Sense | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 08:25 PM
Logically you are in love when: A) Time to think about the person in question when: - your heart pounds even thinking about him/her - you glow when you are with him/her B) Litmus test when (A) is true: - you always want to be with - you may fight with him/her but it is temporary, - you always find excuse to be with him/her and - compromise with him/her C) Final test to find out if it is not 'infatuation' - Stay away from the subject for a while then find out reactions from both of you D) Extreme test - Show off infront of the subject with a 'new' date :-) If all of the above tests and symptoms passes: Just propose - be a guy or gal Propose in SAJHA - we will witness and give you the blessings :-) - good luck all those LOVE SICK guys and gals - iti |
| Rekha | Posted
on 22-Oct-02 09:15 PM
I don't have doubt about my luv but I just wanted to know what you all think it is. To me luv is just being with him, enjoying every moment I spend with him, luving him no matter what he does and just wants to be with him in every step of my life. I do have a person in my life unforfunetly I can't be with him. |
| kalankisthan | Posted
on 23-Oct-02 08:51 AM
True Love doesn't even exist, if the defination of true love is falling in love with one and only one person, and be true(whatever that is) to him/her. We are human and its just a human nature that a human can fall in love with many at the same time. What is being true anyway? there is no true defination of "being true". It varies person to person. For some, being true is like their partner doesn't go around checkin'/bangin'/chasin' another man/woman. I believe in monogamy, but I don't believe he/she will be "true" to his/her partner even in the case of monogamy. If he/she has a crush on somebody, or gets attracted to somebody, and he/she is still in the boundry of monogamy, then apperently it looks like that couple is TRUE to each other, but thats not a true love. True love is a pure form of love. Where a couple falls for each other to such extreme that they don't even have a flicker of third person in their brain (well, its like imagining a frictionless surface when doing a problem in physics, just assuming). A couple may look true to each other, but MAN always has a dream of banging a supermodel (And given a chance, he will break all the barriers. Desire is stronger than love, it makes man an animal). Same with woman. Aru pani thiyo, lekhna alchi laagyo! Why am i writing this anyway??? i don't know |